ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

<p>Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!</p>

804: EMOTIONAL REJECTION

Emotional rejection causes the same pain receptors that recognize physical pain to fire. Learn about the impact this has on your marriage. | "Your brain treats rejection like physical pain." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 668: The Pain of Rejection 88 Great Conversation Starters Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples 790: The Greatest Threat to Our Marriage is Apathy Apply for Marriage Coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

04-23
26:41

803: GETAWAY TOGETHER

Learn about what happens when you getaway together and the impact it can have on you, your marriage and the community around you. | "Travel is an investment in your marriage." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

04-16
25:33

802: PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT...OR DOES IT

Learn about the myth that practice makes perfect so you can be encouraged to think about practice making better. | "You practice and you get better. It’s that simple." —Philip Glass Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 19 Questions to Amazing Sex Marriage Guide Position Pack (10 Position Paper Guides) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

04-09
26:18

801: IT'S TAKING TOO LONG TO ORGASM

Learn about the concerns that a lot of women have when it comes to taking too long for them to experience an orgasm. | Sometimes the best things in life take time. Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 6-Day Intimacy Breakthrough Course The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina The Penis Book: A Doctor's Complete Guide to the Penis She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

04-02
27:49

800: 60 DAY SEX CHALLENGE REVISITED

Learn about where ONE Extraordinary Marriage began…We revisit our 60 Day Sex Challenge and celebrate this milestone episode. | "Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference." —Robert Frost Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Day Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

03-26
31:46

799: WE HAVE NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT

Learn about breaking through the mental hurdles that come when you have the thought…we have nothing to talk about. | "There is nothing lonelier than sitting in the same room with someone and having absolutely nothing to talk about. The lack of affection can be tolerated but to feel invisible is painful." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply to Become a BOLD Wives Club Member The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Monthly Planner 790: The Great Threat to Our Marriage is Apathy Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

03-19
27:59

798: THERE'S MORE THAN ONE CHOICE

Learn about what you can do to build your emotional intimacy in thinking about “both/and” instead of “either/or”. | "Life is not “either or” it’s “both and”." —Royce White Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply to Become a BOLD Wives Club Member Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

03-12
24:38

797: BREAKING OUT OF "VANILLA" SEX

Learn about “vanilla” sex—its impact on your spouse, your marriage and how to address this between the two of you. | "One has to do something new to see something new." —George Lichtenberg Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 131: Birds and Bees 008: Eyes Wide Open Sexy Board Games Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

03-05
30:49

796: BOO BOOS AND SEX INJURIES IN THE BEDROOM

Learn about those boo boos and sex injuries that can happen to one or both of you while being sexually intimate. | "Accidents happen but it’s how we respond and learn from them that really matters." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 28 Romantic Conversation Prompts Marriage Guide Überlube Liberator Wedges and Sex Pillows Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

02-27
28:50

795: MARITAL CONFLICT

Learn about breaking the marital conflict cycles that the two of you seem to keep repeating again and again. | "In any conflict, be sure you know what you really want and whether what you are doing is actually helping you get there." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Conflict Cycle Workshop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

02-20
31:07

794: SPECIAL VALENTINE'S DAY IDEAS

Learn about special Valentine’s Day ideas that you can do to strengthen your pillars of intimacy on February 14th or any time of the year. | "Love is when two hearts find their happy place right beside each other." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 287: The Impact of Tone and Timing 290: Groundhog Day Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

02-13
30:33

793: SEDUCTIVE BEGINNINGS

Learn about how the two of you can strengthen your sexual intimacy with a bit of knowledge around seductive beginnings. | "Seduction is not about overpowering. It’s about understanding and captivating." —Esther Perel Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 790: The Greatest Threat to Our Marriage Is Apathy Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

02-06
28:43

792: MONEY FIGHTS

Learn about the many different money fights that can happen in marriage and the damage they can have on the two of you. | "There is never a reason to fight about money. Money can always be made but hurtful words can never be taken back." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Playdrop Mats — Use Promo Code: OEM Profit First: Transform Your Business from a Cash-Eating Monster to a Money-Making Machine The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution: The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

01-30
27:40

791: WHEN YOU FEEL STUCK

Learn about what you can do when you feel stuck in recurring patterns in life and in your marriage that are not changing. | "When you feel stuck in life, remember that every obstacle is an opportunity to grow and learn." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale The Connection Codes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

01-23
30:11

790: THE GREATEST THREAT TO OUR MARRIAGE IS APATHY

Apathy in your marriage can get you so locked up in your own world that you become oblivious to what’s going on around you. | "Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike." —JK Rowling Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Romance Uncensored -- January 26 & 27, 2024 699: Break the Roommate Cycle One Line a Day: A Five-Year Memory Book Date Night Done Right Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

01-16
39:03

789: HORMONAL IMBALANCES

Learn about the what can happen to your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® when there are hormonal imbalances happening to you and your spouse. | "If you restore balance in your own self, you will be contributing immensely to the healing of the world." —Deepak Chopra Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: America's Top New Year's Resolutions for 2024 Katalyst Wellness Simple Hormones Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

01-09
29:30

788: WHEN SEX BRINGS YOU CLOSER EMOTIONALLY

When you unpack the idea that sexual intimacy is more than just intercourse you will strengthen the connection you have with your spouse. | "Building relationships is not about transactions—it’s about connections." —Michelle Tillis Lederman Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Upcoming Speaking Events ONE Family Private Facebook Group She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Apply to Become a BOLD Wives Club Member 30 Day Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

01-02
31:13

787: COUNTDOWN TO CONNECTION BY EMBRACING YOUR 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY®

In this episode we're taking a page from the New Year’s Countdown to build connection using the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®. | "Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." —Martin Luther King Jr. Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Monthly Planner 338: Beautiful Wife Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

12-26
34:31

786: YOU ARE MY FAVORITE PRESENT

Learn about cherishing moments together and creating interactions that become your spouse’s favorite present. | "The greatest gifts are not wrapped in paper, rather they are wrapped in love." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply for Marriage Coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

12-19
30:01

785: CHRISTMAS DATES TO KEEP THE SPARKLE ALIVE

Learn about fun Christmas dates you can enjoy with one another this season to strengthen your recreational intimacy. | "Love is a precious gift worth making time for." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Our Vacation Planner “Date nights” strengthen marriages Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

12-12
23:58

Mission Pest

Tony. Cut your wife some slack. She's got a lot on her plate.

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Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

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