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Learn what can happen when you get focused on the pillar of intimacy that needs the most attention in your marriage. | "You don’t get results by focusing on the results. You get results by focusing on the actions that produce the results." —Mike Hawkins Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway  Emotions Wheel 710: Summer Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
714: TAKE ME ON A DATE

714: TAKE ME ON A DATE

2022-08-0227:19

Break out of those date routines when it comes to your recreational intimacy so you have a solution when your spouse says take me on a date. | "Dates got you to a place where you wanted to marry each other. If you want to stay married, keep dating your spouse." —Anonymous  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway This Is What Happens In Your Brain When You Try Something New Date Night Done Right 561: Dating Your Spouse: Part 4 — How To Date At Home 559: Dating Your Spouse: Part 3 — Low Cost Date Ideas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact that solo masturbation can possibly have on your sexual, emotional and physical intimacies. | "What’s done in the dark will come to light." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman 508: Mutual Masturbation ONE Extraordinary Marriage Premium Subscriber Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
712: WHEN WORDS HURT

712: WHEN WORDS HURT

2022-07-1931:452

Learn about what happens to both you, your spouse, and your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® when spoken words hurt. | "We’ve all been hurt by words before so before you speak think about how your words might affect your spouse." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  169: Is This Abuse? Words Can Change Your Brain You Have 6,200 Thoughts a Day... Don't Make Yours Negative The Power of Positive Thinking Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn how you can use The 6 Pillars of Intimacy to rekindle the romance, both a feeling and an action, in your marriage. | "A great marriage doesn’t just happen because of the love you had in the beginning, but rather how well you continue to love." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 15 Ways to Romance Your Spouse Over the Next 30 Days Romance Your Spouse with These Sexy Text Messages Feelings Wheel 708: They’re Playing Our Song 658: What You Should Know About Giving Flowers Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn what you can do to strengthen your your sexual, emotional and physical intimacy with a summer sex challenge. | "The bigger the challenge, the bigger the opportunity." —Anonymous  Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  001: 60 Days of Sex The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Black Box 30 Day Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the financial stress that inflation is having on marriages, especially your financial, emotional and recreational intimacies. | "Money problems destroy marriages. Get on the same page with your spouse and work together towards a common goal." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Black Box The Power of Positive Thinking Fighting with your spouse? It’s probably about this 555: Dating Your Spouse: Part 1 — What You Expect Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what happens when someone is playing our song and how it builds your emotional, physical, and even recreational intimacy. | "Humming our song reminds me of when we fell in love." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode: Music, Memory, and Emotion The Power of Moments Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Hey there... We are the co-hosts of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show and co-authors of the Amazon best sellers, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary marriage and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. In 2010, we got behind our microphones for the first time to champion, support and encourage you to have an extraordinary marriage. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. You can have access to more Ask Me Anything episodes and exclusive episodes when you become a Premium Subscriber, we’re going to go behind the scenes for listeners (and lovers) of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show. It’s a place where we will share tips, simple strategies, practical steps and insights about marriage and anything in life.  Check out the plans and what's included when you become a Premium Subscriber. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what you can do to strengthen your physical intimacy when you make the decision to go to bed naked. | "I always sleep better with your warm naked body next to me." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: ONE Family Private Facebook Group Sleeping Naked Will Do Wonders For Your Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the most common excuses used by married couples and the impact that making excuses has on your sexual intimacy. | "You can have results or excuses, not both." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode: 620: Let Go Of Past Relationships Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
705: WILL YOU FORGIVE ME

705: WILL YOU FORGIVE ME

2022-05-3133:441

Learn about how the phrase, "will you forgive me", affects your marriage as it's the start of the restoration process. | "Asking for and receiving forgiveness from another person takes courage." —Jan Dargatz Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode: The Trust Factor: How to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage Called to Love: Experiencing Your Best Marriage Through the Words of Jesus Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
704: SECRET SPENDING

704: SECRET SPENDING

2022-05-2429:361

No one will know. Learn about the impact that secret spending has on your financial intimacy and emotional intimacy. | "There are no secrets that time does not reveal." —Jean Racine Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  There's Science Behind the Secrets We Humans Keep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the challenges that happen in your marriage when you don’t identify and communicate your expectations. | "The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." —Bernard Shaw Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode:  ONE Family Private Facebook Group Take A Break... A Coffee Break 287: The Impact of Tone and Timing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the impact that erectile dysfunction has on your sexual, emotional and physical intimacy when he struggles to get an erection. | "Living in denial won’t change your situation. Be real with yourself so you can fix your problems. Time is too precious to waste." —Tony Gaskins Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode:  The Penis Book: A Doctor's Complete Guide to the Penis The 21st Century Man Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how the two of you can actively rebuild the broken trust in your marriage using the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. | "Trust is earned when actions meet words." —Chris Butler Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode:  The Trust Factor: How To Rebuild Trust In Your Marriage 693: Praying Out Loud Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the breakthroughs others have had and those that you can experience when you get intentional and take action. | "In order for you to have your breakthrough you must first go through." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Take A Break... A Coffee Break 7 Days of Sex Challenge: How To Rock Your Sex Life and Your Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about what you can do to break the roommate cycle by infusing some freshness back into your marriage. | "It’s time to break the cycle. It’s time to heal. It’s time to grow." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!  Links from today’s episode: Free Quiz: What's Your Strongest Pillar? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how to address your sexual and emotional intimacy when your intimacy lifestyle isn’t working the way you planned. | "Sex is like exercise; it is always available to us, but it is easier to set time aside for it than to do it spontaneously." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 140: Scheduling Sex 001: 60 Days of Sex Take A Break... A Coffee Break Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn what you can do to get out of the date night rut of doing the same thing over and over again and have fun the next time you go out. | "The greatest gift you can give your spouse is your time. Because when you dedicate your time, you are offering a part of your life that you will never get back. " —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 10 Date Ideas You Should Do With Your Spouse Date Night Done Right Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Comments (20)

anne githinji

I recently found out that I am pregnant. My husband of 6 years had earlier mentioned that he did not want to have more kids (we have 2) . One child is from.a previous relationship which he had with another woman and the other child we had together. His reason for not wanting other kids is because of financial stability. I have assured him that we can work on it together but he refuses to listen . He has said he will not support me in any way. I wish for my marriage to work out and I also want to keep the child , but all this has taken a toll on me. Please help me.

Mar 30th
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Mission Pest

Tony. Cut your wife some slack. She's got a lot on her plate.

Aug 3rd
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Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

Nov 11th
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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

Mar 18th
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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

Feb 13th
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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

Aug 15th
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Karen Janicki

Here is an issue that I have, I'm almost never in the mood in the morning ever. Honestly. I just woke up, I'm still tired, I have a million things on my mind and I have zero desire. My desire peaks in the evening. I did some research to try to understand this and from what I have read men's hormones peak in the morning while as women's peaks in the evening. I honestly and frustratingly feel like almost all these marriage podcasts ( every different one, not just yours) all try to simply tell women that we just need to get in the mood, put things aside, ignore our own desires and satisfy our husbands regardless of our desires or feelings. It sometimes feels like the prevailing attitude is that men need sex so you have to do it whenever he wants your feelings be darned. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I love my husband. But women and men are different and it's already so difficult for a woman to become aroused, get excited and have an orgasm. It can be alot of work physically and mentally and emotionally. How come that never seems to be addressed? The Bible commands husbands to share their bodies with their wives. We are supposed to enjoy sex. And despite what many think, we do. But it takes effort. I feel that there should be sacrifice on both husband and wife but instead over and over it just seems we are being told just do it no matter what, but make sure you like it because otherwise it doesn't count, don't fake an orgasm but if you don't have one it's ok. Why is it ok? I feel like Christian resources just ignore a woman's needs and demands we become more male in our sexuality. Sorry but I find that very, very frustrating.

Aug 13th
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The Parenting Experience

my wife is a stonewaller. I am logical like you guys but stonewaller and only talks to tell once I'm fed up and start trashing my home. if I would ever try to hangy self she would provide the chair. I truly hate her now

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

she gives me the silent treatment when I Ask her why does t she kiss me or say I love you. it gets violent she yelled to try to get attention for people to call the cops . I'm gone 3 kids she's doesn't care to please me. I truly hate her now. I will never ever love her again. all because I asked for see she's a narcissist. Stonewall

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

I love you guys . I knew I wasn't crazy.

Jul 2nd
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WYNC

About 7 minutes into nothingness and then a barrage of ,"Duh". I can tell you are trying to convey your lifestyle but you cannot articulate. Then more of Duh with a large helping of product mentions. Your podcast is exactly what you said, and I quote, "There was nothing in it for me."

Jun 12th
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Joseph Stark

lk5

Jun 5th
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Rachael Burtnette

Ok

May 2nd
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Cheri Jones

What happens when your spouse doesn't want to see that they are doing something wrong to hear your side because their pain is more important?

Jan 21st
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