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Author: Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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877: Get Stripped Down

877: Get Stripped Down

2025-09-1628:47

Learn about the power of books as you gain insights on what you can do to strengthen your life and your marriage in any season of life. | "A book is a dream you hold in your hands." —Neil Gaiman Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Our Favorite Reads (Books) Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Let's tackle two uncomfortable questions every married couple should ask themselves that could transform their intimacy. | “Honesty is the highest form of intimacy.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about something that's showing up more and more in marriages, the use of artificial intelligence for marriage advice. | “Technology is a useful servant but a dangerous master.” —Christian Lous Lange Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn why focusing on your sexual satisfaction journey instead of the destination can transform your sexual intimacy. | “Slow sex is not about going slower; it's about being present.” —Diana Richardson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 388: Should An Orgasm Be The Ultimate Goal 863: Not Mentally Present During Sex 736: Edging for Increased Sexual Arousal Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
873: A Home Restored

873: A Home Restored

2025-08-1928:29

Learn about our journey of a home restored after losing our home in the great recession. It’s been a journey to finally put down roots. | “Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.” —Vivian Greene Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about one of the most devastating challenges a marriage can face and what you can do when you're confronted with infidelity. | “Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.” —Paul Young Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the unrealistic expectation that your spouse should be a mind reader and how this damages communication and intimacy. | “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” —Robert McCloskey Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Menopause Shouldn't Such Today The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution: The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
870: Spiritual Mentors

870: Spiritual Mentors

2025-07-2928:04

Learn about the power of reaching out to mentors who shaped your spiritual journey and how gratitude can transform you and your marriage. | “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” —Melody Beattie Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. ⁠Click HERE to get your copy today!⁠ Links from today’s episode: Transform Your Church's Marriage Ministry ⁠Join Intimacy Mastery Today⁠ ⁠Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn how boudoir photography builds confidence, enhances intimacy, and celebrates your unique beauty — no perfect body required. | “Real beauty comes from confidence and being who you are, not aspiring to look or be someone else.” —Phillip DeFranco Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
868: Hard Reset

868: Hard Reset

2025-07-1530:55

Learn about the concept of "hard resets" to help you break out of those ruts and get real momentum going in your marriage. | “Reset, readjust, restart, refocus…as many times as you need to.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your marriage, and how exhausting that becomes over time. | “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brene Brown Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Bo’s Cafe: Novel Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
865: Sex Talk

865: Sex Talk

2025-06-2434:44

Learn how to have the conversations about sexual intimacy that most couples avoid and why asking the right questions can completely transform your connection in the bedroom. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: 19 Questions to Amazing Sex Marriage Guide Überlube Sexy Nightgown Lingerie Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about how to approach sensitive subjects without triggering defensiveness or creating more distance between you and your spouse. | “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than the fear.” —Franklin Roosevelt Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Bo's Cafe: Novel Emotion Wheel Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about navigating different circumstances when your mind begins to wonder and you are not mentally present during sex. | “The most distant person can be the one right in front of you.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: The Vagina Bible 5 Senses to Heighten Your Sexual Connection Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
862: Marriage Advice

862: Marriage Advice

2025-06-0326:12

Learn about the best marriage advice you would give your younger self to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire now! | “Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It’s not something you get, it’s something you do. It’s the way you love your spouse every day.” —Barbara DeAngelis Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Monthly Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about menopause-related physical intimacy challenges that are caused by hormonal changes. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning; without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Buy Überlube Join Menopause Shouldn’t Suck Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
860: Not Good Enough

860: Not Good Enough

2025-05-2029:16

Learn about feeling that your actions are “not good enough” when your spouse suggests working on an area of your marriage. | “Some days you’ll be productive, some days you won’t. Some days you’ll be healthy and energized, some days you won’t. But every day you can control whether you show up or not.” —Mark Manson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the struggles that some wives, including Alisa, have when it comes to giving oral sex. | “Don’t be afraid to try new things. They aren’t all going to work but when you find the one that does you are going to be so proud of yourself for trying.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Liberator Furniture Sexual Exploration in America Study Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Learn about the emotional let down that comes after something you’ve anticipated and the impact this can have on your marriage. | “Let down is inevitable but if you close the distance so is connection. So is joy.” —Mia McKenzie Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Shaun Jennings

why is it taboo for a man to be the vulnerable one? would you be willing to touch on this topic again?

Oct 9th
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Mission Pest

Tony. Cut your wife some slack. She's got a lot on her plate.

Aug 3rd
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Shannon Swanson-Figgins

I just started listening to your podcast and its the opposite in our marriage...my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married for 12 years and he rejects me all the time...we MIGHT have sex once a month. I know he loves me but I'm lonely.

Nov 11th
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Kittrell Saunders

How does it sound when you approach your partner to discuss the discrepancy of sexual desire? Are there discussion starters? What if you have already discussed it in healthy ways, but nothing has changed, and when it gets brought up again, it is met with anger and immediate rejection? What does the script look like for having a successful conversation about the growing resentment and deepening chasm?

Mar 18th
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Dan Davis

I prefer being bare, especially in hot humid summers. I feel cleaner and like feeling smoother. Once you get used to shaving it goes quickly in the shower.

Feb 13th
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Ginger Ellison

what if you weren't ever in love. I married my husband because he pressured me and I wasn't ready. I wasn't over my ex. we have no emotional connection or intimacy and have barely had any I our 3 year marriage.

Aug 15th
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Karen Janicki

Here is an issue that I have, I'm almost never in the mood in the morning ever. Honestly. I just woke up, I'm still tired, I have a million things on my mind and I have zero desire. My desire peaks in the evening. I did some research to try to understand this and from what I have read men's hormones peak in the morning while as women's peaks in the evening. I honestly and frustratingly feel like almost all these marriage podcasts ( every different one, not just yours) all try to simply tell women that we just need to get in the mood, put things aside, ignore our own desires and satisfy our husbands regardless of our desires or feelings. It sometimes feels like the prevailing attitude is that men need sex so you have to do it whenever he wants your feelings be darned. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I love my husband. But women and men are different and it's already so difficult for a woman to become aroused, get excited and have an orgasm. It can be alot of work physically and menta

Aug 13th
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The Parenting Experience

my wife is a stonewaller. I am logical like you guys but stonewaller and only talks to tell once I'm fed up and start trashing my home. if I would ever try to hangy self she would provide the chair. I truly hate her now

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

she gives me the silent treatment when I Ask her why does t she kiss me or say I love you. it gets violent she yelled to try to get attention for people to call the cops . I'm gone 3 kids she's doesn't care to please me. I truly hate her now. I will never ever love her again. all because I asked for see she's a narcissist. Stonewall

Jul 3rd
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The Parenting Experience

I love you guys . I knew I wasn't crazy.

Jul 2nd
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WYNC

About 7 minutes into nothingness and then a barrage of ,"Duh". I can tell you are trying to convey your lifestyle but you cannot articulate. Then more of Duh with a large helping of product mentions. Your podcast is exactly what you said, and I quote, "There was nothing in it for me."

Jun 12th
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Joseph Stark

lk5

Jun 5th
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Rachael Burtnette

Ok

May 2nd
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Cheri Jones

What happens when your spouse doesn't want to see that they are doing something wrong to hear your side because their pain is more important?

Jan 21st
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