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A podcast for conscious parents who drop the f-bomb. A lot. We are the overthinkers, the dreamers, and the doers. We are parenting in a radically different way than those before us. But our divine vision gets blurry cause...OMG...kids can be such a pain in the ass. Let's work from the inside out, in a whole brain, whole body way to mitigate the crappy behavior. Not just with our kids but with ourselves. So you can be the parent you envision.
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In this episode, I’m unpacking something I’ve been seeing everywhere lately: the rush to slap a diagnosis on our kids when it might actually just be temperament. Don’t get me wrong—diagnoses can be life-changing and absolutely necessary. But not every shy kid is “on the spectrum,” not every focused moment is “ADHD hyperfocus,” and not every earworm means your brain is broken. I’m breaking down the four classic temperaments, what research says about temperament vs. personality, and how parenting mismatches (your temperament vs. your child’s) can make things look “off” when they’re really not. This one is part rant, part reality check, and 100% a call to give our kids room to be who they are—without rushing to pathologize them.Timestamps:(00:01:02) Temperament-based Understanding of Children's Behaviors(00:13:19) Innate Traits vs. Environmental Influence in Children(00:19:39) Understanding Children's Temperamental Traits for Parenting(00:20:49) Mood Mismatch Impacts on Parent-Child Interactions(00:21:18) Temperament Clash: Parent-Child Relationship Dynamics(00:27:21) Temperament Alignment for Parent-Child Harmony(00:40:29) Temperament Balancing for Social Harmony and ConnectionJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m tackling two parenting habits that need to go: asking your toddler why they did something, and thinking co-regulation “isn’t working.” Spoiler—your toddler doesn’t know why they hit their sibling or why they won’t poop on the potty, and expecting them to explain just sets you both up for frustration. And co-regulation? It’s not a trick to stop tantrums—it’s you staying calm in the middle of their chaos. That’s it. No scripts, no magic code, no perfect outcome. Just you modeling regulation while they borrow your vibe (or not). This is your reminder to drop the “why” questions, stop looking for the magic phrase, and keep showing up as the steady leader your kid needs.Timestamps:(00:00:44) Understanding Toddler Behavior Through Interpretation(00:01:28) Toddler Communication: Understanding Cognitive Limitations(00:03:20) Calm Parenting Approach for Co-RegulationJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
This week I sat down with Devon Kuntzman, founder of Transforming Toddlerhood and author of the brand-new book by the same name, to talk all things toddlers—the good, the messy, and the meltdown-y. We dug into why parents tie their worth to behavior, how “gentle parenting” often slips into permissiveness, and why connection isn’t a checklist, it’s a feeling. Devon shared her “recipe for effective discipline” (connection, limits, follow-through, teaching skills), plus we got real about decoding behavior, calling out the elephant in the room, and saying the obvious things our kids actually need to hear. This one’s a must-listen for anyone in the toddler trenches.Timstamps:(00:05:30) Understanding Toddler Communication through Behavior(00:06:05) Decoding Toddler Behavior for Parental Connection(00:06:42) Decoding Children's Actions for Emotional Understanding(00:20:10) Emotional Connection in Effective Parenting Strategies(00:20:50) Emphasizing Effective Discipline through Connection and Limits(00:23:10) Verbal Communication for Children's Emotional Expression(00:35:49) Flexible Potty Training Timelines Based on Child's Development(00:37:56) Decoding Children's Behavior in ParentingDevon's InstagramJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this episode, I’m diving deep into one of the most common—and misunderstood—potty training struggles: poop withholding. This isn’t your kid being stubborn or “doing it on purpose.” Withholding is a muscular reaction to anxiety, and right now, it’s the majority of the work I do with families. I’ll break down the signs to watch for (from smearing to requesting a diaper), why so many specialists and pediatricians get this wrong, and how withholding connects to constipation, pee accidents, and even nervous system overload. If your child is holding poop, asking for a diaper, or flat-out terrified of the potty, this episode is for you. Let’s get clear on what’s really happening—and how to fix it.Timestamps:(00:07:16) Behavioral Signs of Poop Withholding in Children(00:09:29) Anxiety-Driven Poop Withholding in Children(00:13:13) Significance of Poop Withholding Misunderstanding(00:15:49) Miralax Treatment for Pediatric Poop WithholdingJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this episode, I’m tackling one of the biggest mistakes I see parents making right now: over-processing our kids’ emotions. Somewhere along the line, “validate their feelings” turned into full-on therapy sessions every time your toddler cried about the blue cup. And guys, that’s not helping them—it’s drowning everyone. I’ll break down the difference between validating and over-processing, why saying “you make me…” is so damaging, and how dumping our emotional baggage on our kids leads to anxious, people-pleasing teens. This one is a mix of tough love and practical advice so you can stop spiraling in the quicksand of feelings and get back to leading with clarity.Timestamps:(00:02:30) Empowering Children to Manage their Emotions(00:04:50) Balancing Toddler Emotions for Healthy Development(00:07:45) Emotional Resilience in Parenting Approach(00:12:34) Parental Model of Emotional Language in Children(00:17:58) Emotional Burden on Children: Impact and PreventionPrevious Episode Mentioned: EP 174: Tiny dictators Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m tackling one of the biggest potty training mistakes I see right now: “trying” to potty train. And by trying, I don’t mean giving it an honest go—I mean sampling it here and there, doing it only on weekends, or half-committing and hoping your kid magically figures it out. Spoiler: that just sends mixed messages and sets everyone up for frustration. Potty training, like learning to read, takes consistency and commitment. In this episode, I’m breaking down why “there is no try” (yep, straight out of Yoda’s playbook), what happens when you wait until you’re up against a deadline, and why you’re better off not starting at all than dabbling. If you’ve been dipping a toe into potty training instead of diving in, this one’s your loving reality check.Timestamps:(00:04:27) Immersive Approach to Potty Training Success(00:05:52) Consistent Support for Successful Potty Training(00:10:07) Committed and Consistent Potty Training ApproachJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
This week, I sat down with Andreina Diaz, mom of two, PhD student, and researcher behind Toddler TV Trap, to talk about one of the hottest (and most controversial) topics in parenting right now: screen time and autism. Andreina’s work looks at how highly stimulating shows like Cocomelon and Ms. Rachel may be impacting kids’ brains, what new research is showing about subtypes of autism, and why reducing or removing screens has led to jaw-dropping changes for some families. We dive into the difference between passive vs. active screen time, what counts as “healthy” screen use, and how to rethink the way we’re using devices in our homes. This one is equal parts eye-opening, challenging, and also full of hope. I promise, it’s a conversation worth listening to.Timestamps:(00:13:08) "Toddler TV Trap: Impact on Social Development"(00:18:41) Overstimulation Prevention through Alternative Activities for Children(00:19:11) Debate on Screen Time Impact on Autism(00:24:52) Link Between Screen Time and Autism Symptoms(00:29:36) Interactive vs. Passive Screen Time Effects(00:32:35) Active Creation for Holistic Child Development(00:42:12) Enhancing Child Development Through Active Screen Time(00:42:34) Optimizing Screen Time for Child Development(00:46:44) Interactive Alternatives to Reduce Screen TimeConnect with Andreina:https://www.instagram.com/toddlertvtrap/Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m giving you permission to stop overthinking food—especially when it comes to toddlers. If you’ve been stressing about cooking full dinners every night, fighting over veggies, or wondering if your kid is “eating enough,” this one’s for you. I’m breaking down why toddlers eat like snakes (yep, in bursts, not evenly), why small portions and variety work better than giant scoops, and why it’s less about complicated recipes and more about balancing fat, protein, and carbs. Snack plates, mini meals, kid charcuterie—call it what you want, but the point is: keep it simple, keep it nourishing, and stop making dinnertime a battle.Timestamps:(00:00:31) Idyllic Bungalow Colony Gathering in New York(00:05:24) Reviving Genuine Curiosity through Conversation(00:08:01) Authentic Engagement for Strong Community BondsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this episode, I’m taking a hard look at the way we’ve built our lives—and how so much of it just doesn’t leave room for kids to actually be kids. Between work schedules, overstuffed calendars, and the pressure to check off milestones like it’s a parenting to-do list, we’re burning out while expecting our little ones to perform like mini adults. I’m talking about why parenting is a long game (not a quick fix), why connection can’t be squeezed into 15 minutes on the checklist, and how to bring back the heart of the home—yes, even if that means starting a full-on “kitchen rebellion.” This one’s a mix of tough love, personal reflection, and a big reminder to slow the hell down and make room for what really matters.Timestamps:(00:01:35) Embracing Simplicity in Parenting(00:13:02) Parenting as a Lifelong Development Journey(00:16:41) Nurturing Genuine Connection Through Quality Time(00:21:17) Balancing Parenting and Work: Prioritizing Connection(00:29:43) Nurturing Environment and Connection in Parenting(00:30:42) Building Genuine Connection for Child's ThrivingJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m sharing a story from a party I went to with Lenore Skenazy (yep, the Free-Range Kids legend herself) that left me buzzing for days—and not because of the drinks. It was the conversations. Real, curious, ask-me-anything kind of conversations with people who weren’t checking boxes or looking for labels, but actually listening and sharing stories. And it hit me: we’ve lost that art. Between social media, polarization, and just being too damn busy, we don’t sit down and really talk anymore. So this is my little nudge to bring it back—ask questions, be curious, and remember that everyone you meet has a story worth hearing.Timestamps:(00:00:31) Idyllic Bungalow Colony Gathering in New York(00:05:24) Reviving Genuine Curiosity through Conversation(00:08:01) Authentic Engagement for Strong Community BondsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
This week, I sat down with the one and only Lenore Skenazy — the “Free-Range Mom” who made headlines as “America’s Worst Mom” after letting her 9-year-old ride the NYC subway alone. We dove deep into the cultural shift that’s replaced neighborhood play with constant supervision, how fear-driven parenting is feeding the kids’ mental health crisis, and why the most powerful antidote to anxiety is actually giving kids more independence. Lenore shared hilarious stories, jaw-dropping stats (spoiler: the kidnapping fears don’t match reality), and actionable ways to bring back trust, freedom, and joy to childhood — starting in your own neighborhood. This conversation will make you rethink the rules, roll your eyes at the fear-mongering, and maybe even send your kid to the store for Skittles.Timestamps:(00:00:53) Childhood Independence Laws for Free Exploration(00:16:28) Promoting Childhood Autonomy for Mental Well-being(00:25:18) Empowering Children Through Independence and Resilience(00:25:19) Promoting Childhood Independence: Overprotection's Impact(00:30:23) Promoting Social Skills Through Independent Play(00:30:34) Empowering Children through Independent Play Movement(00:35:24) Shift from 'Benign Neglect' to Overprotection(00:44:58) Childhood Independence Laws and Let Grow Initiatives(00:44:58) Reasonable Childhood Independence Law for AdvocacyJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Back-to-school season can be rough, and if you’re already seeing those epic after-school meltdowns, you’re not alone. In this bite-sized nugget, I’m talking about after-school restraint collapse—why kids hold it together all day only to fall apart the second they get home—and what you can do to ease the chaos. I’ll walk you through three key strategies (spoiler: food, no questions, and big play), plus why shifting dinner to that 3–4pm window can totally change the game for your family. If dinner has become a nightly battle, this episode is for you.Timestamps:(00:00:39) Post-School Exhaustion Meltdowns: Unwinding Strategies(00:02:34) Energy-Expelling Play for Kids After School(00:08:12) Early Family Dinners Nurture Bonds and MannersJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I’m diving deep into one of the biggest pain points in parenting right now: consequences vs. punishment—and why so many of us get stuck in that messy middle where nothing’s working and everyone’s losing their cool. I break down why too many chances lead to dysregulation (for you and your kid), how to make consequences immediate, proportionate, and connected to the behavior, and why empty threats destroy trust. We’ll talk about natural, logical, and external consequences, the difference between separation and isolation, and how to handle those moments when sibling fights or big feelings push you over the edge. If you’ve ever wondered how to set firm, respectful boundaries without slipping into shame or control, this one’s for you.Timestamps:(00:02:04) Effective Discipline: Teaching Through Consequences(00:07:23) Fair Consequences: Nurturing Behavior over Control(00:10:16) Teaching Children Through Logical and Natural Outcomes(00:13:03) "Using Logical Consequences for Effective Parenting"(00:16:57) Timely Interventions for Child Behavior Guidance(00:21:16) Conflict Resolution: Nurturing Kids' Independence and SkillsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
If you’re in the middle of potty training and staring down the return to daycare—this one’s for you. I’m breaking down exactly why trying to “get it done” in 2–3 days before sending your kid back is a recipe for disaster, and what you actually need to ask your daycare before you start. From bathroom setups to accident policies to the myth of early self-initiation, I’m giving you the real-deal checklist to set your child up for success (and save you both a ton of stress). Because potty training isn’t a race, it’s a milestone—and the more prepared you are, the smoother the transition back to daycare will be.Timestamps:(00:02:28) Potty Training Preparation at Daycare(00:06:05) Potty Training Transition to Daycare Environment(00:10:39) Potty Training: Cultivating Self-Initiation HabitsDaycare Blueprint CourseJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Y’all, this episode is a full-on TED Talk (minus the PowerPoint). I’m unpacking all the trending parenting labels—gentle, respectful, intentional, sturdy, conscious, child-led—and calling out where we’ve gone off the rails. Are we actually parenting, or just trying not to do what our parents did? I’m digging into why we cling to these labels, how they’re often just code for what we don’t want to do, and why the real magic happens when we get clear on the do's—the actions that actually guide our kids. It’s not about the label; it’s about leading with calm, clarity, and consistency... even when your toddler is melting down in public. If you’ve ever wondered “am I doing this right?”—this one’s for you.Timestamps:(00:01:11) Balancing Firmness and Love in Parenting(00:08:07) Developmental Respect in Parenting(00:15:00) Mindful Decision-Making in Child Rearing(00:20:03) Nurturing Love Through Parenting Challenges(00:22:13) Navigating Parenting Challenges with Care and Respect(00:25:35) Parental Burnout's Impact on Child RearingJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m calling out the way the 24-hour news cycle—and the never-ending opinions that come with it—is wrecking our nervous systems. We were never meant to carry the weight of the entire world, and yet here we are: flooded with information, outrage, and heartbreak we can’t do anything about. I’m sharing why it’s okay (and even necessary) to unplug, focus inward, and come back to your own home, your own kids, and your own healing. It’s not privileged—it’s powerful. If you’ve been spiraling from the headlines, this is your gentle, slightly spicy reminder to get grounded and start small. Let’s shift the energy where it actually matters.Timestamps:(00:01:08) Navigating Relationship Strain in Social Media(00:09:17) Combatting Media Bias Through Multi-Source Verification(00:11:42) Creating Positive Change Through Proactive StepsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
If you’ve ever been told to “just wait until they’re ready” when it comes to potty training, this episode is your reality check (and yeah, it might be the hill I die on). I’m breaking down where that phrase really came from (spoiler: diaper companies), why it’s not actually child-led, and how it’s failing our kids—big time. I’m talking poop withholding, pediatricians who mean well but don’t get it, and the difference between struggling and not being ready. If you’ve felt confused, shamed, or straight-up overwhelmed about potty training, this episode is packed with clarity, tough love, and the reassurance that you can absolutely do hard things. Let’s do this.Timestamps:(00:01:53) Supportive Guidance in Effective Parenting Approaches(00:06:22) Potty Training Readiness and Timelines(00:06:47) Proactive Potty Training Approach(00:07:59) Risks of Medicalizing Childhood Potty Training(00:14:03) Potty Training Challenges and Anxiety Management(00:15:11) Child Potty Training and Anxiety ResistanceJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this bite-sized nugget, I’m talking about something that’s creeping into parenting way too much lately: scripts. Everyone wants the perfect words to say, but the truth is—real parenting doesn’t follow a script. We’re raising little humans, not robots, and that means getting creative in the moment. I’m sharing why I believe the point of human existence is creation—and how that translates into your parenting. From ignoring expert noise to trusting that you’re divinely suited for your child, this is your reminder to ditch the step-by-step and parent like the badass creative you already are.Timestamps:(00:01:06) Creative Parenting: Nurturing Life's Masterpiece(00:01:06) Embracing Creative Parenting Approaches for Individuality(00:03:24) Parenting as a Creative Endeavor: Embracing FlexibilityJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
This one’s for the parents of boys. In this episode, I’m diving into a conversation we really need to be having—about our sons, teen boys, puberty, the rise of radical voices like Andrew Tate, and the pressures our boys are feeling in today’s culture. I’m not here to panic or point fingers, but to help us think critically about what’s really going on, how we’re showing up for our boys, and how to keep connection strong even as hormones hit and the Internet gets louder. From the truth about sex hormones and aggression to the problem with the phrase “toxic masculinity,” I’m sharing the big picture (and the hard convos) that can actually support our boys in becoming healthy, grounded men.Timestamps:(00:00:41) Navigating Boys' Online Influence in Parenting(00:02:32) Navigating Adolescent Hormonal Shifts and Aggression(00:11:15) Navigating Masculine Expectations During Puberty(00:22:54) Validation and Connection: Online Radicalization Among Youth(00:34:29) Promoting Open Communication with Children about Emotions(00:38:27) Fostering Early Conversations on Gender and Politics(00:38:27) Effective Teen Communication Building Trust and Respect(00:45:28) "Potty Training Support and Personalized Assistance"Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Hey friends! In this bite-sized nugget, I’m talking about something I see allll the time in modern parenting—catering everything to the youngest kid. From activities to movie choices, it’s easy to default to what the baby needs... but it’s time we shift that. I’m breaking down what I call “aging up”—prioritizing your oldest’s stage of development instead of dragging them back to toddler-level everything. This episode is part pep talk, part reality check, and 100% permission to not make things fair between siblings (because they never will be). So yeah, your baby might be eating hot Cheetos while watching Harry Potter—but your oldest deserves to grow forward, not backward. Let’s get into it.Timestamps:(00:00:42) Tailoring Family Activities for Developmental Harmony(00:01:02) "Fostering Emotional Growth Through Sibling Dynamics"(00:01:02) Tailoring Experiences to Oldest Child's LevelJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
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