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Classmates, what do you do when your mom wants to invite your ex—the one you cheated on—to your wedding? Or when your twin sibling gets married and doesn’t tell you? Or when your husband confesses an 18-year-old “friend” of your daughter made a move on him and somehow you’re the bad guy?This week’s episode is a wild family potluck full of secrets, betrayals, and boundary violations that had us screaming: “This is why we don’t do reunions!” From messy siblings to overstepping in-laws, we break down the wildest AITA and Reddit stories where the only consistent theme is drama with a DNA test.Plus, your Homework Assignment:How have YOU healed from your crazy family dynamics? Share your stories—we will read them on a future episode.🎧 Press play, clutch your pearls, and prepare for some generational trauma with a side of petty.Want advice? Send us a message: onlyblackkids dot com00:00 Homeroom00:31 Crazy Family Stories06:00 My mom wants to invite my ex whom I cheated on to my wedding, and my fiancé is absolutely furious. HELP15:53 AITA for not going to my TWIN’S Wedding???21:51 AITA for financially screwing over my sister after finding out she’s close with my ex and his wife? [Concluded]35:01 AITA for dumping dinner in the trash and asking my family not to stay at my place again?39:53 AITA for telling our parents my brother had a child outside of his marriage?46:18 Entitled mom tried to “reserve” the baby name I’ve had picked since I was 1249:31 90s R&B Interlude54:16 AITA for telling my wife I’m tired of raising a kid that is not mine?01:07:31 My (40F) husband (42M) told me our daughter’s friend (18F) tried it on with him. I didn’t react well.01:22:44 Toxic Confessions- These New Age 304s fight back01:23:50 Toxic Confessions- I Lost my job and didn't tell my wife01:25:28 Toxic Confessions- I Feel Bad about my Intention to Break them Up01:27:01 Toxic Confessions- My Elderly Wife is Auditioning my Replacements01:29:47 HW- How have you Healed from Your Crazy Family Dynamics?

Teacher Bae went viral on TikTok & Instagram for her provocative outfits in the classroom. Is she crossing the line, or is the Internet doing too much? In this OBK Reacts episode, we break down the Teacher Bae Tik Tok viral teacher controversy, the culture around Black women’s bodies, and why social media can’t stop talking about this teacher's outfits.Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.comAll third-party clips belong to their respective creators — used under fair use for commentary & reaction.

Classmates, you ever get tired of the BS at your job? Corporate America, we need to talk. From lying your way into the job to exposing a coworker’s “aromatic situation,” this episode is an HR violation waiting to happen. We’re clocking stories of PTO revenge, food-order drama, petty promotions, and one man’s wife going full HR detective on his “work wife.” If you’ve ever had a 9-to-5 that made you question your life choices, this one’s for you.Suit up. Somebody’s coochie is getting called out.Need advice? Leave us a message: onlyblackkids dot com00:00 Homeroom06:34 Book Report: The Memo: What Women of Color Need to Know to Secure a Seat at the Table by Minda Harts14:37 OBK Academy16:26 ATBK- Losing My Mind at Work26:24 Workplace Shenanigans34:19 I lied my way through a job interview, got hired, and now I’m in over my head, but no one seems to notice37:48 AITA for telling my co-worker her kids are none of my business?41:34 HR said “we can’t make exceptions” so I took all my PTO at once44:05 Robert Work Story46:43 AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food49:24 I wore a suit to work and got my supervisor soft demoted53:17 My coworkers coochie STINKS and I can’t take it.57:38 Pop Quiz: What's Your Office Personality?59:31 My husband doesn't see how his "work wife" is trying to destroy our marriage01:22:56 Toxic Confessions- He served me Divorce Papers while I was in Labor01:25:18 Toxic Confessions- He Lied and Cheated on Me, I Lied and Cheated for Revenge01:26:47 Toxic Confessions- She Brought Him Here, He Chose Me01:28:11 Toxic Confessions- Have You Seen Her?01:30:07 Toxic Confessions- I want a Soul Mate with MONEY

The road to the altar is paved with delusion—and this week, we clock every last pothole. From drunken dress disasters to backstabbing bachelorettes and bridal parties turned courtroom dramas, these stories brought the messy, the petty, and the downright unhinged. Whether it’s marriage by manipulation, haircuts gone rogue, or dodging emotional drive-bys in tulle, we’ve got hot takes and hard truths on what happens before the “I Do.” And of course we’ve got some Classmate favorites…Toxic Confessions!Buckle up. These stories prove the wedding isn’t the only thing worth canceling.Need advice? Leave us a message: onlyblackkids dot com00:00 Homeroom03:06 Am I overreacting for calling off my wedding after my fiancé got drunk, put on my wedding dress, and had an accident in it?13:49 AITA for recording my friend's fiancé at her bachelorette party and playing the recording for him?23:13 Men who married their girlfriend just because they felt pressured to do it— are you happy?36:18 AITA for Taking My Friend to Court After She Kicked me out of the Bridal Party for Cutting my Hair44:49 AITA for Kicking my Bridesmaid out of my Party53:21 But You're Bald...54:49 AITAH for telling my sister her wedding is embarrassing and I won’t be part of it?58:34 Relationship Questions01:01:22 TC- My first born will be with Greasy01:02:06 TC- He's Unemployed To Avoid Child Support 01:02:53 TC- My Girlfriend is Threatening to expose our Relationship to my pregnant Wife01:04:00 TC- My Boyfriend Robbed me for Studio Money

You ever start talking and end up solving the whole world’s problems? That’s how this one kicked off—with laughs, insight, and Robert & Mrs. Sawyer doing what they do best: talking ‘bout some real ish while staying optimistic. But don’t worry, the stories were just as chaotic. From a girlfriend overhearing her man’s therapy session (yikes) to a pink envelope triggering a whole breakdown & breakup, and one mother-in-law who really sent her church friends to do her dirty work.We also respond to two Classmate emails and get into some superbly Toxic Confessions.We got bias, boundaries, and a dash of watermelon. Come get this work.00:00 Homeroom02:00 A Pickleball Story06:29 That's Not My Name09:07 Unconscious Bias12:11 Want Some Watermelon?18:05 ATBK- June 18, 2025 Episode21:09 Zones of Genius27:55 ATBK- Should I Cut off my friend for Turning into an Asshole after she started Dating her Fiancé42:44 AITA For Sending Pink Envelopes53:03 Fandom57:00 Drums vs Flats (again)58:06 TIFU By Leaving the Baby Monitor On01:00:11 AIO- Boyfriend Made Reference During Happy Time01:05:47 AITA For Locking the Bedroom Door When My Husband Works01:07:59 Petty Revenge- Owner Fired My Job Then Came Asking For Work01:10:53 My Girlfriend Came Home And Overheard My Therapy Session, Now She is Very Angry01:16:06 My Ex-Mother-In-Law Sent Her Church Friends to Harass My Daughters, I exposed her01:24:33 TC- I Married a Good Man, But I Can't Move on from my Best Friend01:28:12 TC- I Know Rondo Loves Me, But He's Trapped with a Wife He Doesn't Want01:28:44 TC- My Husband Sends Meat Pics to his Exes01:30:41 TC- PSA From a Retired Pimp

Some people will do anything to avoid accountability… even if it means ruining a date, dodging bills, or telling grandma to shut up and eat it.In this episode, we’re knee-deep in delusion—from a man ready to divorce his wife over one bad weekend to parents beefing over whose kids deserve snacks. Oh, and don’t miss the Ask the Black Kids update from our Spy Gadgets classmate… just when you thought that saga couldn’t get any wilder.These stories? 10 outta 10 messy.Hit play and tell us—are they bold… or just wrong?Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com00:00 Homeroom00:57 Homework Follow Up- What's Something Toxic You Used to Normalize05:48 ATBK- Backstory and update on Spy Gadgets & STDs story13:21 ATBK- AITA for expecting a share of my daughter's settlement?19:01 TIFU by telling my girlfriend’s grandma to “shut up and eat it21:18 He Stay Getting in Trouble25:23 My neighbor’s dog ruined my sleep so I used it to ruin his27:39 My date asked for me to pay for a free meal and I refused.31:13 AITA for feeling like it's not my job to make sure all the kids at my ex's house have just as much as our two sons?38:12 AITA for refusing to comply by my ex-wife's husband's rules about what my kids can eat so they can go to their mom's house?43:42 I'm (38/M) considering divorcing my wife (33/F) because of this past weekend43:45 Thank Goodness for Dr. Raquel Martin01:00:51 TC- Arnell was my Handyman01:02:07 TC- My Scammer Boyfriend Set Me Up01:04:03 TC- My Dad is on the DL01:05:27 TC- Betty got a Second Job01:06:37 TC- What Do You Mean ONE of your Brother's Ladies?

The Classmates’ inbox is officially on fire, so we’re back with another all Ask the Black Kids episode—and whew, the stories did not disappoint.We’ve got everything from messy friendship breakups and slow-burn relationship drama to navigating life with a parent living with schizophrenia. There’s an update from a Classmate facing a life-changing decision, plus one listener who’s just straight-up tired of adulting.This one has everything: big feelings, bigger tea, and the kind of honest conversation only the Classmates can bring. Plus, all new Toxic Confessions straight from @ms_parkerforrealHit play and get ready to weigh in—y’all’s lives are wild, and we’re clocking every bit of it.Need advice? Leave us a message: onlyblackkids.com00:00 Homeroom03:14 ATBK- Not Getting any Younger - UPDATE14:00 Let the Cap Begin23:02 ATBK- No subject (mom is schizophrenic)31:42 ATBK- She’s a horrible person, Am I wrong for wanting nothing more to do with her?36:38 Announcements49:47 ATBK- AITA FOR WANTING A SLOW BURN??????01:05:45 ATBK- Since you asked...01:15:53 ATBK- AITA for cutting off my best friend of over 10 years and her wife?01:27:31 ATBK- Adulting is hard01:41:34 ATBK- Curtis White01:46:04 Ms_ParkerForReal- I'm Pregnant by My Daughter's Baby Daddy

The Classmates came with the TEA, and we came ready to clock it.In this episode, we’re unpacking everything from secret relationships with married men to choosing between your kids (yes, really). We’ve got microaggressions at work, a messy attachment-style breakup, and a Classmate Controversy update that proves family drama never really ends. Plus, all new Toxic Confessions straight from @ms_parkerforrealIt’s unfiltered, it’s real, and it’s exactly why you tune in: our community telling their stories, asking their questions, and trusting us to keep it a buck.Grab your mug, pour it up, and let’s clock it together.Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com00:00 Homeroom00:45 ATBK- I was in a relationship with a married man08:05 ATBK- Is it GAD, ADHD, Attachment, or is this a sign to end it?20:47 ATBK- Not getting any younger33:38 ATBK- Have to pick between my 2 kids!!!39:56 ATBK- Microagressions- Racist Coworker49:44 ATBK- What should I do?55:32 ATBK- Read on Classmate Controversy update Re: Should I forgive or forget my mother?59:22 Classmate Comments01:07:19 ATBK- Micro aggression or just plain ignorant01:10:39 ATBK- Re: Ask the Black Kids01:17:27 Toxic Confession- I No Longer Want My Wife, I Just Want Her Money01:20:31 Ms_ParkerForReal- I Took My Boyfriend's Dog to the Shelter Because He Cheated on Me 01:21:20 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Son Married His Wife to Cover Up01:21:37 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Girlfriend Doesn't Know I Know She has a Girlfriend01:22:19 Toxic Confession- I Like The Money But I Hate How She Earns It01:23:33 Toxic Confession- My Baby Mama Took My Kids to Live in Colorado01:25:13 Toxic Confessions- My Fiancé Got His Ex Pregnant But I Still Want the Wedding01:26:11 The Tea App01:27:48 Ms_ParkerForReal- I Did The Whole Team & My Man Don't Know01:29:00 Ms_ParkerForReal- I Met Baby's Father Before I Fell in Love With His Brother

Is being a little petty ever justified? Or are some of y’all just doing the most for no reason? 😭 From ignoring allergy warnings to canceling dates mid-argument, these stories have us wondering — are they wrong… or just real?One fiancé refuses to pay the mortgage. One dad’s inheritance goes nowhere near his wife. And someone really said “I don’t give a damn about your peanut allergy.” Like… huh??Robert and Mrs. Sawyer are fired up in this one — you’ve been warned.🎧 So tell us — are they the jerk? Or would you have done the same?Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com00:00 Homeroom03:29 ATBK- I need your help08:43 Why 'k' is the most hated text message according to science16:02 AITAH for telling my fiancé I won’t help pay the mortgage?24:44 I called my (31M) wife (30F) ungrateful, cancelled our date and left her in the car to cry. How do I make her feel what I feel?33:35 Am I the Jerk for refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house because she’s "a vegan with a peanut allergy"?38:50 AITA for telling my roommate I don’t give a fuck about her boyfriend's allergies42:45 What is your favorite insult without using curse words?45:16 AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby?51:58 Am I the jerk for refusing to give my stepmom the money my dad left me?58:48 Toxic Confessions- I'm His Only Girlfriend & He's Faithful to His Wife59:32 Toxic Confessions- Kenny Loves me More than Jay does01:00:00 Toxic Confessions- Leaving Las Vegas with my Wife01:01:37 Toxic Confessions- My Husband Met My WOAH Cousin First

This episode is giving Group Chat on fire. Every single story was sent in by y’all—and the drama, the audacity, the realness? 10/10. From a sugar daddy who just might be someone’s ex’s father (yikes), to family feuds that would make a therapist take PTO, we’re deep in the Classmate Controversy era. Plus, the Lizard Wars get context, premarital counseling gets spicy, and one listener wants to know: should I forgive or forget my mom?We laughed, we sighed, we side-eyed. This one’s for the real ones.Need advice? Leave us a message: onlyblackkids.com00:00 Homeroom01:09 School Lunch05:46 Comments16:13 Coming to the D18:56 OBK in DC22:07 Thank You28:06 ATBK- Lizard Wars Context36:25 ATBK- Just a question??43:05 ATBK- Re: Toxic Family Unraveling - Update 1 & 246:04 ATBK- Premarital Counseling & SOTU01:01:13 ATBK- Help a Friend with Mental Health01:07:35 OBK Dynamic01:15:05 Classmates Come Through AGAIN!01:17:03 My Sugar Daddy is My Ex Boyfriend's Father01:19:46 OBK Diaspora01:21:00 ATBK- Love the Show — Thoughts on Kids' Birthday Parties01:27:12 ATBK- Help, need advice.. how to salvage my relationship with SILs01:38:34 ATBK- Should I forgive or forget my mother?01:57:40 TC- I don't want to be his Room mate with benefits 01:58:22 TC- I'm 6 Months Pregnant by my Married Boyfriend 01:59:34 TC- I'm Married to a Successful Plastic Surgeon02:01:09 TC- I Visit Her Daily to Quietly move in02:02:35 TC- Full Beast Mode

Classmates, we’re diving deep into the darkest corners of family drama in this episode. From shocking revelations that will make you question everything to jaw-dropping moments where family loyalty is tested—these stories will have you shaking your head in disbelief. We’re talking estranged fathers, family secrets, and the wildest betrayals you’ll ever hear about.This week, we’ve got:* A classmate navigating a fractured relationship with her father* A sister and husband dropping some uncomfortable innuendo* Parents handing over a house to one sibling, leaving the others out in the cold* A daughter not getting a car from her father with a Napoleon complex* A mom having a full-on meltdown over her daughter quitting gymnasticsPlus, we read some toxic confessions about a sugarless daddy and if size really matters🎧 Tune in for the full tea and get ready to join the classroom conversation. Listen to the full episode on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts. You don’t want to miss this one!Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com00:00 Homeroom04:43 ATBK Update- Help! How to Stop Crying When I Look My Husband in the Eye?08:54 ATBK Asking for Advice - Estranged Father Edition27:22 ATBK- Love Still Exists29:43 Once you were old enough, what were the dark family secrets you were finally let in on?34:55 AITA for refusing to help my parents after they gave my sister their house?49:56 AITA for walking out on a family dinner because my sister and my husband implied they were sleeping together?57:58 AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me?01:21:59I (18F) am going to be quitting gymnastics, and my mother (41F) is having a mental breakdown over it, because me doing it is her entire life. How do I deal with this, when it makes me feel guilty?01:27:29 My girlfriend (24F) reminded me (28M) to pay her back $10 after I forgot my wallet — I’ve paid for almost everything over 4 years and it left me feeling weird.01:33:59 I met my step-daughters boyfriend yesterday.01:35:35 Story Rankings01:37:07 TC- I Can't Stop Thinking of Him Being Bigger 01:40:57 TC- Prison is a Better Option For Me, I Hate my Wife01:42:17 TC- He was about to go back to his Wife when I got Pregnant01:43:04 TC- I'm Going Celibate 01:45:18 TC- She Called me a Sugarless Daddy01:46:59 TC- She Had My Ankles by my Ear Lobes01:48:01 TC- My Fiancé is my Half-Brother01:49:40 TC- How Do I Make Her Life Miserable Until She Forgives Me

This episode is loaded with petty behavior, delulu energy, and peak entitlement—and we’re calling all of it out.We kick things off with two Ask the Black Kids emails from Classmates dealing with petty frenemies, including one “friend” who keeps tabs like it’s her full-time job 👀Then it gets WILDER:🛍️ A kid expected a birthday gift… for someone else’s birthday?💼 A prank so dumb, we’d absolutely sue too🐍 A broke best friend who refuses to take the job you offered themPlus:💬 A round of Toxic Confessions you won’t believe🦎 A return to the Lizard Wars™This episode is for anyone who’s tired of participation trophies, allergic to entitled energy, and here for real talk + real laughs.Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.tiktok.com/@onlyblackkids00:00 Homeroom04:33 ATBK- Am I Petty for Cutting off Friend Because I Disrespected Her with Advice13:40 Define Friends22:17 I will Cook For You24:13 ATBK- You Don't Hang Up on Me, I Hang Up on You32:40 The Lizard Wars Continue40:15 AITA for Correcting a Co-Worker About Something47:52 AITA for Refusing to Buy a Gift for a Kid Because it's their Sibling's Birthday50:33 We Had One Nintendo01:01:44 Where's the Popcorn01:03:20 AITA For Taking my Brother-in-Law to Small Claims Court for a Prank01:09:47 My Best Friend is Broke. I've Been Offering Him a Job for Months 01:23:30 Shout out Servers01:26:37 Not the Opossums01:28:09 Get it Out the Mud01:31:32 Story Ranking01:33:30 Toxic Confessions- My Husband Was Engaged to Another Woman when we Met01:36:05 Toxic Confessions- He Said You're Exclusive to Me01:37:44 Toxic Confessions- My Family is Squatting in Our Family Home 01:38:56 Group Economics

Entitled people are back—and bolder than ever.In this episode, we’re reacting to next-level shenanigans:🧬 A sister faking cancer for sympathy🍽️ A MIL expecting you to foot the bill for 8 people🐱 A woman who demanded he get rid of his cat… before the first date✈️ An airplane couple who tried to assign someone else the middle seat🚪 A neighbor who needs to check her husband—not youPLUS: this week’s Classmate Homework: What’s the most entitled thing someone’s ever asked you for?If you love delusion, drama, and petty justice—this one’s for you.Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.tiktok.com/@onlyblackkidsTikTok | https://www.instagram.com/onlyblackkids00:00 Homeroom10:26 ATBK- I just want to tell my story24:10 AITA for exposing my sister's fake cancer to our parents after she refused to come clean herself?29:20 I need help... my mother in law asked if i'm okay paying for a dinner for 8 people?32:45 AITAH for telling my neighbor she should check her husband and NOT me?38:18 Matched with a girl yesterday. I told her I had a cat. She asked me to get rid of it. I don’t even know her and never met her.41:25 On a flight yesterday, entitled couple tells me I need to sit in the middle seat.44:37 HW- What’s the most entitled thing someone has ever asked you for47:53 TC- I'm Pregnant By My Incarcerated Boyfriend's Opps49:16 TC- He Tested My Loyalty 50:08 TC- Sweetie's New Husband Did time51:09 TC- My Husband is 12 years older than me. My boyfriend is 9 years younger

This one’s all Classmates, all chaos.In this episode, we’re diving deep into listener-submitted stories that had us laughing, shaking our heads, and genuinely asking: “Wait… what?!”We unpack: • A possible long-lost sibling situation 👀 • A wedding dilemma involving mental health and messy cousins • A question of cutting off a best friend • A heartbreaking cry for help from a Classmate struggling to look her husband in the eye 😢 • And yes… we definitely discuss the Classmate whose husband has a growing collection of homemade **** 😬🌽And of course…the return of Toxic Confessions!These aren’t Reddit. These are real people. Real stories. Real tough love.Come sit with us and bring tissues, tea, and maybe a burner phone.Hit play and report to class!Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.comInstagram 00:00 Homeroom11:31 ATBK- For your consideration: Shows to consider14:25 ATBK- OBKITC Appreciation Email15:45 ATBK- I may have discovered another siblings and I don’t know what to do23:47 ATBK- Am I the AH for not wanting my cousins dealing with mental health issues at my wedding?28:31 ATBK- Help!How to stop crying when I look my husband in the eye?53:49 ATBK- My Husband Has a lot of Homemade Corn videos of Me56:40 ATBK- AITAH for cutting off my “best friend”?01:02:18 Chicago with Sza01:13:22 We need More Spots- Drop the Restaurants01:14:52 ATBK- Conflicted01:29:20 Homework- What Would You Do If You Knew You Would Succeed?01:31:25 TC- Church Building Fund01:32:57 TC- He Spent the Money on the Cowboy Carter Tour 01:34:07 TC- Magic Trick Kids01:36:04 TC- My Husband Got My Daughter's 18yo Friend Pregnant

Think your family is wild? These Reddit stories said “hold my drama.”We’re talking:👶 Breastfeeding boundaries💔 Estranged sons and broken trust👀 A mother-in-law who ruined a marriage with one conversation💍 An open marriage that’s none of your business🎁 Plus a Mother’s Day disaster and a husband who missed the birth of his childTap in as we react, roast, and ask: Can family be too messy to fix?Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.com00:00 Homeroom10:15 ATBK- Thank You14:26 ATBK- Thanks For Your Help17:25 AITA For Refusing To Give My Former Son A Second Chance?27:11 AITA for breastfeeding my niece?39:11 Princess Peach is a 30442:27 AITA for not going home after giving birth because my husband missed it to help our friends?53:46 My MIL decided to gossip with my daughter about my marriage, blowing a giant hole in my life. 01:06:04 How can we (35f/36M) get my SIL to understand that our open marriage is NOT hurting my disabled husband? (3 stories)01:10:25 She don't think I can get a badder b!tch?01:16:49 AITA For showing up to Mother's Day When My SIL Warned me she would make a scene1:21:05 How can we get my SIL to understand our open marriage

Classmates… this episode is full of panic, bad decisions, and people who folded under pressure.From running during an attack to hiding sexual secrets with your girlfriend’s parents 😳, these stories had us asking:“WHAT would you do??”We’ve got:🎒 A mom checking her daughter’s bags behind her husband’s back😂 A husband laughing at the absolute wrong moment🧬 A boyfriend with way too much family history🏃🏾‍♂️ A fiancé who ran for his life during a dangerous moment✂️ A hairstylist who’s literally been hoarding someone’s hair??💥 Plus, Robert and Mrs. Sawyer share their own fight or flight momentsThis episode is packed with wild decisions, boundary-crossing, and real talk on how fear exposes people’s true instincts.🎧 Tap in. Pick your side. And tell us… what would YOU have done?Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.com00:00 Homeroom07:23 AITA for checking my daughter's bags after my Husband packed them14:12 AITA for Laughing at my Wife's Comment16:00 My Boyfriend has a Sexual History with my Parents. Can we still Survive?21:17 AITA for Considering Breaking up With my Fiancé Because he ran away while we were being attacked28:57 Robert's Fight or Flight32:59 Mrs. Sawyer's Fight or Flight38:13 Hairstylist Has Been Keeping my Hair47:46 Update01:03:40 Homework01:08:26 Toxic Confessions- She's Jealous of My Ex01:10:23 Toxic Confessions- She Made me Date for 5 Months before She gave me the Cat01:11:47 Toxic Confessions- I Chose Ortiz to be my Husband01:13:10 Toxic Confessions- So Called Men Play Too Much

Classmates… This episode is pure, concentrated, uncut TOXICITY.We’ve got:🚨 A woman telling her 5-year-old about the time her dad got her arrested💍 A man who… doesn’t know he’s married??👶🏾 A paternity twist with no grandparents allowed🍻 A petty king taking back the beer from a party he wasn’t invited to🛏️ A father fighting for his daughter’s peace—with two messy updates💒 And the ultimate wedding revenge: “She erased us from hers… so I erased her from mine.”PLUS:We read a Classmate submission so toxic, we had to take a breath before responding.And this week’s homework?👉🏾 What’s a toxic behavior you used to normalize… until you realized it wasn’t healthy, it was control?This episode is full of betrayal, petty power moves, long-held grudges, and deeply unhealthy behavior.🎧 LISTEN and ask yourself:At what point do we stop calling it family… and start calling a lawyer?YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@onlyblackkidsInstagram | https://www.tiktok.com/@onlyblackkidsTikTok | https://www.instagram.com/onlyblackkids00:00 Homeroom12:45 Homework Responses: Siblings15:19 ATBK- AITA for telling my 5 year old the reason I don’t engage with her father is because he got me arrested and sabotaged my medical career?24:42 ATBK- God Makes a Way29:51 He doesn’t know we’re married33:29 AITA for not letting my parents be grandparents to my “son”?37:58 AITA for Taking back the Beer I brought for a party to which I was uninvited43:23 HOMEWORK- What's a Toxic Behavior You Used to Normalize44:23 She Erased Us from Her Wedding So I'm Erasing Her from Mine50:34 AITA for getting my daughter her own room (2 updates)01:14:26 Toxic Confessions- I'm Forced To Give Birth to My Daughter's Children01:15:43 Toxic Confessions- My Boyfriend Looks Like Winnie the Pooh01:16:56 Toxic Confessions- Your Child's Mother is the ULTIMATE Soul-Tie 01:18:39 Toxic Confessions- My Father Was Arrested for Arson01:20:19 Toxic Confessions- Withholding from my Wife01:21:24 Toxic Confessions- His Wife Made him Renew their Vows

Classmates, get ready to evaluate your relationship standards like never before.In this episode, we’re diving deep into relationships and asking the tough question: Is this relationship really ready for ‘I Do’? From self-reflection to judgmental moments, we’re unpacking the reality of what it truly takes to make a lifelong commitment. This episode focuses on what happens before you say ‘I Do’.We’ve got:💔 A wife confronting her husband after he abandoned her on their honeymoon😤 A fiancé threatening to call off the engagement after a ring rejection🔥 A partner questioning the marriage after a secret is revealed💬 Plus, a special Ask the Black Kids email about what getting ready for marriage entailsAnd of course, we’re serving up Toxic Confessions that’ll make you question every relationship you know.🎧 Tap in, laugh with us, and ask yourself: Is your relationship truly ready for forever? Or is there work to be done?00:00 I Sent Her a Wedding Invitation to My Wedding, Not Hers03:08 Homeroom8:10 ATBK- Regarding Premarital Counseling16:54 Mrs. Sawyer Beat Him Up22:10 Premarital Counseling28:44 How To Speak My Partner's Language what should I be looking for in a premarital counseling session? What should I be bringing to the table?What does a State of the Union meeting look like for a couple/marriage?38:02 AIO that my husband left me alone on our honeymoon45:13 AIO for thinking about calling off the engagement after she didn’t like the ring?54:28 Husband(26M) told me(26F) that we’re in major credit card debt. Is this salvageable?01:11:28 IG Story Relationship Questions01:23:20 TC- Junior Isn't My Husband's First Born Son01:25:00 TC- All the Daddy You Need01:27:09 TC- Ken Told Me He was Forty

Classmates, we’re back with a special episode straight from Atlanta!This week, we dive into real talk with our Classmates, addressing everything from mental health support and navigating adulting struggles from the USA to South Africa. We also share our love for the diaspora and dreams of taking OBK on a World Tour to connect with Classmates everywhere.In this episode, we’ve got:💬 A classmate asking for tips on getting her husband to help more with adulting🌍 A South African Classmate wondering if she’s doing too much for a friend💸 A surprising twist about tax refunds and child support🍽️ And we’re looking for the best eats in ATL (drop your suggestions!)Plus, as always, we read some Toxic Confessions and tackle this week’s Homework Assignment: What’s the pettiest reason you’ve ever cut off a friend?🎧 Tap in, laugh, learn, and share your thoughts!Send us your relationship questions & stories of pettiness: asktheblackkids@gmail.comYouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@onlyblackkidsInstagram | https://www.tiktok.com/@onlyblackkidsTikTok | https://www.instagram.com/onlyblackkids00:00 Homeroom02:55 ATBK- Thanks for Your Help06:00 ATBK- My Husband Refuses to Help with Adulting17:38 ATBK- Am I Doing Too Much29:02 The World Tour30:16 Cherry Blossoms32:00 AITA for Being Angry My Tax Refund Paid off My Husband's Child Support39:01 ATL41:46 Homework- What's the Pettiest Reason You've Ever Cut Off a Friend?43:15 Toxic Confessions- The Cop Made Me Call My Wife45:36 Toxic Confessions- How Do I Know if My Girlfriend will Leave Her Husband for Good?47:08 Toxic Confessions- She received Her Retirement Benefits and Left me and Our Sons49:32 Soul Food

Classmates, Does Love Survive Lies?In this episode, we dive into jaw-dropping moments of lies, betrayal, and the complexities of trust. From a wife being blindsided by a shocking confession to a husband who doesn’t know how to handle his own lies—we’re talking all things trust, loyalty, and love.We’ve got:💔 The most toxic Ask the Black Kids email we’ve ever received (trust us, you don’t want to miss this one)💥 A man caught in a web of lies during an intimate moment💸 A proposal rejection gone horribly wrongThis one’s full of real talk, real drama, and a lot of “what would you do?” moments.🎧 Tap in, laugh with us, and let’s get into it—this one’s gonna stir some feelings.Send us your relationship questions: asktheblackkids@gmail.com@onlyblackkids on all socials00:00 Homeroom07:01 ATBK- Love Your Show07:41 ATBK- AITA for Spying on my Boyfriend17:42 The Lizard Wars23:57 My husband lied to me during one of our most intimate moments. Now I don’t know how to trust him.38:07 AIO husband poops his pants, says it’s no big deal48:56 AITA He Calls me the Wrong Name54:05 AITA for Telling my Wife she Smells Bad58:41 My fiancé (44M) and I (29F) moved to a certain race-dominated town, and he’s acting odd, where to go from here?01:07:34 Broke up with my GF over tattoos. She no longer "agrees" with Our Breakup01:14:31 Toxic Confessions- My Wife is Adventurous01:15:22 Toxic Confessions- I'm Not Sleeping on the Floor, I have a Sleeping Bag01:17:13 Toxic Confessions- My GF is a High Fashion Influencer01:18:19 Toxic Confession- My Fiancé Won't Marry a Mama's Boy