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Do I have to be friends with my co workers to get ahead? Should I take the promotion even if I hate the job? Is my salary big enough or am I getting screwed? Do I have to choose between having a family and having a career? I've been laid off now what do I do? I'm Melissa Franks, and I've spent the last 25 years building my corporate career and a family to along the way, there have been bumps and bruises and some epic going down in flames of glory moments. My journey up the corporate ladder found me forging new ground without a safety net. Through my real life stories, experiences, and special guests on the show, I take the mystery out of how to succeed in the corporate world. I'm going to spill all the tea about how decisions are really made, how to tell who the hidden influencers are, and how to realize your full potential while enjoying the process at the same time. Each week, we will dive into a topic where I will share the good, the bad, and the ugly of my experiences and what we can all learn from them. You will walk away each week with a clear set of next steps to take action and improve your circumstances. We are going to speak frankly and freely about when it's time to opt in or to opt out. Opt In is a place where you can come to get practical, actionable advice to propel your career and your life in the direction you want. Work with me: www.melissafranks.com/offers

Stop Chasing the Wrong Client: Busting the Biggest ICA Myths in Business

Most small business owners have been taught to obsess over their “Ideal Client Avatar”. To name them, write their life story, and plaster their face on a mood board. But what if everything you’ve been taught about your ICA is… wrong? In this episode of The Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks breaks down why your ideal client is not: One personThe person you wish would buy from youEven you, the founder (yep, sorry) Using real examples from working with clients across industries, she reveals: ...

10-22
28:08

How to Lead Through Chaos Without Losing Your Mind (or Your Business)

In today’s episode of The Opt-In Podcast, I’m taking inspiration from the unexpected king of business advice: Tom Hanks. His mantra, “This too shall pass” became my lifeline during one of the darkest moments of my entrepreneurial journey… and again during one of the best. Whether you’re drowning in problems or overwhelmed by opportunities (yes, that kind of chaos exists too), this episode is your blueprint for getting grounded, getting clear, and getting back in control. I’ll walk you through...

10-15
31:58

5 Ways to Build a Truly Diverse Hiring Practice

Does everyone you interview look like you, sound like you, and maybe even want to be you? If so, it’s time to rethink your hiring approach. In this episode of the Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks takes a candid look at why diversity matters in small business hiring, and what can happen when diversity of thought, background, and experience disappears from an organization. Using both real-world headlines and her corporate COO background, Melissa explains why innovation, creativity, and growth dep...

10-08
29:39

Breaking Through the Plateau: 4 Critical Levers to Unlock Business Growth

Every business owner eventually faces it: the dreaded plateau. Sales stop climbing, growth stalls, and suddenly you’re left wondering what went wrong. In this episode of the Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks breaks down the truth about business plateaus and how to navigate them without panic or wasted effort. Melissa dives into the four core areas every entrepreneur should interrogate when growth has flatlined: Your Data – Why understanding metrics like customer acquisition cost, lifetime value,...

10-01
28:30

Your Personal Brand Is Showing: Why Public Behavior Impacts Your Business

This week on The Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks unpacks a rarely discussed—but vitally important—topic: how your personal behavior in public spaces can deeply affect your business or employment. Whether you're a business owner or an employee, your actions, your posts, your tone, and your choices in public and on social media all have ripple effects and sometimes, unintended consequences. Using a powerful personal story from a youth baseball tournament gone sideways, Melissa explores how behav...

09-24
30:35

The Reset: What I Changed to Grow Without Burning Out

In this candid solo episode, Melissa Franks opens the curtain on a deeply personal and strategic recalibration she made in both life and business. As the fourth quarter looms, a season that often demands more from entrepreneurs, Melissa shares the internal reckoning that led her to rewrite how she works, lives, and leads. This isn’t a burnout story; it’s a blueprint for realignment. From hiring help to reshaping routines, Melissa offers a powerful invitation to evaluate how we’re spending our...

09-17
27:57

Why Q4 Actually Starts in September: My Best Tips for Ending the Year Strong

Fourth quarter isn’t just October through December—it starts now. In this episode, Melissa Franks breaks down why the most successful businesses treat September as the true kickoff to Q4 and how you can use this mindset to set yourself up for a profitable year-end. Melissa shares insights from industry analysts on consumer behavior this holiday season—what Gen Z, middle-class, and affluent buyers are really planning to spend on—and what that means for your business strategy. From stacking pro...

09-10
27:57

Are You the Bottleneck? How to Build a Team That Runs Without You

If your business collapses the moment you go on vacation, you don’t have leaders—you have helpers. In this episode of the Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks, your On Call COO, unpacks the hard truth about bottlenecks in small businesses and why your growth may be stalling because you are in the way. Melissa shares real client stories of founders who couldn’t unplug, explains the signs that you might be the bottleneck, and introduces a practical framework for building a team that can operate indep...

09-03
35:17

The Habits That Make or Break CEOs: How to Unlock Sustainable Growth

What separates the CEO who scales from the CEO who stalls? Spoiler: it’s not strategy—it’s habits. In this episode of The Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks, your on-call COO, pulls back the curtain on the daily practices that either propel businesses forward or keep them stuck. Drawing on insights from working with nearly 50 entrepreneurs across industries, Melissa explains why consistency beats intensity and how three core habits can transform your role as a leader. You’ll hear: The three growt...

08-27
41:31

Scaling Your Business Without Breaking It: 4 Steps to Stabilize Growth

Is your business growing—but instead of celebrating, you feel like you’re drowning? If sales are pouring in but your systems, team, and sanity can’t keep up, you’re not alone. Growth can feel messy, chaotic, and overwhelming—but it doesn’t have to stay that way. In this episode of The Opt-In Podcast, Melissa Franks, your On-Call COO, breaks down why growth often feels like chaos and how to stabilize while you scale. She shares real-world stories of clients in both explosive growth and major t...

08-20
34:13

Gen Z in the Workforce: Mentors, Not Myths

Gen Z is stepping into the workforce—and the conversation about them is louder than ever. Are they ready? Or is the real question whether we’re ready to welcome them? In this episode, Melissa shares the behind-the-scenes story of a viral interview that landed her insights in Entrepreneur, Yahoo, and media outlets across the globe. She challenges the idea that Gen Z needs “fixing” through etiquette coaching alone and instead makes the case for mentorship, guidance, and an open mind. Melissa co...

08-13
37:25

CEO Energy vs. Employee Energy: Are You Leading or Just Doing?

In this episode, Melissa challenges business owners to take an honest look at how they show up in their businesses. Are you bringing CEO energy—strategic, intentional, and future-focused—or are you operating with employee energy—reactive, task-oriented, and stuck in the weeds? Melissa draws on her experience as a former co-CEO, Fractional COO, and current business owner to break down the key differences between leading and doing. You'll learn why staying in the trenches stunts growth, how to ...

08-06
32:25

Stop Doing It All: The Hidden Cost of DIY in a Scaling Business

Are you still the one writing SOPs in your multi-six or seven-figure business? Then this episode is your wake-up call. Melissa returns with a no-holds-barred look at the true cost of doing everything yourself—especially once you’re no longer a solopreneur. From million-dollar mistakes in the corporate world to time-sucking $10 tasks in your own business, Melissa unpacks how DIY can silently stall your growth, drain your energy, and leave money on the table. You’ll learn: Why "just doing it yo...

07-30
32:36

The Smart Way to Return from Vacation Without Wreaking Havoc on Your Business

In this second episode of the summer vacation series, Melissa tackles what most business owners don’t plan for—how to re-enter your business after time away. Melissa walks you through exactly how to avoid chaos, confusion, and burnout when returning from vacation, and how to turn your re-entry into an opportunity for growth—for both you and your team. You’ll learn: Why cannonballing back into your business creates unnecessary wavesHow to build in a “soft landing” day that sets t...

07-16
25:12

How to Unplug: The Business Owner’s Guide to Guilt-Free Vacation

Are you dreaming of a real vacation—but worried your business will fall apart without you? In this episode, Melissa shares her tried-and-true method for actually stepping away from your business without stress, guilt, or chaos. As a single mom of three and a small business owner who used to skip vacations out of fear, Melissa now takes multiple breaks a year—and the business keeps thriving. Tune in to hear the exact framework she’s using right now to unplug confidently. &n...

07-09
24:03

Stop Saying Yes to Bad Revenue: The Real Cost of Misaligned Work

Have you ever taken on a project just because the money was good—even though your gut said "no"? You're not alone. In this episode, Melissa breaks down the high price of bad revenue and why saying “yes” to misaligned opportunities can quietly erode your business from the inside out. Melissa shares a candid story from her own early consulting days and outlines: What bad revenue really means—and how to recognize itThe emotional and financial toll it takes on your businessThe mind...

07-02
37:23

Make CEO-Level Decisions Faster: The Filters That Create Forward Momentum

In today’s episode, Melissa breaks down one of the most misunderstood pieces of business advice: “Wealth loves speed.” But what does that really mean for CEOs and business owners making decisions in real time? Spoiler: it’s not about rushing recklessly—it's about moving with clarity and confidence. In this episode, you'll learn: ✅ Why “speed” in business is not the same as “rushed” ✅ The 3 essential filters every CEO must run decisions through ✅ How clarity—not certainty—is the ...

06-25
29:43

8 Signs It’s Time to Hire a Fractional COO (and How to Find the Right One)

In this episode, Melissa dives deep into one of the most common (and crucial) questions she gets asked: How do I know when it's time to hire a fractional COO? From being the bottleneck in your business to feeling scared to scale, Melissa shares the top 8 signs that signal it's time to bring in experienced operational leadership — and what to look for when vetting a fractional executive. You’ll learn: What a fractional COO actually does (and doesn’t do)Why seasoned operations support is...

06-18
33:17

Why Every Entrepreneur Needs a Personal Brand—Even If You’re a Private Person

In this episode, Melissa gets real about the power—and necessity—of building a personal brand, whether you're climbing the corporate ladder or scaling your own business. Sharing personal stories from her first corporate training at 22 to landing billboards in Times Square, Melissa breaks down why your personal brand isn’t just a marketing tactic—it’s your reputation, your legacy, and your secret weapon for future-proofing your career. You’ll walk away knowing: Why a personal brand is a...

06-11
29:06

Summer-Proof Your Business: 7 Ways to Prep Your Team for a Strong Season

In this episode, Melissa shares seven actionable ways to get your business—and your team—ready for the summer months. Whether summer is a busy season or a slow one for your business, the way you prepare can make all the difference in performance, morale, and momentum going into fall. Melissa walks you through how to anticipate seasonal shifts, implement flexible schedules without sacrificing accountability, and set your team up for both rest and results. You'll learn how t...

06-04
29:23

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