Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

What am I most famous for? Lifting a surfboard at Venice Beach, a chandelier in Piazza san Marco in Venice and a piece of the Berlin Wall. At the Berlin Wall. With my vagina. A lot of you have heard of me because… my vagina precedes me. It travels around the world, surfing, sunning, orgasming. And lifting objects indigenous to various regions. All to showcase just what vaginas can do. It’s my assertion that the NORMAL healthy baseline for EVERY vagina is to be able to have multiple orgasms on demand, ejaculate across the room, have a ravenous libido, shoot ping pong balls and lift household furniture. Yes. This is NORMAL. EVERY vagina can. In this episode: Eliminating 20 years of urinary incontinence in one week Why are 60% of American women incontinent? Why Kegels DON’T work and what does Why are so many women deathly afraid of trampolines? Numb vagina = low libido Vaginal orgasms come easily with a strong vagina Powerful vaginas ejaculate across the room The number one physical reason for lack of lubrication Every woman can shoot vaginal ping pong balls. I guarantee it.

In my work as a sexologist and a holistic sex and relationship coach—indeed, as the pioneer of the genre—I’m always coming across serious myths and misinformation online about all things sexual. Some of it is truly shocking! Not only is this information totally wrong, but I’d venture to say that many of these concepts and their attendant so-called “remedies” are massive scams. We have an epidemic of snake oil sellers these days. Join me in today’s episode as we unmask some dark corners of the internet and unveil some of the true criminals and purveyors of sex hoaxes out there.

I’ve had some of the best sex of my life during my period. What makes this psychedelic portal so sexy and sacred to share with a partner? In this episode: 7 reasons why period sex is THE BESTAre women more ravenous during their periods? It’s psychedelic, baby! Cervical portals and inter-dimensional travelMasculine warriors and blood The male/female sexual quid pro quo I can’t stand it when he showers Taboo-smashing for the win 

No Nut November: A worthy pursuit? We discuss: Semen retention NoFap Orgasm without ejaculation The remedy for “blue balls” To porn or not to porn Running marathons—and even ultramarathons—after sex, giving a whole new twist on “Have LOTS of sex before the big game” If you want to dive deeper into the whole Orgasm without Ejaculation topic, also check these episodes where I interview a Well-F**ked All Star who mastered the technique:  Semen Retention: What’s All the Fuss? Season 6, Episode 25 All Men Can Orgasm without Ejaculation: Season 4, Episode 28 And of course, check out Anthony’s episode: Marathon Man, Marathon Cock: Season  5, Episode 26And of course, I deliver the goods on how to DO this in my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon and in the Coming Together for Couples Salon.You can find my full salon programme here. You can signup for free video series and get on the waitlist to be notified of when we open each of these salons again.

Who's yo daddy?? “Oh no! Some old men won’t let me use my uterus the way I want to!” Every few years, this issue becomes a hot topic, and people get their panties in a bunch. Why on earth did you give your reproductive power to a bunch of old men? And to be fair, some women too. It always floors me to hear so-called feminists and “women’s rights activists” who claim to be all about women’s empowerment, lament how they have no power.  Because they’ve given it all away. There is another approach. You can maintain your reproductive sovereignty and control over your own body.  Let’s discuss: The illusion that someone else controls your body The constant in-doctor-nation telling women they need someone else to tell them what to do What does it look like to be an actual self and sexually empowered woman. Owning and taking responsibility for your reproductive and sexual sovereignty—the opposite of OUTSOURCING it to imaginary authorities.NOTE: this episode is the audio replay of an Instagram LIVE I did. You can watch the video here. 

Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious.  Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of your life. We’re all about orgasmic enlightenment in these parts.  Sex is alchemy. It’s transformation. It’s taking your base parts and fusing them into gold. You can use sex to help you to move through challenges and emotional and physical pain.In this episode: How I f**ked my way out of a brutal breakup Metabolizing stuck energy to lose weight Conscious vs. unconscious sex Science agrees: f**king your pain away is backed by “studies” How I created one of my most signature pieces of work; via my vagina Find my step-by-step, Meditate, Masturbate, Create sequence here. 

One of the biggest sex and relationship myths out there is the notion that lifelong sex is an impossibility. In today’s episode, I’m speaking to Well-Fucked All Star Jeff, of the Well-Fucked Couple Jeff and Jen. They did a year of Anami, where they signed up for all of my courses and dedicated themselves to up-levelling their sex lives. They’ve been together for 30 years. And the sex is hotter. Than. Ever. In our conversation he shares what Anami Well-F**ked Way of Life concepts they’ve taken on and now live by. We talk: Scheduling sex dates and multi-day sex weekend adventures Communication = lubrication Making your sex life a priority and realizing how much it feeds your entire life Overcoming Madonna/whoreLosing weight on the Anami Sex Diet: Minus 46 well-f**ked poundsMale G-Spot orgasm accelerator  Superstar, unflappable stamina Alpha male, alpha female: how do you keep polarity going? SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN begins this week! In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:How to build Superstar stamina to last for hours.How to own your masculine power and drive and use your sexual energy to boost your business and income.Master everything from communication to vaginal orgasm techniques to make your woman well-f**ked.How to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flowHow to “man up” in today’s anti-masculine climate.Plus, you'll receive my G-Spot Ecstasy Salonette as a special bonus at the end of the salon.Jump in. You—and your woman—will ride this wave for years to come.Sign up here.

What Is a Pussy Whisperer? A man who knows his way around a woman and a pussy.  He coaxes that pussy into openness and orgasms. In today’s episode we have a compilation of some great Well-F**ked All Star pussy whispering clips and they’ll share their own secrets to success. And I’ll give you the 7 Golden Rules of Pussy Whispering. **If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, which is open NOW! In my 8-week online program, you'll learn:How to become the ultimate pussy whispererSuperstar stamina and breathing techniques to last as long as you want Testicle and cock massage for boosting testosterone and increasing length, strength and girthTutorials for bringing her to G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasms How to occupy your uber-masculine energy in bed and in life And so much more.Signup now: Sexual Mastery for Men. 

No, men, I am NOT coming for your orgasm. In fact, I want you to have better, bigger, wilder orgasms that get you high. And also: Make you more money and advance your career Make you more alpha and less betaIncrease your Axe-Factor attractiveness to womenBoost your fitness and make you able to pump harder at the gymMake you into a legendary Supercock who can go for hours and deliver multiple, life-changing orgasms to your womanYou in? So how do you do it? Orgasm without ejaculation.Yes, you can. Every man can.In today’s episode I speak with Sexual Mastery for Men alumni and Well-F**ked All Star Todd. He mastered orgasm without ejaculation in the salon and now has:   Unlimited staminaWhole-body orgasms that last for hours WITHOUT ejaculation: “I thought my head was going to explode!” Three-hour continuous orgasms with his woman and five hours of aftershocksTODD: “It got to the point where the sex could be better every time; even if you thought it was the best sex you’d ever had, the next time would be a level beyond that. Unless you experience it, you don’t even know it exists. I mean, it’s just crazy, the level of energy you can cultivate.”If you’re ready to become a legendary Supercock slayer in all areas of your life, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon!In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:Orgasms without ejaculation: every man canHow to last longer in bed and have complete controlHow to use your sexual energy as a power source, increasing your vitality, confidence and cash flowOrganically grown cock: boost your length, girth and strengthOrgasmapedia: the guide to all female orgasmsOwning your dominant, divine and dark masculine energyEverything you need to level up in your sexual mastery and dominate in your life!Signup now. 

There are a LOT of potential reasons—plural!—why your woman doesn’t want to have sex with you. Contrary to popular social programming, women are sexually voracious. Insatiable even. Once you turn them on and open them up, they are a well that never runs dry. So why isn’t your woman voracious with you? Find out in today’s episode. Sexual Mastery for Men is opening for registration at the end of August.In this 8-week online salon you’ll learn:Superstar stamina and breathing techniques to last as long as you want: a minimum of an hour—some men master this in a few daysTesticle and cock massage for boosting testosterone and increasing length, strength and girthTutorials for bringing her to G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasmsHow to occupy your uber-masculine energy in bed and in lifeAnd much more!Go to Sexual Mastery for Men.You can take the quiz: Are you a Supercock? And receive the sexual mastery for men free video series and also be notified of when the salon opens.

What happens when you inhabit your masculine strength and power? You also inhabit your cock. Because you know—what you focus on grows. As you show up in your life and you start bending it over and pulling it by the hair and having your way with it, life opens up to you. Your woman opens up to you. When you put in the time and effort to transform yourself from a Two-Pump Chump—or whatever underfucked version of yourself you are—into a Supercock, your entire life changes. Just ask Ethan.His wife was going to leave him and that was the kick in the ass he needed to get in gear. And did he. So many epic life changes in a short period of time: “I more than doubled in size and became solid as a rock”From lasting 2-10 minutes to 1 hour within weeks Constant nagging to daily shagging“Banking” sexual energy and feeling like going to the gym after having sex From beta boy to alpha, masculine man “10 kilos fell off me and I went from a gut to abs in weeks - no diet change.”Prioritizing gourmet sex and three-hour sex dates—with four kidsManifesting a salary raise of double. “Was this because of the two and a half hour sex date the night before??”ETHAN: If you bend her over and do it properly, you get a happy wife.KIM: How often are you having sex?ETHAN: Exorbitant amounts. Is that a lot?Find out what it's like to be a Supercock, in bed and in life. In my premier guide to all things sexual for men, you'll learn:  What supercock lovers know that other men don't;The various orgasms for women and techniques for how to get there;Daily practices to open your woman and keep her sexual simmer going;How to increase your sexual stamina so that you are able to go the distance with her;Cock lengthening, strengthening and pelvic weight lifting exercises to "super-size" and increase your—and her—orgasmic pleasure;How to occupy your masculine power in life, bed and cock;And much more!Take the quiz 'Are you a Supercock?', and get notified when the salon opens! 

When your woman is resistant to going deeper with you emotionally and sexually, what can you do? How do you open her?In today’s episode, Matt shares his story of meeting his wife-to-be as a virgin and from a repressed cultural upbringing and how she blossomed into a gushing, salacious “I love getting on my knees for you” insatiable cock monster. We discuss: - Top 5 tips to turn your woman into an insatiable cock monster - Aligning your cock and your heart - Holding space for your woman - Using your cock magic wand to manifest women, career opportunities and wealth- Cultivating sexual and  masculine confidence, making you unstoppable in everything - Unblocking her with your cock - A post-porn life“Any block that’s in front of me, I go through. With my cock.”For any woman whose ever felt that there “just aren’t any good, conscious men out there!”—and we hear that a lot!—this episode is for you. Matt is so solid in his masculine presence and desire to open and support his woman, that hearing him is truly inspiring and will restore your faith in what’s possible in relationship!  And YES, there are plenty of great men out there—especially Anami Alumni, haha. **SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN SALON: Registration opens August 28thIf you’re ready to become a legendary Pussy Whisperer, check out my Sexual Mastery for Men Salon, which opens for registration at the end of August.In my 8-week online program for men, you'll learn:Superstar stamina and breathing techniques to last as long as you wantTesticle and cock massage for boosting testosterone and increasing length, strength and girthTutorials for bringing her to G-Spot, squirting and cervical orgasmsHow to occupy your uber-masculine energy in bed and in lifeTake the quiz 'Are you a Supercock', and get notified when the salon opens! 

How to be irresistible. What’s the milkshake that brings all the boys to the yard? How can you draw good things to you in your life? In our Well-F**ked all star adventures we hear of men crossing eight lanes of traffic to ask a woman for her number. Or making websites just to ask them on dates. Yes. All true stories. So what is this uber-attractive quality and how do you get it? It’s definitely something you can create within yourself. But it’s not any kind of 8-step beauty routine or gua shua secrets or special hair serum formula. Nope. It comes from within. Deep within. Like, vagina deep. In this episode: 5 keys to creating irresistibility Magnetic vaginas for all Eau de Well-F**ked Woman: the ultimate perfume Vaginal orgasms and the secrets of the universe Magically attract bucketloads of cash, men and jobs without doing anything “different.”Feminine flow: doing less and creating more If you’d like to go deeper into all things orgasms, signup for my free Orgasmapedia series where you’ll learn about 9 different types of orgasms EVERYONE can have. Go to kimanami.com and you’ll see the signup there. Come one, come all! 

Who does it better? Ozempic? Or Anami-style gourmet sex? In today’s episode: Anami Weight Loss RecipeMy secret to a flat belly Which orgasms are best for weight loss The alchemy of orgasms and their trauma-clearing potential Featuring Alexa who lost 76 pounds: “The weight just dropped off”. She also evaporated a throat and vaginal cyst And Robin who lost 60 pounds through alchemizing her issues: in her bed and vagina. Anami-style alchemical sex transforms your excess “weight” faster than anything else. Come and get it. ** In the Well-Fucked Woman Salon, you’ll learn all the tools you need to channel your sexual energy and use it for it’s true purpose: as pro-creative energy you can use to heal, alchemize and build your life and body with. You’ll learn: How to have the life-changing cervical, G-Spot and squirting orgasms. How to own and heal your dissociated parts How to become unfuckwithable How to transform your sexual energy into creative energy Self-pleasuring practices so you’ll never be underf**ked again All of my cock-whsipering tecnqhines to bring your man to his knees And much more. The Well-F**ked Woman Salon is open now! And then it’s gone again until 2025. Signup now. 

It's never too late to be a multi-orgasmic, lubricating and ejaculating well-f**ked woman.   Today’s Well-F**ked All Star is Michelle. At the age of 60, she left a stifling 40-year marriage. A year later, at 61, she’s the most well-f**ked she’s ever been in her life. I LOVE hearing when people have the courage to leave something that deep down they know isn’t good for them. Despite finances, social standing, children, public opinion. They do it anyway. If you find yourself in a situation where you aren’t sure you have what it takes to propel yourself into a new life, this episode is for you. This woman is wild as f*ck and has some of the best sexual descriptions I’ve ever heard: “There was always a gallon of lube by our bed. Now, with my new man, all I have to do is talk to him on the telephone, and I’m dripping down to my knees. “What the fuck is that?” I mean, it is absolutely amazing.”We talk:  Radical income jump during the WFW Salon: “I had a $100k month!”Being a strong woman and needing to be “taken” by an even stronger manTwo-hour blow job sessions: “I’m loving it. I’m dripping on the bed!” First ever cervical orgasms at age 60 Processing 41 years of trauma and anxiety through the healing power of sex Getting ass-f**ked all over Alabama Non-negotiable “Fuck Fridays”Leaving a 40-year marriage to become a well-f**ked woman “I’m 61, and I’m telling you, it’s never too late to go grab it.” In the Well-F**ked Woman Salon, my 10-week, online signature salon for women that shows you how to be well-fucked at every age and stage, including menopause and far beyond:We cover much of what Michelle and I talked about:How you can be dripping wet just from hearing the voice of your loverSurrender to activate your feminine magnetism and generate cash My cock whispering secrets to ecstatic blow jobs, deep throating, anal play and manual techniques to bring him to his kneesHow to have the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, squirting and cervicalAnd much more!The salon begins next week!Are you coming?!

One of the holy grails in the sexual queendom is squirting. This is a necessary life skill for women and one that ALL women can cultivate. The Anami Guarantee is that EVERY woman can hit the ceiling with her ejaculate. Her “amrita” is like cosmic manifesting dust that gets shot over her whole life, imbuing it with a kind of radiance and magnetism that draws everything to her. Once you awaken your vaginal superpowers, and you “come to” within yourself, the world “comes to you”. Today’s guest is our youngest ever all-star. She’s 22 and she started this work with me last year when she was 21. I felt like I was talking to a younger version of ME!  She blew my fucking mind and she’s bombshell as fuck. Indomitable. She’s dropping non-stop bombs in our conversation. We talk: “I have attracted so many men in my life it's actually crazy. They gravitate towards me and I do little to no effort.”Falling in love with her breasts and how they grew a cup size.“I can have an orgasm without touching myself.”“My libido is higher than ever. I just feel constantly aroused.”“My income doubled and without really trying or wanting to."The power and confidence of unfuckwithabiltiy and how it silences the naysayers “I sunbathe naked, in my garden and topless on public beaches and lakes. People are staring, but I simply don't give a fuck anymore.”Being guided by your “pussy spark” of turn on And of course, the magical secrets of squirting and how your literal juiciness creates your life. This is a mind and vagina-blowing episode. Hands down, one of my favorites. Tia started her journey with me in the How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salon. This is my 10-week, how to live, love and orgasm in a female body education where I've compiled the best of my 30 years of orgasmic experience (!) to take you over the edge into a lifetime of bliss. The sex school everyone ought to receive, but did not! And it’s open for registration now! In it, you’ll learn:   - Instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirting- Self-pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative genius and cash that falls into your lap - How to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portals- Using your feminine essence to build a life of ease and pleasure- Breast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breasts- How to give your man enlightened blow jobs and hand jobsThe salon only runs once a year, and it’s open for the next two weeks! Come and get it.

If your orgasms aren't changing your life, are you even having sex?In Anami Land, your sex dates become sacred, set-in-stone, non-negotiable parts of your life, because you know the benefits they bring. They are your sanctuary, refuelling station, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety pill, creative inspiration and cash generators all at once. There is no better all-in-one panacea. Once you realize that if you are feeling tired, or sad, or overweight, or broke, the best remedy is to orgasm your way out of it, you never go back. Because you see how your sexual energy impacts every part of your life. In today’s Well-F**ked All Star interview, we’re speaking with Maureen. She originally found me because she was looking for an alternative to the menopause narrative and wasn’t interested in taking hormones for the rest of her life. We explore: Great sex = more cash. Want abundance? Have better, Anami-style sex. HRT, organ removal and menopausal woes vs. being well-f**ked and multi-orgasmic in Anami Land Why isn’t everyone having G-Spot orgasms? Sacred sex and God: growing up in the Bible belt and deconstructing childhood beliefs and reconciling being a voraciously sexual woman with the her spiritual path.Passing on healthier sexual ideals to our children Oral sex and swallowing fluids leading to bursts of creative genius Surrendering sexually and spiritually: same same Sign up for my FREE 7-Day Bombshell Bootcamp!Increase your sexual magnetism, orgasm potential and unf*ckwithable factor! You'll learn: Reclaiming your sexuality through self-pleasureBecoming a master of your sexual energy, using it to magnetize the most potent opportunitiesThe truth to achieving financial success as a femaleHow ‘cock love’ can transform your relationship and your bank accountHow to embrace your breasts and bring them back to life as an orgasmic pleasure sourceAll the deeper, life-changing, soul-stretching vaginal orgasms

We’ve all heard the expressions: “Tight ass.”“They’ve got a real stick up their ass.”This is legit urban slang meets deep psychological truth. These people actually DO need something shoved up their ass. Anal orgasms are very similar to cervical orgasms in women. They are transcendent, deep and cosmic. In men, the G-Spot is the prostate gland, conveniently located in the ass. It acts as a turbo-booster, deepening the pleasure and the physical—and emotional—intensity of orgasm. In Anami Land, we look at how to use sex acts as ecstasy AND consciousness-expanding vehicles.In today’s episode we chat with Well-F**ked All Atar Natalia from her native Poland.She was a woman who didn’t think The Anami Guarantee, which is “All orgasms for all women” would apply to her.  She was wrong. In this episode: Anal sex as meditation, to amplify creativity, confidence and flow and the ultimate public speaking tool Falling in love with cock: “Oh my God, I really want to give him another blow job!” The pussy barometer and GPS guiding you toward all things good Cervical orgasms and deep emotional release. Who needs therapy?My legendary WFW salon opens at the end of June. In this 10-week online program, you’ll learn all the secrets of anal, cervical, breast and throat enlightenment. We also cover:  Self-pleasuring 101Cock whispering oral and manual pleasuring techniques for your manBreast massage to tone, lift and activate the orgasmic potential of the breastsHow to use the power of surrender and your feminine energy to manifest everything you want in your life, so that it feels effortless and like it’s falling into your lap—because your lap it what attracts it! And much more. To check out the free preview video series and be notified of when we open registration for the salon, go to How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman.

When you give yourself ALL the fucks, you have no fucks left to give. I always say that one of the hallmarks of becoming a well-fucked woman—or a well-fucked man—is that you reach the pinnacle stage of not giving a fuck what anyone thinks of you. You have such clarity in your own truth, AND the confidence to act upon it in your life, that you give zero fucks about what anyone thinks about you. You aren’t TRYING not to care. You just DON’T care. All of your fucks are directed to the right place: you and your partner. That’s it. That’s the magic secret. WHY is this? In this episode: Why being well-f**ked makes you unfuckwithable No apologies, muthafuckers How I’ve dealt with troll and underfucked orc attacksMaking unfuckwithable choices, like knowing you have to leave a relationship, still loving them, but finding the strength to leave anyway Energy orgasms without touch Breast massage unlocking feminine energy Revenue tripling within a month from sexual awakening Attracting the “no excuses” crowd The lie of menopause Listening to the fourth brain of you pussy-gut-pussyMy legendary How to Be a Well-Fucked Woman Salon opens in a few weeks. This is my 10-week online program in all things female sexuality where you learn how to give all the fucks to yourself and your partner with: Self-Pleasuring 101 and how to channel sexual energy into creative geniusCock whispering oral, manual and sex position techniquesBreast and yoni massage routines How to surrender and inhabit your feminine energy to build a life of ease and pleasureHow to transform challenging menstruation, PMS and menopause into blissful portalsStep-by-step instructions for the deeper vaginal orgasms: G-Spot, cervical and squirtingAnd through all of this, become utterly UN-FUCK-WITH-ABLE. You can check out the free video preview series and take the quiz and find out ARE YOU UNDERFUCKED?  Go to How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman. 

I’ve recently been on a transformative fitness journey and am now in the best shape of my life.Today’s episode is a personal share on:How I became fit as f**kAll things aging, or rather, anti-agingMy personal heroesMy diet and exercise routine80 is the new 50What I say to people who ask me to post pictures of “normal” people’s bodies*** My legendary Well-F**ked Woman Salon opens for registration at the end of this month. This is the Anami guide to ALL things “as f**k”: Orgasmic as f**kFeminine as f**k Sensual as f**k Creative as f**k And of course, not giving a f**kIn the meantime, you can check out the free How to Be a Well-Fucked Woman video series and take the very enlightening quiz: Are you underf**ked?