Out of Crazytown: Your Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist

In this episode, we explore "The Belief Equation" by Dr. Peter Salerno, author of The Belief Equation and The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism. Dr. Salerno breaks down the powerful formula T+E = Beliefs, where our thoughts plus emotions shape the beliefs we hold about ourselves and the world around us. Often, abuse and trauma leave us with limiting beliefs that keep us from living a joyful, fulfilling life. Dr. Salerno explains how understanding and transforming these beliefs can help us reclaim the life we deserve. Tune in to learn how to rewire your mindset and embrace the future you were meant to live. The Belief Equation Nature and Nurture of Narcissism Dr. Salerno's Website Dr. Salerno's Instagram DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.     

Dr. Chrisitne Cocchiola and Amy Polacko discuss their new book, Framed, which shares stories that are five-alarm warnings from real women around the world. These two authors are survivors of domestic abuse themselves and wrote this book to expose the atrocities of the family court underworld and provide women with validation and education as well.  Pre-order the book NOW! Available Oct. 1st.  Barnes & Noble Amazon Dr. Cocchiola's Website Amy Polacko's Website DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Dr. Caroline Giroux, MD, a Professor of Psychiatry at UC Davis, is a renowned expert in trauma treatment. She provides valuable insights into the tools and strategies we can incorporate to build resilience after enduring narcissistic abuse. Dr. Giroux delves into the common traps and pitfalls encountered when navigating post-separation abuse and offers guidance on how to protect ourselves from the manipulative tactics of abusers designed to leave us debilitated by stress and anxiety. By understanding these dynamics, we can better equip ourselves to recover and thrive despite the challenges posed by our abusers. About Dr. Caroline Giroux An Essay on Journaling by Dr. Caroline Giroux Dr. Caroline Giroux's Blog-33 Secret Joys DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.  

Julie Myers was head coach of the women's lacrosse team at the University of Virginia for 31 years. One season, she received a call that one of her players, Yeardly Love, had been killed by her ex-boyfriend. Julie Myers is now the CEO of One Love, a foundation that was founded to honor the tragic death of Yeardley Love by engaging young people through compelling, relatable films and honest conversations around healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors. Listen in to find out more about the tragic death of Yeardly Love and how her family turned her tragedy into an opportunity to teach youth about unhealthy relationships. Get in touch with a peer advocate by texting LOVEIS or 22522 Live discreet confidential chat service The Story Behind One Love Join One Love One Love Instagram One Love Twitter (X) One Love TikTok One Love Facebook One Love YouTube Escalation Workshop Buy One Love Merchandise DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Vanessa Reiser, LCSW, talks about her new book "Narcissistic Abuse" A Therapist's Guide to Escaping and Healing from Toxic and Manipulative People. We dive into how narcissists operate and how to identify their dangerous behaviors, as well as the Cult tactics they use to establish mind control over their victims. Vanessa Reiser - Instagram Vanessa's Book Vanessa Reiser - Facebook Tell A Therapist Vanessa's Run to Raise Awareness about Narcissistic Abuse Vanessa Reiser - Tik Tok DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert on coercive control, joins me again to discuss the tragic abuse coercive controllers exert on their children and how protective parents can navigate this difficult situation.  Dr. Cocchiola also has fantastic resources for protective parents, coaches, advocates, and attorneys.  This is a must-listen episode for many parents who are co-parenting with a coercive controller.   Dr. Cocchiola's Website Perfect Prey Podcast Protective Parenting Program Where is Your Line? Love is not Control Coach and Ally Training Dr. Cocchiola Instagram FRAMED Book. Subscribe to find out more DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Singer. Songwriter. Entrepreneur. Author. Stephanie Quayle got a phone call that would change her life forever.  Her boyfriend died in a plane crash, but the real story only begins from there. As events unfolded after his death, Stephanie realized just how toxic her relationship was and, among other things, how she was not the only woman in his life.  👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼 Order Stephanie's Book. WHY DO WE STAY? Stephanie Quayle Website Stephanie Quayle Facebook Stephanie Quayle Instagram Stephanie Quayle X Stephanie Quayle YouTube Stephanie Quayle TikTok Stephanie Quayle Apple Music Stephanie Quayle Spotify DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.     

Energy Psychology is an innovative discipline that targets unresolved trauma. Nancy Forrester is the Founder and Executive Director of the National EFT Training Institute, pioneering the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) for trauma therapy. Join Nancy as she shares her remarkable journey and the establishment of an institute to educate professionals on treating unresolved trauma. This conversation is sure to captivate you just as it did for me. Check out the NeftTI Here: ➡️National EFT Training Institute Free Video Series on Conscious EFT, Register Here: ➡️Concious EFT Video Series Nancy Forrester on Facebook ➡️Nancy Forrester FB DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.     

In this episode, Vanessa Reiser, LCSW, recounts her escape from an abusive relationship and the remarkable feat of running 285 miles across New York to spotlight narcissistic abuse awareness. Delving into her journey, she also shares insights from her book, providing a guide for others on escaping and healing from the complexities of narcissistic abuse. .Vanessa's Book Tell A Therapist Jackie's Website DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Courtney Gilmartin is the co-founder of New Jersey Protective Moms, a non-profit dedicated to preventing child abuse. Courtney continues to suffer post-separation abuse in a 7-year ordeal dealing with custody and financial issues. She has used her experience to fuel her passion for making a difference in New Jersey law regarding coercive control and making child safety a priority in the family court system.  New Jersey Protective Moms .Vanessa's Book Tell A Therapist Jackie's Website DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.  

Kate Anthony is back, and we discuss her new book, The D Word. Kate and I delve into what good looks like in marriage and discuss various chapters in her book. Readers get the support and guidance they need to decide if they should stay or go when contemplating divorce. Kate Anthony Website The D Word Kate Anthony Instagram The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

How much spousal support will you get? Do you need help to get a straight answer? Family Law Attorney Jon Summers explains the many factors in deciding spousal support. There are many elements to calculating spousal support, and you will be surprised to learn things such as it's not just how much money the earning spouse made but HOW they made it and WHEN they got paid that can significantly impact what you can settle for. Listen in as one of the best family law attorneys in Los Angeles helps us understand this complex subject. Summers Levine Law DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Are you caught in the tortuous machine called Family Court?  Annie Kenny is the Board President of Family Court Awareness Month.  Annie shares her devastating personal story of how the family court system failed her children. This episode explores how we can all play a part, big or small, in changing the system to protect our kids. www.familycourtawarenessmonth.org FCAM Instagram Bloom Consulting Solutions DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.     

  Kelli Avallone is a family law attorney who specializes in high-conflict divorce.  It is essential to know how family court professionals think, and the reality of family court can be shocking. Kelli is here to shoot it to us straight and give us the cold, hard truth about family court. You can find out more about Kelli at Kelli Avallone  DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Dr. Nadine Macaluso has become the Trauma Bond Whisperer after enduring eight tumultuous years in a marriage to Jordan Belfort, the Wolf of Wall Street. Now a trauma bond expert, Dr. Nae has become a global source of wisdom and hope for women recovering from pathological partnerships. Dr. Nae's book Run Like Hell is a therapist's guide to recognizing, escaping, and healing from trauma bonds.   Order RUN LIKE HELL Dr. Nae Website Dr. Nae Instagram Dr. Nae Tik Tok DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

👀Check out my NEW program, Freedom & Flourish, the ONLY 8-week group coaching program focused on overcoming and thriving after post-separation abuse. Sign Up for Freedom & Flourish Kate Anthony describes the often painful journey of deciding whether or not to leave a difficult marriage. The idea of divorce is overwhelming, and knowing how to leave an abusive relationship takes research and careful planning. Listen in as we discuss the how and why of deciding on divorce and learn about some great programs that can help you on your journey. www.kateanthony.com DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Phoenix Gould is an expert on healing from narcissistic abuse. When co-parenting with a narcissistic ex gives them too much access to you, parallel parenting is the only way forward. Join us as we talk about how you can stop being FUEL for your narcissistic ex. www.facebook.com/phoenixcorecoaching   DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.     

Caroline Giroux, MD, is a psychiatrist specializing in trauma and a professor at UC Davis.  Dr.  Giroux discusses the various forms of gaslighting and its devastating effects on its victims.  If you have suffered trauma from gaslighting, Dr. Giroux will help you both understand this form of abuse and how you can heal.   DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.   

Filing for a move-away order in the Family Court System can be tricky.  Family Law Attorney Adam Schanz tackles this complicated and often confusing process and also reveals how it can backfire. www.aschanzlaw.com DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION. 

Dr. Justine Weber discusses a very sensitive topic about a form of abuse that is shrouded in shame and secrecy....SEXUAL ABUSE.  In narcissistic relationships, sexual abuse is meant to humiliate, manipulate and control intimate partners and often goes on for years unchecked.  This episode aims to educate victims and give them support and validation. www.drjustineweber.com Order Justine's Book: How the F*ck do I Heal from This? Dr. Justine Weber Instagram Dr. Justine Weber Tik Tok DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS STATED ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE SPECIFIC TO YOUR SITUATION.