PSR Podcast

<p>Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at <a href="http://DoctorMarriage.org" rel="nofollow">DoctorMarriage.org</a>. </p><p>If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at <a href="mailto:psr@bebroken.org" rel="nofollow">psr@bebroken.org</a> or message us <a href="https://x.com/puresexradio" rel="nofollow">@puresexradio</a> on X. Access video version on <a href="https://vimeo.com/channels/psrpodcast" rel="nofollow">Vimeo</a>.</p>

A Thank You Letter from a Repentant Husband

What does "waking up" look like for a husband who is recovering from sexual sin habits? And how can this waking up cause him to respond radically different to his wife and marriage? In this episode, we get to share a "thank you" letter that a repentant husband wrote to his wife, and what his words can reveal about the kinds of changes that need to happen in a husband if restoration is even to be possible.Excerpt from the letter:"Thank you for fighting for me, for yourself, for us. Even today you are still trying to save me. I fought you, I fought God, I fought myself. I hurt me, I hurt you, I hurt the heart of God. Through it all, you never stopped fighting for me. How can I thank you?"For the full text of the letter, go to TYLetter.PureSexRadio.com. Resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.comResources for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.com

02-09
28:37

How to Help Someone See Their Brokenness

All of us have a broken emotional system. There are many factors that contribute to such brokenness. And friends and family might recognize this brokenness, but how can they help you see this brokenness for yourself? In this episode, we offer specific insights and practical tools to help your loved ones see their brokenness so that greater intimacy and emotional health can result. We hope this conversation will open new chapters of emotional intimacy in your most valued relationships.Book: Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith

03-23
30:17

How Can I Lead Others When I Can't Lead Myself?

Register for Xposed Conference!When: THIS Saturday, February 24th (join in person or online)Xposed is an annual event to help pastors, ministry leaders, counselors, and individuals navigate sensitive sexual issues and equip them to care for their communities regarding God’s design for sex.Register Online (use coupon code XP24-BBM for discount)-----------Many men struggle deeply with their godly responsibilities of leadership, especially in the home, because they aren’t even managing themselves very well. In this episode, Stephen brings a letter from a leader that is meant to be representative of most men who struggle with this internal conflict of leadership calling and poor self-management. This letter addresses issues like: Dividedness and hypocrisyWearing masks to cover fear and shamePoor or non-existent emotional skillsWeariness and hopelessnessFor any man who can relate to what is shared in this letter, there is hope for transformation. You can become the man and leader God designed you to be. For helpful resources to enhance your godly manhood and marriage skills, visit DoctorMarriage.org.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive49 Days of Growth by Stephen Cervantes*Daily Thoughts from Doctor MarriageRelated Podcasts:Helping Men Navigate Between Logic and EmotionA 7 Day Challenge for Emotional GrowthAre You Open or Closed to Emotional Growth*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

02-21
30:47

The Importance of "Whole Man" Recovery

Today’s guest is Matt Wenger, the clinical director of Boulder Recovery in Boulder, Colorado. Matt has a heart for helping men overcome all kinds of unwanted sexual behaviors by addressing the whole man, including trauma from his past. In today’s episode, we talk about recovery as a means and environment for addressing all aspects of a man: his emotions, spirit, intellect, and body. True recovery is far more than just stopping negative behaviors; it is addressing the overall person to affect healthy personal growth and loving relationships. Matt shares common elements that often lead a man toward sexually compulsive behaviors and how to heal and discover a thriving life of freedom and joy. To learn more about Matt and their programs and resources, visit BoulderRecovery.com.More Resources:Sexual Integrity Webinar for MenMen.Bebroken.com40 Days of Purity Online CourseRelated Podcasts:Why Men Struggle to LoveOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityRecovery by the Power of God's Word----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

07-05
35:28

How Couples Can Speak the Truth in Love to Heal and Grow

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today’s episode, we welcome back Karla Downing for an insightful conversation about healing relationships. Together, we dive into practical ways couples can improve communication, rebuild intimacy, and navigate challenges like addiction and dysfunctional patterns. Karla shares wisdom on speaking the truth in love, managing emotions, and fostering empathy and curiosity. We discuss the importance of patience, seeking outside support, and grounding our efforts in grace and compassion. Whether you’re facing tough seasons or just want to grow closer, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and actionable steps for building a healthier, more connected relationship.To learn more about Karla and her resources, visit ChangeMyRelationship.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Practical advice for couples facing relational strugglesImportance of communication in building intimacyManaging emotions and maintaining patience during healingSpeaking the truth in love and expressing personal truthsChallenges such as defensiveness and reactivity in communicationRole of mutual curiosity and understanding between partnersEmotional maturity and its impact on relationship dynamicsStrategies for effective communication and conflict resolutionThe significance of seeking outside help and supportThe process of healing and restoration in relationships affected by addiction and dysfunctionMore Resources:Nine Keys to Successful Marital Conflict ResolutionWhen Love Hurts: 10 Principles to Transform Difficult RelationshipsSpeaking the Truth in LoveRelated Podcasts:Eight Practical Steps of ForgivenessIntimacy in Marriage: Why Being Fully Known and Loved MattersWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

09-17
36:44

Are You on an Emotional and Spiritual Growth Mission?

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Dr. Steven Cervantes and I explore the lifelong mission of personal growth, blending both spiritual and emotional development. We discuss how a vibrant relationship with God brings peace, rest, and joy, and why emotional health is just as vital as spiritual growth. Together, we unpack the impact of childhood wounds, the roles we play to cope, and the importance of self-care. Our conversation is honest and encouraging, inviting you to embrace growth as a lifelong journey marked by grace, healing, and authentic connection with God and others.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Exploration of the concept of "mission" in personal growth, integrating spiritual and emotional development.Importance of a relational connection with God over rigid religious structures.Challenges of maintaining spiritual and emotional health and their interconnectedness.The impact of loneliness in modern society and the role of faith communities in fostering connection.Definition of a spiritual mission rooted in faith, teachings of Jesus, and community participation.Recognition of emotional struggles that can undermine spiritual commitments.The idea of a "growth mission" as a continuous journey rather than a fixed goal.Discussion of emotional wounds from childhood and their impact on present life.Examination of coping mechanisms and roles that may hinder genuine emotional growth.Emphasis on the importance of self-love and care as foundational to loving others and spiritual growth.More Resources:49 Days of Growth: Growing in Emotional Skills* by Dr. Stephen CervantesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive WorkshopGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts:What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?Why Must I Learn Me?Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

09-10
34:37

Healing from Sexual Trauma and Coercive Control in Relationships

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Tabitha Westbrook, a licensed therapist and author, to talk about her book Body and Soul, Healed and Whole. Tabitha shares her personal journey as a survivor and her passion for helping others heal from trauma, abuse, and coercive control. We explore the impact of purity culture, misconceptions about abuse, and the importance of safety and healthy boundaries. Tabitha offers practical wisdom for individuals and churches, encouraging honest conversations and compassionate support for survivors seeking healing and wholeness.To learn more about Tabitha, her counseling resources, and book, visit TabithaWestbrook.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of healthy sexuality after trauma and abusePersonal experiences of survivors and their healing journeysDiscussion of complex trauma, domestic abuse, and coercive controlImpact of purity culture on men and women within the churchNuances of female sexual brokenness and addictionDefinition and implications of coercive control in relationshipsMisconceptions about abuse and the ineffectiveness of common responsesImportance of prioritizing victim safety over preserving marriagesNeed for church education and accountability programs for abusersEmphasis on holistic healing that integrates body and soul in recovery processesMore Resources:Body & Soul, Healed & Whole* by Tabitha WestbrookWives Care Online GroupsStrong Like Water* by Aundi KolberRelated Podcasts:Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual AbuseThe Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingThe Need for Boundaries After Betrayal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

09-03
35:12

How the Victory App Can Transform Your Recovery from Porn

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education at CovenantEyes, to explore the journey of online accountability and recovery from pornography. Sam shares how Covenant Eyes has evolved over 25 years, shifting from simple filtering to a relational, ally-based approach. We then dive into CovenantEyes’ Victory app and its features, including emotional check-ins, family management, and supportive courses for men, women, and parents. Sam also announces a special book giveaway and encourages listeners to take the next step toward freedom with these practical, faith-based resources.To get access to all of CovenantEyes’ resources, visit CovenantEyes.com. (And use code bebroken to try out their services free for 30 days.)FREE BOOK GIVEAWAY!Sam agree to give away 10 FREE copies of his book, The Healing Church. To get your free copy, send an email to psr@bebroken.org and put "FREE Healing Church Book" in the subject line. First 10 respondents will get a free copy.Topics Covered in this Episode: History and mission of Covenant Eyes, focusing on relational accountability.Evolution of terminology from "accountability" to "ally" to foster supportive relationships.Development and features of the Victory app as a companion tool for recovery.Importance of educational resources and community support in overcoming pornography addiction.Challenges faced in app development, including technological and platform guidelines.Overview of the app's functionality, including accountability reports and communication features.Accessibility of the Victory app for both men and women, addressing diverse needs.Introduction of new features like the check-in process for emotional monitoring and progress tracking.Emphasis on viewing relapses as learning opportunities rather than failures.Availability of additional resources, such as the Strive 21 program and the book The Healing Church.More Resources:Victory App by CovenantEyesSTRIVE: 21-Day Porn DetoxFind a Support GroupRelated Podcasts:Porn, Technology, and Self-ControlHow Group Work Will Transform Your Recovery JourneyBeyond the Porn Phenomenon: Barna Group Research on Porn Use----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

08-27
39:55

Helping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in Marriage

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, we welcome back Lyschel Burket, Executive Director of Hope Redefined, a ministry for wives facing sexual betrayal trauma. Lyschel shares updates about her work, including a new 45-week healing curriculum, and then we dive deep into the complexities of betrayal trauma, misplaced hope, and the journey toward true healing. Lyschel offers wisdom from her own story, emphasizing the importance of finding safety, authentic community, and hope in Christ—not just in a spouse’s recovery. It’s an insightful, practical conversation for anyone seeking restoration after deep relational wounds.To learn more about Lyschel and her ministry resources, visit HopeRedefined.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion of sexual betrayal trauma and its impact on wives and women.Introduction of the "Abiding in Hope" curriculum aimed at supporting healing in community.Definition and exploration of betrayal trauma, particularly in the context of marriage.Examination of the complexities of trust and the challenges faced in the healing process.Analysis of misplaced hope in husbands' recovery and the implications for personal healing.Identification of common coping mechanisms and responses to betrayal trauma.Emphasis on the importance of establishing safety and stabilization as foundational for healing.Insights on the role of community in the healing journey and the need for authenticity.Practical steps for women to rebuild their relationship with God and redefine hope.Encouragement for women to embrace their healing journey and recognize progress over time.More Resources:Finding Hope Support GroupAbiding in Hope Online GroupWives Care Online GroupsRelated Podcasts:Hope After BetrayalLiminal Space: Helping Wives Transition from Betrayal to HopeThe Need for Boundaries After Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

08-20
37:15

How to Turn Emotional Triggers into Opportunities for Growth in Your Marriage

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes joins me in our brand-new studio to discuss how couples get stuck in emotional cycles of conflict, drawing on Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Therapy. We explore how triggers, core fears, and attachment styles—like the classic pursuer and withdrawer dynamic—shape our reactions and create distance in marriage. Together, we talk about the importance of self-awareness, grace, and integrating emotional and spiritual growth to break these patterns and build deeper connections. We also highlight the 5 stages that happen in conflict, which are: TriggerBody symptomEmotional responseBelief responseActionThis is an insightful, practical conversation for anyone wanting healthier, more loving relationships.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion of relationship conflict and emotional loops based on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).Exploration of emotional responses and core fears that contribute to conflict in marriages.Explanation of the cycle of triggering events, body responses, emotional reactions, beliefs, and final actions in relationships.The impact of attachment theory on adult relationships and the dynamics of pursuer and withdrawer roles.Importance of self-awareness and understanding personal emotional patterns to break cycles of conflict.The connection between emotional understanding and spiritual growth, emphasizing grace in relationships.Encouragement for couples to create new patterns of connection and support each other.Closing thoughts on the significance of building a strong, loving attachment in relationships.More Resources:Hold Me Tight* by Dr. Sue JohnsonFind a CounselorUnderstanding Emotionally Focused TherapyRelated Podcasts:Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from BetrayalThe Harms of Negative TalkingAssumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

08-13
34:57

How to Break Free from Your Old Bad Habits

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome my friend and colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to our cozy new “barn office” studio for a real and raw conversation about breaking old, harmful habits—especially those rooted in childhood. Together, we explore how these habits form as coping mechanisms, the emotional battles involved in letting them go, and the importance of kindness toward our younger selves. We discuss faith, the power of emotional connection, and practical steps for real change. Our desire is to help men grow in integrity and relationships. So, we invite you to join us as we encourage each other to pursue healthier, more loving ways of living.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion of old and potentially harmful habits developed from childhood experiences.Exploration of habits as coping mechanisms for emotional and relational challenges.The emotional impact of habits on personal growth and relationships.The importance of self-compassion and kindness towards one's younger self.The struggle involved in breaking free from ingrained habits.The role of fear and survival in the formation of bad habits.The necessity of replacing bad habits with healthier alternatives.The significance of emotional connection and reciprocity in relationships.The influence of community and shared experiences in overcoming bad habits.Resources for personal growth and emotional development, particularly for men.More Resources:Men's Integrity Webinar (free)Critical Conversations online course (free)40 Days of Purity for MenRelated Podcasts:Breaking Free from Your Secret HabitReplacing Escaping and Hiding with Healthy Thoughts and BehaviorsBreaking Free with Russell Willingham----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

08-06
36:48

How to Move from Anxious Attachment to Secure Attachment

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today’s episode, I chat with Trevor Hanson, a coach and founder of The Art of Healing. He teaches relationship and attachment skills through the Secure Self Club. Trevor opens up about his personal journey, sharing how his own struggles inspired his work. We discuss the origins and fluidity of attachment styles, practical steps to move from anxious to secure attachment, and the importance of self-compassion in healing. Trevor introduces his TEMPO framework and offers resources to help you take your next step toward secure attachments. I found it to be an insightful, encouraging conversation for anyone wanting to better understand themselves and build healthier relationships.To learn more about Trevor and his resources, visit TheArtofHealingbyTrevor.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal journey of Trevor with anxious attachmentInfluence of attachment styles on relationshipsOverview of different attachment styles and their originsImportance of understanding attachment dynamics in personal developmentFluidity of attachment styles and the potential for changeSigns and symptoms of anxious attachmentThe cycle of anxious attachment and its impact on behaviorStrategies for moving from anxious to secure attachmentThe role of emotional experiences in healing attachment issuesResources and support for individuals seeking to address attachment-related challengesMore Resources:From Anxious to Secure (free seminar)Sex and Anxiety (online course)Know Your Boundaries (free workshop)Related Podcasts:Understanding Your "Flipped Out" BrainMoving from Being Fear-Driven to Love-DrivenHow Early Development Trauma Shapes Addiction and Recovery----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

07-30
43:20

How Understanding Your Inner Child Can Help Heal Betrayal Trauma

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, we have back with us on the program Dr. Eddie Capparucci, counselor and co-author of Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner.* Our topic of conversation is to explore the journey of healing from betrayal trauma, especially for women who have experienced infidelity. Dr. Eddie shares his unique inner child model, helping us understand how past wounds shape our emotional responses today. Together, we discuss practical tools for managing difficult feelings, the importance of self-compassion, and how both partners can support each other on the path to recovery. It’s an honest, hopeful conversation about reclaiming your sense of self and finding healing after deep hurt.For more information about Dr. Eddie and his resources, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com or search for “Going Deeper books” on Amazon.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Definition and significance of betrayal trauma, particularly in marital relationships.The emotional impact of infidelity on individuals, especially women.Introduction and explanation of the inner child model as a therapeutic approach.The connection between unresolved childhood wounds and adult emotional responses.Differentiation between sexual betrayal and other forms of betrayal (e.g., financial, emotional).The importance of recognizing and nurturing the inner child for healing.Strategies for managing emotions and shifting from emotional responses to rational thinking.Addressing common objections and validating emotions while assessing their accuracy.Encouragement for both partners in a relationship affected by betrayal to support each other.Resources and tools for further exploration of betrayal trauma and inner child work.More Resources:Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner*Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction*Wives Care Online GroupsRelated Podcasts:Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesBetrayal Trauma Healing (PSR Podcast Bundle)Helping a Wife Heal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

07-23
40:39

How Early Developmental Trauma Shapes Addiction and Relationships

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with one of our favorite guests, Cat Etherington from the Naked Truth Project to explore how early developmental trauma shapes addiction and relationships. Cat shares her personal recovery story and explains how childhood experiences—both big and small—can impact our sense of self and coping strategies. We discuss the importance of understanding both our emotional memories and objective truths, and why healing means digging deep into our pasts. Together, we encourage listeners to move beyond blame and embrace the journey toward genuine healing and freedom.Visit NakedTruthProject.com for resources from Cat and her team.Topics Covered in this Episode:Impact of early developmental trauma on addiction and relationshipsDefinition and categorization of developmental trauma: "big T" and "little t" traumasCoping mechanisms developed in response to unresolved traumaConnection between developmental trauma and addiction behaviorsImportance of identity formation in recovery from addictionNavigating subjective versus objective realities in parenting and child developmentThe role of emotional experiences in shaping self-perception and behaviorHealing processes involving revisiting childhood experiences and narrativesMoving beyond blame to understand personal experiences and emotionsEncouragement for confronting past traumas as a pathway to healing and recoveryMore Resources:Find a CounselorIntensive for MenIntensive for WomenRelated Podcasts:The Interplay of Body, Mind, and Spirit in Porn Addiction RecoveryAddressing Childhood Trauma in MenThe Immanuel Approach in Recovery----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

07-16
36:54

How to Embrace Jesus-Centered Sexuality in a Broken World

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Matt Cline from Restored Ministries to talk about what it means to have a Jesus-centered sexuality. We explore how inviting Jesus into our struggles with sexual brokenness—like addiction, infidelity, or shame—can lead to real healing and freedom. Matt shares practical steps, personal stories, and encouragement for anyone feeling stuck, reminding us that Jesus offers hope, grace, and transformation. We also discuss the importance of open conversations in the church and share resources for those seeking support on their journey to wholeness.To learn more about Matt and the resources from his ministry, visit RestoredMinistries.ca. Topics Covered in this Episode:Concept of "Jesus-centered sexuality"Importance of placing Jesus at the core of sexual desires and experiencesFocus on helping individuals overcome sexual brokenness, including pornography addiction and infidelityThe role of emotional trauma in sexual struggles and the need for healing through a relationship with JesusSpiritual understanding of sexuality versus worldly perspectivesThe significance of inviting Jesus into moments of temptation and desirePractical steps for cultivating a Jesus-centered life, particularly in sexualityThe impact of shame and guilt on pursuing a Jesus-centered approachThe promise of freedom and hope in overcoming sexual sinResources and support available for individuals seeking healing and wholeness through faithMore Resources:40 Days of Purity for Men (online course)40 Days of Purity for Women (online course)Church & Sexuality SurveyRelated Podcasts:Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityCan the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?The Power of Community----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

07-09
36:53

The Power of Vulnerability: How Group Support Transformed Mike's Recovery Journey

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today’s episode, which I think is appropriate to release on Independence Day, I sit down with Mike Mudry as he bravely shares his journey through pornography addiction and its impact on his marriage. We talk openly about the pain of living a double life, the relief that comes with honesty, and the life-changing power of community and accountability. Mike’s story is raw and real—he reminds us that healing happens when we’re vulnerable and supported by others. I hope his experience encourages you to seek authentic connection and take your own next step toward wholeness and freedom.Topics Covered in this Episode: Mike Mudry's personal journey of recovery from pornography addiction.Early exposure to pornography and its impact on Mike's understanding of sexuality.The emotional challenges faced in marriage due to hidden struggles with addiction.The revelation of Mike's secret behaviors and its effect on his relationship with his wife.The importance of seeking help and accountability in the recovery process.The role of group work and community support in overcoming personal challenges.The concept of true accountability and its significance in personal growth.The journey from living a double life to embracing authenticity and honesty.The necessity of community in the healing process and the dangers of isolation.Encouragement for others to seek supportive groups and take risks in their recovery journey.More Resources:Find a GroupGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men40 Days of Purity Online CourseRelated Podcasts:How Group Work Will Transform Your Recovery JourneyOne Year LaterMen Helping Men Grow and Mature----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

07-04
38:12

Are You "Under Sad"? Understanding the Importance of Grieving for Men

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I explore the idea of men being “under sad”—when we struggle to recognize or express sadness. We talk about why grieving is essential for emotional health, not just in big losses but in everyday disappointments. Stephen shares some practical ways to support others in their sadness and encourages us to embrace vulnerability, compassion, and even prayer. Together, we explore that facing our sadness leads to deeper connection, healing, and a more restful, authentic life.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The concept of being "under sad" and its implications for emotional awareness, particularly among men.The significance of grieving as a necessary process for emotional health and personal growth.Societal norms that discourage men from expressing sadness, leading to emotional suppression.The dual nature of strength and vulnerability in navigating emotions.The importance of integrating grieving into daily life as a means of processing emotions.The role of sadness in fostering deeper connections and empathy with others.Practical advice for supporting others in their moments of grief and sadness.The concept of compassion as "suffering with" someone and its importance in healing.The potential of prayer and spiritual connection in processing sadness and finding solace.A call to action for individuals to embrace their sadness for emotional wholeness and fulfillment.More Resources:A Sacred Sorrow* by Michael CardGentle and Lowly* by Dane OrtlundEmotional Training for Men (Grieving)Related Podcasts:Sadness and Hope - The Dynamic Duo of Personal GrowthMen's Emotional Self-Awareness TestWhy Men Need to Practice Sadness*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

07-02
31:47

Intimacy (Beyond Sex!): The Deepest Longing of Every Heart

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore the true meaning of intimacy—beyond just sexuality. Dr. Carol shares updates about her ministry’s amazing new space for healing and intensives, called Transformation Place. In our conversation, we discuss the universal need for connection with God and others. Dr. Carol offers practical steps for building deeper relationships, overcoming fear and shame, and embracing vulnerability. We also highlight several resources for anyone seeking healing from sexual brokenness. To check out some of these resources from Carol, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of the significance of intimacy in human relationships.Discussion on the connection between intimacy, sexuality, and sexual brokenness.Updates on Dr. Tankersley's ministry and the establishment of a new physical space for events.Definition of intimacy as "seeing and being seen, knowing and being known."Importance of relational intimacy beyond sexual intimacy.Identification of common obstacles to experiencing true intimacy, such as shame and emotional walls.Practical steps for cultivating intimacy with God and others.Emphasis on the value of vulnerability and authenticity in relationships.Discussion of non-sexual aspects of intimacy, including sensory experiences and physical touch.Resources and tools for further support in the journey toward intimacy and healing.More Resources:A 5-Step Prescription for Sexual Healing - God's WayOnline Sexpectations CourseIn-Person Small Group IntensivesRelated Podcasts:Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhat Are Your Sexpectations?What is Oneness and Why Does It Matter in Your Life?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

06-25
37:13

Beyond the Porn Phenomenon: Latest Research on Porn Use

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Nick Stumbo, director of Pure Desire Ministries, for an honest conversation about sexual brokenness and the impact of pornography, especially within the Christian community. We dive into new research from Pure Desire and the Barna Group, titled Beyond the Porn Phenomenon, revealing surprising trends and the ongoing struggle many face in silence. Nick shares insights from the research on breaking shame, creating safe spaces in churches, and practical ways parents and leaders can support healthy conversations about sexuality. Together, we explore how compassion and openness can lead to real healing and hope.To learn more and get a copy of the research mentioned in this episode, visit PureDesire.org/barna. Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion of sexual brokenness, particularly related to pornography use.Personal experiences of a pastor struggling with pornography.Overview of the research project "Beyond the Porn Phenomenon" conducted with the Barna Group.Examination of updated data on pornography use and its effects on individuals and relationships.Challenges faced by churches in addressing sexual brokenness and providing support.Development of resources for parents and youth leaders to discuss sexuality with teenagers.Insights into the disconnect between spiritual health and sexual behavior among Christians.Statistics highlighting the prevalence of pornography use and the lack of support for individuals struggling with it.The importance of creating safe spaces in churches for open discussions about sexual issues.Encouragement for proactive engagement in conversations about sexuality and support for those in need.More Resources:Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Church ToolkitFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom from PornGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:New Research on Why Women View PornWhat Can We Learn from Lust?Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused Culture----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

06-20
41:58

Intimacy in Marriage: Why Being Fully Known and Loved Matters

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down again with Phil and Priscilla Fretwell to explore what true intimacy in marriage really means. Together, we unpack how family backgrounds, vulnerability, and faith shape our ability to be fully known and fully loved. Phil and Priscilla share their honest journey through their marriage struggles, healing, and the importance of spiritual and emotional connection—not just physical closeness. We also touch on how intimacy matters for everyone, married or single. Join us for an honest, heartfelt conversation about growing closer, supporting each other, and finding wholeness in our relationships.To learn more about Phil and Priscilla and their resources for couples, visit SavageMarriageMinistries.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: The significance of intimacy in marriage and relationships.The evolution of understanding intimacy from a religious to a spiritual perspective.Misconceptions surrounding intimacy, particularly the equating of intimacy with sexual activity.The influence of family backgrounds on perceptions of intimacy.The impact of secrets and emotional barriers on relationships.The journey of recovery and healing in the context of intimacy.The role of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections.The purpose of intimacy in modeling love and support within families.The relevance of intimacy for singles and its application beyond marriage.Resources for further exploration of intimacy and relationship dynamics.More Resources:Savage Marriage* by Phil & Priscilla FretwellSavage Marriage Study Guide* by Phil & Priscilla FretwellCoaching with Phil & PriscillaRelated Podcasts:A Journey of Redemption and HealingThe Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and DelightGod, Sex, and Your Marriage*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

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Juuso Heikkinen

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Gatinha Bella

I find it strange that expecting a husband's vows of fidelity to be upheld is now considered 'making the marriage an idol'. if so, why take vows if the only real security and fidelity can be found in God? Would a husband expecting his wife to uphold her vows of fidelity also be considered idolatry? This whole line of thought appears to be a way to minimize the culpability of the addict and shift blame to the partner, i.e. she is so damaged because she put all her trust into the husband's vows and the marriage. If she would not have put her faith and desire for fidelity/security into the marriage then she would not be so damaged...doesn't this nullify the expectation of fidelity and gravity of marriage vows?

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