Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

In this episode, Marcela Collier, head coach of HIC Parenting Education Agency and host of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, explores the root causes of parental yelling and reactivity. She discusses the "fire alarm" and "pressure cooker" reactive cycles, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's relationship with anger. Marcela introduces a four-step system to break free from reactivity and highlights the significance of a secure relationship with anger, where parents acknowledge, listen to, and constructively mobilize their anger. The episode encourages reflection on personal anger patterns and offers resources for further learning. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the challenges and paths to becoming a secure, emotionally regulated parent. She emphasizes that every stage of parenting is difficult and requires choosing the hard path of developing emotional regulation, mindset, and positive discipline skills. Marcela shares a story of a single mom who transformed her parenting approach by mastering these skills, leading to a more peaceful family environment. The episode encourages parents to break away from reactive patterns and offers a free class to help them develop necessary skills. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of letting go of control in parenting and embracing trust. She shares insights from Dr. Delany, a psychologist and relationship coach, on how trust can lead to a more peaceful parenting experience. Marcela emphasizes the need to trust in our training, our children, their process, and their choices, while also anchoring ourselves in core values or beliefs. She offers practical advice for parents struggling with control and encourages them to face their trust wounds to foster healing and growth. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the transformative power of choosing healing in parenting. She shares personal stories and insights on how unresolved childhood trauma can affect parenting styles and emphasizes the importance of awareness, emotional regulation, and seeking support. Marcela introduces a simple system to help parents break away from reactivity and parent with peace, offering a free class for further learning. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how parents can break the cycle of yelling at their children by practicing mindfulness. She emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's inner voice, challenging critical thoughts, and developing skills like mind sight and emotional regulation. Marcela also shares insights on how curiosity and compassion can transform parenting approaches, leading to more peaceful and understanding interactions with children. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses overcoming parental anxiety by choosing freedom, one of the six daily choices from the book "Building a Non-Anxious Life." She explores how parents can change their relationship with time to reduce anxiety and improve their parenting experience. Marcela shares personal stories and practical tips on creating space for freedom, managing schedules, and setting boundaries to foster a healthier family dynamic. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of choosing connection to build a non-anxious parenting life. She shares personal experiences and insights on overcoming loneliness and societal pressures, emphasizing the need for community and support in parenting. Marcela also introduces Dr. Deloni's six daily choices for a non-anxious life, focusing on the choice of connection. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode, Marcela Collier discusses how to embrace an anxiety-free parenting life, even if diagnosed with anxiety, ADHD, or autism. She shares insights from Dr. Delonis' book "Building a Non-Anxious Life" and emphasizes the importance of choosing reality and emotional regulation skills. Marcela encourages parents to break away from reactivity and control, and to face reality with acceptance and empathy. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the hidden alarm of anxiety in parenting and how it affects our ability to parent with peace. She explores the root causes of anxiety, such as limiting beliefs, trauma responses, chronic unmet needs, and lack of boundaries, and offers insights on how to address these issues to create a more peaceful parenting experience. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, shares three essential steps to becoming the best parent for your children. She emphasizes understanding behaviors as communication, combating negative bias, and balancing quality and quantity of time with kids. Marcela also discusses the importance of breaking away from reactivity and offers resources for further support.  If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, discusses managing behaviors in traumatized children. She shares insights from her experience in therapeutic foster care and personal trauma, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma's impact on the brain and the need for relational safety. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to handle behaviors in neurodivergent children with care. She emphasizes understanding the purpose behind behaviors and adapting environments to support children's unique needs. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode, Marcela Collier delves into the intricacies of teaching children self-control through emotional intelligence. She shares insights on understanding the root causes of unexplained aggressive behaviors in children and introduces the three pillars of emotional intelligence: body awareness, coping strategies, and emotional vocabulary. Through the story of Darryl, a child struggling with aggression due to past bullying, Marcela illustrates how therapeutic play and consistent practice can transform a child's ability to manage impulses and communicate feelings effectively. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the I.D.E.A Method, a comprehensive strategy to identify and address the needs of children, particularly those who are neurodivergent. Drawing from her extensive experience as a therapeutic provider, Marcela emphasizes the importance of understanding behaviors as expressions of underlying needs rather than problems to be solved superficially. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela shares her insights on managing intense child meltdowns. Drawing from personal experiences and research, Marcela introduces the concept of "personal attunement" as the key to calming these challenging moments. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing a child's feelings and sense of safety, addressing underlying causes, and fostering a secure environment through co-regulation. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, delves into the four unique differences that influence children's behavior: biological, sensory, emotional, and thought processing. Learn how understanding these differences can help you respond to your child's needs without yelling, and bring peace to your parenting journey. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent. They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode, Marcela Collier talks with Christina, a parent who transformed her parenting approach through HIC coaching. Discover how Christina overcame reactivity and anxiety to foster a secure and calm environment for her child. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class

 Join Marcela in this insightful episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast as she explores the three key signs of raising an emotionally intelligent child. Discover the importance of calmness, connection, and communication in fostering social-emotional development. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class  

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela discusses the concept of neuroception and its significance in understanding children's behavior. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the different types of safety—physical, emotional, psychological, and relational—and how they impact children's actions. The conversation explores the roots of parental reactivity and the necessity for parents to cultivate a sense of calm and safety within themselves to effectively support their children If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class

In this episode, Marcela discusses five essential ways to build secure attachment in children, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing relationships, ensuring emotional safety, maintaining consistency, understanding the needs behind behaviors, and focusing on emotional regulation rather than control. Through personal anecdotes and practical examples, she illustrates how these principles can transform parenting and foster a secure environment for children to thrive. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class