Parenting with Impact

In the world of childhood ADHD, you may have heard of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), and you might even have some opinions about it, too. It often travels with untreated ADHD. But as the medical community begins to understand the overlap between ADHD and Autism, we want to invite you to learn more about a presentation of Autism called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). To be honest, there’s some controversy about this diagnosis, because it exists in the UK and Australia, but not officially in the US. So, let’s focus instead on the reality of what’s going on when a child resists and avoids the demands of life! In our community, we’ve learned that if you can understand what’s underlying troublesome behaviors, you can support them better. And this conversation with Nicola is guaranteed to help you do just that!    Nicola Reekie is a parent to a young, autistic person who has a PDA profile. PDA is an abbreviation for Pathological Demand Avoidance or, as some prefer, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Her mission is to support families and professionals in understanding PDA, and she founded The PDA Space to provide resources that will deepen their understanding to create a safer environment for young people. A solution-focused therapist, Nicola collaborates with many amazing families, education and healthcare professionals to information and an excellent support network that supports their emotional well-being and helps to create calm in often challenging situations.   Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Nicola Reekie.   Here is what to expect on this week’s show: The episode highlights the significance of approaching individuals with PDA with compassion and understanding, focusing on their unique needs rather than demanding conformity. Nicola emphasizes the importance of establishing connections and collaborating with individuals with PDA. Nicola explains framing behaviors as neurologically driven rather than defiant can shift the perspective and reduce stigma.   Links Mentioned: Bloody Awesome Parents Awards:  https://www.myfamilyourneeds.co.uk/baps/ Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.com Autism, PDA & Combative Behaviors:  https://youtu.be/fmFRyyelMsQ Connect with Nicola: Website:  https://www.thepdaspace.com/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1632926726873571 YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@thepdaspacenicolareekie264/videos   Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Robert Melillo is a leading expert in developmental neurological conditions such as ADHD, autism, OCD, tics, dyslexia, anxiety, and depression in both children and adults. With extensive knowledge of brain function, he has perfected a noninvasive, multi-modal method to significantly improve and correct many neurological disorders. His expertise in functional neuroanatomy and neurophysiology is unparalleled, backed by 30 years as a clinician, professor, brain researcher, and bestselling author. His book Disconnected Kids, soon to release its 3rd edition, is a cornerstone in its genre, translated into 16 languages. Co-founder of Brain Balance Achievement Centers and developer of the Melillo Method®, he also runs the Melillo Center for Developing Minds in NY. Dr. Melillo directs the National Institute for Brain and Rehabilitation Sciences and co-hosts the web series Disconnected Kids Reconnected Families with his wife Carolyn, boasting over 3 million views. He also hosts The Melillo Method Podcast, Everything Brain.   Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Robert Melillo.     Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Robert explains disruptions in brain connectivity between hemispheres are linked to neurobehavioral and mental health issues, indicating the importance of targeted interventions, especially within the first six years of life. Robert stresses the importance of paying attention to developmental milestones, as they are crucial in shaping brain development. Robert emphasizes that all adult mental health issues stem from childhood, particularly from imbalances in the right and left brain development.     Related Links:   Website:  https://www.drrobertmelillo.com Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/DrRobertMelillo/ LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-melillo-a287b618b/ X:  https://x.com/DrRobMelillo Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/DrRobertMelillo YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@drrobertmelillo Courses:  https://www.drrobertmelillo.com/courses/ Books: Disconnected Kids:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399172440?ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1&social_share=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_GXXDS5SW689NTSK4JWH1 Autism: The Scientific Truth About Preventing, Diagnosing, and Treating Autism Spectrum Disorders--and What Parents Can Do:  https://www.amazon.com/Autism-Scientific-Preventing-Diagnosing-Disorders/dp/0399159541/ref=sr_1_5?crid=28322IR43ZVSL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.lFnY7GWjvemw1XXB6ee5pIh_Szg7dz8jQB2geNhTOZx9OVMT9TmfuH_44ThEsYpQiT-YqypYifYAPnXy9YQP7Wymi_Q5iyuljW_zpSF9ysCzVaZ__1MO33ffI8KR3Oh4GBzLmzKy6xYoUrnbUf33fo7x5zSEQzifQRw4Cjh1GwkhqcW_HbPBIXkfDLb9n4VbT3kkUvlhy-_OerkwvD3qzsHXll_KhzsNTLDzd-QcWa0.qjfOWKBKA9ArOlyjgcvi5stog6IpSg-v1uwaQXBkOqc&dib_tag=se&keywords=dr+robert+melillo&qid=1727101629&s=books&sprefix=dr+robert+melill%2Cstripbooks%2C162&sr=1-5 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether you’re talking about ADHD, Autism, or 2e, developing neurodivergent brains in kids require adults to understand what it takes to get activated. The ADHD brain, for example, is understimulated. It doesn’t respond to rewards the same way as neurotypical brains. And it has a complicated relationship with motivation. So how can you help kids with ADHD (and other kinds of neurodiversity) to get essential stuff done? One key motivational tool is novelty. Join us to understand better why ADHD brains thrive on novelty, how novelty and motivation are tied together, and how you as a parent or a professional can integrate novelty when supporting your kids (of any age!). And remember: this fundamental hack can serve you well with all members of your family and community.   Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.Ed., LPC, is a former educator, author, and speaker. Inspired by her own experiences as a neurodivergent person, she is dedicated to destigmatizing neurodiversity and supporting neurodivergent people of all ages. She hosts The Neurodiversity Podcast, which explores the psychological, educational, and social needs of neurodivergent people, and is the author of several books, including "Teaching Twice-Exceptional Learners in Today's Classroom"(Free Spirit Publishing, 2021), "Raising Twice-Exceptional Children" (Taylor & Francis, 2022), "A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children" (Gifted Unlimited, LLC, 2023), and "Neurodiversity-Affirming Schools" (Free Spirit Publishing, in press). She speaks at statewide, national, and international conferences and is in private practice in Missouri.   Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Emily Kircher-Morris. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Emily highlights the importance of incorporating novelty in educational settings to engage neurodivergent individuals effectively. Tailored strategies and support, like universal design for learning, are crucial in catering to the specific needs of neurodivergent students and those facing situational neurodiversity challenges. Emily stresses the importance of validating parents' efforts in supporting their neurodivergent kids, acknowledging the learning journey both for the child and the parent in understanding themselves and their unique needs. Links Mentioned: Podcast:  https://neurodiversitypodcast.com 2E Kids & Adults: When Easy is Hard and Hard is Easy:  https://youtu.be/jP756LLv3XU What's Different About a 2E Kid?:  https://youtu.be/B2-vJYDv8KU Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.:  https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_P Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s High-Tech Solutions for Those with ADHD:  https://www.blogtalkradio.com/attentiontalkradio/2020/11/04/high-tech-solutions-for-those-with-adhd Books:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1953360173/?tag=im0ea3-20   https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1646322142/?tag=im0ea3-20 Free Gift: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/34OZKxF   Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parent focus in parenting is an increasingly important topic in today's complex, globalized society. Elaine and Diane bring unique perspectives to this discussion, rooted in their experiences and beliefs. Elaine emphasizes the crucial role of self-care for parents, likening it to the necessity of putting on one’s oxygen mask first. She believes that addressing parents' own emotional struggles and needs is essential for them to effectively support their children, arguing that traditional methods often overlook this aspect. Diane, on the other hand, focuses on empowering parents to take control of their thoughts and actions without self-blame. She highlights the significant influence parents have on their children's development, stressing that understanding and addressing their own issues can help them better meet their children's unique needs. Both women agree that by managing their stress and emotions, parents can create a supportive and healthy environment conducive to child development. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss parental focus. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine and Diane explain parents should seek training that includes shifting mindsets, acquiring new skills, seeking community support, and receiving feedback from professionals Elaine and Diane stress that prioritizing self-care is crucial for effective parenting, as parents need to take care of themselves to provide the best support for their children. Parents should work on their inner emotional struggles to be a calm and guiding presence for their children, ultimately fostering a supportive environment for their development.   Learn More:  impactparents.com/podcast   Related Links: Recommended Treatment:  https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/recommended-treatment/ The Coach-Approach to Parenting: https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/the-coach-approach-to-parenting/ Become A Dive Bomber Parent: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/become-a-dive-bomber-parent/ How Do I Check-In On my Kids Without Nagging?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/how-to-check-in-on-kids-without-nagging/ Tip for Handling it When Kids Don’t Do What You Ask:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/when-kids-dont-do-what-you-ask/     Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lynne Hughes lost both her parents by the age of 12. She recognized the lack of resources available to her as a grieving child, and into adult life realized child bereavement resources were still nonexistent. So, she took her love for summer camp and founded Comfort Zone Camp, the first-ever national 501(c)3 bereavement camp for grieving children and families. Since its inception in 1998, CZC has helped over 24,000 grieving children.     Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Lynne Hughes about managing grief.     Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Lynne highlights the importance of preparing children to handle common questions and emotional moments, especially in school settings. Lynne explains creating environments where children can express their emotions and feel safe is crucial for their well-being and learning. Lynne emphasizes that there is no one way to grieve, and each individual's journey is unique. Validating children's emotions, demonstrating coping skills, and offering consistent support are key components in helping them navigate life's difficulties and build resilience.   Listen Now:  impactparents.com/podcast   Connect with Lynne: Website - https://comfortzonecamp.org/ Camp Calendar - https://comfortzonecamp.org/calendar/   Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift     Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’ve got to understand procrastination in order to overcome it. So in this conversation, we'll explore why kids tend to stall on tasks, from unrealistic goals to unclear plans. And we’ll also look at how a child’s procrastination often leads parents to react in ways that may not actually help the situation. If you want to minimize procrastination, join us for a conversation that explores how to leverage your kids’ strengths and prime their brain for action. Uncover the "why" behind goals, ignite motivation and follow-through, and walk away with practical strategies to tackle procrastination common in so many families with ADHD.   Kelly Biltz is an ADHD Teen Life Coach who is passionate about helping teenagers manage ADHD and build confidence. Her journey from tension-filled arguments to a peaceful home inspired her to help others find the same. With a focus on executive function skills, both at home and in school, she meets her students with compassion, patience, and lots of encouragement. A mom, stepmom, grandmother, dedicated wife, proud yogi, and dog lover, Kelly navigates the chaos of a neurodiverse household with humor, a ton of grace and lots of patience and helps teens improve grades, boost confidence, and master executive function life skills.   Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Kelly Biltz about procrastination. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Kelly explains procrastination can stem from various factors such as overwhelm, lack of interest, or organizational challenges. Identifying and addressing these underlying issues is essential in tackling procrastination effectively. Kelly stresses breaking tasks into smaller components can make them less daunting and more achievable. Starting with one small task can lead to momentum and motivation to continue working on the larger goal. Kelly discusses recognizing that energy levels fluctuate and that individuals may have optimal times for productivity is crucial. Aligning tasks with peak energy times can enhance efficiency and reduce procrastination tendencies.   Links Mentioned: Improve Communication with Complex Kids and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-communication-with-complex-kids-and-teens Empowering Your Teen with ADHD: 5 Essential Keys to Success https://drive.google.com/file/d/1fOthkdstchx0AhaU-27PJOhEy_1lLS_H/view   Connect with Kelly: Website:  https://teenswithadhd.com Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/succeedwithadhd/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teenswithadhd/     Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenting is a balancing act of love, care, and self-preservation. Elaine and Diane dive deep into the challenges and rewards of finding that sweet spot between raising your kids and nurturing your own identity. How do you maintain this delicate balance in your own life? Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss finding your balance. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine emphasized the significance of defining individual measures of success as a parent instead of adhering to societal standards. Diane highlighted the necessity of intentional self-care practices beyond the conventional notions of exercise and relaxation. As children grow and develop, Elaine and Diane emphasized the importance of adapting parenting strategies to promote independence and growth.     Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Monika Roots about talking to your teen about pornography.     How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.    https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication   Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Dr. Monika highlights the importance of ongoing communication and guidance when it comes to helping children navigate the digital world safely. Dr. Monika stresses the significance of acknowledging vulnerability, offering genuine apologies, and making efforts to mend connections. By establishing trust, children are more likely to approach their parents with concerns or questions about online experiences. Dr. Monika discusses the importance of being vigilant for signs of mental health changes that could indicate exposure to harmful online content or technology addiction.   Related Links:   Website:  BendHealth.com Let Go, Control Freak Parent!:  https://impactparents.com/let-go-control-freak-parent 5 Steps to Settle Family Politics:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/ Confident Parenting – Why Bother?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/confident-parenting/ 5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/ A Parent’s Guide to Sexting, Texting, and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/ Handling Conflict with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kids IPPF Report:  https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdf Learning Network Newsletter:  https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdf Surgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb Opinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb Teaching Kids to be Responsible with Technology:  https://youtu.be/9_NbAkoaZjk Intern'l Conf on ADHD 2022 Takeaway Part 2: Technology & Gaming Research:  https://youtu.be/3OmacXsemNc?si=Avmr_v_c9YIBBVWn Tech Overwhelm and the Metaverse:  https://youtu.be/HXN4ShSNbvw Surgeon General Warning on Social Media: How should parents respond?:  https://youtu.be/H67o7CMioCM   Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Paul Simon about risks and prevention for children watching adult material online.   How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]   Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.  https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication   Here is what to expect on this week’s show: John Paul explains setting controls and initiating early and ongoing conversations about technology use are crucial steps towards fostering a safe digital environment for children. John Paul and Elaine underscore the dual nature of technology, portraying it as both a privilege and a responsibility. John Paul highlights the importance of engaging in complex and continuous dialogues with children about internet safety, sexuality, and instilling values around technology.     Related Links: Website:  https://www.nj4sbergenhub.org 5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/ A Parent’s Guide to Sexting, Texting, and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/ Handling Conflict with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kids IPPF Report:  https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdf VAW Learning Network:  https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdf Surgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb Opinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb     Books: Tap, Click, Read: Growing Readers in a World of Screens:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1119091896/?tag=im0ea3-20 iRules: What Every Tech-Healthy Family Needs to Know about Selfies, Sexting, Gaming, and Growing up:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B00FWT9J1U/?tag=im0ea3-20 The Gaming Overload Workbook: A Teen's Guide to Balancing Screen Time, Video Games, and Real Life:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1684035511/?tag=im0ea3-20 The Parent's Guide to Parenting in the Digital Age: An Easy Reference Tool to Support and Empower Parents and Caregivers (The Digital Parent's Toolkit Series):  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1547146362/?tag=im0ea3-20 Raising a Child Responsibly in a Sexually Permissive World:  https://impactparents.com/books/raising-child-responsibly-sexually-permissive-world/   Connect with John Paul Simon: Website:  https://www.nj4sbergenhub.org LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-paul-simon-lmft-acs-480237238/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss motivation.   How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.  https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication   Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine and Diane explain rather than solely emphasizing external standards, encourage children to tap into their intrinsic motivation and values. Building a foundation of positivity and encouragement in relationships can strengthen trust and communication. Elaine and Diane discuss employing tools such as showing compassion, asking open-ended questions, and acknowledging positive aspects first when offering feedback.   Related Links: A Raccoon on Meth:  https://georgemahood.substack.com/p/a-raccoon-on-meth 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/ How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools:  https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0 Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home:  https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFk Connection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times:  https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVU It's No Mystery: Why Kids Resist Help & How to Change It:  https://youtu.be/LMHWwk0IpiQ The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Home: Part 1:  https://youtu.be/VpRSaIExzQ4?si=n7OlRbOS9uQXU5XZ The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Home: Part 2:  https://youtu.be/T38c20219ho?si=4TuluF6mgj6j_kTR Parenting ADHD Now summer summit -- Encore Package:  https://impactparents.securechkout.com/ParentingADHDNowEncoreR?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=parenting-adhd-now-summit-2024   Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift   Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

John Willson, MS, LRT/CTRS, is Executive Director for SOAR, the world’s premier adventure program serving youth with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and LD (Learning Disabilities). SOAR’s outdoor adventure-based programs provide academic instruction, experiential education, and life skills development for youth and young adults ages 8-25. SOAR stands for Success-Oriented, Achievements Realized. With a passion for fostering resilience and nurturing strengths in neurodiverse communities, John is a respected advocate among those who serve individuals with learning differences and attention challenges. Learn more at soarnc.org. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Willson about ADHD and outdoor learning. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show: John emphasized the effectiveness of outdoor experiential learning in nurturing success and coping mechanisms for kids with ADHD John discusses recognizing and celebrating children's achievements, big or small, can create a positive cycle of confidence and growth, essential for long-term success. John stresses the use of metaphors in the learning process was highlighted as a powerful tool for children to understand and apply lessons from outdoor activities to real-life situations. Related Links: Website: https://soarnc.org Outdoor Adventure Camp Experiences for Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/outdoor-adventure-camp-experiences-for-kids-with-adhd/ 10 Easy Steps to a Tension-Less Home: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/10-easy-steps-to-a-tension-less-home/ How to Manage Them, Me and Their ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-with-adhd/ Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_P What Support do ADHD'ers Need? Book Smart or Street Smart?: https://youtu.be/jzaRjHLspjs Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach: https://youtu.be/QmXPUxNRCGA Connect with John: Website: soarnc.org Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The sense of urgency in parenting often leads to reactive rather than creative problem-solving, posing unique challenges for both parents and children. Elaine and Diane, drawing from their personal experiences and insights, underscore the importance of recognizing and managing the signs of reactivity, such as hypervigilance or catastrophizing. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss problem-solving. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/calm-confident-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=calm Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine and Diane understand as parents you must recognize when you are in a reactive state and make a conscious effort to shift towards a calmer mindset before addressing the issue at hand. This allows for more thoughtful and effective problem-solving. Practice pausing in interactions with your children to allow for reflection and emotional regulation. This space enables both parents and children to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. Elaine and Diane stress guiding your children through moments of discomfort instead of immediately rescuing them. By helping them navigate challenging emotions, you empower them to develop emotional self-regulation skills for the future. Links Beyond Mean Girls: Parenting and Dignity with Rosalind Wiseman: https://youtu.be/GfmkH5HkaS4 Effective Agreements: https://youtu.be/1Sf6G37JW80 Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility: https://youtu.be/gUQdne8YliM Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s 5 Steps to Settle Family Politics: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/ Handling Conflicts with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kids Welcome to Parenting With Impact: https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhk Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus Episode 171 Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and More with Renee Zavislak Renee Zavislak, the host of Psycho Therapist: The Podcast, is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and nutritionist in private practice; she specializes in treating complex trauma, high conflict families, and anxiety. Renée's homebase is Sonoma County, California, where she lives with her husband and son, and she travels to see clients in Los Angeles, New York City, and San Diego. In addition to weekly therapy sessions, Renée works via multi-day intensives for individuals, couples, and groups that focus on holistic healing. When she isn't working or cooking, she can be found fawning over her Canine-American soulmate, Chili. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Renee Zavislak about parental stress and grief. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/calm-confident-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=calm Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Renee emphasizes the significance of being comfortable with making mistakes and apologizing to children. Renee highlights the importance of catching kids being good and shifting the focus towards desired behaviors rather than solely addressing negative ones. Renee advocates for parents to approach parenting with wonderment rather than expectation. Connect with Renee: Website:  https://www.reneezavislaktherapy.com/ Podcast:  https://www.psychotherapistthepodcast.com/ Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/psycho_therapist_renee/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Marquita Davis, Ph.D., is KinderCare’s Chief Academic Officer, overseeing the development of KinderCare’s high-quality educational programs, educator professional development, quality and accreditation initiatives, research and evaluation, inclusion services, and public policy. Marquita has more than 20 years of experience in early childhood education, non-profit leadership, government and philanthropy, including nearly six years as deputy director of Early Learning at the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, where she led the foundation’s multi-state early learning strategy which aims to ensure all young children have access to high-quality, effective and affordable preschool. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marquita Davis about your child’s first and forever teacher. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/adhd-recommended-treatment-freebie?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=recommended-treatment Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Marquita explains Kinder Care provides comprehensive care and education for children from six weeks to twelve years old, including traditional center care, before and aftercare, and a thriving aftercare program. Parents are recognized as their child's first teachers and are supported in early learning settings through mental health and educational assistance, empowerment, and tools for transitioning into traditional settings Marquita discusses the emphasis on the partnership between parents and providers in early learning settings, with shared responsibility for supporting the child's development and creating a supportive environment. Community support plays a crucial role in empowering parents to advocate for their children's well-being, access necessary resources for their development, and develop relationships with providers to effectively address concerns. Related Links: 10 Self Care Tips: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/self-care-tip-sheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=self Parenting Young Boys with Difficult Behaviors: https://youtu.be/FAyRk-Ta_z8 Undefinable Brilliance: Brain Development Essentials: https://youtu.be/AqZ_LAqNWDw When the School Says No -- How to Get to the Yes: https://youtu.be/LZAJ5bhSJgk The What and Why of Parent Behavior Training: https://youtu.be/8VTKfgpPVdE Accommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?: https://youtu.be/2tfQ4nZDs2E?si=Ysl6UyqmxyZyIIUd When Parenting Feels Like a Burning Building: https://youtu.be/VsW674HfSMI Connect with Marquita: Website: https://www.kindercare.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marquita-davis-ph-d-bb623171/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Rosalind Wiseman about parenting and dignity. Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide   from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day. UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/top-twelve-tips-bonus?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=12-tips Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Rosalind and Elaine discuss how technology and the Internet have changed parent-child communication, highlighting the struggle to find a balance between control and creating a safe environment. Elaine and Rosalind talk about the difficulties parents encounter when communicating with their children, particularly when discussing topics like social dynamics and adolescent development. Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of supporting children and families during tough situations; they discuss treating children with dignity, highlighting the importance of valuing a person's inherent worth. Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of meeting complex kids where they are, understanding their underlying motivations, and respecting their agency in parent-child relationships. Related Links: The Anxious Generation (book): https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0593655036/?tag=im0ea3-20 Improve Relationships with Complex Kids and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-relationships-with-complex-kids-and-teens rosalindwiseman.com Redirecting Your Child with ADHD Without Judgment: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/redirecting-adhd-without-judgment/ Six Things to STOP Saying to your ADHD Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/six-things-stop-saying-to-your-adhd-kids/ How to Pick Your Battles to Achieve Family Peace: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/how-to-pick-your-battles-to-achieve-family-peace/ ADHD & Depression, ADHD & Anxiety, and All of the Above: https://youtu.be/EsVPRm9RVD4?si=lj3YuBucpK3A6cmN Parenting Anxious Childhood Emotions: https://youtu.be/ff5hXtdem5Y What Story Are You Telling Yourself?: https://youtu.be/a3Pu8irWDR4 Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s Understanding Learning Styles: A Curiosity-Driven Approach: https://youtu.be/za5bG6DuN7M Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_U Connect with Rosalind: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalindwiseman/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rosalind.wiseman.9 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosalind-wiseman-0a369873 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rosalindwiseman2?_t=8ejF9rJAgtc&_r=1 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices