Patty's Place

<p>A place to talk about grief, dementia and caregiving. A place to find comfort when you are going through a difficult time.</p><p>A place to know you are not alone as you go through this difficult time.</p>

Lonliness in Grief and Caregiving

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10-06
20:31

When the caregiving stops, how do you start again?

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09-29
20:03

When Your Mom Is Gone: Navigating Life After Losing Home

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09-17
19:09

When Dementia Arrives Too Soon: Understanding Early Onset Alzheimer's

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. The moment when you realize your parent is getting lost in familiar places marks the beginning of a different kind of grief. For those with loved ones experiencing early onset Alzheimer's – dementia that begins before age 65 – this journey starts much sooner than expected. Drawing from my personal experience with my mother, who began showing symptoms in her mid-60s but wasn't diagnosed until much later, I explore the unique challe...

09-11
21:02

Navigating Hallucinations in Dementia: A Caregiver's Guide to Comfort

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. What happens when someone you love starts seeing people who aren't there? For dementia caregivers, this moment can be jarring, confusing, and even frightening. But as I discovered during my mother's journey with dementia, these hallucinations can sometimes bring unexpected comfort. When my mom first began seeing a little girl with red hair, I recognized she was connecting with her cousin who had died at age 11. Later, she spoke wi...

05-26
27:45

Finding Joy While Caring for Parents with Dementia-Interview with author Brenda Prater Sellers

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. The emotional toll of caring for a loved one with dementia can be overwhelming, but finding moments of joy, laughter, and connection might just save your sanity. Author Brenda Prater-Sellers joins us to share her deeply personal journey of caring for her mother through ten years of dementia - a challenge she describes as more difficult than climbing Mount Everest or jumping from planes. With disarming honesty and warmth, Brenda re...

05-16
27:16

Shopping With Ghosts: Finding Joy in Anticipatory Grief

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. Grief doesn't wait for goodbye. It weaves through every moment of the dementia caregiving journey, creating a complex emotional landscape that few discuss openly. When your loved one sits across from you—looking the same but fundamentally changed—you experience what experts call "anticipatory grief." You mourn what's already lost while simultaneously dreading future losses. The shopping trips you can no longer take together. The r...

05-13
23:28

Beyond Memory: Understanding Dementia's True Impact-Guests Dr. Travis Stroub from Rush University Medical Center & Dr. Timothy Weldon from University of St Francis

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. The staggering truth hits like a punch to the gut: 7.2 million Americans are currently living with Alzheimer's, and that number could nearly double to 13.8 million by 2060. As the seventh leading cause of death in the United States, dementia's impact reaches far beyond those diagnosed – it transforms families and tests the limits of our healthcare system. Our guests, Dr. Tim Walden from the University of St. Francis and Dr. Travis...

05-05
34:36

Just Because I'm Dressed Doesn't Mean I'm Okay

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. Ever feel like you're drowning in caregiving responsibilities while your own needs fade silently into the background? In this raw, honest exploration of caregiver burnout, we dive deep into the often-overlooked world of self-care during life's most challenging chapters. Caregiving demands everything from us—our time, energy, patience, and heart. When caring for someone with dementia or navigating the complex landscape of grief, we...

04-30
29:49

When Parents Need Help: A Conversation with Senior Care Expert Debbie Miller

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04-16
32:31

Grief's Playlist: Movies, Music, and Memories That Heal

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04-16
23:23

Meeting Them Where They Are: Finding Peace in the Dementia Journey

I would love to hear from you. Send me questions or comments. Communicating with someone who has dementia requires entering their reality rather than expecting them to function in ours. Understanding that their brain is physically changing helps us respond with compassion instead of frustration. • People with dementia aren't being difficult or stubborn on purpose—their brain function is deteriorating • The person looks the same but their cognitive abilities have significantly changed • Short...

04-01
20:26

When Grief Feels Like Drowning: Finding Your Way Through the Waves

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03-24
20:35

Grief Before Goodbye

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03-24
20:40

Navigating the Fog: Understanding Dementia Beyond the Label

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03-17
22:15

Dementia Caregiving

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03-17
20:31

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