Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

<p>Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here.</p><p>Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play.</p><p>Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.</p>

Little Love with Jules Brats-a-Lot

In this engaging conversation, Jules Brats-a-Lot and Mistress AudryLu Black explore the complexities of identity within the kink community, particularly focusing on the experiences of 'littles' and the dynamics of age play and age regression. They discuss the importance of community, representation, and the stigma surrounding these identities, while also exploring the joy and nostalgia that come with embracing one's own little space. The conversation underscores the importance of self-expression, the beauty of individuality, and the value of achieving clear goals in adult life, all while maintaining a light-hearted and authentic tone.https://lumbersnackster-designs.square.site/Content warning: electro-play, scarification, age regressionCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

12-01
01:16:39

Black and Cyan: An Impactful Meeting of Minds

In this episode, recorded live at DomCon NOLA, Mistress Audry Lu Black interviews Mistress Cyan, FemDom powerhouse founder of DomCon and owner of Sanctuary in Los Angeles. They discuss embracing the intersection of professional domination and lifestyle BDSM. Their conversation includes what we can learn from each other, how we all deserve community and the role of professional doms within that community.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

11-15
01:02:18

Torture Garden with Paul Faust

In this conversation, Mistress AudruLu Black and Paul Faust discuss his journey in the kink community, focusing on the events produced by Faustian Society and the aesthetic of Torture Garden. The dialogue explores the cultural differences between kink in Europe and America, the legal challenges faced in the U.S., and the complex relationship Americans have with sexuality. Faust emphasizes the importance of community accountability and the need for collaboration over competition in the kink scene. The conversation also touches on the commodification of kink and the influence of corporations on kink events, highlighting the evolving nature of the community and its events.The next Torture Garden LA is on Saturday, November 15th, at the Globe Theatre at 10 pm. This is an 18+ event with a strict fantasy/fetish dress code.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

11-01
01:16:57

Pretty Penny the Hucow

Mistress AudryLu Black and Pretty Penny the Hucow delve into the unique aspects of Hucow culture within the kink community; explore themes of body positivity and the intersection of hypnosis and kink. They also discuss the significance of costumes in providing permission for exploration and the role of community events in fostering creativity.Content warning: Feeding kink and blood playFeatured toy/resource: Anal hook cow tailhttps://tailsoffantasy.com/products/cow-tailCredits: Producers Maypop, Mimic, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

10-15
01:05:03

Purity CULTure with Father Nathan Monk

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Father Nathan Monk delve into modern America’s relationship with Purity Culture. They dive into corporate motivators, greater cultural effects, and the political implications of these ideologies. Father Nathan Monk speaks about being personally raised in the Purity Culture nexus and his subsequent study of the biblical sources (or lack of sources) that led him to lead in and eventually leave the Orthodox Church. Through his individual journey, we see the importance of autonomy and open dialogues about sexuality and sexual expression. Father Nathan Monk also discusses the life-saving ability of Narcan, emphasizing its accessibility and importance in overdose situations.Visit https://www.narcan.com for more informationDomCon New Orleans 2025 information:Beyond Ritual Workshop, October 24th at 11:30 am CTLive Podcast Recording, October 25th at 11:30 am CTIf you’re a fellow speaker, teacher or attendee interested in being a guest, please contact me at https://placemarker4perversion.com/guest-requestCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

10-01
01:00:55

Around the World in 80 Lays w/ Thomas

In this engaging conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Thomas explore the world of travel-friendly kinky toys, share tips on navigating airport security with sex toys, and discuss the dynamics of dating within the kink community. They reflect on learning experiences from disappointing encounters, the importance of authenticity and humor in online dating profiles, and the role of professionals in enhancing sexual experiences. The discussion is filled with insights, laughter, and practical advice for those interested in the intersection of travel, kink, and dating.Toy: We-Vibe Chorus https://www.we-vibe.com/us/chorusVibrating necklace https://www.amazon.com/Toodoumama-Necklaces-Personalized-Y-Necklaces-Rechargeable/dp/B0DLF9L3SX/ref=sr_1_3Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

09-15
01:07:10

Porn from the Bottom Up with Professional Hole, Marcelo

In this fascinating conversation, AudryLu Black and Marcelo delve into the intricacies of the kink and porn industry and explore Marcelo's personal journey. They discuss the importance of health and safety, the impact of public perception, and the nuances of negotiated intimacy in relationships. The conversation also touches on creative freedom in scene work and the role of pro-doms in the industry and reflects on the future of porn.Content warning: conversations about blood and STIs testing and protection.Featured resources: Spunk Lube, 100% silicone-based lube & IG: @LuxxGear_KinkBags large kink bag.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

09-01
01:03:49

Pt 2: Divine Fucking and Fighting: Discussions of the Sex Goddess Inanna and Other Deities

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Dr. Hillary Williamson Perez delve into the rich tapestry of Mesopotamian mythology, exploring the roles of goddesses, the complexities of relationships in ancient narratives, and the intersections of power, sexuality, and creativity. They discuss the significance of figures like Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Gilgamesh, while also highlighting the contributions of Hidwana, the first known poet, and the cultural implications of their stories in the context of gender and power dynamics.Content warning: Rape, Sex addiction, sex abuse, incest, physical assault and child marriage.Dr. Hillary J Williamson Perez is a Doctor of Philosophy in Mythological Studies with an Emphasis in Depth Psychology, MA/PhD. Dissertation title is “Union & the Underworld: the Presence and Development of Female Agency in the Marriages of Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Persephone.” P4P BibliographyBlack, Jeremy A., et al (2004). The literature of ancient Sumer. 1. publ. Oxford University Press.Enheduanna, and Betty De Shong Meador (2000). Inanna, Lady of Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess Enheduanna. (1st ed.). University of Texas Press.Harris, R. (2000). Gender and aging in Mesopotamia: The Gilgamesh epic and other ancient literature. University of Oklahoma Press.Leick, D.G. (1994). Sex and Eroticism in Mesopotamian Literature (1st ed.). Routledge.Meador, Betty De Shong (2001) Inanna, Lady of the Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess. University of Texas Press.Mitchell, Stephen (2004). Gilgamesh: A New English Version. Free Press.Wolkstein, Diane, and Samuel Noah Kramer (1983). Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth. Harper & Row.Additional Book Resources:Joseph Campbell’s the Hero’s Journey, Homer’s The Odyssey by Emily O. Wilson, and Intimate Lives of the Ancient Greeks by Stephanie Lynn Budin.Credits: Producers Maypop and Siren; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

08-15
01:29:23

Divine Fucking and Fighting: Discussions of the Sex Goddess Inanna and Other Deities

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Dr. Hillary Williamson Perez delve into the rich tapestry of Mesopotamian mythology, exploring the roles of goddesses, the complexities of relationships in ancient narratives, and the intersections of power, sexuality, and creativity. They discuss the significance of figures like Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Gilgamesh, while also highlighting the contributions of Hidwana, the first known poet, and the cultural implications of their stories in the context of gender and power dynamics.Content warning: Rape, Sex addiction, sex abuse, incest, physical assault and child marriage.Dr. Hillary J Williamson Perez is a Doctor of Philosophy in Mythological Studies with an Emphasis in Depth Psychology, MA/PhD. Dissertation title is “Union & the Underworld: the Presence and Development of Female Agency in the Marriages of Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Persephone.” P4P BibliographyBlack, Jeremy A., et al (2004). The literature of ancient Sumer. 1. publ. Oxford University Press. Enheduanna, and Betty De Shong Meador (2000). Inanna, Lady of Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess Enheduanna. (1st ed.). University of Texas Press.Harris, R. (2000). Gender and aging in Mesopotamia: The Gilgamesh epic and other ancient literature. University of Oklahoma Press.Leick, D.G. (1994). Sex and Eroticism in Mesopotamian Literature (1st ed.). Routledge.Meador, Betty De Shong (2001) Inanna, Lady of the Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess. University of Texas Press.Mitchell, Stephen (2004). Gilgamesh: A New English Version. Free Press.Wolkstein, Diane, and Samuel Noah Kramer (1983). Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth. Harper & Row. Additional Book Resources:Joseph Campbell’s the Hero’s Journey, Homer’s The Odyssey by Emily O. Wilson, and Intimate Lives of the Ancient Greeks by Stephanie Lynn Budin.Credits: Producers Maypop and Siren; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

08-01
01:14:21

The Power of Sex: cults, control, kink, and red flags with Dr Sam

The Power of Sex: cults, control, kink and red flags with Dr. SamIn this conversation, Audry Lu Black and (Dr.) Sam delve into the world of cults and high control groups and what draws individuals to them and the forms of control that are used to keep them there. They also explore the evolution of cults from good intentions to manipulative control and the gender dynamics that come into play.Content Warnings: human trafficking, sexual abuse, sexual assault, child marriage, conversations around religion, tortureFor further reading:Stephen Hassan https://freedomofmind.com/Rick Allen Ross https://www.culteducation.com/Alexandra Stein https://www.alexandrastein.com/Yanya Lalich https://www.lalichcenter.org/Unchained at Last- group working towards ending child marriages https://www.unchainedatlast.org/Rick Allan Ross- individual therapists list: https://culteducation.com/directory-of-cult-recovery-resources.htmlExJW subredditWellspring Retreat and Resource Center- Athens, Ohio https://wellspringretreat.org/Quivering Daughters by Hillary McFarland https://www.amazon.com/Quivering-Daughters-Hillary-McFarland/dp/0984468609The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Fear-Gavin-Becker/dp/0316235776Sinisterhood podcast https://www.sinisterhood.com/Credits: Producers Maypop and Siren; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

07-15
01:13:52

You Can Leave Your Hat On: P4P Presents Lady Delisha

Mistress AudryLu Black has a chat with Lady Delisha about her hat kink. In this engaging conversation, AudryLu Black and Lady Delisha explore the intriguing world of kinks, with a particular focus on hats in attraction and identity, the power of transformative roleplay, and the playful nature of kinks. Content warning: insertion playFeatured toy: Strap on Me, Strapless Strap onhttps://strap-on-me.us/products/vibrating-strap-on-remote-controlledCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

07-01
01:07:24

Monster Fucking with the Feral Gargoyle - Mounting the Monster

In this conversation, AudryLu Black and the Feral Gargoyle delve into monster fucking, exploring its definitions, the importance of consent, and the personal journeys that lead individuals to find attraction in monstrous figures. They discuss identity, kink, and the power dynamics involved in monster play. In this engaging conversation, the Feral Gargoyle and AudryLu delve into the unique aspects of the monster community, exploring identities, the intersection of kink and comfort, and the fascinating world of fantasy-themed sex toys. They discuss the challenges of finding like-minded individuals, the creativity of independent artisans, and the importance of understanding one's own desires and preferences in sexual wellness. They discuss the crafting of unique BDSM tools, the cultural influences on kink practices, and the importance of consent and interpretation in intimate relationships.Resources in today’s episode: Bad Dragon https://bad-dragon.com/Bunny Flogger https://www.bunnyflogger.com/Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab https://blackphoenixalchemylab.com/Newey Cobalt Designs https://nuicobaltdesigns.com/collections/nui-cobalt-fragrancesToday’s toy is Monster Maws, silicone sex toys made to look like the open jaws of a monster with the tongue sticking out, intended for insertion.Content Warning: discussions around consent and power dynamicsCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

06-15
01:02:32

Play with Casey Garner Pt 2

Play with Casey GarnerMistress AudryLu Black talks with Casey Garner about the importance of play and what it does for us psychologically, mentally and emotionally. They’ll also discuss transitioning play into the bedroom with a little kink. Resources in today’s episode:The Gamemaster’s Handbook of Proactive Roleplaying by Jonah Fishel, Tristan Fishel https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/65212673-the-game-master-s-handbook-of-proactive-roleplayingUnfuck Your Boundaries by Faith G. Harper https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/46231474-unfuck-your-boundariesPeter Grey definition of play – self-chosen and self-directed. Play is intrinsically motivated; the means are more valued than ends. Play is guided by mental rules, but the rules leave room for creativity. Play is imaginative. Play is conducted in an alert, active, but relatively non-stressed frame of mind.Midori definition of play unique definition of BDSM. It is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege, and cool toys. Content Warning: Knife play, blood play, incest, discussions around consent, and medical information "California Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144510 and Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #15609, supervised by Kelly Van Amberg, LCSW #92157." http://caseygarnertherapy.carrd.com Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

06-01
56:12

Play with Casey Garner

Play with Casey GarnerMistress AudryLu Black talks with Casey Garner about the importance of play and what it does for us psychologically, mentally and emotionally. They’ll also discuss transitioning play into the bedroom with a little kink. Resources in today’s episode:The Gamemaster’s Handbook of Proactive Roleplaying by Jonah Fishel, Tristan Fishel https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/65212673-the-game-master-s-handbook-of-proactive-roleplayingUnfuck Your Boundaries by Faith G. Harper https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/46231474-unfuck-your-boundariesPeter Grey definition of play – self-chosen and self-directed. Play is intrinsically motivated; the means are more valued than ends. Play is guided by mental rules, but the rules leave room for creativity. Play is imaginative. Play is conducted in an alert, active, but relatively non-stressed frame of mind.Midori definition of play unique definition of BDSM. It is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege, and cool toys. Content Warning: Knife play, blood play, incest, discussions around consent, and medical information "California Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144510 and Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #15609, supervised by Kelly Van Amberg, LCSW #92157." http://caseygarnertherapy.carrd.com Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

05-15
55:35

How To Talk To Your Medical Advisor About Your Kink and BDSM with Nurse Jess

How To Talk To Your Medical Advisor About Your Kink and BDSM with Nurse JessMistress AudryLu Black sits down with Nurse Jess to discuss how to talk to your medical advisor about your kink and BDSM.Content warning: blood, sexual assault, sex trafficking, and medical information.  Featured toy: OFFICIAL Hitachi Magic Wand Original Model HV260 https://hitachimagic.com/We apologize for the sound quality in the first half of the production. It does greatly improve in the second half.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

05-01
01:07:36

Menstruation with Dana Hammer

Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with author and playwright Dana Hammer to discuss all things menstruation, specifically menstrual poverty, preparedness and of course, period sex.Content warning: Child abuse, blood, physical and sexual assault, body and gender dysphoriaLinks to some of Dana Hammer’s bookshttps://www.amazon.com/Cannibals-Guide-Fasting-Dana-Hammer/dp/1953971512https://www.amazon.com/Best-Friend-Athena-Dana-Hammer-ebook/dp/B0BHH74MNM/ref=sr_1_1?crid=VNNPD8I77YNG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.MCH_4impkKgzJVEO21YSsRsJSGtStzKexrC9PHp2ZgEvo222xxH3HA_A12vQWsMweORK0qXpJuUujGSYjBkmeVcjVOlzKfc4rfcKOHaQmqwmb4kRf-f8s51GfOS9N2F2GftE6sQ7ZFRAqder3g1wCw.DsUjeraQinUMAHeRAHzO6SAyrzvPp1Ntep1XnmDDzRs&dib_tag=se&keywords=My+best+friend+athena&qid=1744153260&s=books&sprefix=my+best+friend+athena%2Cstripbooks%2C127&sr=1-1www.danahammer.comAlways period panties: https://www.always.comClit suckler: https://www.tracysdog.com/products/og-pro2-clitoral-sucking-vibratorCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

04-15
01:06:39

Philosophy with Dr. Martin Young

Join Mistress AudryLu Black and adjunct professor Dr. Martin Young as they discuss their favorite philosophies and how they relate to kink.For further reading recommendations by Dr. Martin Young:https://madwizard.com/recommends.htm Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

04-02
01:18:51

Fat Sex with the Fat Troublemakr Part 2

Part Two: The Fat Troublemakr Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with the Fat Troublemakr to discuss the myths around fat sex and the importance of accessibility in kink. They also talk about how to make sex more accessible and fun for all body types using resources like the wedge or a liberator. https://www.liberator.com/liberator-wedge-sex-pillow.html https://womanizer.com – duo 2 submersible https://hitachimagic.com https://tracysdog.com/collections/clit-sucking-vibrator Content warning: Fat phobia, abuse, disordered eating, and feeding abuses Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

03-15
01:06:57

Part one: The Fat Troublmakr

Part One: The Fat TroublemakrMistress AudryLu Black sits down with the Fat Troublemakr to discuss the myths around fat sex and the importance of accessibility in kink. They also talk about how to make sex more accessible and fun for all body types using resources like the wedge or a liberator.https://www.liberator.com/liberator-wedge-sex-pillow.htmlhttps://womanizer.com – duo 2 submersiblehttps://hitachimagic.comhttps://tracysdog.com/collections/clit-sucking-vibrator Content warning: Fat phobia, abuse, disordered eating, and feeding abuses Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

03-01
01:06:28

Sexy Talk with Stina French

Mistress AudryLu Black delves into sexy talk with her guest, Stina French. Stina hosts the online monthly series Listen to Your Skin and is the editor and publisher of the Listen to Your Skin Anthology and Take the Fruit. In today’s episode, language is kink, from sexting and whispering sweet nothings to safe words. In this episode, they cover it all.Content Warning: Self-harmLinks:https://www.thegreatbritishbookshop.co.uk/products/take-the-fruithttps://www.thegreatbritishbookshop.co.uk/products/listen-to-your-skin-an-anthology-of-queer-and-self-loveListen2YourSkin live events at IG@listen2yourskin.com

02-21
56:42

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