Polycurious

Today, JJ and Kata share their journey from non-anchor to anchor partners. Kata opens up about how a betrayal in a previous relationship made her feel more activated by non-monogamy, and offers practical tools for finding your way back to a sense of safety and emotional regulation when your partner is on a date.Resources mentioned:Ep.72 with JJhttps://www.polycurious.com/podcast2/ep72Connect with Kata:https://www.instagram.com/katarina.warras/https://www.katarinawarras.com/Tantra retreats:https://lalunafamily.com/retreats/https://ista.life/⁠Subscribe to Polycurious on Spotify⁠⁠:https://members.spotify.com/to/polycurious⁠⁠Subscribe to Polycurious on Patreon⁠⁠:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousStruggling with Non-monogamy? ⁠⁠Book a free exploratory call for coaching here⁠⁠:https://www.polycurious.com/coaching

Today, Ross and Eden, tantra practitioners, intimacy and relationship coaches, and community builders, share how they evolved from a very polyamorous dating life to a relationship that still leaves room for openness while honoring their nervous systems, emotional capacity, and desire to focus on each other.We talk about:How to distinguish between a partner limiting your freedom out of judgment or control and a reasonable request to slow down while they work through their insecurities.The consequences of pursuing relationships that don’t align with what you truly want in a primary partnership, both for yourself and for the people you date.Why and how Ross and Eden designed a relationship in which they mostly date and play together, with occasional “hall passes” that let them explore separately three or four times a year.Listen to Ross and Eden's bonus content on their open phone policy and approach to hierarchy: https://open.spotify.com/episode/58n8FiiFxtGwVRgTByGxAi?si=pNOZfQZaQhid8s44L-ryyAConnect with Ross and EdenEden's IG: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedwitheden/Ross' IG: https://www.instagram.com/embodi.men/Sacred Society: https://sacredsocietyproject.com/Embodimen: https://try.embodimen.com/Temple of Eden: https://linktr.ee/TempleofEden⁠Subscribe to Polycurious on Spotify⁠:https://members.spotify.com/to/polycurious⁠Subscribe to Polycurious on Patreon⁠:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousStruggling with Non-monogamy? ⁠Book a free exploratory call for coaching here⁠:https://www.polycurious.com/coaching

Today I share my thoughts about The Invite, a movie about a married couple who invite their neighbors over for dinner. Things are awkward from the start, but they get even more awkward, funny, and real when an unexpected invitation to explore non-monogamy comes up.The Invite is directed by Olivia Wilde, who also stars in it with Seth Rogen, Penélope Cruz, and Edward Norton. It's a surprisingly real and nuance look at relationships.Resources mentioned:Chill Polyamory's Review of the Invite:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xvcdm5hsFtoSubscribe to Polycurious on Spotify:https://members.spotify.com/to/polycuriousSubscribe to Polycurious on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousStruggling with Non-monogamy? Book a free exploratory call for coaching here:https://www.polycurious.com/coaching

Sarah Stroh talks about her book, Monogamaybe, her process coming to terms with her non-monogamous identity and finding a partner who supported her in that journey. We discuss how to manage and process jealousy and what agreements look like in non-monogamy when you want to be your best poly self but the reality is you’re struggling. Resourced mentioned:Sarah's bonus episode on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Knenv8lsQpqdXo57e9ZJ8?si=dEnFvBDDQmKjSQJMJRzA-gSarah's bonus episode on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/Polycurious/posts/dating-as-new-ep-171433818Ep.45 Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh⁠https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep45Sarah's book Monogamaybe? : Honest advice on navigating relationships from monogamy to polyamory:https://www.monogamish.me/pages/monogamaybeWhen Jealousy Shows Up (Sarah's 12 min video guide):https://www.monogamish.me/courses/hack-your-jealousyPolycurious' Jealousy Survival Guide: https://www.polycurious.com/resourcesFollow Sarah on IG:https://www.instagram.com/monogamish_me/Subscribe to Sarah's Substack:https://substack.com/@monogamishFollow Polycurious on IG:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast/Subscribe to Polycurious on Spotify⁠:https://members.spotify.com/to/polycurious⁠Subscribe to Polycurious on Patreon⁠:https://www.patreon.com/c/Polycurious

Natalie Davis, author of the memoir Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory, shares her journey into polyamory, from opening up her marriage in her 40s after her husband’s infidelity to navigating living with her metamours.Natalie also opens up about the end of a decade long relationship after her partner began dating someone new and could no longer offer her the kind of relationship she wanted. She reflects on what she’s learned about letting go when a relationship no longer works for you.Resources MentionedCheck out Natalie’s book:https://www.amazon.com/Saying-Yes-My-Adventures-Polyamory/dp/1510784497/ref=sr_1_1?crid=JEYQUH4XM8HM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9._tsLaAlh__BGiuGLnZJLiw.JX2srBOBjj6OyQxCQ153pHkVP0TiswCxul7POet7l2U&dib_tag=se&keywords=saying+yes+my+adventures+in+polyamory&qid=1750961117&s=books&sprefix=saying+yes+my+adventures+in+polyamory%2Cstripbooks%2C62&sr=1-1Learn more about OPEN:https://www.open-love.org/Ep.59 with Adam, author of “Seek the Risk”https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep59Ep.46 with Molly Roden Winter, author of “More”: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep46Book a free exploratory call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minFollow Polycurious and Join Our CommunityJoin our Whatsapp community⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious