In this episode, we will dive deep into the events surrounding the assassination of Charlie Kirk — not just the headlines, but what believers can learn from his life, his faith, and his example. Charlie Kirk wasn’t perfect (none of us are), but his clarity of purpose and devotion to Christ left a mark. From his candid admission of past struggles with pornography to his unwavering conviction that faith comes before politics, Charlie’s life points us toward something bigger: living every day with a North Star that glorifies God. We'll walk through: Why Charlie’s openness about past battles matters for men wrestling with sin How purpose and calling give strength to overcome temptation Why true faith always leads to righteous action, not passive religion The descent, turning point, and ascent of Psalm 73 — and what it teaches us when evil seems to flourish Why nearness to God is the only true cure for sin and despair This is both a sober reflection and a rallying cry: don’t waste your life sitting on the sidelines. Draw near to God, take your eyes off the world, and live boldly for Christ. Key Takeaways Faith and Purpose Crush Sin: Freedom doesn’t come by willpower alone but through Christ and a clear sense of calling. Psalm 73’s Lesson: The turning point comes when we stop comparing ourselves to others and fix our eyes on God. Your Life Has to Count: We weren’t saved to coast into heaven on a “featherbed.” True faith produces works that glorify God. Nearness to God Is the Cure: As Spurgeon said, “The greater our nearness to God, the less we are affected by the attractions and distractions of earth.” Scripture Anchors Matthew 28 — The Great Commission as our North Star Psalm 73 — From envy and doubt to joy in God alone James 2:17 — Faith without works is dead Closing Challenge Stop living defensively. Stop hiding. Lift your eyes to God, draw near, and live with eternity in mind. If you found this episode helpful, leave a review, share it with a brother who needs encouragement and subscribe for more Christ-centered conversations on faith, freedom, and purpose.
In this episode of Porn and the Gospel, we tackle one of the most dangerous threats to a man’s walk with Christ...deception. From James 1 to Colossians 2, we uncover why every man is prone to believe lies and how those lies can quietly shipwreck your faith. You’ll learn: Why it’s easier to justify sin than to dig for God’s truth How to identify the “plausible arguments” Paul warned about The daily habits that protect you from deception and strengthen your spiritual foundation The powerful picture Proverbs 9 paints of wisdom and folly—and why you can’t remain neutral Three reflection questions that will challenge your walk with God this week This isn’t just about avoiding sin. It’s about building your life on the bedrock of God’s Word instead of the sinking sand of human reasoning. If you’re tired of being tossed around by temptation, distraction, and half-truths, this episode will point you back to the hidden treasure of wisdom and knowledge found only in Christ. Join our free community for men at TheManOfValor.com and take the next step toward becoming the man God designed you to be.
In this week’s raw and honest episode, we’re going deep. Deeper than porn. Deeper than behavior. This is about the heart and the eternal battle between comfort and calling. You’ll hear a powerful story about Alexander the Great and how his army’s success became their greatest hindrance. And how that same pattern plays out in the lives of Christian men today. Spoils become shackles. Comfort becomes compromise. And sin, both obvious and subtle, keeps us from the race we were meant to run. But we’re not left without an example. Jesus, the greater King, burned every worldly treasure to obey the will of the Father—and then called us to follow Him. Not to simply “go,” but to follow. You’ll discover: Why the call to follow Jesus means radical surrender How to throw off the “weighted vest” of comfort and sin A practical challenge to fix your eyes on Christ...not other Christians, not your Instagram feed, not your bank account And a live invite to join a free workshop on biblical meditation (inside the Man of Valor community) This is not about white-knuckling your way out of pornography. It’s about magnifying Christ and living for something that will never fade. Mentioned in this episode: The Alexander the Great story and spiritual parallel Hebrews 12:1–4 | Philippians 2 | 1 Peter 2 | 2 Corinthians 8:9 Quotes from Charles Spurgeon The “Murph Workout” analogy to carrying spiritual weight A free community for men: themanofvalor.com Upcoming live workshop: How to Meditate on the Word of God (register inside the group)
Here's the truth: “You don’t need another strategy. You need surrender.” In this episode, Spencer unpacks what the Word of God reveals about overcoming sin, walking by the Spirit, and living with power in a world designed to defeat you. We start with a battle scene—one king, 580,000 soldiers… facing an army of over 1 million. And what unfolds becomes a divine blueprint for anyone locked in a fight they’re losing—especially the fight against porn, shame, guilt, and the flesh. But this isn’t a sin-management strategy. This is about warfare. Worship. Total surrender. In This Episode, You’ll Discover: The 5 biblical steps to spiritual victory drawn from King Asa’s story Why most men live powerless, defeated lives—and don’t even realize it The subtle trap of chasing relief over relationship with Christ Why “half-hearted” Christianity guarantees defeat What it really means to “walk by the Spirit” in 2025 How success in God’s eyes has nothing to do with streaks, stats, or milestones The most honest prayer you can pray as a man today Key Quotes: “Unless you are helpless before God, you will have no victory.” “You can’t drag your flesh behind you and expect to walk by the Spirit.” “Men will do anything—buy anything—except the one thing Scripture commands: surrender.” “If you’re not giving God your whole heart… just be okay with defeat.” Who This Episode Is For: Men battling porn or any other stronghold Anyone who’s tired of temporary victory and longs for deep change Believers who feel spiritually dry, weak, or stuck Those who want to move from “flesh-driven” to Spirit-led living Scripture Featured: 2 Chronicles 14 & 15 (King Asa’s battle and covenant) 1 Corinthians 3 (Carnal vs. spiritual Christians) Romans 8 (Life in the Spirit) Luke 9 & Matthew 16 (Radical discipleship)
In this soul-stirring episode of Porn and the Gospel, Spencer dives deep into one of the boldest prayers ever recorded in Scripture—the moment Moses stood between God and a rebellious people and said, “Blot me out of your book.” What gives a man such courage? What kind of intimacy with God allows you to pray not just for yourself—but with fire and urgency for others? You’ll discover: Why your freedom from sin is about God’s glory, not just your relief. The missing link in most men’s prayer lives—and how to restore it. Why habitual sin kills your concern for others—and how intercessory prayer breaks that cycle. What Paul and Moses shared in common when they prayed. A powerful, practical prayer from Ephesians 3 you can start praying today—for your wife, your brother, or even someone far from God. Spencer brings Scripture, vulnerability, and a call to arms for every man who wants to go deeper in his walk with God and learn how to intercede with boldness. Key Scriptures: Exodus 32:30–32, 33:13–18 Ephesians 3:14–21 Galatians 6:1–2 Ask Yourself: Who are you praying for with boldness? Is God’s glory your deepest motivation—or are you just asking for relief? What would happen in your life if you began praying like Moses and Paul? Share This Episode If: You’re tired of surface-level prayers. You’re ready to be used by God to bring restoration and revival. You know someone drifting away from the faith and want to fight for them in prayer.
In this episode, we'll discusses the struggles many men face in breaking free from destructive habits like pornography and masturbation. Based on scripture, we'll outline three key conditions for achieving spiritual fulfillment and joy: recognizing one's deep thirst and desires, believing in the truth and promises of the word of God, and asking the Holy Spirit to dwell in one's life.
In this raw and timely episode, Spencer speaks straight to the soul of every man walking the path toward purity. He shares how sexual sin doesn’t start in the bedroom, but in the heart. Drawing from Proverbs 4:23, he explains why guarding your heart is not optional—it’s spiritual life support. You’ll hear the story of a brother facing deep relational brokenness because of compromise. You’ll hear how the slow drift into isolation and secrecy is Satan’s favorite trap. But most of all, you’ll be reminded of God’s promises, the power of confession, and the battle plan every man needs. This episode is loaded with real talk, biblical truth, and powerful encouragement to: Fight before the fall, not just after Replace entitlement with worship Trade secrecy for accountability Pursue Christ as your true satisfaction Spurgeon said, “If you want pure power in prayer, you must have purity in life.” You’re not just after freedom from porn, you’re after power for God’s purpose. Key Verse: Proverbs 4:23 – "Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life." Join the free group of 200+ brothers fighting together at themanofvalor.com And if you need daily encouragement or accountability, hop in the new WhatsApp group started by one of our guys.
Want to join our free group of men who deeply desire to honor God with their lives? Learn more here - https://www.skool.com/modern-man-of-valor-free-6944/about Recently, I was attending a mastermind in Dallas and I wanted to share some thoughts I had about a successful investor with significant material wealth and zero debt. What can we learn, if we are payin attention, to those with tremendous worldly success in this life? 00:00 Introduction and Host Welcome 00:14 Real Estate Journey and Mastermind Experience 01:40 Insights from Successful Investors 04:02 The True Meaning of Success 05:45 Biblical Perspective on Wealth and Joy 11:24 Reflection and Encouragement 12:56 Closing Prayer and Final Thoughts
In this episode of 'Porn and the Gospel,' we look at John 15:9-10 and explore how the principles of Robert Sternberg's Triangulation of Love theory can illuminate a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with God. I want to challenge you to evaluate your own relationships with God. Is willpower enough? Or does it require something more? Does it require deep emotional intimacy and passionate desire? This episode encourages reflection on how best to cultivate a rich, holistic love for God to combat temptations and grow in faith.
The Morning Hours - Prayer, Power, and Purity Psalm 5:3 ~ O LORD, in the morning you hear my voice; in the morning I prepare a sacrifice for you and watch. Let me begin this by saying, I understand that some men believe that they work and think and get energy mostly in the evening. And in doing so, they don’t give much thought to how they spend their mornings. If this is you, I want to challenge your assumptions. I want you to consider that prayer and preparation in the morning is far more valuable than evening productivity. The man who is at war with lust must not sleep in. This war starts before your feet hit the floor. David says, “O Lord, in the morning you hear my voice.” And Spurgeon said it like this: “Prayer should be the key of the day and the lock of the night.” Because your enemy doesn’t sleep, rest, or care about your excuses, it is imperative that we wake early and begin with careful and precise prayers to our Lord and God.
Join our free group at www.themanofvalor.com. In this episode, I'll be speaking specifically to a message from a brother who was looking for help and encouragement. This is what he said: "I feel so hopeless, I say I want to be free, ive confessed to friends and even to family. Set up accountability but I somehow end up isolating from them and going back into porn. I know it requires commitment to fight to make any progress.... I just can't seem to muster any lasting commitment. I really want to. I just don't seem to be able to and it's making me feel hopeless. HELP!" Tune in to hear how I respond.
In this episode, we'll explore the three characteristics of a man who experiences the presence of God. We'll be diving into Psalms 15:1-2 for much needed encouragement because, as men of God, there should be nothing more we desire than to live with integrity before the Lord in our daily lives.
In this episode, Spencer shares a deeply personal story about the recent tragic death of his brother-in-law, Mark Meadows, a police officer and Army veteran. Sutton reflects on the fleeting nature of life and the importance of cherishing relationships over material pursuits. He emphasizes the urgent need for men, especially in the church, to engage in spiritual warfare against the schemes of the devil, particularly in the battle against pornography and sexual sin. Drawing from Ephesians 6, Spencer calls for a renewed commitment to God, urging listeners to arm themselves with faith, prayer, and the Word of God. He concludes with a powerful message on finding joy in salvation through Christ as the ultimate remedy for overcoming sin. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:52 Tragic Loss of a Loved One 03:15 Family and Community Support 06:58 Reflections on Life's Brevity 08:38 The Importance of Relationships 10:50 Spiritual Warfare and Armor of God 17:28 Call to Action and Encouragement 26:26 Finding Joy in Salvation 28:46 Conclusion and Farewell
Satan's first trick to lure people into sin is to show them the bait while hiding the hook; to offer the golden cup but conceal the poison inside; to highlight the sweetness, pleasure, and benefits of giving in to sin, while hiding the inevitable suffering and misery that follow. This is how he deceived the first humans. The serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. God knows that when you eat the fruit, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like gods, knowing good and evil” (Gen. 3:4-5). “You'll have your eyes opened and become like gods!” That’s the bait—the pleasure, the sweetness, the gain. But what he hides is the hook—the shame, the anger of God, and the loss that will come for sure. There are two ways our eyes can be opened: the mind can be opened to joy and contemplation, or the body to shame and confusion. Satan promises the first but delivers the second. He cheated Adam and Eve, offering them an apple in exchange for paradise, just like he continues to deceive countless people today. That's a paraphrase from Thomas Brooks
In this episode, we will reflect on the importance of identity and faith by examining the story of Moses in Exodus 2:11-15. We'll contrasts Moses's actions with the approach Jesus displayed in Matthew 9:36-38. We must embrace their true identity in Christ, turn away from sinful temptations, and continuously look to God for strength and guidance. Join the community at themanofvalor.com to engage in deeper discussions and support.
In this episode of Porn and the Gospel, we dive into the deep struggle many believers face with pornography and masturbation. Drawing from John 11, I discuss the importance of aligning our lives with God's perspective and purposes, even when it seems impossible. We explore the duality of the Christian life—both surrender and war—showing how true freedom comes from submitting to God’s will and waging spiritual battle against the flesh. Whether you’re in the midst of this battle or supporting someone who is, this episode offers encouragement and practical steps to refocus on the gospel and live in victory.
There's nothing more hopeless than being stuck in the patter of habitual sexual sin. The broken promises, the secrecy, the shame, and the struggling relationships. In this episode we walk through the struggle and look at what God's Word and I'll share three helpful suggestions for any brother struggling.
We all have habits. These habits either help us or hurt us. They either move us toward a life pleasing to God or aid in drifting into a life of powerful and painful regrets. In this episode, I'll share 8 helpful habits that anyone can start that will significantly impact your life over time.
In the last episode from this series, I want to walk you through the actual process that a man of God can become free from porn. It's something that almost every follower of Jesus knows but rarely gives themselves to. I want to encourage you to take the next step in becoming the man of God he created you to be. This will result in your freedom, joy, and, ultimately, God's glory.
The truth will set you free! This is a popular quote from Jesus in John 8...but what does Jesus set us free from? In this episode, we explore the four things that Christ sets every man of God free from.