Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40

Love between humans is not easy, and most of us never had great examples or education about emotions, communication, sex, or what keeps love alive. When you add the challenges of aging to the mix, love becomes even more complicated. Many people end up settling, or giving up on what they want most. But you don't have to! Dating and relationships become easier when you hear people share vulnerably about their struggles, and how they've created more connection and excitement. I bring my 20 years of experience, coaching thousands of people, to help you see what's possible, and how the practice of love makes it possible to have the best love and sex of your life! Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life! https://shanajamescoaching.com/goodies

#33: Feel, Heal, and Let That Sh*t Go: Emotional Potty Training for Lasting Love and Better Relationships

Most of us never got the “emotional potty training” we needed as kids. Instead, we learned to hide, suppress, or ignore our feelings, which often wreaks havoc in our adult love lives. In this Practicing Love episode, I talk with therapist Rachel Kaplan, author of Feel, Heal, and Let That Sh*t Go, about why learning to feel our emotions is the missing key to deeper intimacy, resilience, healing, and keeping a relationship alive. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: X6DOTPWFPO5ZGZDX

08-28
41:06

#32: Why Shared Values Aren’t Enough for a Lasting Relationship

If you think shared values are the key to making a relationship last, think again. Shana James talks with Nick Brancato, author of Prioritize Us: Unlock Lasting Love with One Simple, Proven Test, about why relationships fall apart despite shared values. We discuss the real keys to lasting love and intimacy. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: 3XO0LDATK42BXEXU

08-14
34:56

#31: How to Stop Repeating Parent Wounds and Create a Conscious Relationship

If you’ve ever found yourself replaying childhood wounds in your romantic relationships, this episode explores how parent-child dynamics often show up in love. And how you can break the cycle and create a relationship rooted in wholeness, sovereignty, and joy. We look at the path from codependency to conscious connection — and what it takes to truly heal the mother and father wounds. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: JYEBEACXSYUOYD5E

08-07
47:36

#30: Unlearn Childhood Patterns to Build Real Love

The relational patterns you learn in childhood shape your romantic relationships, often without you knowing it. In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences influence adult love — and what it takes to unlearn those patterns to build real, lasting connection. Host Shana James and executive coach Jake Fishbein explore emotional resilience, trust, and the courage to embrace vulnerability in love. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: FTDWN40V3UIZ5PJL

07-24
43:20

#29: Relationship Agreements: The Key to a Stronger Partnership

A big reason many relationships fall apart is because most couples don't make clear, conscious agreements. In this episode, I talk with Krista and Will VanderVeer (hosts of The Art of We podcast) about how relationship agreements can profoundly deepen intimacy, support emotional repair, and help couples navigate the ups and downs of love with more grace and clarity. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: HDF76SDCD7O26RO5

07-17
53:32

#28: Anger in Relationships - How to Stay Connected When You're Upset

We talk about the moments when anger builds within us, moments when a partner pulls away in anger, the downward spiral that can ensue, and how to find your way back to connection — even in the heat of the moment! Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: IHVPCN3F5C1BO2Q0

07-03
41:34

#27: How to Stay in Love When You Disagree (Even on Big Issues)

How do you stay in love when you disagree? In any relationship, disagreements are inevitable — but where do you draw the line? Can you love someone whose beliefs or values differ from your own? In this deep conversation, Sean Harvey (author of Warrior Compassion) and I explore how to stay connected even across painful divides. We talk about meeting the unmet needs beneath defensiveness, bridging polarization with radical compassion, and healing the divide — in love, in politics, and within ourselves. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: ELRUV6G8JHUP8JAW

06-26
37:12

#26: Deepening Love Through Perimenopause and Andropause

Perimenopause isn’t just challenging for women — it impacts relationships and intimacy in powerful ways. In this vulnerable and eye-opening episode, men’s mentor Kenny Mammarella-D’Cruz shares how he navigates fear, emotional triggers, and trauma to create deeper connection, intimacy, and love. We explore men’s emotional growth, midlife relationships, and how to stay connected through hormonal changes. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!

06-12
38:27

#25: What to Do if You’ve Lost Yourself in a Relationship

What do you do when you've lost yourself (or parts of yourself) in love? In this heartfelt conversation Megan Walrod, author of It's Always Been Me, explores how to reclaim your voice, stop giving away your power, and stay true to yourself in your relationships. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: WGWRQANBJDWAVVM6

06-05
46:10

#24: Spiritual Intelligence Makes Your Relationship Stronger

On this episode of Practicing Love, we talk about spiritual intelligence, which can make relationships stronger — and hotter. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: CNP489SMTIUXHOMC  

05-29
42:08

#23: A New Era of Sex with Intimacy, Confidence and Men's Sexual Health

Dr. Elliot Justin, a pioneer in men’s sexual health, has developed innovative wearable technology to improve erectile function, sexual fitness, and intimacy. Having tracked over 70,000 erections, he’s transforming how sexual health supports lasting pleasure and deeper connection as we age. Whether you’re a man experiencing fading erections or a partner seeking greater sexual satisfaction and closeness, this episode is for you. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: X6DOTPWFPO5ZGZDX

05-22
46:14

#22: What Does it Really Take to Satisfy a Woman?

What does it really take to satisfy a woman these days? In this conversation with Dr. Alanna Kaivalya, we explore the emotional, spiritual, and relational keys to true feminine fulfillment — and how both women and men can create more satisfying, connected love. Listen to this one if you're looking for more depth, and a partnership that actually works in today’s world! Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: OHMHFXBSHHFV307Z

05-12
44:28

#21: True Freedom Creates Real Love

True Freedom is what allows us to have real love and supportive, healthy relationships. But freedom can be confusing when it's seen as an external rather than an internal quest. Today's guest talks about the surprising connection between freedom and commitment, and how you can be free in romantic relationships.  Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: JYEBEACXSYUOYD5E

05-01
42:12

#20: Emotional Intelligence in Relationships = More Love

One of the keys to healthy, strong, connected relationships is emotional intelligence. Learning to listen and love from a deeper place doesn't come easy to many of us, but it can be learned! An expert in the field of awareness and relationship skills, Daniel Ellenberg brings powerful wisdom to have stronger and more satisfying relationships. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: ELRUV6G8JHUP8JAW

04-17
40:40

#19: How to Love Someone - Shaun Emerson

Love can feel complicated. When I meet someone who sees the simplicity of love, and really knows how to love someone, I am quick to strike up a conversation to learn more. Whether you want to know what is true love in a relationship, or to bring more love to your entire life, Shaun helps you see how to get there. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: 3XO0LDATK42BXEXU

04-10
31:18

#18: Healthy Independence in Relationships

Today's Practicing Love and Man Alive podcast guest, Dr. Fred Rabinowitz, talks about how he navigates independence and connection in his relationship. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: CHROXRSGACRHE8NP

03-27
39:06

#17: Beducated: Sex Education for Adults + Intimacy While Parenting

It's not always easy to keep sex and intimacy alive with all the responsibilities we have, and the fact pace of our world. Today, Mariah Freya, of Beducated, talks about sex education for adults, and how to support sex in long term relationships, as well as what it's like to reignite intimacy after becoming a parent. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!

03-20
36:35

#16: Communicating as a Couple to Feel More Connected

While there are overlaps, communicating as a couple is different from communicating at work or with family. In a couple, in addition to building trust and respect, you have to help someone feel so safe with you that they will be vulnerable with their emotions and their body! Today's guest shares the most important communication skills for couples to keep their relationship connected, that also work in the dating phase.  Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: 15Q3WZOTKSNA4MJM   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: JYEBEACXSYUOYD5E

03-13
29:52

#15: The Way to Love a Strong and Independent Woman

Strong and independent women are pretty common these days. If you're a man or woman who loves women, this episode will help you understand how to sidestep intimidation and create an inspiring connection with this type of woman. If you're a strong, independent woman, you'll hear from another woman who has learned to let open up and love in, without having to be weak or small.   Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: CHROXRSGACRHE8NP

02-27
31:09

#14: How to Stop Being a Nice Guy in Dating and Relationships

It's amazing to be a man who loves and supports women. But beware of going overboard and losing yourself, stepping into the role of the "nice guy." Nice guys tend to get resentful, or become ghosts of themselves, especially when things don't go their way. On today's episode you'll learn how to stop being a nice guy, and instead maintain your heart and care, paired with your sovereignty and strength.  Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!   Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burble License code: IHVPCN3F5C1BO2Q0

02-20
28:23

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