When you're thinking about divorce, there are alot of fears. How will I afford the divorce? Where will I move? Will I spend the rest of my life alone? If you're not careful, the pre-divorce fears can paralyze your planning process... and lead you into a future filled with loss and regret. Don't let that be you. Join me and learn how to manage your pre-divorce fears and focus on the pre-divorce possibilities that you can take hold of now to create a life you love to look at later. Don't miss out!
It's a new year, a new decade, a new time to be alive... and, yet, you might be dealing with same old marital problems you had last year and the year before that and even the decade before that. How do you get beyond what's bugging you to identify what's missing in your marriage so you can develop a pre-divorce plan to create a life you love to look at? Join me and find out!
Is your spouse always asking where you're going, what you're doing and with whom? Do you find that your spouse tries to play guilt trips on you when you do something for yourself or when you pursue your own interests? Are you tired of passive aggressive behavior and other control tactics that your spouse is using to try to get you to stay in the marriage? Join me as I discuss why spouses go overboard with control when a divorce becomes a consideration.
When you're in the pre-divorce process, it's hard enough to deal with your spouse... let alone his or her entire family over the holidays. But, for so many of us, because nobody knows what's going on, the show must go on and you have to find a way to put on a happy face, even as the marriage falls apart. How do you cope with in-laws, friends and family during the holidays as you go through the pre-divorce process? Join me on Friday and find out!
Are you a child of divorce who now finds yourself in the predivorce process? What's the link between being a child of divorce and considering divorce? Join me as I talk about how wounds from the past play a role in the predivorce process.
When a house is no longer home and living under the same roof with a spouse becomes unbearable, there are three choices that most people make- 1) Move out of the bedroom, 2) Move out of the house, or 3) Demand the other person take step 1 or 2. Those aren’t effective strategies in the pre-divorce process. Join me and learn how to use the right pre-divorce move out strategies.
A lack of spousal support can have adverse impact on your ability to create financial and professional freedom in the pre-divorce process. Far too many spend way too much effort and energy, in the pre-divorce process, on trying to make their spouses change and be more supportive. That’s an ineffective predivorce strategy. Join me and learn how to use super-effective strategies for getting the support you need to boost your education, career, and finances.
When you’re married to a victim, you know it. Nothing is his/her fault; everything is about somebody else. The dog ate his/her homework. He/she can’t get ahead at work because of so and so. The marriage would be better if only for better finances, better breaks, more help from family and friends. Excuse after excuse, being married to a victim is tough. Join me for a show that will teach you how to develop pre-divorce strategies to effectively deal with a spouse who constantly plays the victim.
One of the hardest parts of making the stay-or go decision comes when you look into your children’s eyes and realize that this decision will forever change their lives. The dreams you had for them as babies might not come true. Their sense of family and security will continue to change. It’s scary territory. Join me for a radio show that’ll teach you how to use scenario planning to sort out the complex issues of this difficult situation.
In many pre-divorce situations, one spouse has known for quite some time that the marriage was over. However, he or she waits until the last moment to finally tell the other person (who's thinking everything's okay), "I'm leaving you." News like that, to a person who was under the impression that the marriage was fine, can be devastating. Join me today to find out how you can cope with divorce news that you never expected to hear.
In the pre-divorce process, there's a tendency to want to play 'nice.' So many of us enter the process hoping for an amicable separation. We believe the best about our spouses and hope that they will want the most peaceful way out of the marriage, if that is the final choice. Unfortunately, far too many spouses are coming from a place of anger, hurt and frustration and they are not, in this process, equipped with the ability to exit peacefully. In these scenarios, it's important to strategize in a way that protects you and your children without feeling like you always have to be on the defensive. Listen in and learn how to draw your pre-divorce sword without having to use it.
Divorce is a serious word. When you combine that with "I want a divorce", you've got four powerful words that, once said, will forever change your life. How do you know that you're ready for divorce? What are the signs and symptoms of a marriage that can be saved versus a marriage that cannot? Join me as I discuss the 5 factors that determine if divorce is a choice you're ready to make.
In the pre-divorce process, we go through many feelings of regret. Did I marry the wrong person? Did I make poor financial decisions? Am I going to regret getting a divorce? Am I going to regret staying married? There are so many regrets that crop up and the key is to learn how to release regret in the pre-divorce process so you don't spend years in the post-divorce life doing the forgiveness and letting go work. Join me as I talk about how to release regret.
In the pre-divorce process, there's a critical path to success that most people don't see. Driven by their emotions, many find themselves held back by fear, blame, anger, and frustration to the point that they miss this clear, important path. Listen in and find out how to identify and use the critical path in the predivorce process.
Ever feel guilty for consideri divorce? Wonder if you're secret desire to leave is some form of infidelity? Join me as we discuss the emotional rollercoaster that involves pre-divorce jitters and guilt.