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Welcome to Pretty Private with Eboné—the podcast where silence is broken and stories are set free. Every Tuesday, we explore the untold experiences of women of color who’ve faced it all—childhood trauma, addiction, abuse, incarceration, grief, mental health struggles, and more—and found the strength to make it to the other side.


Hosted by your favorite Professional Homegirl, Eboné delivers raw, unfiltered conversations that inspire, empower, and remind you that healing begins with being heard.


What sets Pretty Private apart ... Anonymity.


Guests share their truth without fear of judgment—free to speak openly in a space created just for them. From survivors and sex workers to professionals and cultural change makers, these powerful interviews will shift your perspective and speak to your soul.


Pretty Private isn’t just a podcast—it’s your personal guide for turning storylines into lifelines.

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In Part 1 of this week’s episode, Eboné takes us behind the scenes of the New York strip club world with her guest. She opens up about her personal journey as a professional stripper—from graduating from an HBCU, to working various serving jobs, and ultimately stepping into the adult entertainment industry. Tune in for an honest, eye-opening conversation about life on the stage, the realities of the industry, and the path that led her there. Donate to The Professional Homegirl 2nd Annual Turkey Drive here Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.prettyprivatepodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What exactly is a Christian sexologist? In this episode, Eboné sits down with Brittany Broaddus-Smith to break down the misconceptions, myths, and truths behind the title. Together, they explore how faith and sexuality can coexist, why open conversations about intimacy matter in the church, and how Christian sexology helps people embrace God’s design for love, relationships, and pleasure. Preorder Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book: Purchase Here Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 2 of this week’s episode of Pretty Private with Eboné, David Joyner shares why he ultimately stepped away after a decade inside the purple suit, reflects on how his relationship with creator Sheryl Leach shaped his journey, and addresses the wild rumors he heard while bringing Barney to life. Tune in for an honest look at the legacy of one of the world’s most beloved characters. Preorder Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book: Purchase Here Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 1 of this week’s episode of Pretty Private with Eboné, Eboné sits down with David Joyner—the man who brought Barney to life from 1991 to 2001. He shares his journey to becoming the heart of a cultural phenomenon that shaped generations, the dedication required to step into the iconic purple costume, and how his path eventually led him to work as a tantric practitioner. Preorder Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book: Purchase Here Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of Pretty Private, Eboné sit down with her graphic illustrator, Tip, to unpack the making of Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book. They explore the creative process, the artistic vision, and the intentional design choices that make this edition stand out—ensuring that everyone can see themselves represented in the illustrations. Preorder Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book: Purchase Here Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and cult experiences. Listener discretion is advised. In Part 2 of I Was Born Into a Sex Cult, Eboné sits down with her guest as she delves even deeper into her story. From surviving a childhood pregnancy while family members accused her of lying, to being sent to a mental institution, she also recounts the shocking journey that led to finding her child after all these years. What she uncovers about her daughter’s family is nothing short of jaw-dropping—secrets no one could have prepared her for. GoFundMe: Donate Here Connect with Eboné: Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book: Purchase Here Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and cult experiences. Listener discretion is advised. In this intense episode of Pretty Private, Eboné sits down with a guest who shares the harrowing reality of growing up in a sex cult. She discusses the complex family dynamics, including her grandfather’s role as the authority figure, her grandmother’s awareness, and the sexual abuse she endured from her mother and stepfather. Tune in for Part 1—an unflinching look at survival, family secrets, and the fight to take back control. Connect with Eboné: Volume 3 of The Professional Homegirl Coloring Book: Purchase Here Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 2, Eboné’s guest goes deeper—sharing the moment she had her first drink, how she was drawn into the world of dancing, and the trauma of being assaulted. She speaks candidly about the hard truths that led her toward sobriety, revealing the harsh reality of addiction’s grip and the fierce courage it took to reclaim her life. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 1, Eboné’s guest shares how alcohol quietly took over her life, reflecting on her childhood trauma, early substance use, and the moments that shaped her alcohol addiction. She reveals a heartbreaking link between starting prescription medication as a child and later embracing alcohol—both times feeling more accepted, more “likable,” and more at ease in the eyes of others—a cycle she didn’t realize had started long before her first drink. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Black Effect Presents... Pretty Private with Eboné! In this Pretty Open series episode, Part 1 of Eboné’s conversation with the DL Whisperer, he shares his personal journey dating men on the down-low and what inspired him to support women facing similar experiences. Together, they discuss the prevalence of DL men in the industry, the emotional impact of relationships with men living double lives, and the common patterns he’s observed among DL men. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 2 of this Pretty Open series episode, Eboné continues her conversation with the DL Whisperer as they dive even deeper into the hidden world of down-low culture. They explore the types of careers many DL men tend to have, the women they’re often drawn to, and the motivations behind those choices. Together, they shed light on red flags to watch for, how to prioritize your safety in romantic relationships, and the existence of down-low women—an often unspoken topic. It’s a raw, informative, and necessary conversation that challenges perceptions and empowers listeners to stay aware and protected. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part 2 of I'm Solving My Father's Murder, Eboné sits down with Madison McGhee, creator of the Ice Cold Case podcast, to go even deeper into her journey of uncovering the truth behind her father’s unsolved murder. Madison opens up about her relationship with her father before his tragic death, the emotional toll of interviewing close friends and family—some of whom are considered suspects—and how grief has shaped her pursuit of justice. Together, they explore the idea of closure, the weight of unanswered questions, and Madison’s evolving thoughts on time, healing, and loss. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this compelling episode from the Pretty Open series on Pretty Private, Eboné sits down with journalist and true crime podcast host Madison McGhee, the voice behind Ice Cold Case. Madison isn’t just reporting—she’s investigating her own father’s unsolved murder, using her platform to expose family secrets and seek justice. Madison opens up about the emotional toll of telling such a personal story, the financial and mental health impact of chasing truth, and the intense demands of producing a true crime podcast as an independent creator. Tune in to hear how one woman is using her voice—and her mic—to solve her father’s murder. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this deeply personal episode, Eboné opens up about a major life shift—changing the name of her show and stepping into a new chapter of her journey. She shares her honest experience with burnout, what it felt like to lose her spark, and how a solo trip to Paris unexpectedly became the catalyst for her healing. From the weight of expectations to the beauty of reinvention, this episode is for anyone who’s ever needed permission to hit reset and rediscover themselves. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @prettyprivatepodcast TikTok: @prettyprivatepodcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this insightful season finale, Eboné sits down with Lisane Basquiat, sister of the legendary artist Jean-Michel Basquiat, to explore the enduring impact of his work and legacy. Lisane shares her journey of managing her brother's estate alongside her sister, ensuring his artistic vision continues to inspire future generations. As an entrepreneur, Lisane opens up about navigating the business world while honoring her brother’s legacy. She reflects on how family, creativity, and resilience have shaped her path, offering a personal and profound look at the lessons learned and the pride of carrying forward the Basquiat name.This episode offers a rare and intimate glimpse into the world of one of art's most iconic families, closing out the season with a conversation about legacy, creativity, and the power of perseverance. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @thephgpodcast TikTok & Twitter: @theprofessionalhomegirl  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this reflective Season 2 recap, Eboné is joined by her therapist, Dina Molina, to unpack the Top 5 most unforgettable and thought-provoking episodes of The Professional Homegirl Podcast. Together, they explore the emotional weight and lasting impact of stories that sparked deep conversations around trauma, accountability, and healing. From male survivors of sexual assault to unimaginable experiences of loss and betrayal, her therapist offers grounded advice on navigating forgiveness, processing trauma, and reclaiming your peace. Episodes Discussed: I Accidentally Took Someone’s Life My Father’s Mistress Killed My Mother My Ex Was a Serial Killer MEN SERIES: I Was Sexually Assaulted By a Woman SPOOKY SERIES: My Journey w/ My Grandfather’s Ghost: Navigating Racism and Forgiveness Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @thephgpodcast TikTok & Twitter: @theprofessionalhomegirl  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of The Professional Homegirl Podcast, Eboné sits down with a seasoned police officer who has spent nearly 20 years serving her community. As a Black woman in law enforcement, Eboné's guest shares what it’s really like to navigate a male-dominated profession while carrying the emotional weight of the badge. From confronting systemic issues within the force to being overlooked in spaces where women of color are underrepresented, her story sheds light on the realities many women in criminal justice quietly endure. Together, they dive into the highs and heartbreaks of the job, the complexity of community trust, and the internal conflict of standing between Black and blue. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @thephgpodcast TikTok & Twitter: @theprofessionalhomegirl  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this raw and emotional episode of The Professional Homegirl Podcast, Eboné hears from a woman whose life was changed forever after a devastating accident. Once a correctional officer, Eboné’s guest found herself facing not only physical immobility but the overwhelming burden of accidentally taking someone’s life. As they explore her journey, Eboné and her guest discuss the struggles she faced in prison, the complexities of the legal system, and the emotional toll of navigating such a profound loss. She opens up about her time behind bars, the challenges of being wheelchair-bound in a system ill-equipped to support her needs, and how she is now rebuilding her life after incarceration. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @thephgpodcast TikTok & Twitter: @theprofessionalhomegirl  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
My Journey with Promiscuity

My Journey with Promiscuity

2025-03-2501:11:25

In this episode of The Professional Homegirl Podcast, Eboné introduces her guest, whom she discovered through a powerful dinner series that highlights the rising impact of HIV within the Black community. Her guest’s story stood out as she courageously shared her journey with promiscuity and how her experiences were shaped by a painful past. During their conversation, Eboné's guest opens up about a life-changing sexual assault that deeply impacted her sense of self-worth and the choices she made afterward. After becoming a mother, she realized the urgent need to break free from destructive cycles and reclaim her life. Fueled by her own healing journey, she became a therapist dedicated to empowering others to navigate challenging life experiences and prioritize their sexual health. Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @thephgpodcast TikTok & Twitter: @theprofessionalhomegirl  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of the PHG Unlocked series on The Professional Homegirl Podcast, Eboné’s special guest takes us behind the scenes of a groundbreaking BET show that captivated audiences in the early 2000s. Known for her animated yet relatable personality, she became a trailblazer in virtual hosting and entertainment. Eboné’s guest reveals how the show, with its bold blend of humor, culture, and real talk, broke new ground and was truly ahead of its time. Additionally, she opens up about the challenges of navigating the negative stereotypes tied to her character’s persona, reflects on the show’s lasting impact on pop culture, and reveals why it ultimately came to an end. Packed with insights on personal growth, industry struggles, and untold stories, this episode offers a unique and inspiring look into the world of entertainment. Will Eboné’s guest reveal her identity? Tune in to find out! Connect with Eboné: Buy Eboné A Gift: Shop Now Eboné PHG Storefront: Shop Now Read Eboné's Love Letters: www.theyalltheone.com  Website: www.thephgpodcast.com Instagram: @theprofessionalhomegirl & @thephgpodcast TikTok & Twitter: @theprofessionalhomegirl  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theprofessionalhomegirl Email: hello@thephgpodcast.com Shop PHG: https://www.thephgpodcast.com/shopSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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