In Episode 002, Dianne delves into the very terms used to define a psychopath and some of the attributes they may exhibit. She shares a story of a psychopath’s co-mingled diagnosis and discusses how a psychopath used the guise of kindness in The Fake Rockefeller. Who do psychopaths choose as victims? Why do some psychopaths pretend to be kind and caring? Tune in as Dianne discusses the complicated nature of defining a psychopath, why they try to blend into the crowd, and how being kind and caring can make you a token victim. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:10 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:19 – This podcast is dedicated to be exclusively a discussion about psychopaths 00:31 – Psychopaths, sociopaths, and antisocial personality disorders – what’s the best way to identify them? 00:56 – Dianne will define all these terms on her website and how these terms have evolved over the years 01:33 – Even Psychopaths, themselves, disagree with the terms they’ve been called 02:44 – Dianne shares an example of a “co-mingled diagnosis” 04:07 – Psychopaths look like, walk like, and talk like normal people 04:30 – There are many psychopaths who are aware of their condition 05:07 – There are socialized and non-socialized psychopaths 05:47 – Less socialized ones end up in the prison system 06:13 – Dianne started this podcast to provide information 06:27 – One interviewee said something Dianne will never forgot 06:55 – “The world is becoming more like us than you” 07:13 – Certain industries attract more psychopaths than others 07:30 – Victims are kind and caring people 08:01 – The end game for a psychopath is to gain control; so if you’re kind, you tend to be an easier victim 08:20 – “Living life by painting the red flags white”—kind people tend to ignore the red flags 08:38 – Dianne has heard from victims all these years, but she never had an idea about how much detail goes into the planning 09:09 – Psychopaths may have animal abuse in their background, but can also use this stereotype to their advantage by befriending and taking care of an animal 09:52 – At the end of the day, “Psychopaths don’t love anybody, but themselves” 10:04 – See the story of The Fake Rockefeller 10:40 – Part of how the psychopath blended in was by pretending to be a kind person who wanted to adopt a handicapped dog 11:39 – Psychopaths know the triggers and attributes that kind and caring people exhibit as it becomes a part of their persona 12:14 – We RESPECT your privacy – send an email to dianne@dianneemerson.com for comments and questions 12:34 – Check out Psychopath In Your Life and send an anonymous email 13:23 – Dianne closes the podcast 3 Key Points: Psychopaths behave very normally—you have to keep a close eye to actually identify them properly. The world is becoming filled with more psychopaths than normal people. Victims tend to be those who are kind and caring as they are the ones that are the most likely to give up control to a psychopath. Resources Mentioned: The Fake Rockefeller – A true crime story about a guy who faked his identity to blend with people
In the first episode, Dianne Emerson introduces the podcast, Psychopath in Your Life. The aim of this podcast is to help people understand who psychopaths are and how to identify them amongst the crowd of people that you rub shoulders with on a daily basis. Tune is as Dianne gives listeners insight into how her journey into this research began, why general information and checklists regarding psychopaths can be confusing and misleading, and what it means to be a “successful” psychopath. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:10 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:19 – This podcast is exclusively dedicated to talk about psychopaths 00:42 – In the 1980’s, Ann Rule was one of the more famous crime writers 00:49 – Her first book was about Ted Bundy, The Stranger Beside Me 01:07 – Jack Olsen also came out with a book called Son 01:19 – The character in this book came from a prominent family 01:52 – This podcast will be about identifying psychopaths 02:04 – Not all the information about psychopaths—the checklists— translate into behavior 02:28 – More information has become available because of the internet 02:40 – To store the information, Dianne set up a free forum 02:52 – She started sorting information and people started sharing their stories 03:16 – Along the way, the discussion forum grew and grew 03:50 – Dianne became fascinated by how many people got involved with a psychopath 04:20 – Who are the psychopaths? They are people who are likely to commit crimes (general prison population) 04:28 – 25% of the prison population are tested and classified as psychopaths 04:35 – 1-3% of the general population are classified as psychopaths 05:04 – How do you know if a person is a psychopath? 05:08 – They fall under the personality disorder cluster 05:14 – “It’s in the genes” 06:03 – Checklists are a good source of information, but they can also cause confusion 06:12 – Smart psychopaths vs. those who end up in prison 06:49 – Psychopaths with criminal minds are easier to identify 06:58 – “The more educated they are, the more they are able to cover their behavior” 07:06 – “The one thing that they don’t have that we have is a conscience” 07:52 – Without a conscience, psychopaths are able to make decisions normal people cannot 08:06 – A practiced psychopath can trick people into believing that they have conscience 09:19 – A psychopath can be a person who’s successful 09:37 – A “successful psychopath” studies and learns different behaviors 10:12 – Normal people tend to overlook things 10:45 – A few years ago, Dianne was contacted by psychopaths who wanted to tell their stories 11:03 – She started a book about the plight of victims of psychopaths 11:13 – Dianne thought there had to be some more information to share to the public regarding how psychopaths operate 11:51 – She decided to interview psychopaths under controlled circumstances 12:46 – One question she asked was, “what was their motivation?” 12:51 – All 3 of them said they wanted to learn 13:00 – They wanted to learn how they can hide their behavior better 13:24 – Dianne’s book is called Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews 14:09 – Stranger danger is overrated 14:31 – Next episode will be about the personalities of psychopaths, clues to look for, and how you can know if you’re a person they’re looking to victimize 14:44 – Dianne looks forward to your questions and comments to continue the conversation! 15:07 – Dianne has spoken with a lot of victims and understands your need for privacy and confidentiality and will deal with your comments/emails with the utmost respect 15:34 – Check out Psychopath In Your Life and send your questions and comments (anonymous, if you’d prefer) that Dianne will be more than willing to address on the air 15:57 – Dianne closes the podcast 3 Key Points: One size does NOT fit all—the checklists of information regarding psychopaths does not always translate into behavior. Practiced and successful psychopaths trick people into believing they are “normal.” It is the psychopaths in our lives who are the ones that can hurt us the most. Resources Mentioned: Ann Rule – a crime writer in the 1980’s The Stranger Beside Me – Ann Rule’s book with Ted Bundy Son – Jack Olsen’s book on an affluent psychopath Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews – Dianne Emerson’s book
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- In Episode 004, Dianne continues to share from her personal interviews with psychopaths the attributes they look for in their future victims. Dianne also explains how the definition of how a psychopath is diagnosed. Tune in to find out why psychopaths are who they are. You can contact Dianne on her website or by email Resources Mentioned: Psychopaths In Our Lives: My Interviews http://www.amazon.com/dp/1517307880 Also available on iBook’s Credits Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives
In Episode 003, Dianne shares from her personal interviews with psychopaths the attributes they look for in their future victims. Dianne also explains just how manipulative psychopaths can be and how they use the strategy of gaslighting to maintain control over their victims. Tune in to find out why psychopaths play the victim and just how far they’ll push to stay in control. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:10 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:19 – Last episode the kind of personalities psychopaths seek out 00:41 – One guy that Dianne interviewed look at how people’s eyes diverged, how confident they seemed, and even the look of the shoulders when it came to choosing their future victims 01:13 – Investigation Discovery Channel has stories about psychopaths 01:34 – Dateline Show also shares psychopaths’ stories 01:58 – Not all psychopaths are murderers 02:10 – Dealing with a psychopath is all about control 02:34 – Dateline Shows are usually about murder 03:24 – When you watch, read or listen to these stories—“Pay attention to when they describe the victim” 03:47 – The victim is the kind and caring person 04:04 – The victim’s kindness is usually what makes them a target 04:58 – Psychopaths victimize themselves in their own minds 05:13 – They flip and turn things around to make you believe they are the victim 05:51 – Dianne cites an example of how they play the victim 06:32 – Dianne was given a complete checklist of how psychopaths convince people they are the victim 07:08 – “The goal is to get you [the victim] to start to feel like you’re the crazy one and test your sense of normality” 07:21 – A description of the Gaslight Concept 07:51 – Dianne refers to the movie, Gas Light—where the term originated 07:57 – To gaslight is to alter the victim’s reality to fit into with what the psychopath wants it to be 08:59 – A psychopath manipulates to make themselves look like the victim 09:41 – Psychopaths test how far they can push their victims 11:06 – Some psychopaths are actually proud to be one 12:20 – Dianne looks forward for questions and comments 12:41 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email 13:45 – Dianne closes the podcast 3 Key Points: Psychopaths may have very specific qualities in mind when looking for potential targets. Dealing with a psychopath is all about control. Beware of “gaslighting”—psychopaths like playing the victim when, in fact, they victimize you! Resources Mentioned: Investigation Discovery Channel & Dateline Show– TV shows where stories and documentaries are about crimes that lead to psychopaths Gaslighting – the tactic psychopaths use to alter your reality Visit: psychopathinyourlife.com Dianne’s book Psychopaths In Our Lives: My Interviews By Dianne Emerson Is available on Amazon http://www.amazon.com/dp/1517307880 Credits – Podcast Production and Editing Service by Red Walk Boy Production https://www.facebook.com/redwalkboypr... http://podcasteditor.weebly.com/ – Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives www.mallardcreatives.com/testimonials
In Episode 003, Dianne shares from her personal interviews with psychopaths the attributes they look for in their future victims. Dianne also explains just how manipulative psychopaths can be and how they use the strategy of gaslighting to maintain control over their victims. Tune in to find out why psychopaths play the victim and just how far they’ll push to stay in control. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:10 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:19 – Last episode the kind of personalities psychopaths seek out 00:41 – One guy that Dianne interviewed look at how people’s eyes diverged, how confident they seemed, and even the look of the shoulders when it came to choosing their future victims 01:13 – Investigation Discovery Channel has stories about psychopaths 01:34 – Dateline Show also shares psychopaths’ stories 01:58 – Not all psychopaths are murderers 02:10 – Dealing with a psychopath is all about control 02:34 – Dateline Shows are usually about murder 03:24 – When you watch, read or listen to these stories—“Pay attention to when they describe the victim” 03:47 – The victim is the kind and caring person 04:04 – The victim’s kindness is usually what makes them a target 04:58 – Psychopaths victimize themselves in their own minds 05:13 – They flip and turn things around to make you believe they are the victim 05:51 – Dianne cites an example of how they play the victim 06:32 – Dianne was given a complete checklist of how psychopaths convince people they are the victim 07:08 – “The goal is to get you [the victim] to start to feel like you’re the crazy one and test your sense of normality” 07:21 – A description of the Gaslight Concept 07:51 – Dianne refers to the movie, Gas Light—where the term originated 07:57 – To gaslight is to alter the victim’s reality to fit into with what the psychopath wants it to be 08:59 – A psychopath manipulates to make themselves look like the victim 09:41 – Psychopaths test how far they can push their victims 11:06 – Some psychopaths are actually proud to be one 12:20 – Dianne looks forward for questions and comments 12:41 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email 13:45 – Dianne closes the podcast 3 Key Points: Psychopaths may have very specific qualities in mind when looking for potential targets. Dealing with a psychopath is all about control. Beware of “gaslighting”—psychopaths like playing the victim when, in fact, they victimize you! Resources Mentioned: Investigation Discovery Channel & Dateline Show– TV shows where stories and documentaries are about crimes that lead to psychopaths Gaslighting – the tactic psychopaths use to alter your reality Credits – Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives – Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Red Walk Boy Prod. Look for Ron (Podcast Producer/Editor)
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 006 Summary: In Episode 006, Dianne shares a mail she received from a woman who has married 2 psychopaths. Listen as the writer shares and describes her life with husband #2 and opens up about her son. Dianne offers her sincerest advice and encouragement—reminding the writer and each of us that there IS hope and a way OUT of this life. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:06 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:13 – Dianne is the author of the book, Psychopaths in Our Lives 00:26 – Dianne reads a letter she received last week 01:16 – The person who sent the letter married 2 psychopathic men 01:22 – Dianne has a relative who married 2 alcoholics 02:04 – “I have an older son who suffers from several disorders” 02:30 – People refer to psychopaths as men 02:41 – Dianne recommends reading Bitter Harvest 03:41 – “I cried buckets. It is so isolating” 04:14 – Dianne would like to answer you in this way: 05:00 – The answer won’t be in a pill – no antidepressants 05:16 – Realize you’ve gone through hell, but there IS a way out 06:30 – Think about trying to manage the feelings of being right 06:53 – Be careful about who you communicate with 07:27 – Never go to couples’ counseling 08:37 – Safety is very important 09:11 – Find an abuse center that is private or located in another town 09:54 – Your son may have gotten his disorder from his father’s genes 10:41 – Deal with one issue at a time 11:02 – Refrain from telling him you know 11:45 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email 12:42 – Subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website 3 Key Points: Victims of psychopaths go through hell, BUT remember, there IS a way out. Be careful with whom you communicate your plans and issues. Your safety is the MOST important thing you need to consider. Resources Mentioned: Psychopaths in Our Lives – Dianne’s book Bitter Harvest – Book about a psychopath woman Biblio – Where Dianne gets her books Psychopaths in Our Lives – Dianne’s book Amazon iBooks Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 007 Summary: In Episode 007, Dianne further discusses the characteristics of children displaying psychopathic tendencies; this includes certain traits and behaviors that are specific to children. Listen to find out why psychopathic symptoms go unnoticed in a household, the status for psychopathic care facilities today, and the reason why reporting can be complicated. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:12 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:18 – Dianne is the author of the book, Psychopaths in Our Lives 01:05 – “We’re finally getting information coming out” 01:25 – The Atlantic Magazine has a great article, “When Your Child is a Psychopath” 02:12 – Dianne reads, “callous and unemotional traits—shorthand for a cluster of characteristics and behaviors, including a lack of empathy, remorse, or guilt, shallow emotions, aggression and even cruelty, and a seeming indifference to punishment.” 02:48 – Callous and unemotional children have no trouble hurting others to get what they want 02:58 – In 2013, The American Psychiatric Association and the DSM say that the condition can go unnoticed 04:12 – Dr. Hare developed the youth checklist for psychopathy behaviors 04:34 – What’s being done now is trial and error 04:46 – The flaw or lack is in developing places where kids can receive support/training for their behavior 05:46 – Once kids age out of a facility, there’s no follow-up 06:26 – Few families get to the point where they find care facilities 06:58 – In China, there are tons of facilities for gaming addictions 07:20 – Research and self-reporting are key issues 07:58 – Dianne shares about the Ted Bundy case 09:12 – The big trip up for Ted Bundy was pornography 09:45 – Ted had a girlfriend who stayed with him 10:23 – He was engaged a couple of times 10:37 – He had a pattern 10:58 – Reporting becomes complicated because you rely on the family to report it 11:57 – Psychopaths are not always men 12:57 – Men who are abused by women are off the radar 13:23 – For more information go to www.psychopath-research.com, in the “Family” section 13:54 – Register to be able to post 14:22 – A person on the site posts about his child who is under care in a facility 15:18 – Dianne cannot diagnose any person without meeting them 15:40 – Don’t mislabel people as psychopaths 16:37 – Dianne would like to share tools to do the research yourself 17:04 – Subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website 17:16 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website 3 Key Points: Psychopathic symptoms can go unnoticed – especially because you rely on family members to report such behaviors. There are few care facilities for children who have the behavior—this needs to be rectified. Don’t be mistaken, psychopaths are both men and women. Resources Mentioned: Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews When Your Child is a Psychopath – Article from The Atlantic Magazine that Dianne mentioned Dr. Hare – Doctor that developed the psychopathy checklist for youth Ted Bundy – An infamous psychopath who went on a killing spree in the 1970’s Psychopaths in Our Lives – Dianne’s book Amazon iBooks Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives Rad, conduct disorder, sociopathic behavior, conduct disorder in children, psycho test, the psychopath test, sociopath, psychopath test, oppositional defiant disorder treatment, psychopath, signs of a psychopath, psychopathy, aspd, conduct disorder treatment, signs of a sociopath, sociopath symptoms, sociopath traits, dealing with a sociopath, sociopath quiz, psychopath quiz, am I a psychopath, am I a sociopath, sociopath test, psychopathic traits, psychopathy symptoms, sociopathy, sociopath signs, sociopathic tendencies, traits of a psychopath, psychopathy checklist, symptoms of a psychopath, narcissist, personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, psychopathic tendencies, psychopath signs, psychopathic personality, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic personality, narcissists, narcissist test, RAD adoption
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 008 Summary: In Episode 008, Dianne dives further into the complexities that explain psychopaths become who they are. One’s background and childhood could account for part of this, but it isn’t a clear-cut cause and effect relationship for ALL psychopaths. Listen as Dianne shares more of her discoveries through the interviews she’s performed, why it’s important to show empathy to the parents of psychopaths, and how psychopaths can manipulate their diagnostic test results. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:18 – Today’s episode is a follow up on the article: When Your Child is a Psychopath 00:49 – “If we don’t understand the past, we have no path forward to the future” 00:54 – Dianne received a disturbing email regarding blaming the parents 01:07 – We’re not blaming the parents 01:23 – Carl, the young man in the article went to a facility 01:37 – The big problem Dianne sees is there is no data for him beyond the age of 18 01:46 – Carl called the facility to report what he was doing 01:57 – The reporter paid a visit 02:06 – Interview with his family reveals that Carl is doing terrifically – better than expected 02:27 – Carl’s wife had a different story – it was a disastrous relationship 02:52 – The part that’s alarming is Carl now owns a funeral home 03:26 – We don’t have a way to know how psychopath genes get passed 03:57 – Dianne’s book contains 3 interviews with psychopaths 04:08 – One went through the diagnostic process of the psychopathic disorder 04:25 – Dianne’s question was, “How compliant were you?” 04:30 – The psychopath answered, “I was very tempted throughout this process to manipulate the results” 04:41 – Manipulation is always on a psychopath’s mind 05:06 – The goal is to get the victim to tell more about themselves and the psychopath to be the great listener 05:40 – Psychopaths seek out kind and caring people 06:17 – There’s a stronger possibility of using the card of the victim as a deflector 06:59 – Dianne has so much empathy towards parents 07:19 – Dianne shares a quote from a parent, “The #1 Reason is he’s my son and he’s incapable of returning that loving kind, #2: I might have played a part in making him that way, #3: He’s my son and I love him, and #4: Is it in me too?” 07:58 – Verbalizing or writing it down makes it much more real to people 08:30 – There’s a certain clarity that happens in writing our thoughts 09:05 – Victims try to excuse bad behavior of psychopaths to try to deflect the pain they’ve gone through 09:42 – Pay attention and listen to your gut 10:04 – The next episode will be about the more specific signs to look for 10:11 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website. 3 Key Points: There’s still no way to find out how psychopathic genes get passed – you just have to look for the symptoms. It’s not cut and dry—the parents are not always to blame if a person becomes a psychopath. Don’t paint the red flags white – listen to your gut. Resources Mentioned: Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews When Your Child is a Psychopath – Article from The Atlantic Magazine that Dianne mentioned Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews Amazon iBooks Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives Rad, conduct disorder, sociopathic behavior, conduct disorder in children, psycho test, the psychopath test, sociopath, psychopath test, oppositional defiant disorder treatment, psychopath, signs of a psychopath, psychopathy, aspd, conduct disorder treatment, signs of a sociopath, sociopath symptoms, sociopath traits, dealing with a sociopath, sociopath quiz, psychopath quiz, am I a psychopath, am I a sociopath, sociopath test, psychopathic traits, psychopathy symptoms, sociopathy, sociopath signs, sociopathic tendencies, traits of a psychopath, psychopathy checklist, symptoms of a psychopath, narcissist, personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, psychopathic tendencies, psychopath signs, psychopathic personality, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic personality, narcissists, narcissist test, RAD adoption
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 009 Summary: In Episode 009, Dianne talks about the pain a psychopath’s victim often endures and how the after-effects can linger as PTSD, depression and/or anxiety. Psychopaths use gaslighting (a form of mental abuse) to trouble the minds of their victims and it’s very common to walk away from a relationship with a psychopath physically and mentally downtrodden. Listen as Dianne explains the detrimental effects of being a victim of a psychopath and offers encouragement to those experiencing such symptoms. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:16 – Today’s episode is about physical and mental pains from the victims of psychopaths 00:45 – The comments range from exhaustion to anxiety 01:10 – Over the years, 99.9% of victims suffered from severe PTSD 01:36 – Dealing with a psychopath is a war between good and evil 01:59 – This episode is NOT a diagnosis 02:10 – Trauma from a psychopath is a real and painful event 02:28 – Traumas can complicate your ability to exit a situation and can cause healing issues 03:26 – PTSD happens over time 03:39 – People with PTSD are sincerely struggling 04:12 – “PTSD is an anxiety disorder that keeps a person preoccupied with both the past and the future, flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, or events” 04:45 – People with PTSD can continue to be depressed for months or even years 05:11 – The mind creates circular patterns 05:15 – One can be repeatedly thinking about the trauma 05:19 – One can be constantly on guard 05:21 – One with PTSD may try to avoid reminders of the trauma 05:34 – Can get panic attacks 05:49 – People with PTSD are also prone to autoimmune disorders and chronic pains 05:57 – There’s a great feeling of mistrust 06:38 – “Depression – persistent sad, anxious, or empty mood; loss of interest in once-enjoyed activities; feelings of guilt, shame, or hopelessness about the future; other symptoms of depression may also develop” 07:07 – People with PTSD can have a hard time recognizing themselves 07:33 – “Gaslighting is a form of mental abuse in which information is twisted or spun, selectively omitted to favor the abuser, or false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity” 08:03 – Dianne shares an example from her book, Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews 09:29 – A victim’s health and mental being are attacked by psychopaths 09:52 – Be kind to yourself! 10:38 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website 10:53 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website. 3 Key Points: Your traumatic experiences can lead to PTSD and can make the healing take longer. PTSD is a real, sincere response to a traumatic event that can cause anxiety and depression. Remember to be kind to yourself – it’s not your fault if you find yourself in this kind of situation. Resources Mentioned: Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews Amazon iBooks Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 010 Summary: In Episode 010, Dianne talks about the initial interactions psychopaths have with their victims. Psychopaths are known to inflict pain and misery pm their on victims lives and then turn the situation around, by playing the victim themselves. Listen as Dianne shares what to look for and consider as red flags when it comes to interacting with a psychopath. Dianne’s hope is that if you can see the signs, you’ll be able to safeguard yourself from the pain that can come from a relationship with a psychopath. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:11 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:19 – Dianne is the author of Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews 00:30 – Dianne appreciates all the emails that are coming in! 00:42 – Dianne reads a letter from a victim who realized she was the one always apologizing and trying to fix things 01:45 – Dianne is sorry for your pain 02:04 – The pain might have been the trigger to help you find some answers 02:16 – There’s always a beginning phase in a relationship 02:34 – “Someone has to know you to figure out how to get to you and abuse you” 03:06 – Not making room for the person to share what’s on their mind will make it hard for you to detect possible psychopaths 03:04 – Psychopaths will leave all the talking to you 04:53 – Many times victims say the psychopath was someone they weren’t attracted to 05:26 – What is the key that draws victims in? 06:15 – Instead of looking into the issue, victims usually revert back to “the old times” 06:35 – Dianne was stunned by how calculated psychopaths are in reeling in their victims 07:04 – A psychopath literally lays a trap 07:15 – Over the years, Dianne has come to understand that their goal is to make the victim share openly and to for them to be the good listener; later on, they begin to victimize you 07:50 – Dianne struggled with the dynamics of what was really happening 08:26 – Dianne shares what one psychopath said 09:18 – Buy before you try 09:40 – The most disgusting answer Dianne received from a psychopath was, “I have found that if people don’t like who they are, then they let you treat them how you want because they think they don’t deserve better treatment” 09:59 – Information to a psychopath is like a script 11:13 – Dianne hopes that when you start to hear what psychopaths are actually thinking, you’ll be able to see how it’s not worth pursuing a relationship with one 11:23 – A psychopath said, “People trust me because they want to trust me” 12:15 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website. 12:31 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website 3 Key Points: If you already see red flags, don’t ignore our intuition and act! Do not let psychopaths or any other people mistreat you – you DO deserve better. Be cautious before putting your trust in new people that you meet. Psychopaths in Our Lives – Dianne’s book Amazon iBooks Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 011 Summary: In Episode 011, Dianne helps us explore how psychopaths gather information from their victims. When someone takes an interest in your life and in who you are, it’s usually a flattering experience. However, with psychopaths, they are displaying an interest to extract the “keys to the safe”. Tune in to find out how psychopaths gather information about their future victim by offering a kind, listening ear. they’d use that information against you. Listen as Dianne shares direct quotes from psychopaths and explains how a psychopath victimizes you within their first conversation. Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:13 – Introduction to Psychopath in Your Life 00:22 – Dianne is the author of Psychopaths in Our Lives 00:55 – The purpose of this podcast is to chat about psychopaths 01:29 – Today, we’ll explore further how people get involved with psychopaths 01:52 – Many victims brush off their first instincts 02:05 – Psychopaths are good at operating under your instincts 02:46 – When you first meet a psychopath, they’re in the “gathering stage” 03:05 – It’s a process 03:21 – Psychopaths need to get you to participate 03:43 – Even psychopaths are surprised at how much people tell them 04:09 – Dianne reads a quote from a psychopath 04:50 – Sharing things is a critical part of the bonding 05:28 – “Buy before you try” 05:32 – As a good listener and extractor of critical information, psychopaths will be in agreement with whatever the victim has to say 06:08 – “Psychopaths display an interest” 06:29 – It’s easy to start responding because of their taking an interest in you 06:44 – Psychopaths display understanding, empathy, and confidence 08:06 – “They know they’re playing you, but they aren’t really clear why” 09:11 – Dianne paraphrases a psychopath’s view on the gathering stage, “If I don’t show an interest and ask the right questions, how will I ever figure out the keys to the safe?” 09:27 – It shows how tactical psychopaths are from the first time they talk to their victims 09:57 – Get in touch with Dianne on her website. 10:38 – Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website 3 Key Points: Learn to trust your instincts—they are there for a reason. Be cautious about who you share your life details with and ask why this person is taking an interest in you. Change begins one step at a time. Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson Amazon iBooks Get In Touch Website Forum Contact Facebook Subscribe to the show: iTunes Google Play RSS YouTube Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives Rad, conduct disorder, sociopathic behavior, conduct disorder in children, psycho test, the psychopath test, sociopath, psychopath test, oppositional defiant disorder treatment, psychopath, signs of a psychopath, psychopathy, aspd, conduct disorder treatment, signs of a sociopath, sociopath symptoms, sociopath traits, dealing with a sociopath, sociopath quiz, psychopath quiz, am I a psychopath, am I a sociopath, sociopath test, psychopathic traits, psychopathy symptoms, sociopathy, sociopath signs, sociopathic tendencies, traits of a psychopath, psychopathy checklist, symptoms of a psychopath, narcissist, personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, psychopathic tendencies, psychopath signs, psychopathic personality, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic personality, narcissists, narcissist test, RAD adoption
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 012 Summary: In Episode 012, Dianne talks about how psychopath harm the victims by the of use Gaslighting (a form of mental abuse). The word Gaslighting was first used in a play in the 1938 version. A movie about Gaslighting was released in 1945. The term Gaslighting comes from the psychopath flickering the lights and dimming the lights used at that time. Gaslighting starts out very slowly and increases over time. The end goal is to get the victim to start to question their sanity. Typically victims start to believe they are in fact crazy because the Gaslighting is so hard to detect. Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Dianne shares an example from her book, Psychopaths in Our Lives Much to the surprise the psychopaths had never heard the term but considered it a key element in how they abuse victims. Gaslighting will be discussed further in the next podcast. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson Amazon iBooks Get In Touch Website Forum Contact Facebook Subscribe to the show: iTunes Google Play RSS YouTube Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives Rad, conduct disorder, sociopathic behavior, conduct disorder in children, psycho test, the psychopath test, sociopath, psychopath test, oppositional
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 013 Summary: Dianne today continues to describe what victims go through with Gaslighting. It is a key element used by psychopaths. Victims of psychopaths either in the workplace, at home or in relationships find that they get the feeling they are being done is making them feel crazy. Key Points: Gaslighting usually happens gradually in a relationship It can happen with your boss, a parent or friends, or romantic relationships. Gaslighting is to decrease someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence Psychopaths who gaslight you will systematically and frequently withhold information and then deliberately alter facts to disorientate their victim. If the psychopath in your life is making you feel crazy — and accusing you of being too sensitive to make the "crazy" label stick — the problem might not be all in your head. Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email. Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson Amazon iBooks Get In Touch Website Forum Contact Facebook Subscribe to the show: iTunes Google Play RSS YouTube Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives psychopathic personality, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic personality, narcissists, narcissist test, RAD adoption
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 014 Summary: Dianne today continues to describe what victims go through with Gaslighting. It is a key element used by psychopaths. Victims of psychopaths either in the workplace, at home or in relationships find that they get the feeling they are being done is making them feel crazy. Key Points: Gaslighting usually happens gradually in a relationship It can happen with your boss, a parent or friends, or romantic relationships. Gaslighting is to decrease someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence Psychopaths who gaslight you will systematically and frequently withhold information and then deliberately alter facts to disorientate their victim. If the psychopath in your life is making you feel crazy — and accusing you of being too sensitive to make the "crazy" label stick — the problem might not be all in your head. Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email. Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson Amazon iBooks Get In Touch Website Forum - Psychopath Victim Support Website Contact Facebook Subscribe to the show: iTunes Google Play RSS YouTube Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
Psychopath in Your Life -Podcast Show Notes- Episode 015 Summary: Dianne today continues to describe what victims go through with Gaslighting. It is a key element used by psychopaths. Victims of psychopaths either in the workplace, at home or in relationships find that they get the feeling they are being done is making them feel crazy. Key Points: Gaslighting usually happens gradually in a relationship It can happen with your boss, a parent or friends, or romantic relationships. Gaslighting is to decrease someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence Psychopaths who gaslight you will systematically and frequently withhold information and then deliberately alter facts to disorientate their victim. If the psychopath in your life is making you feel crazy — and accusing you of being too sensitive to make the "crazy" label stick — the problem might not be all in your head. Psychopaths were interviewed in Dianne’s book about Gaslighting. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, Youtube, and on the website. You can get in touch with Dianne on her website or by email Psychopaths in Our Lives: My Interviews by Dianne Emerson Amazon iBooks Get In Touch Website Forum - Psychopath Victim Support Website Contact Facebook Subscribe to the show: iTunes Google Play RSS YouTube Credits Podcast Production and Editing Service rendered by Daniel Roth
Dianne today continues to describe what victims go through with Gaslighting. It is a key element used by psychopaths. Today’s episode will talk about some evil tricks used by a psychopath to get a coworker fired and out of there. Victims of psychopaths can be created from being in the workplace with a psychopath. They will make everyone around you feel like you are a liar by very careful manipulations.
Psychopath In Your Life podcast episode 27, Dianne starts a chat which will last for a couple of episodes regarding the eyes of psychopaths. We will be talking specifically about the eyes as they relate to the mask of a psychopath. In future episodes, we will include more information about photography and the eyes and how the smile fits into the picture.
Psychopath In Your Life podcast episode 28, Dianne starts a chat which will last for a couple of episodes regarding the eyes of psychopaths. We will be talking specifically about the eyes as they relate to the mask of a psychopath. Today we will chat about how to look for the details in the eyes that can help you identify if you are dealing with a psychopath. In future episodes, we will include more information about photography and the eyes and how the smile fits into the picture. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, YouTube, and on the website. We would appreciate it very much if you would also share the podcast links on social media You can connect with Dianne on her website or by email
Summary: Psychopath In Your Life podcast episode 29, Dianne continues a chat which started with Episode 27 regarding the eyes of psychopaths. We will be talking specifically about the eyes as they relate to the mask of a psychopath. Dianne will include more information about photography and the eyes and how the smile fits into the picture. Please subscribe to the show on iTunes, Google Play, Facebook, YouTube, and on the website. We would appreciate it very much if you would also share the podcast links on social media You can connect with Dianne on her website or by email Resources: The Eyes and Tears of a Psychopath Discussion Thread at www.psychopath-research.com http://www.psychopath-research.com/forum/ubbthreads.php/topics/11320/all/The_Eyes_and_tears_of_a_Psycho Psychopath Youth Checklist Evaluation: - Youth PCLR Ages 12 – 18 https://www.hare.org
Roberta Lumiere
OMG this woman says the word interesting soooooo many times she is soooo hard to listen to stop loving the sound of your own voice and just get to the point.