Queer Money®: How Gay People Do Money

Is your financial future fabulous or basic? Your daily financial habits are the unsung heroes of your money story—they shape everything from your short-term wins to your long-term dreams (hello, cozy retirement!).In this episode of Queer Money®, we’re diving into the magic of a solid daily financial plan that syncs with your bigger money goals. 💸✨We're spilling all the tea on:💡 Setting a daily budget that works for you💡 Living that cash-only life like a boss💡 Using fintech tools to keep your coins in checkBut it’s not just about the mechanics. This episode is all about how those small, consistent moves—like mindful spending—build the foundation for financial independence and a fabulous future.Plus, we’ll dish on why continuous financial education is a game-changer and how to actually enjoy managing your money. Spoiler alert: financial freedom can be fun. 🥂Tune in and learn how to make your money habits work harder than Beyoncé in a stadium show!Show Notes:The Queer Money podcast brings an engaging discussion on the importance of daily financial habits and their impact on long-term financial success. Drawing from the Tanzanian proverb, "little by little, a little becomes a lot," the hosts emphasize that each small financial decision made today contributes significantly to future financial stability. This episode serves as the third installment in a financial planning series, building on previous discussions about short-term and long-term planning. With relatable examples, the hosts illustrate how seemingly minor expenditures like daily coffee runs or frequent dining out can accumulate and hinder retirement goals if not managed wisely. Listeners are guided through five actionable steps to improve their daily financial routines. These steps include setting a daily budget, living on cash, utilizing fintech tools to track spending and investments, committing to daily financial learning, and most importantly, having fun throughout the process. The discussion encourages a conscious approach to spending, urging listeners to recognize the long-term effects of their daily financial choices. Additionally, the episode fosters a sense of community among LGBTQ individuals by promoting financial literacy and independence, ultimately aiming to empower listeners to achieve their financial aspirations with confidence and ease.Topics Covered: 00:17 - Daily Financial Habits03:25 - The Latte Factor and Financial Habits05:30 - Understanding Millennials' Spending Habits08:23 - The Importance of Budgeting and Cash Management11:23 - Exploring Fintech and Financial Independence14:11 - Creating Your Daily Financial PlanTakeaways: Your daily financial habits are crucial for achieving long-term financial goals like retirement. Living on cash instead of cards can help you manage your spending better. Daily budgeting allows you to track your expenses and avoid financial pitfalls. Investing in fintech tools can significantly improve your budgeting and financial awareness. Learning about finances a little each day can empower you to make better choices. Having fun while managing your finances makes the process enjoyable and sustainable. Let's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTube

Does your short-term financial plan work? Does it align with your long-term goals?Creating a short-term financial plan that aligns with your long-term goals is essential for achieving financial independence and well-being. In this episode, we share five actionable steps to help you establish one to three short-term money goals that will support your broader financial aspirations. By focusing on improving cash flow, growing your net worth, and strategically planning your social life, you can ensure that your day-to-day spending aligns with your long-term objectives. We also emphasize the importance of selecting goals that are not only achievable but also complement your larger financial vision. Join us as we dive into practical strategies that will set you on the path to financial success while still enjoying life along the way.Takeaways: Creating short-term financial goals that align with your long-term objectives is essential for success. It's important to improve your cash flow by spending less than you earn consistently. Paying off high-interest debt is one of the fastest ways to increase your net worth. Be proactive in planning your social life to avoid overspending and debt accumulation. Finding cheaper alternatives to your favorite activities can help you save money effectively. Setting one to three short-term goals creates a clear focus and direction for your finances. Topics Covered00:07 - Creating Short Term Financial Goals01:12 - Transitioning to Short Term Financial Goals04:55 - Strategies for Achieving Financial Goals09:02 - Planning Your Social Life Budget11:47 - Five Steps to Financial SuccessLet's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedIn

How to Achieve Your Long-term GoalsAchieving long-term financial goals can be challenging due to a phenomenon known as delayed reward discounting, where individuals struggle to prioritize future gains over immediate gratification. This podcast episode delves into the importance of setting clear, quantifiable Queer Money goals that resonate personally, as well as understanding the underlying motivation behind these goals. The hosts discuss the significance of taking action by establishing dedicated accounts for each goal and automating savings to streamline the process. By sharing financial aspirations with friends and family, especially within the LGBTQ community, individuals can create accountability and inspire one another. Ultimately, listeners are encouraged to focus on both the practical steps of financial planning and the psychological aspects that can lead to sustained success.The psychological phenomenon of delayed reward discounting often impedes our ability to achieve long-term goals, leading many to set the same New Year’s resolutions year after year without progress. This episode addresses this issue head-on, inviting listeners to explore the intricate relationship between our aspirations and the actions—or inactions—that follow. The hosts introduce the concept of 'Queer Money Goals,' a framework designed to help individuals articulate their financial objectives in a way that is not only measurable but also exciting and relevant to their lives. This framework encourages the identification of significant long-term goals, or 'rocks,' while also acknowledging the importance of 'pebbles' (medium-term goals) and 'sand' (short-term desires) in the overall financial landscape.Show NotesA captivating metaphor of a jar filled with rocks, pebbles, sand, and water is utilized throughout the discussion to illustrate how prioritizing major goals can create a solid foundation for achieving smaller, immediate aims. The hosts stress the necessity of understanding one's 'why' behind each goal, which serves as a key motivator during challenging times. Furthermore, they advocate for automation in financial planning, suggesting that setting up direct deposits and automated savings can streamline the process and eliminate the temptation to divert funds from important goals. This not only simplifies budgeting but also contributes to building a healthier financial future.The episode culminates in a call to action for listeners to socialize their goals, particularly within the LGBTQ community, to foster accountability and inspiration. By sharing financial aspirations with friends and family, individuals can create a supportive network that encourages progress and celebrates milestones. The hosts conclude by outlining five essential steps for effective long-term financial planning, leaving listeners with a clear roadmap to navigate their financial journeys. This episode serves as an empowering guide for anyone looking to redefine their financial future by embracing both the challenges and triumphs of goal-setting.Takeaways: Delayed reward discounting makes achieving long-term goals difficult, leading to procrastination and distraction. Success is not a one-time event but a series of small, consistent actions over time. Establish your Queer Money goals by ensuring they are quantifiable, understandable, and relevant to you. Automate your savings and bills to simplify your financial journey and reduce stress. Involve your friends and family in your financial goals to create accountability and support. Understanding your 'why' behind your goals helps maintain motivation during challenging times. Chapters:00:08 - Understanding Delayed Reward Discounting02:11 - Understanding Delayed Reward Discounting06:13 - Introducing Queer Money Goals08:29 - Understanding Your Goals and...

Do you really love your gay life? I mean really?Many queer folks, especially queer men express this feeling to us. They've been struggling all their lives to feel accepted, feel whole and feel like they're really happy. So, this week, we share some tips on what it takes to build the kind of gay life you love.Let's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Should we quit the LGBTQ+ community?In episode 572 of the Queer Money Podcast, hosts David and John discuss the potential future of the podcast after learning their primary sponsor will not renew sponsorship for 2025. They share the impact of this news on their revenue and reflect on the journey of the podcast since its inception, highlighting milestones and significant contributions to the LGBTQ community. The hosts request feedback from listeners to help determine whether to continue the podcast and in what new directions it might go. Special gratitude is extended to Capital One and other sponsors for their support over the years. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to share their thoughts via social media or email.Topics Covered:00:00 Introduction and Announcement00:48 Reflecting on Queer Money's Journey03:28 The Birth and Evolution of Queer Money05:04 Impact and Achievements09:27 Challenges and Future Plans13:36 Audience Engagement and ConclusionLet's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Medicare is a confusing soup of letters, from Medicare part A to part D. What are they and what is the difference?Many of us will rely on Medicare as we age. So, what are the various parts of Medicare, and what do they cover? Let’s find out on this Queer Money.Let's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedIn

Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy something pretty close to it.In this episode of the Queer Money Podcast, hosts David and John discuss how money contributes to happiness by providing five key freedoms: financial freedom, location freedom, time freedom, relationship freedom, and 'you' freedom. The episode explains how each freedom significantly impacts the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals, from reducing financial stress to enabling a true expression of self. They emphasize that while money can't buy happiness directly, it offers these freedoms, which are critical to achieving long-term happiness and well-being. Topics Covered:00:55 The Five Freedoms Money Can Buy 01:58 Freedom #1: Financial Freedom03:44 Freedom #2: Location Freedom05:31 Freedom #3: Time Freedom06:46 Freedom #4: Relationship Freedom07:45 Freedom #5: You Freedom09:04 The Pursuit of True Happiness11:16 Steps to Achieve Financial IndependenceLet's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Does retirement seem like a million years away? Want to retire earlier?On this Queer Money we tap into the desire to retire earlier or more confidently. Check out these seven tools to help you retire earlier and more fabulously than you ever dreamed.Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Do you want to invest in real estate but have no extra cash? How about investing with the money you have in your retirement accounts? On this episode of Queer Money, the hosts discuss strategies for increasing retirement income with Christopher Price, managing partner at Boost Capital Group, and Founder/CEO of Red Fox Multifamily. Christopher shares his approach to investing in hands-off, revenue-generating real estate to diversify retirement portfolios. Chris explains the benefits of self-directed IRAs, emphasizing the potential for tax savings and passive income through real estate syndications. They explore various investment strategies, the process of setting up these accounts, and the importance of due diligence in selecting reliable investment opportunities.Topics Covered: 00:09 Guest Introduction: Christopher Price01:00 Exploring Investment Options Beyond Traditional Accounts01:45 Understanding Self-Directed IRAs and Solo 401(k)s05:22 Key Differences Between Self-Directed IRAs and Solo 401(k)s09:57 Passive Real Estate Investing Explained15:24 Real Estate Syndications and Their Benefits23:08 Investment Strategies and Velocity of Money31:10 Understanding 401k Loans and Real Estate Investments32:14 Repaying 401k Loans with Real Estate Income34:19 Rolling Over IRAs into Solo 401ks35:05 Facilitating the Transfer to Solo 401ks38:36 Addressing the Housing Crisis and Real Estate Investments42:32 Improving Multifamily Properties for Better Living45:02 Finding and Vetting Real Estate Syndicates49:23 Key Considerations for Real Estate Investments55:51 Learning More and Connecting with Experts58:07 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsLet's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

How does being married affect my retirement, especially in light of the Supreme Court's possible challenges to marriage equality?On this Queer Money®, we discuss marriage equality and tackle the ever-so-romantic question: Should you marry your BFF as part of your retirement plan? Spoiler alert—it might be worth the paperwork. Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Are you tired of fighting about money with your spouse? How can you get on the same page?On this episode of Queer Money® podcast, hosts John and David explore a frequently asked question from members of the audience: “How can couples get on the same page about money?” This episode features Adam Kol, the couple's money coach who discusses effective strategies for financial planning and communication between partners. Adam emphasizes starting conversations about general money attitudes rather than specific numbers initially, understanding each other's financial backgrounds, and building trust over time. He also provides practical tips on setting financial goals, managing differences, and fostering a team-like approach toward financial planning. The discussion highlights the importance of emotional and financial intimacy and offers actionable steps for couples to align their financial priorities.Topics Covered:00:00 Introduction and Common Questions00:09 Introducing the Guest: Adam Kol01:28 Effective Strategies for Financial Communication07:17 Aligning Financial Goals and Priorities12:53 How to Work Together as a Couple Towards Goals15:20 Why it Can be Hard For Couples to Talk About Money18:33 Using Bio-Hacks to Ensure Smooth and Peaceful Conversations21:42 Finding Common Ground When Each Partner has Different Levels of Comfort with Financial Discussions26:19 Managing being in Different Financial Stages in Your Lives32:25 Building Financial FlexibilityLet's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Want to retire outside the United States in 2025? You probably won't and here are the 5 biggest reasons holding you back from doing it. BTW, they're not all money-related.Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Life changes aren't easy and one of the biggest, transitioning from work to retirement can cause a lot of stress and anxiety. How can you be more prepared?On this episode of the Queer Money® Podcast, hosts John and David dive into the often daunting topic of retirement planning with retirement planner Suzanne Campi. Suzanne shares insights on alleviating retirement anxieties by envisioning a desired lifestyle. She discusses her unique retirement wheel, which helps clients consider essential life aspects beyond finances, such as health, relationships, purpose, and legacy. Highlighting the importance of being proactive, nurturing community ties, and having a flexible retirement plan, the episode emphasizes that retirement planning should encompass more than just financial stability. Topics covered:00:00 Introduction to Retirement Fears00:23 Guest Introduction: Suzanne Campi01:38 Understanding Retirement Anxiety02:51 Redefining Retirement for Boomers and Gen Xers05:00 The Importance of Purpose in Retirement08:20 Building Community and Relationships09:59 Staying Active and Engaged14:28 Fostering New Friendships17:23 Balancing Friendships in Retirement18:13 Finding LGBT-Friendly Retirement Locations20:39 Planning Your Ideal Retirement23:13 Ritualizing Retirement Transitions31:24 Financial Planning for a Fulfilling Retirement35:05 Connecting with Suzanne Campi36:32 Conclusion and Upcoming EpisodesLet's connect:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Confession time! We made a big mistake on a previous episode and we're here to fix that mistake today.What is an RMD or Required Minimum Distribution? Today we clarify the mistake we made regarding when and how RMDs must be taken in retirement. Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

How do the election results impact your finances? Are you making any changes?On episode 562 of the Queer Money podcast, hosts David and John discuss five essential post-election moves for LGBTQ+ individuals, following the unexpected political shift with Harris not becoming president. The episode underscores the importance of financial security and preparedness in challenging political climates, addressing concerns about Project 2025 and its potential impacts on LGBTQ+ rights. Emphasizing collective financial strength, the hosts recommend supporting LGBTQ+ organizations, businesses, and building personal financial resilience through savings and debt reduction. This episode serves as a call to action for the community to leverage financial well-being as a form of protest and protection.Topics covered:02:06 The Impact of Project 2025 04:01 Call to Action: Financial Security 07:13 Supporting LGBTQ+ Organizations and Businesses 13:51 Building Emergency Savings and Debt-Free Living 18:50 Breaking the Addiction to Consumerism 25:19 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsFollow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Taxes! Love them or hate them, either way, they'll have a big impact on your retirement. Which state you live in during retirement could seriously affect your Social Security income. These are the 10 states that could ruin your retirement.Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

You've heard the adage, "Pay yourself first." So, why is that bad advice?In Queer Money episode 560, hosts John and David debunk the traditional 'pay yourself first' advice and provide a comprehensive approach to managing finances tailored for the LGBTQ+ community. They explain the importance of prioritizing savings and retirement accounts before spending on discretionary items. The episode introduces a new strategy of allocating funds to your future self, past self, and present self in that order. This approach aims to enhance financial well-being and ensure long-term financial security while still enjoying present-day pleasures.Topics Covered:00:00 Introduction: Busting the Myth of 'Pay Yourself First' 00:12 What Does 'Pay Yourself First' Really Mean? 01:33 The Reality of Paying Yourself First 03:07 A New Approach: Paying Yourself in Three Ways 04:39 Why This New Approach Works 06:43 Conclusion and Upcoming EpisodesFollow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Will your retirement rock or suck? Depending on if you qualify for social security you may already know the answer to most of that question. On this week's Queer Money Fabulous Gay Retirement bonus episode, we break down how social security will affect your retirement and show how to check to see if you're set to receive it as well as how much you may be getting. Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Changes to 401(k)s are coming in 2025!In this episode of the Queer Money Podcast, hosts David and John talk with LGBTQ+ financial advisor Jake Skelhorn about significant 401k changes coming in 2025. They highlight five key changes, including updated catch-up contribution limits for those aged 50 and above, mandated Roth catch-up contributions for high income earners in 2026, and automatic 401k enrollments. Jake also explains the Secure Act 2.0’s rules on inherited IRAs and the implications for the LGBTQ+ community. They delve into strategies for investing in retirement accounts and the potential benefits for younger and late-start savers in making the most out of these new rules.Topics Covered:00:00 Introduction to 401k Changes in 202500:15 Meet Jake Skelhorn: LGBTQ+ Financial Advisor03:39 Catch-Up Contributions Explained05:26 Investment Strategies for Near-Retirees07:55 Changes for High-Income Earners17:57 Automatic Enrollment in 401ks22:07 Inherited IRA Changes26:57 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsFollow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter

Will you get Social Security benefits when you retire?For many of us, Social Security benefits will make up a sizeable portion of our income in retirement. Are you sure you'll get it? On this Queer Money, we break down the steps you need to take to not only find out if you qualify but to see what the Social Security Administration estimates you will get. This episode is visually intensive. If you would prefer to watch the steps we are outlining, you can do so here.Follow us:Queer Money InstagramQueer Money YouTubeQueer Money on TiktokConnect with John on LinkedInConnect with David on LinkedInMentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Queer Money Weekly NewsletterSubscribe here to get weekly money tips, show notes, Queer Money take-aways, give-aways, access to events and more.Subscribe to the Queer Money weekly newsletter