Raising Boys: The Real Story

Welcome to the podcast for boy moms who are ready to laugh and level up! I’m Alicia Davis — parenting coach, boy mom, and your go-to for stories, tools, and even some truth bombs to help you raise awesome boys and grow into the woman you’re meant to be. This is the place where real life meets real growth. Ready to learn together? Let's do this!

43. Could my boys actually like studying the scriptures?

If one of your parenting goals is to help your boys develop a foundation of faith, this is the episode for you! Kristen Walker Smith (author and podcast host of "One Minute Scripture Study") shares her experience, wisdom, and insights on how to help your boys begin to develop a love for the scriptures. Plus we also discuss ways to help your boys learn to recognize the Holy Ghost. So many nuggets of knowledge in this episode! You're going to want to share it with a friend. Download "The Spirit Wheel" for free: The Spirit Wheel Free 30-minute Clarity Call link: Schedule Here Here are the links to all of Kristen Walker Smith's awesomeness: Instagram: @kristenwalkersmith Podcast: One Minute Scripture Study  

09-22
41:09

42. Parenting Adult Children Part 2: Developing a relationship with your adult kids, with Maren Will

So, your child is an adult... what's next? How do you show up as a parent now? If you have a child heading into college and wonder what your role will look like now, this is the episode for you! In fact, there's so much awesome info out there, we've split it into two episodes.  Part 2 (this episode) shares the stories and wisdom of my articulate and experienced friend, Maren Will, who has gleaned many nuggets of knowledge from parenting her three adult children. Join us as we discuss the grief and doubt that comes when our kids move on, how we shift our mindset to view our children as equals, and doing the mental work that believing in them and connecting with them requires. 

08-19
37:53

41. Parenting Adult Children Part 1: How to prepare for the shift, with Maren Will

So, your child is an adult... what's next? How do you show up as a parent now? If you have a child heading into college and wonder what your role will look like now, this is the episode for you! In fact, there's so much awesome info out there, we've split it into two episodes.  Enjoy Part 1 with special guest Maren Will as we discuss parenting phases, foundational parenting principles, and how to prepare for the shift into parenting adult children.

08-15
41:49

40. What Message Are You Sending Your Boys?

Have you noticed the subtle messages society is sharing about boys?  These messages—both subtle and not-so-subtle—can shape how boys see themselves. Tune in as we explore how to recognize those messages and learn how to share your own. The personal messages that help them thrive!   Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Let's chat! You'll walk away with a clear plan on how to have a successful summer with your kids (no matter how much electronic time they have). Schedule it here! 

07-10
21:04

39. Summer Success with Teen Boys: Are You Asking the Right Questions?

It's June...how's your summer with teenage boys going? Is your fridge empty...again? How many conversations about electronics have you already had?  If you're serious about creating a successful summer for both you and your boys, you might be asking the wrong questions.  Learn the questions that will help you create the summer you really want, for you and your boys. And learn how to look back at the end of summer without regret.    Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Let's chat! You'll walk away with a clear plan on how to have a successful summer with your kids (no matter how much electronic time they have). Schedule it here!     

06-16
22:27

38. What if you could glimpse into your son's future?

A glimpse, by definition, is a "momentary or partial view." As a mother, you might sometimes have "momentary or partial views" of your son's potential and future capacity. These glimpses into their future are distinctly different from your worries, concerns, or anxieties about their future. This episode explores the differences between glimpsing the future and worrying about it, and how choosing to see clearly helps you (and him) have more joy, confidence and connection.    Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Schedule it here!

06-03
18:06

37. How to increase your son's emotional vocabulary (in stealth mode)

Since most teenage boys don't like to talk about emotions (let alone feel them), we've got to operate in stealth mode if we're going to help them be more aware of their emotions and learn what to do with them. This episode explores why emotional literacy is so important, and shares five things you can do to increase your son's emotional vocabulary (without them even realizing you're doing it).  Want to download my version of the Feel Wheel? Grab it here!  Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Schedule it here! Visit my website and Instagram

05-14
23:19

36. Step Back. It will be okay.

We want our boys to grow into independent, confident men, the kind who trust themselves to make decisions. What gets in the way of that? Sometimes we do. This episode explores boys' independence, how we subconsciously hinder their progress, and how to simply step back and let them learn.  Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Schedule it here! Visit my website and Instagram

05-13
20:48

35. Identifying Your Parental Strengths, and an Intro to Energy Profiling

When you feel stuck or frustrated, thinking that something (or one of your teenagers) should be different, it's hard to remember and access your personal parenting strengths. This episode explores why focusing on strengths is helpful, how to identify more of your strengths, and introduces Energy Profiling, a system developed by Carol Tuttle that helps you recognize your inherent energetic nature and how to honor and use it (in your relationships and in your parenting).  Books: "It's Just My Nature," and "The Child Whisperer," by Carol Tuttle Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Schedule it here! Visit my website and Instagram

05-02
32:21

34. Choosing and Cultivating Optimism (One of the Best Parenting Tools)

Did you know optimism is one of your greatest parenting tools? Really! This episode explores the root of the word "optimism" and gets into the nitty gritty of why it's so important. Plus learn five ways to cultivate it so you can have more joy, peace, and confidence as you mother your teenage boys. Visit my website Check out my Instagram Want a free 30-minute Clarity Call? Schedule it here!

04-22
22:55

33. Do You Have the Right Tools to Teach Your Boys Emotional Intelligence?

There's a lot to teach your boys, right? Especially when it comes to emotional health. You probably wonder how to help when your son doesn't make the team, or wishes he had more friends (or better friends), or struggles with anxiety or stress.  This episode emphasizes why teaching our boys emotional health requires the right tools, and shares hope that your young men can be taught the emotional skills they need to be confident, capable, and successful, both in their personal lives, and in their relationships.  Visit my website for more info: aliciadaviscoaching.com  Click here to schedule a free session.  

04-03
14:57

31. Life Skills for Teens Part 2: Stop Shoulding on Yourself

What if it was possible for your teenager to feel less overwhelmed and stressed, and more independent and confident? The key, isn't to clear their schedule. The key is to help them stop believing they SHOULD do it all. They absolutely can if they want to, but when the "shoulds" come into play, we can unintentionally stunt their ability to make choices and learn for themselves.  Learn about how inviting your teen (instead of "should-ing" your teen) can help them become who they were meant to be.   For questions about working with me, pop over to Instagram @aliciadaviscoaching and DM me. I'd love to help!

02-27
08:15

29. A Sprinkling of Consistency

Did you know that thinking small actually helps you reach your goals? Just a sprinkling of effort each day, a smidge of action, makes a big, powerful difference. Stop hesitating to make a new goal, and decide to make small, consistent efforts every day in this episode. 

01-09
07:19

28. There's Nothing to Fix

When your son comes home feeling frustrated or annoyed, you probably want to help him feel better. Your brain automatically offers something like, "Let's fix this". But is there really anything to fix? Learn more in this episode about what moms are really trying to fix, and what to do about it.

11-14
09:12

27. Permission to Believe

We're out of practice complimenting ourselves. And we're out of practice remembering and appreciating our skills, talents, growth, and innate worth. You have permission to believe you're amazing. Really. Learn what prevents us from appreciating ourselves, and take the first step toward greater confidence in this amazing episode. 

11-02
06:15

26. Mastering Motherhood Mini-Sessions

Whether you want to improve your relationship with your spouse, figure out how to help your teenage son, or manage the stress of being the CEO of your family, this episode is for you! Learn why my free Mastering Motherhood Mini-Session is exactly what you need (and how to schedule it).

09-20
07:40

25. That Wasn't Supposed to Happen

When your child gets the "wrong" teacher this school year, or the tire goes flat, or the person you thought was your friend ghosts you, or  Hurrican Harvey drastically changes your school year, you tend to think, "that shouldn't have happened." Here's the thing: that thought is more dangerous than we realize. Learn why that pattern of thinking is detremental, and how to move forward when unexpected, and even challenging things, happen.

08-17
08:38

24. Settling into the New School Year

We want to help our kids settle in to the new school year successfully. And we want to feel settled too! You might be surprised at the three things that will help both you and your kids adjust to the new school year.  Plus, get the tool you can keep in your back pocket as you transition to new schedules, routines, and adventures. Click here to schedule your free back to school coaching session: https://www.aliciadaviscoaching.com/

08-09
09:09

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