Raising Godly Girls

Every parent wants to protect their daughter—but when does protecting cross the line into preventing her from growing? On this week’s Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into the challenge of “lawnmower parenting” and how stepping back actually strengthens our daughters for the road ahead.  Through honest stories and Biblical encouragement, Rachael and Natalie share what it looks like to let our girls face healthy adversity, build resilience, and learn to trust God’s leadership in their own lives. From kindergarten battles over hair bows to navigating playground conflicts and tough conversations with teachers, they remind us that ease doesn’t build strength—resistance does.  You’ll also hear a special Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay about how adversity strengthens trees—and girls. Together, we’ll explore why our instincts to intervene, though good, must sometimes yield to God’s greater plan for our daughters’ growth.  Scripture References:  Isaiah 55:8–9  Proverbs 16:3  If you’ve ever wrestled with when to step in and when to step back, this episode will encourage you to parent with courage, humility, and trust in God’s sovereignty.   Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

As parents, our hearts want the very best for our girls. We long to shield them from failure, hardship, and pain. But what if our desire to protect is actually preventing them from growing into the young women God created them to be?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into the parenting pitfalls of “helicoptering” and “lawnmowing”—those tendencies to hover or clear every obstacle out of our daughter’s path. Together, they wrestle with the tension between loving our girls well and trusting the Lord to use challenges, disappointments, and even failures to build godly character.  You’ll hear real-life parenting stories, Biblical wisdom, and encouragement from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in this week’s Raising Godly Girls Minute.   The truth is, resilience grows when girls are allowed to stumble, problem-solve, and experience God’s faithfulness firsthand. Parenting is not about writing their story—it’s about trusting the One who already has.  Scripture References:  Matthew 7:9–11  Hebrews 12  If you’ve ever struggled with when to step in and when to step back, this episode will help you release the pressure, pry your hands open, and lean on God’s sovereignty as you raise your daughter with courage and faith.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

If there’s one thing every parent of girls knows, it’s this: emotions can run deep, wide, and loud. From tearful meltdowns to dramatic outbursts, our daughters’ feelings can often feel like tidal waves that threaten to pull the whole household under. But what if those very moments weren’t interruptions to parenting—but opportunities for discipleship?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, sits down with licensed professional counselor and bestselling author Michelle Nietert to unpack how parents can guide their daughters through big emotions with both compassion and Biblical truth. Drawing from decades of experience as a counselor, school crisis responder, and mom, Michelle offers practical insights for helping girls process sadness, fear, and anxiety while building emotional resilience that’s rooted in Christ.  You’ll hear encouragement for the mom who feels like her daughter is drowning in emotions, guidance on discerning when drama signals deeper emotional needs, and everyday ways parents can connect spiritual discipleship to emotional growth. From playground drama to teenage friendship struggles, Michelle reminds us that while the world may tell girls to be ruled by their feelings, God calls them to bring those feelings to Him.  Scripture References:  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Philippians 4:6–7 – “Do not be anxious about anything… and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”  Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control. This conversation will leave you equipped with tools, reassured by truth, and reminded that you are not alone in raising emotionally healthy, Godly girls.  This conversation will leave you equipped with tools, reassured by truth, and reminded that you are not alone in raising emotionally healthy, Godly girls.  You can learn more about Michelle and her work at michellenietert.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

Big emotions are a normal part of growing up—but when those emotions start calling the shots, our girls can quickly feel overwhelmed, discouraged, and even defeated. As moms, we want to raise daughters who feel deeply while also learning that their emotions don’t get to be in charge—Christ does.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore what it means to guide our daughters through the highs and lows of anger, sadness, joy, and fear with patience, connection, and truth. You’ll hear honest mom-to-mom stories, practical tools like “do-overs” and weekly check-ins, and encouragement to see emotional outbursts not as inconveniences but as discipleship opportunities.  Together, we’ll unpack how to help our daughters:  Recognize that emotions are real but not ultimate truth  Move from reacting in anger to responding in the Spirit  Root their identity in Christ rather than in how they feel  Practice self-control through grace-filled parenting moments  You’ll also hear the Raising Godly Girls Minute with Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, reminding us that while anger is natural, the Holy Spirit transforms it into life-giving joy.  So, whether your daughter is slamming doors, quietly shutting down, or somewhere in between, this episode will remind you that big feelings don’t make her “too much.” They make her human—and God has entrusted you to shepherd her through them with His wisdom and love.  Scripture References:  • Galatians 5:16, 19–21, 22–23  • 2 Timothy 1:7  • John 11:35    This Week’s Reminders:  Big emotions don’t make your daughter “bad”—they make her human. God created her with deep feelings for a purpose. Your job isn’t to silence those emotions but to shepherd her through them with love, patience, and truth.   Correction is most powerful when it’s paired with connection. Your daughter will grow most when she feels safe, seen, and loved—even after a meltdown. Stay close, speak truth, and don’t underestimate the power of a gentle tone.   You are not alone in this—and neither is she. God is with you in every eye roll, every slammed door, and every teary moment. He’s working in her heart even when you can’t see it. Keep sowing seeds of Spirit-led parenting. He is faithful to grow the fruit.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

Emotions can be overwhelming—both for our daughters and for us as moms. From tearful meltdowns to unpredictable mood swings, it’s easy to feel like big emotions threaten to take over the day. But here’s the truth: feelings aren’t something to fix or fear. They’re invitations—opportunities to lean into God’s presence, disciple with compassion, and point our girls toward steadfastness in Christ.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden share personal stories of their own girlhood “big emotion” moments, reminding us that as moms, we’ve stood where our daughters now stand. Together, they explore practical and faith-filled ways to help girls put words to their emotions, process them in healthy ways, and anchor their identity in who God says they are—not in how they feel.  You’ll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who offers an actionable tool for moms: teaching your daughter to reframe “I am” statements into “I feel” statements. This simple shift can transform self-talk, strengthen identity, and remind our girls that feelings are temporary—but God’s truth is eternal.  Through practical steps like journaling, mealtime check-ins, and memorizing “truth anchor” verses, this episode equips you to model emotional maturity, guide your daughter with gentleness, and rest in the knowledge that God didn’t call you to fix every emotion—He called you to shepherd your girl’s heart toward Him.  Referenced Scripture:  Genesis 16:13 — God sees us in our struggles.  Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Exodus 14:13 — Stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord.  Psalm 139:14 — Fearfully and wonderfully made.  Isaiah 43:1 — Called by name and redeemed.  1 Peter 2:9 — Chosen and belonging to God.  This Week’s Reminders:  Feelings Are Real, But Not Always True  Help your daughter name her emotions without letting them define her. Just because she feels unloved doesn’t mean she is unloved. Root her identity in God’s truth, not her temporary feelings.   She Learns Emotional Maturity by Watching You  Your example is her blueprint. When you model calm, prayerful responses and speak truth over your own emotions, you’re teaching her how to navigate hers with grace and faith.   God Doesn’t Call You to Be Her Savior—Just Her Shepherd  You’re not expected to fix every meltdown. Your role is to guide her toward the One who can hold every emotion she faces. Let that truth lighten the load—you’re parenting with God, not apart from Him.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

In today’s fast-paced culture, the generational divide can feel wider than ever. Parents and grandparents long to pass on a vibrant faith, but too often wonder if their words will land—or if younger hearts are even listening. Statistics paint a sobering picture: nearly 70% of young adults raised in the church walk away as they enter adulthood. But this isn’t just a statistic. It’s a wake-up call to reclaim the power of spiritual legacy.  In this episode, host Patti Garibay sits down with Kate and Mike Battistelli—parents to Grammy Award-winning artist Francesca Battistelli and faithful disciplers with a passion for legacy building. Together, they share powerful insights on how families can bridge the gap between generations, cultivating authentic connections that lead daughters and granddaughters to encounter Jesus for themselves.  With wisdom drawn from both triumphs and trials, Kate and Mike reveal what spiritual legacy really looks like: everyday faithfulness, intentional mentoring, and a willingness to model surrender in a world that prizes independence. From the father’s role in guiding and anchoring faith, to the Titus 2 calling for women to mentor the next generation, their conversation is a clarion call for every believer to show up, stay present, and speak life across generational lines.  Whether you feel overlooked as an older mentor, hesitant as a younger parent, or simply burdened for your daughter’s future, this episode will encourage you to take practical steps toward bridging the divide. Because when one generation commends God’s works to another, His mighty acts echo far beyond our lifetimes.  Referenced Scripture:  Psalm 145:4 — “One generation shall commend your works to another, and shall declare your mighty acts.”  Titus 2:3–5 — The call for older women to disciple younger women.  Deuteronomy 6:6–9 — Teaching God’s Word diligently to the next generation.  Learn more about Kate and Mike’s ministry and resources at katebattistelli.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

In a culture where communication is constant but true connection feels scarce, today’s teens are navigating pressures unlike any generation before them. From endless scrolling to viral slang, it can seem like their world is unreachable for parents, grandparents, and mentors. But here’s the good news: the deepest needs of teen girls haven’t changed. They still long for trusted relationships, authentic guidance, and meaningful time with the people who care most about them.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack how to build bridges with teens who live in a tech-saturated world but crave in-person connection. With warmth and humor, they share real-life stories about the balance between “relating” to teens and “leading” them into maturity—and why authenticity matters more than trying to keep up with every trend.  You’ll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who brings clarity to how girls actually flourish in their friendships. Drawing from both research and Scripture, she reminds us that teens thrive in communities that echo the early church—gathering, serving, and growing together in Christ-centered relationships.  Practical wisdom flows throughout this conversation: consistently showing up in your girl’s world, asking deeper questions that fuel her faith, and admitting when you don’t have all the answers. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor, this episode will encourage you to lead at the “speed of trust” and invest in relationships that last beyond the moment.  Referenced Scripture:  Acts 2:42–47 — Early church community life.  Deuteronomy 6:4–9 — Teaching God’s Word to the next generation.  Titus 2:3–5 — Mentoring and discipling across generations.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

Bridging the gap between generations isn’t just about understanding slang—it’s about building trust, opening doors for discipleship, and creating a shared language of faith. In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose take a lighthearted (and sometimes hilarious) look at the “Gen Z Bible,” then turn the conversation toward a much deeper truth: God is doing something unprecedented among today’s youth.  With Gen Z leading the largest surge of faith growth in modern history, the question for parents, mentors, and leaders is clear—will we be ready to connect, disciple, and walk alongside them as they lead? Drawing from Titus 2 and 1 Timothy 3, Rachael and Natalie unpack three key principles for empowering the next generation of Godly leaders: training them well, passing down wisdom, and modeling a lifelong learner’s heart.  Along the way, you’ll hear practical ways to:  Understand your daughter’s “lingo” without trying to be “one of the kids”  Recognize and nurture her leadership gifts without skipping the necessary training  Build bridges between generations in your family, church, and community  Encourage girls to embrace discipleship—both giving and receiving it  This episode will make you laugh, challenge your perspective, and inspire you to engage with the young leaders God is raising up in this generation.  Referenced Scripture:  Psalm 23 (paraphrased in Gen Z Bible reading)  Deuteronomy 6:4–9  Colossians 4:15  1 Timothy 3:2–13  Titus 2:3–5  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

Cancel culture has become one of the most defining—and divisive—features of our modern world. For parents raising daughters, the stakes are high: one wrong post, one unpopular opinion, and she could face public shaming or social exile. How do we raise girls who remain unshaken in their Biblical convictions while leading with love, grace, and resilience?  In this episode, Rachael Culpepper is joined by journalist, author, and cultural commentator Billy Hallowell for a powerful conversation on equipping girls to stand firm in Christ in the face of cultural pressure. Together, they unpack how cancel culture distorts the concepts of accountability and forgiveness, why the Gospel offers a radically different response, and what practical tools parents can give their daughters to navigate the digital world with discernment.  You’ll hear how to:  Teach your daughter to speak truth boldly without fear of rejection  Model healthy boundaries while practicing Biblical forgiveness  Guide girls through social media pressures with confidence in their identity in Christ  Use cultural moments as teachable opportunities about redemption and grace  Introduce apologetics in a way that equips—not intimidates—young believers  Referenced Scripture:  Isaiah 5:20  2 Corinthians 5:17–20  Matthew 5:43–48  Romans 14:1–12  If you’ve been wondering how to raise a girl who can stand strong in her faith in a culture quick to “cancel,” this episode will encourage, challenge, and equip you for the journey.   Learn more about Billy Hallowell at billyhallowell.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

Cancel culture seems to demand that we choose sides—cutting off, calling out, and canceling others with little room for redemption. But what does a Gospel response look like? How do we teach our daughters to stand firm in their faith without returning fire with fire?  In this Thursday episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dig deep into how the divide created by cancel culture can be reconciled—not through compromise, but through Christ. Rooted in the ministry of reconciliation described in 2 Corinthians 5, this episode explores what it means to be a peacemaker in a polarized world and how to help your daughter hold truth and grace in tension.  From toddler playground scuffles to teenaged social dynamics, cancel culture is showing up in your daughter’s life earlier than ever. But instead of teaching her to cancel back, this conversation invites you to cast a different vision—one that prioritizes empathy, identity in Christ, spiritual maturity, and prayer for those who oppose her.  You’ll walk away with:  A Gospel-centered framework for responding to cancel culture  Real-life language to help your daughter approach conflict differently  3 practical jumping-off points to move her from canceling to reconciling  AHG resources like GRIT with Grace that equip girls to practice Biblical unity in their everyday relationships  As American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay reminds us in this week’s Raising Godly Girls Minute, our differences are not a threat—they are an opportunity to celebrate the body of Christ in its fullness. Unity doesn’t mean sameness; it means choosing love in the face of division.  Scripture References:  Genesis 6 – God grieves humanity’s wickedness  Isaiah 5:20 – “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil...”  2 Corinthians 5:17–20 – Ministry of reconciliation  Romans 14:1–12 – Unity in the body despite differences  Matthew 5:43–44 – “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you”  Revelation 7:9 – A vision of heaven’s diversity: every tribe, nation, and tongue  2 Timothy 1:7 – Spirit of power, love, and self-discipline  Our girls don’t need to be cultural chameleons—they need to be Gospel lights. Teach her to lead with conviction, but love like Christ.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

In a world where boycotts trend by the hour and social media justice can render someone “canceled” overnight, Christian parents are left wondering—how should we respond? In this insightful and deeply relevant episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose step into the emotionally charged topic of Cancel Culture with clarity, nuance, and a Biblical lens.  Rather than being driven by reactionary outrage, Christians are called to be rooted in grace, truth, and discernment. The conversation explores the dangers of modern Cancel Culture—doxing, boycotting, and outrage cycles—and contrasts them with the radical love and reconciliation found in Christ. Rachael and Natalie ask: What does it look like to live out a Grace Culture in a canceling world? And how do we teach our daughters to pursue peace, seek justice, and reflect the heart of Jesus in the face of public pressure?  Listeners will appreciate the honesty of personal stories, Biblical insights, and encouragements to step away from knee-jerk reactions and instead stand firmly on their identity in Christ. With wisdom from the Raising Godly Girls Minute by American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, this episode reminds us that we are uncanceled by God—and that truth has massive implications for how we love others.  Scripture References:  Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  Ephesians 2:4–5 – “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ…”  Matthew 5:8 – “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.”  Micah 6:8 – “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”  Whether you're trying to navigate social media, lead your family in integrity, or disciple your daughter through cultural confusion, this episode offers an anchored, grace-filled vision for Christian living in divisive times.    Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

Parenting in today’s world is not for the faint of heart—and emotional intelligence may be one of your most powerful, overlooked tools in raising a resilient, Christ-centered daughter.  In this insightful conversation, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay sits down with Christ-centered leadership coach and author Vic Clesceri to unpack how Emotional Intelligence (EI) transforms the way we parent. From managing our own triggers to modeling self-awareness and empathy, Vic helps us see parenting not as a performance—but as a spiritual practice rooted in grace, surrender, and intentional growth.  You’ll hear about:  What Emotional Intelligence actually is—and why it matters for moms and dads  How subtle "saboteurs" like perfectionism, fear, or the need for control undermine our parenting  Tools and daily practices to help you lead your daughter with emotional clarity and Biblical compassion  Whether you’re in the trenches of toddlerhood or navigating the teen years, this episode offers hope and clarity. God is with you, and He has equipped you to parent with wisdom, peace, and purpose.  Be encouraged: Emotional Intelligence isn't a secular parenting trend—it’s a Biblical call to be transformed from the inside out so we can reflect Christ more fully to our children.  Learn more about Vic’s leadership work at themanagementsherpa.com  Take the free Saboteur assessment referenced in the episode at positiveintelligence.com Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

Is your daughter shutting down emotionally—retreating behind “I’m fine” and silence when life feels too big? In a world that often confuses resilience with repression, many girls grow up without the tools or trust to process their emotions in a healthy, God-honoring way. This episode is here to help change that.  Join co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden as they explore how to build emotional bridges with your daughter, not barriers. From personal stories of girlhood to faith-rooted wisdom, this episode will equip you with simple, practical ways to create a safe space for vulnerability—while still pointing your girl toward Christ.  You’ll learn:  Why girls often repress emotions—and how to respond with grace  How to model emotional openness without oversharing  Conversation strategies that draw her out instead of shutting her down  What Scripture teaches about emotional honesty and trust  You’ll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay on why emotional intelligence is vital to true resilience—and how the Bible affirms the value of naming our emotions, not burying them.  This is a conversation for every parent who longs to connect with their daughter’s heart—and guide her toward the God who understands and cares for her completely.  Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:  James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”  1 Peter 5:7 – “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

Emotions can feel overwhelming—both hers and yours. So how do you raise a Godly girl who’s emotionally wise, not just reactive?  In this episode, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore how emotional intelligence (EQ) can shape your daughter’s spiritual maturity—and your parenting too. You’ll hear practical ways to help her name her feelings, respond with grace, and grow in wisdom from a Biblical Worldview.  Discover how Jesus modeled empathy and self-control, why EQ is more than a buzzword, and how God uses emotions to shape both moms and daughters into His likeness.  Plus, hear this week’s Raising Godly Girls Minute with American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay as she reminds us that emotions aren’t flaws—they’re God-designed tools for growth.  Scripture References in This Episode:  Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”  Galatians 5:22-23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control and gentleness  Ecclesiastes 3:4 – “A time to weep and a time to laugh…”  James 1:19-20 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…”  Ephesians 4:26 – “In your anger do not sin…”  John 11:35 – “Jesus wept.” (A powerful example of Christ’s emotional expression)  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Whether you’re navigating a meltdown or simply want to parent with more patience and purpose, this episode will equip you with Biblical insight and practical tools to grow both your daughter’s emotional intelligence—and your own.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

How do we raise daughters who reflect the humility of Christ in a world that rewards self-promotion? How do we steer their hearts away from “me first” and toward “others first”? In this powerful weekend episode, Raising Godly Girls host and American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes character education expert and author Jill Garner to explore how parents can guide girls from self-absorption to selflessness through intentional heart training.  Jill Garner, founder of Manners of the Heart, brings decades of insight on shaping young hearts through respect-based education rooted in Biblical truth. As the author of Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World and StrongHeart: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child, Jill offers a clear and compassionate voice for parents seeking to raise daughters of integrity—girls who are resilient, gracious, and grounded in their identity in Christ.  Together, Patti and Jill explore the cultural currents pulling girls toward vanity, entitlement, and independence from God—and contrast them with a Spirit-led path of humility and service. With practical advice, personal testimony, and a heart for transformation, this conversation is a must-listen for parents raising daughters in today’s me-centered world.  In this episode, you’ll learn:  Why selfishness begins early—and what it reveals about the heart  What “Heart Education” is and how it can be a game-changer in your parenting  How to cultivate Christlike humility and respect in your daughter’s everyday life  Encouraging tools and Scriptures that anchor your family in a God-honoring character journey  How to partner with schools, churches, and AHG to reinforce selflessness and servant leadership  Key Scriptures Highlighted:  Philippians 2:3–4 – “In humility, value others above yourselves…”  Proverbs 11:25 – “Whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.”  James 3:16 – The warning against selfish ambition and its impact on community  If you’ve ever asked, “How do I lead my daughter to think of others first—and love them well?” this episode will equip you with both the truth and the tools to begin that work today.  Learn more about Jill’s work and explore helpful parenting resources at mannersoftheheart.org.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.   

From toddler tantrums to teen drama, it’s easy to spot the signs of self-focus in our daughters—but it’s harder to correct that trajectory in a culture that rewards self-obsession. This episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast gently but boldly tackles the uncomfortable topic of selfishness and entitlement, equipping moms with Biblical tools to shepherd their daughters into a Christ-centered life of humility and service.  Co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose offer heartfelt insight, Scripture-based truth, and real-life reflection on how selfish habits form—and how to break them with grace. From the sassy toddler mimicking grown-up behavior to the teen seeking praise and power, this conversation walks alongside moms who want to train up daughters who reflect Christ, not the culture.  You’ll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a timely Raising Godly Girls Minute, pointing parents to Proverbs and practical ways to help girls become refreshers of others rather than rulers of their own tiny kingdoms. If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries, discipline with love, or navigate your girl’s “attitude,” this episode will meet you right where you are—and call you higher in your parenting.  In this episode, you’ll discover:  Why early entitlement, if left unchecked, leads to lasting relational damage  How to guide your girl from “what I want” to “what others need” using empathy and training  Biblical wisdom from Philippians 2 and James 3:16 that redefines confidence as Christlike humility  Practical parenting phrases and questions to use when disciplining or redirecting selfish behavior  How service and discipleship lead girls out of self-focus and into Kingdom purpose    Scriptures Highlighted:  Philippians 2:3-4 — “Do nothing out of selfish ambition…”  James 3:16 — “Where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder…”  Proverbs 11:25 — “A generous person will prosper…”  If you’re ready to raise a girl who shines for Christ, not for the applause of the crowd, this episode will help you lay the groundwork. It’s not about squashing her confidence—it’s about redirecting her heart toward something greater: a life lived for others, rooted in the example of Jesus.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

The desire to be liked is natural—but left unchecked, it can quietly shape your daughter’s identity in unhealthy, even addictive ways. From the playground to the group chat, the pressure to earn approval can steal her joy, distort her view of self, and distance her from the truth of who she is in Christ.  In this must-listen episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive deep into the social and spiritual undercurrents of girls' need for affirmation. Together, they unpack how a girl’s early development can fuel her craving for praise—and how loving, intentional parenting can redirect that desire toward the One whose love never wavers.  You’ll hear candid personal stories from both hosts, powerful Scriptural truths, and timely insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in the Raising Godly Girls Minute. You’ll also learn how to reframe your daughter’s attention-seeking behavior, not as manipulation, but as a longing to be seen, known, and loved. This episode doesn’t just name the problem—it offers the Christ-centered path out.  In this episode, you’ll explore:  How girls’ early need for affirmation can spiral into an identity crisis if left unaddressed  The “Hawthorne Effect” and what it reveals about your daughter’s desire to be seen  The difference between “fitting in” and standing out for Christ (Philippians 2:15, Romans 8:5)  How to help your girl root her confidence in Colossians 3:2 living—setting her mind on things above  Practical steps to break the approval addiction and reestablish her identity in Christ    Scriptures Referenced:  Philippians 2:15 — “...shine like stars in the sky.”  Romans 8:5 — “Those who live according to the flesh...”  Colossians 3:2 — “Set your minds on things above...”  John 15:5 — “Abide in me and I in you...”  This episode reminds you that your daughter’s desire to be liked isn’t the problem—it’s where she looks for that affirmation that matters most. Help her turn from the fleeting approval of the world to the everlasting love of her Heavenly Father. And as a mom, be encouraged: your voice, your presence, and your daily words of truth are shaping the next generation of confident, Christlike women.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Danny Huerta from Focus on the Family to discuss practical strategies for achieving peace at home through effective conflict resolution. The average family experiences around 2,100 arguments a year. That's nearly 49 minutes of daily conflict! But how we handle these inevitable clashes can make all the difference in fostering a loving and harmonious home environment.  Dr. Huerta shares his expertise on the most common sources of family conflict and offers insights on how parents can identify and address these issues early on. Discover practical advice on managing sibling rivalry, teaching your children effective communication skills, and the vital role of forgiveness and reconciliation in resolving disputes. Learn how parents can mediate conflicts without being overly controlling, and how to turn everyday arguments into opportunities for growth and understanding.  Join us as we get to the heart of family dynamics, exploring ways to transform conflict into connection and maintain a peaceful, supportive atmosphere in your home. With Biblical wisdom and practical tips, this replay episode is designed to help you raise resilient, Godly girls equipped to navigate life's challenges.  To learn more about Dr. Huerta’s work with Focus on the Family, visit focusonthefamily.com/parenting  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast co-hosts Rachael and Melissa dig deep into the often-challenging terrain of parent-daughter arguments. While sibling spats can teach valuable lessons in conflict resolution, parent-daughter disagreements require a different approach to foster healthy, respectful communication.  Join us as we explore practical strategies and Biblical wisdom to navigate these conflicts, transforming moments of disagreement into opportunities for connection. In this episode, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay shares insightful advice on overcoming conflict and creating lasting bonds with your daughter.  Discover the power of understanding different perspectives, using "I" statements, and knowing when to take breaks during heated arguments. Through real-life anecdotes, scriptural guidance, and practical tips, we aim to equip you with the tools to foster open, respectful dialogue with your daughter, strengthening your relationship in the process.  Don't miss this insightful conversation designed to help you and your daughter build a foundation of love, patience, and effective communication. Tune in now and learn how to turn conflicts into connections that last a lifetime.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

Join co-hosts Rachael and Melissa in this “best of” episode as they discuss the complexities of sibling arguments and how to guide your daughters through them with grace and wisdom. In this replay episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, we discuss practical strategies rooted in Biblical principles to help your daughters navigate disagreements with their siblings. Featuring insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay, we explore the importance of cultivating a heart filled with the Fruit of the Spirit and the power of gentle, kind communication.  Tune in as we share personal anecdotes, Biblical examples, and effective ways to foster healthy conflict resolution in your home. Learn how to equip your daughters with the tools they need to handle disagreements gracefully, ensuring they build strong, loving relationships with their siblings. Don't miss this insightful and encouraging episode designed to support you in raising Godly girls who can navigate the challenges of sibling rivalry with faith and wisdom.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com