RandomMusings with Dina & Dosya.J

▶️When Friends Except You Divulge Your Problems To Them On Their Time Rather Than When You’re Ready . . ▶️You’re My Friend But I’m Not Obligated To Report To You . . ▶️Birthday Planning Drama . . ▶️And much more! . . . ▶️EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . . ▶️FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast @simplisticmarie @dosya.j . . . ▶️GOOD FRIEND/WORSE FRIEND: Do you have a story about something good or something bad that a friend did? Send it to us! . . . ▶️CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story . . . ▶️ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . . ▶️RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . ▶️MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

In Episode 2️⃣1️⃣ we’re joined by Social Media Influencer and Author Passport Cutty. She’s real, raw, very unfiltered and just truly a really great person to be around. Let’s be honest, we all need a friend who will always keep it real and help us make some sense of the shit that goes on in friendships and dating. Cutty did just that with us during our girl chat session in the studio. . . ▶️Vetting New Potential Friends . . ▶️Not Getting The Apology You Feel You Deserve . . ▶️Good Time Friends vs. Boring Friends . . ▶️The Overly Independent Woman . . ▶️The M in Man Is for Money . . ▶️When a Woman Makes More Money In The Relationship . . ▶️Having Conversations With Men About Finances . . ▶️And much more! . . . ▶️FOLLOW OUR GUEST: @passport_cutty . . . ▶️PURCHASE The M In Man Is For Money On Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Man-Money-How-make-work-ebook/dp/B06XYN77RF . . . ▶️EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . . ▶️FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast . . . ▶️CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story . . . ▶️ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . . ▶️RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . ▶️MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

Episode 2️⃣0️⃣ is one of our most insightful episodes to date. When you open the door to meeting new people, you increase your chances of building quality friendships with like-minded individuals that carry amazing energy. . . . . ▶️We were blessed to have Neffie Walker in the studio with us. She talks about what led her transition into interior design, ending her long-term friendships and her new journey to becoming the black Martha Stewart. . . . ▶️Dina (@simplisticmarie)opens up about her current battle with frequent panic attacks. . . . ▶️Cultivating your partner to recognize the things you want in a relationship. . . . ▶️Taking accountability . . . ▶️And much more! . . . ▶️FOLLOW : @neffiwalker . . . ▶️EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . . ▶️FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast . . . ▶️CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story . . . ▶️ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . . ▶️RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . . . ▶️MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

What is the difference between a life coach and a therapist? . . Using voice notes to incorporate daily check-ins . . Picking the right life coach . . Dosya J, Dina and Diamond get real with themselves with some self-honesty Q&A . . LIFE COACH EMAIL: lifecoachdaradaya@gmail.com . . EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast . . CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story . . ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

We’re discussing the so called “Women Empowerment” events and the spike in these events all over. Unfortunately, a lot of these events are not empowering at all. In fact, some of these events are nothing but a mere popularity contest. Some of these “empowerment” events are being thrown strictly for monetary purposes resulting in attendees walking away with nothing tangible for them to feel empowered after purchasing a ticket for $80-$100. A lot of people attend these events because there is a “celebrity” headliner and/or just want a photo opportunity to post on social media. Keep in mind we’re using the word “celebrity” VERY loosely. However, events that are held by someone who is not of a “celebrity” status or doesn’t have a high profile headliner, are unable to fill seats at their event. Furthermore, “women empowerment” events are being held by male promoters who have never empowered a women a day in their lives! Sometimes even hearing the two words “women empowerment” is cringeworthy because we hear it so much now knowing there are people who don’t really LIVE their lives actually empowering woman. . . . . Have these “empowerment” events become cliche? . . . . WALK IT LIKE YOU TALK IT! What can we do as individuals in our lives to empower women? EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . . . FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast . . . . VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com . . . . MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. . . . . CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. . . . . ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . . . RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . . . MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

-Dina discusses the growth and obstacles in her co-parenting relationship with her son’s father. . . . . Dosya.j and Earl Moodie (@superanr) talk about everything coparenting. They address some questions that they have been asked over the years about how they have been able to maintain the dynamics of their co-parenting relationship. . . . . . . AND MUCH MORE! . . . . . EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . . . FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast . . . . VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com . . . . MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. . . . . CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. . . . . ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . . . RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . . . MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi .

- My Journey Is Not For You To Understand - Budgeting Your F*cks - Battling Anxiety Attacks . . . . . AND MUCH MORE! . . . . . EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com . . . . FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast . . . . VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com . . . . MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. . . . . CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. . . . . ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! . . . . RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES . . . . MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

We now live in a generation where women are more sexually free spirited, proudly embrace the word “hoe” and their “hoe behavior”. This is seemingly becoming the “new normal”. * * * In episode 14, we have our two very good friends hanging out in the studio with us. Editor and writer @byseanmalcolm and your favorite wifey from Nightlife Web series @sweetbrown_boogiedown discussing this "new norm". * * * Can you bring a woman who is loud and proud in their “sexually free spirited ” activities home to mamma? * * * How does a man navigate the dating scene with many women preferring to receive a mans coins before receiving a mans care? * * * AND MUCH MORE! * * CONFLICT RESOLUTION: I’m a married woman to a man. How do I tell my family I’m not into men and that i’m love with my girlfriend? * * * EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com * * FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast * * * VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com * * MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. * * CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. * * ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! * * RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES * * MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

In episode 13, Dosya J and Dina discuss how personal family bonds can affect how you are in your friendships. * * * •CONFLICT RESOLUTION: I’m a married woman to a man. How do I tell my family I’m not into men and that i’m love with my girlfriend? * * * AND MUCH MORE * * * EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com * * FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast * * * VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com * * MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. * * CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. * * ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! * * RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES * * MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

In episode 12, Dosya.J and Dina discuss the habit of checking on your strong friends and get into a listeners very interesting conflict resolution letter. * * This episode is sponsored by hair care company Redd Collection @reddcollection For the month of April, Dope Hair is offering our listeners a 20% discount on their products. WWW.REDDCOLLECTIONWORLDWIDE.COM/STORE Use PROMO CODE: RM * * EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com * * FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast * * FOLLOW OUR SPONSOR: @reddcollection @dopehaircollection * * VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com * * MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. * * CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. * * ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! * * RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES * * MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

In episode 11, we had the honor of having our sponsor CEO Iasia Smith come hang out with us in the studio. She talks about her start in hair care and how she maneuvers through her own circle of friends. * * -I love you but sometimes I don’t like you -You don’t lose friends, you just lose the people that didn’t like you -Are you a toxic person without realizing it? AND MUCH MORE * * This episode is sponsored by hair care company Redd Collection @reddcollection For the month of April, Dope Hair is offering our listeners a 20% discount on their products. WWW.REDDCOLLECTIONWORLDWIDE.COM/STORE Use PROMO CODE: RM * * EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com * * FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast ** FOLLOW OUR SPONSOR: @reddcollection @dopehaircollection * * VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com * * MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. * * CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. * * ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! * * RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES * * MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

IT'S LADIES NIGHT! We had so much fun with these beautiful ladies! Thank you @beingdrenee (D Renee) @ps1503 (Peggy) founder of @lftd_spirits (Taz). We sipped on alcohol infused organic tea provided by LFTD Spirits, ate cupcakes provided by @theuptownveagn and just let the conversations flow into a variety of topics. * * * -Never Ever Have I -Sleeping with your friends ex-man -Dating younger men -Can a woman be too independent? -Doing Self Audits in your friendships -Posting your significant other on social media AND MUCH MORE * * * This episode is sponsored by hair care company Redd Collection @reddcollection For the month of April, Dope Hair is offering our listeners a 20% discount on their products. www.reddcollectionworldwide.com/store Use PROMO CODE: RM * * * EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com * * * FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast * * * VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com * * * MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. * * * CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. * * * ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! * * * RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES * * * MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

-Commingling old friends with new friends -Forgiving your man faster than you forgive your friends -Conflict Resolution: Clingy Friend EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

Some of us throw that word “Friend” around a little too loosely and end up with hurt feelings. Don’t always be so quick to call someone your friend. -Friend vs. Acquaintance -Demoting Close Friends -When friends equate your growth to being fake MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: Singer SongfulSoul Voice comes by the studio to hang out with us and gives us some juicy tea about the stripper that inspired his song Dancer. Listen to him give us a taste of his smooth vocals and hear clips of his music on this episode. LISTENER DISCOUNT: K2 Nail Paint is giving our listeners 20% off your first order until March 6, 2018. Just use promo code “RANDOMMUSINGS20” to receive your 20% discount. Follow @k2nailpaint on IG Visit their website: http://www.k2nailpaint.com EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

Having a Ladies Night a.k.a our “Sister Date Night” has always been one of the most important parts of our friendship when maintaining our bond. It is our time to let loose, converse about anything our hearts desire, unwind, drink, eat, escape from all of our responsibilities and stress. We thought it would be a bomb ass idea if our listeners could experience all the good vibes that come from these moments. Our first Ladies Night was filled with wine sipping, fried chicken eating and endless laughs. Thank you to comedian JJ Mattise @jjmattis and friend Tasha @luvlytash for hanging out with us. Nothing but good people and good vibes in this episode. Hope you enjoy! -From Craigslist to the stage, JJ Matties talks about her start as a comedian -Pillow Talking with Bae -Unsympathetic Friends -High off his own supply -Orgasm at the doctors office -Booty hole play -Friends that hold grudges -Forgiveness -Owning your shit EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. Send it to us. CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show? Contact us! LISTENER DISCOUNT: This episode is sponsored by The Uptown Vegan Sweets & Treats. The Uptown Vegan is giving our listeners 15% off their first order. Just use promo code “PODCAST” to receive your 15% discount on these yummy treats. Follow @theuptownvegan on IG. Visit www. theuptownveganshoppe.com RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

Sometimes we bump heads in our friendship because our emotional levels are on two different playing fields. Dina’s emotional meter is significantly higher than Dosya J’s. Dosya J has been labeled as “unemotional” and coming off as cold. For those that don’t have a clear understanding, on the surface it seems as if Dosya J doesn’t care at times. We dive into this issue and why it is important to support your friends through hard times. -High Strung Friends -Dosya J opens up about how she is perceived as “unemotional” -The importance of supporting friends through dark times EPISODE 6 BLOG POST: Read a more in depth recap of Episode 6 from the hosts of Random Musings on the website at www.thisisrandommusings.com EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! LISTENER DISCOUNT: Hope Asana Yoga class is giving our listeners 20% off their January 28th Back To Yoga Basic class. Just use promo code "HOPE2018". Follow @hopeasana on IG for more class detail and the link. RATE & COMMENT ON ITUNES MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

Our listeners will experience the good days, the bad days and the hiccups with us. With that said, it was just “one of those days”. The hotline wasn’t so hot because it wasn’t working. Whoever said building a brand from the ground up was easy....NOBODY! Thank you to our friends who did try to call on the hotline. We will try it again *Goal Digging in 2018 *No New Friends? Cultivating new friends in your adulthood *Having Male Friends *Outgrowing Old Friends *Balancing the relationship between your significant other and your friends We want the know what you left behind in 2017? What did you bring in 2018? Shoot us an email and share. EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: We want to play your music on our show. CONFLICT RESOLUTION: In conflict with a friend? Send us your story. ADVERTISEMENT: Have a product? Interested in advertising on the show or becoming a sponsor? Contact us! PLEASE RATE & COMMENT MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO: The Passion Hifi

-Being Unapproachable -Venting to friends about other friends -ASSumptions -Director of Nightlife Webseries @TadMartin in the motherf*cking building MUSIC SPOTLIGHT: Artist: D Renee Song: Faslane @beingdrenee @_charrise_ EPISODE 4 SHOUTOUTS: @sunday_funday_brunch @parrillany FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast @dosya.j @simplisticmarie VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.thisisrandommusings.com EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com MUSIC: The Passion Hifi

This is the post launch episode. Be forewarned, we were running on empty and exhausted. Dosya J. was having some speech issues but we were able to push through. -The aftermath of the podcast launch -The Studio Sage -Being Unapologetic but still apologizing -Fake Apologies SMALL BUSINESS EPISODE MENTIONS: K Squared Nail Paint @k2nailpaint www.k2nailpaint.com FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast @dosya.j @simplisticmarie EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com MUSIC: The Passion Hifi

Dina & Dosya J discuss the pettiness of social media, DIna's part-time petty ways, the misunderstandings of Dosya J and resolving conflict. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @randommusingspodcast @dosya.j @simplisticmarie EMAIL US: randommusingspodcast17@gmail.com MUSIC: The Passion Hifi