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Empowering you to do & be better with our big sister chats on all things life, health & business. From our own experiences (the good, the bad, and the ugly) to interviews with inspiring, game-changing guests, we’re here to challenge you to live authentically, embrace vulnerability, and take bold risks.
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Saying YES more often can completely shift your path - personally, professionally, and emotionally. In this episode, we unpack how being open to new experiences has shaped our own journeys and led to some of our biggest opportunities. From stepping out of your comfort zone to building confidence and deepening connections, we explore why the moments you almost said no to are often the ones that change everything.We also chat about how to balance being open with protecting your energy, where to draw the line between healthy boundaries and playing it too safe, and how to say yes without burning yourself out. If you're in your 20s and navigating growth, decisions, and identity - this one’s for you. Hope you enjoy xxRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
A solo episode with Tori on all the things she has learnt in chapter 25 that we can all take on board one way or another. Tori talks about and shares the biggest lessons she has learnt coming back into elite sport. From embracing feedback and learning from setbacks, to scratching the itch of opportunity while you can. She dives deep into what it really takes to grow as both an athlete and a person.We cover everything from consistency, mental health, and nutrition, to the importance of separating your identity from your results and building a support system you can lean on. Whether you’re chasing medals, career goals, or personal milestones, these lessons will help you perform at your best while keeping perspective on the bigger picture.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
Romanticising life is everywhere right now, on TikTok, Instagram, Pinterest and while it’s sold as self-love, for so many women it’s become just another pressure. In this episode, we unpack the difference between using romanticising as a tool for joy versus letting it become an escape from reality. We talk about what it actually means to slow down and appreciate small moments, why self-care doesn’t need to look aesthetic to matter, and how chasing a “that girl” lifestyle can leave you feeling more inadequate than inspired.We share raw moments from our own lives where we have felt the pressure creep in and how we pull ourselves out of it - creating main character energy from confidence rather than comparison.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a new perspective on self-love: ‘your life is still beautiful on the days that don’t make Instagram’. We hope you enjoy xxThankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Our Merch https://musclerepublic.com/collections/raw-reality-x-mscrRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
We always get asked how to start socials and the ins and outs of the industry, so wanted to bring a full episode going into depth on the topic. Today we share how we got started on social media - from our very first posts and PR packages to the lessons we wish we knew earlier. We talk about finding your niche (or not), creating content that feels authentic, and pushing past the fear of judgment. You’ll also hear our honest take on brand deals, editing, and the unglamorous side of being online, plus answers to your biggest questions on growth, income, and turning social media into more than just a hobby. If you take anything from this episode it’s to post the content!! We hope you enjoy xx Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.MERCH RR x MSCR https://musclerepublic.com/collections/raw-reality-x-mscr (https://musclerepublic.com/collections/raw-reality-x-mscr)Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ (https://rawreality.com.au/)2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR (https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR)Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw (https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw)@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ (https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/)@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ (https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/)Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/ (https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/)Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/ (https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/)
A solo episode today from Lily, talking about if she had to start her online coaching business again these are the things she would avoid. 3 years deep she has learnt a lot about the fitness industry and starting her own business, so wanted to share some insight to help you if you’re on the same journey. Starting a coaching business can feel overwhelming, and it’s easy to fall into common traps that slow growth and cause unnecessary stress. This episode breaks down the biggest mistakes coaches make in the early stages and also highlights the game-changing shifts that create momentum to build a successful business. Whether you’re just beginning or looking to refine an existing business, this conversation will help fast-track results and avoid years of trial and error.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
We hosted our launch event last week with Muscle Republic celebrating our merch drop - it was absolutely incredible and we are truely blown away by the support. We did a live Q+A and panel chat which we wanted to make a live episode for those who couldn’t come. We’re diving into all things purpose, confidence, and chasing big (sometimes a little delulu) dreams. We chat about why purpose isn’t something you chase, how self-love comes from action, and building confidence in who you are rather than just what you achieve.We get real on failure, routines that actually stick, moving your body in ways that feel good, and surrounding yourself with the right people. Plus, we answer some juicy questions you asked us live! We hope you enjoy xxThankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.OUR COLLECTION https://musclerepublic.com/collections/new-arrivals‘RAWREALITY20 to save’Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
GUYS IT’S FINALLY HERE - our collection with Muscle Republic! This episode we are spilling the tea on all the BTS moments on how it came to life - from the very first phone call to the moment we held the finished pieces in our hands. We share why we teamed up with MR instead of going solo, the inspo behind every colour, cut, and quote. We dive into how we designed the merch, navigating imposter syndrome, and the surprising lessons we learned working with a brand that’s always two steps ahead of the trends. Basically the secret is OUT and we want to share everything with you. Thank you so much for supporting us on this wild journey, we couldn’t do it without all your support. COLLECTION DROPS 15/8 - https://musclerepublic.com/EVENT IN MELB 14/8 - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/raw-reality-x-mscr-tickets-1545718197739DANCE CLASS IN MELB 15/8 - https://rawreality.com.au/products/dance-with-us-melbourneThankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
A highly requested episode for those who are wanting to look and FEEL their best. The people getting the best results aren’t just ticking off workouts or eating clean - they’re building a strong mindset alongside their training. Being in your best shape isn’t about chasing a certain look; it’s about feeling strong, energised, confident, and resilient. It’s about showing up consistently, letting go of perfection, and doing the internal work that supports lasting physical change.This episode covers why resistance training beats cardio for lasting results, how consistency matters more than perfection, and why the all-or-nothing mindset is holding you back. We break down the importance of fuelling your body, prioritising recovery, and letting go of comparison.If you're ready to shift your mindset and see real, lasting results - this one’s for you.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
In this episode, Tori and Lily have a real conversation about something so many people get stuck on; the pressure to do everything perfectly before they even begin. Whether it’s starting in the gym, launching a project, or making a big life change, perfectionism can sneak in and keep you from making any real progress. They talk openly about their own experiences - from moments that felt uncertain and messy, to the decisions that pushed them forward even when things weren’t “ready.” This one is about dropping the all-or-nothing mindset, trusting yourself enough to just start, and realising that clarity and confidence come after you take action, not before. It’s not about having it all figured out, it’s about backing yourself enough to begin anyway.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.‘Working Hard with Grace Beverley’ Episode with Emma Grede: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6GIYK4ioCOJGkp9BgAv6NIRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
In this episode, we’re giving you the ultimate life catch-up. Tori spills all the behind-the-scenes from her trip to Europe, where she competed in the World Cup for Acro and got second place which is an insane achievement. Meanwhile, Lily’s 10 weeks out from her first show, has been on the go non-stop, and shares how she’s navigating travel, training, and trying to keep her routine (just). We give you a little insight to a HUGE project we have been working on too. Hope you enjoy xxThankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ (https://rawreality.com.au/)2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR (https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR)Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw (https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw)@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ (https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/)@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ (https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/)Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/ (https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/)Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/ (https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/)
Disclaimer: This episode was recorded in Feb and a testament to how much Tori’s life changes - everything has changed completely.Trigger warning: Mentions of suicide & depressionTori went on our besties podcast a few months ago and we loved it so much we want to bring it across to ours so you don’t miss out. Taylor Lee from the Simply Business Podcast sits down with Tori for a real, raw chat about navigating identity loss, rebuilding from rock bottom, and turning your story into your brand.They dive into - finding purpose when you feel lost, building a personal brand without overthinking it, what no one tells you about going full-time on socials and why your why matters more than any strategy.If you’ve been craving clarity, community, or just a reminder that you’re not behind, you’ll love this one. Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Simply Business Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/4TYPgujwXrUKXYiVRHYGboTaylor Lee IG https://www.instagram.com/thetaylorleec/Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
Lily was on the other end of the mic this week, joining Morgan as a guest on the Mindset Lounge Podcast. It was such a valuable episode so we wanted to bring it across to ours so you guys had the chance to listen about Lily’s past, struggles and how she became the person is today. Morgan dives into the fear of judgment that held Lily back at the start, the power of having a supportive partner during prep and why consistency is the real secret sauce behind everything she does. Lily also shares her prep non-negotiables, how she deals with the pressure of showing up online and why vulnerability is one of her greatest strengths.This episode is equal parts mindset and real talk - with plenty of laughs in between. You’re going to love this one. Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Morgan IG https://www.instagram.com/morganeldrett/Mindset Lounge IG https://www.instagram.com/mindsetloungepodcast/Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
In this juicy episode of Girl Club, we’re answering ALL the questions you sent in, aka the ones you’d only ask your besties. From navigating the ups and downs of friendships and confidence, to those moments where you feel like quitting your career and yes, we can’t forget about the boy drama too - this is your go-to big sister advice episode.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
If winter has wiped out your motivation and your fitness routine feels like a distant memory, this episode is for you. We’re not here to tell you to hustle harder or “just get back to it.” This is about gently rebuilding from where you’re at right now, with new energy, a fresh mindset, and habits that actually fit your current lifestyle. You'll learn how to shift your focus from aesthetics to how movement makes you feel, set achievable minimum routines that build momentum, and create accountability even when motivation is nowhere to be found. We also go into how to romanticise the season and changing your environment to help with gaining your creativity back. This episode is your reset if you've lost your mojo this winter. Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.GC DANCE CLASS 13th JULY - https://rawreality.com.au/products/dance-with-us-gold-coast-eventRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
Have you ever felt guilty for changing your mind, like you were giving up or letting people down? This episode is your permission to pivot and choose a path that actually feels right, even if it looks different from what you originally planned. Letting go of something that no longer fits isn’t quitting, it’s making space for alignment, growth, and real success. From career shifts to identity changes, this conversation unpacks the fears that keep us stuck, like judgment, perfectionism, and the pressure to “see it through.” But staying in the wrong place out of fear won’t move you forward. If you’re in a season of change this episode will help you trust your gut and take your next step with confidence.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.GC DANCE CLASS 13th JULY - https://rawreality.com.au/products/dance-with-us-gold-coast-eventRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
We’re spilling ALL the tea, Tori’s big secret is finally out: she is officially a KIC trainer! We chat about what this new chapter means, how it all came to be, and the behind-the-scenes moments leading up to the announcement.We also dive into a conversation about burnout, how we’ve both felt it creeping in, how we manage (and sometimes fail) to balance everything, and what tools we’re using right now to stay on top of a busy season while still leaving time to fill up our cup. Whether you're navigating a busy season or just here for the updates, this one feels like a catch-up with your besties. Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.'RAWREALITY20' https://musclerepublic.comRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
You guys have been asking for this one, welcoming Olivia May (aka OMAY). We chat with Olivia about her journey from where she began playing netball to now a beach sprinter. She shares the moment her transformation truly began, why she moved to the Gold Coast, and the mindset shifts that helped her level up both physically and mentally.We dive into her daily routine, training habits and how she balances work, life and fitness. Olivia’s online presence has boomed over the last few years, we asked how she stays authentic and any advice she can give for others wanting to start social media. Liv shares her highs and lows through it all giving a lot of value in this episode. We hope you enjoy xxOlivia’s Socials | IG @_omayhttps://www.instagram.com/_omay/ (https://www.instagram.com/_omay/)Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ (https://rawreality.com.au/)2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR (https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR)Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw (https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw)@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ (https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/)@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ (https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/)Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/ (https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/)Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/ (https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/)
GIRLS this one is for you, we dive into a topic so many women struggle with but rarely talk about - libido, sex, PCOS, and hormone imbalances. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, confused about your sex drive, or frustrated with how your hormones are affecting your mood, energy, or intimacy, you're not alone.We unpack the real reasons libido can dip, how PCOS impacts hormone balance, and why low libido doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you. This is a raw, honest conversation to help you understand your body better, feel more connected, and know you’re not alone.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
We’re throwing it back to one of our favorite episodes from 2024!Time can feel like it’s flying—and every day, you’re faced with a choice: chase growth and new opportunities, or stay in the comfort zone. In this episode, we dive into what it really means to unlock your potential in your 20s and why it’s completely okay to not have it all figured out.Over the past year, we’ve gone through a major transformation—finding clarity, purpose, and passion after feeling lost for so long. Now, we’re here to share those lessons with you.Take this as a little reminder: you’re not behind, you’re just getting started. Enjoy this one! xxThankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/
In this episode we used Rise and Conquer Connection Cards and made each other go DEEP. We always use these cads on girls trips to get vulnerable and unpack how we truely feel. Think personal growth, values, relationships, and everything in between. Whether you're listening on a walk or journaling along with us, these prompts might just get you thinking too.Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2025 Notion template https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtRFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/