What if the cure for our collective heartbreak isn't therapy or medication, but completely reimagining where we live? Steve Nygren, founder of Serenbe and author of the new book "Start in Your Backyard," discovered this truth when he stepped off the treadmill of life 30 years ago and accidentally created one of the most revolutionary sustainable community living models in America. His friends living at Serenbe describe their lives as "feeling like college again" - not because they're partying, but because they've rediscovered what it means to live in true community where nobody locks their doors and relationships flourish through proximity and intentional design.Steve returns to the show to dive deep into how biophilic design and intentional community planning can transform not just individual lives, but entire cultures. From the shocking statistic that Serenbe has 240 children with zero reported cases of asthma to the simple revelation that removing lawns and adding front porches can revolutionize neighborhood relationships, this conversation will completely shift how you think about the spaces you inhabit. Steve's radical common sense approach proves that the solutions to our isolation, health crises, and environmental challenges aren't complex - they're just forgotten.What You'll Learn in This Episode:• How sustainable community living at Serenbe eliminates childhood asthma through chemical-free environments and biophilic design principles • Why walkable neighborhoods create spontaneous relationships that transform mental health and community connection• The revolutionary power of front porches, shared mail centers, and removing traditional lawns for building intentional community • How to start local food systems in your own neighborhood that support regional resilience and better health • Why Americans spend 93% of their time indoors or in vehicles and how environmental wellness can change everything • Simple neighborhood design changes that create safety, reduce isolation, and foster genuine relationships • How to leverage your talents locally instead of feeling overwhelmed by global problems you can't control • The specific steps to transform your own backyard and street into a community building catalystReady to stop feeling helpless about the state of the world and start creating change right where you are? Steve's journey from successful businessman to community visionary proves that one person with radical common sense can transform entire regions. Whether you're dreaming of sustainable development or just want to know your neighbors' names, this episode will give you the roadmap to start in your own backyard.Prefer to watch on YouTube? https://youtu.be/Yi-FHpOMvLsWhat changes could you make on your own street that would create the ripple effect you're looking for? Connect with me on Instagram, LinkedIn, or visit my website to continue this conversation about building the communities we desperately need.Resources and Links Mentioned:• "Start in Your Backyard" by Steve Nygren (available October 7th for pre-order) • Serenbe community: serenbe.com• Nygren Placemaking conference• Ray Anderson and Interface Inc.• Rocky Mountain Institute• Paul Hawken's work on environmental solutions• Book a free clarity call: https://go.allisonhare.com/45-min-callQuotes"We are so car-centric that we don't walk anymore, and that creates a disconnection from running into people, that spontaneous thing that most people have fond memories of from college campuses." (02:16)"We have 240 kids living here now full time and there are no reported signs of asthma, which is statistically impossible in the United States today." (20:27)"If you look at all the people who put their names forward, not looking at who gets elected, just put their names forward to run. Only 30% of them are women." (24:07)"Rather than looking at the global issues and the global conversation, bring that back to the neighborhood. What's going on in your neighborhood?" (26:05)"Action is a huge antidote to depression." (35:27)Timestamps• 00:04 - Welcome back Steve Nygren, introduction to his new book • 01:59 - The common sense solutions that created Serenbe • 04:53 - Steve's journey from the "treadmill of life" to farm living • 09:44 - How the vision for Serenbe evolved beyond personal use • 12:32 - Creating diverse community without tribal mentality • 14:05 - The pandemic families and community building • 15:58 - Simple changes: front porch society and removing fences • 20:15 - The asthma statistic and chemical-free living • 22:35 - Getting started: what are your talents and local frustrations? • 25:22 - Dealing with misinformation vs. local action • 27:28 - The big bets and risks of creating something new • 31:42 - Surprising lessons: how stuck we are as a society • 33:34 - Simple changes: local food, natural landscapes, community connection • 35:32 - Book details and how to connect with SteveTips/TakeawaysCreate a "front porch society" in your neighborhood where one household sits outside during school dismissal to provide safety and community connectionRemove back yard fences to create common play areas and gardens that naturally bring neighbors togetherReplace chemical-treated lawns with native, edible landscaping that supports local ecosystems and healthFocus on local food systems - support farmers markets and question where your food comes from and how it's grownUse your specific talents to address the problems that frustrate you most in your immediate neighborhoodTake action locally rather than feeling overwhelmed by global issues - you can change your street and create cultural ripple effects Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Rage bait is everywhere right now. From the Charlie Kirk shooting to what shows up in your feed, it’s designed to pull you in, piss you off, and keep you scrolling. I’ve felt it myself—angry, hooked, and questioning who I can even trust. In this episode, I’m naming what rage bait is, why it works so well, and how to protect yourself when everything feels engineered to set you off.I share my own experiences, the cultural shifts that make rage bait thrive, and why seeing violence unfold in real time changes how we react. We’ll talk about the algorithms, the rhetoric, and the emotional traps that leave us exhausted and divided. Most importantly, I’ll walk you through the tools I use to stay grounded so we don’t let rage bait steal our humanity.What You’ll Learn: What rage bait really is and why it’s so effectiveHow algorithms prioritize outrage over nuanceWhy the Charlie Kirk shooting became a flashpointHow echo chambers and identity fuel radicalizationThe impact of Trump’s rhetoric on division and fearWhy anger often masks grief and sadnessPractical steps to pause, fact-check, and resist manipulationGrounding practices that help regulate and protect your energyRage bait won’t disappear, but we don’t have to get trapped in it. Slowing down, questioning sources, and grounding ourselves changes the game. What would happen if more of us chose not to take the bait? Links & Resources MentionedEpisode 124: David McRaney on How Minds ChangeEpisode 108: Social identity & belonging with Dr. Jay Van BavelBreathwork channel “Breathe with Sandy” on YouTubeFleur de Lyz Meditation on YouTube Timestamps00:41 – What rage bait is and why it’s everywhere03:03 – The mechanics behind rage bait05:26 – Addiction, algorithms, and humility07:47 – Charlie Kirk shooting and national fallout15:05 – Why outrage is addictive24:24 – Live violence and radicalization31:19 – Anger, Christianity, and rhetoric38:21 – Manipulation, misinformation, and gaslighting42:06 – Tools to resist rage bait47:14 – Grounding and emotional regulationTips / TakeawaysRage bait is engineered to keep you hooked.Watching violence unfold live speeds up radicalization.Intellectual humility helps resist echo chambers.Leaders who fan division are not leading.Pause, check sources, and question motives before reacting.Grounding practices help you manage grief and rage.Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, visit my website, or book a free clarity call. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
When everyone has a mic, how the hell do you know who to trust? That's the question keeping me up at night as I watch the podcasting industry completely transform before our eyes. The most influential podcast hosts are literally walking away from easy money and celebrity guests to chase something more valuable: authenticity. Rich Roll and Tim Ferriss aren't just making programming changes - they're leading a revolution that's about to reshape how we consume media forever.This shift isn't just about podcasting - it's about finding solid ground in a world designed to destabilize us. I'm pulling you into the room where this cultural earthquake is happening loudest, sharing the data my software genius husband has been aggregating, and revealing why this moment could be the difference between building something forgettable or becoming absolutely essential. Plus, I'm dropping a massive announcement about a new podcast I'm launching that takes this whole trust crisis to the next level.What You'll Learn in This Episode:• Why podcast industry giants like Rich Roll and Tim Ferriss are rejecting celebrity press tours and what this means for authentic content creation • The explosive rise of contrarian podcasting and why audiences are craving perspectives outside mainstream narratives• How video podcasting is reshaping listener expectations and driving podcast market evolution • The seven proven monetization strategies that are actually working in today's saturated market • Why niche content is building more loyal communities than broad-appeal shows • How AI tools are streamlining production while demanding even more authenticity from creators • The surprising data showing market saturation is actually decreasing, creating massive opportunities • What's really behind the trust crisis in media and how podcasters are respondingReady to stop consuming recycled bullshit and start building something that matters? The podcasting landscape is shifting faster than ever, and those who understand these trends will be the ones who survive and thrive. Whether you're thinking about launching your own show or just want to be a smarter consumer of media, this episode will completely change how you see the industry.Connect with me on Instagram, LinkedIn, or visit my website to dive deeper into these conversations.Resources and Links Mentioned:• Dr. Jessica Knurick interview on Rich Roll • Riverside recording platform• Allison Hare on Substack• FREE Plan Your Podcast Workshop - grab your spot (last free workshop - will be paid going forward)• Book a free clarity call: https://go.allisonhare.com/45-min-call• Don't Trust Us podcast (coming in October!)Quotes"If everyone has a mic, how do you know who to trust? And you know, this is not just a podcasting problem, it's a culture problem." (00:00)"Your earbuds are where new ideas are seeded. You know, like they're planting the seeds and reputations are built and entire movements are born." (01:30)"You have never been broken. You have never been disempowered. Maybe you felt that way, but you always had it." (45:20)"I don't want to amplify voices that may be on the fringe, but I also would like to amplify voices that you may not know yet because they are in the background doing their medical research." (08:15)"The design is to destabilize all of this as a civilization, as a society, and podcasts are reflecting that. They are pivoting with contrarian perspectives." (13:45)Timestamps• 00:00 - Opening: The trust crisis in podcasting • 02:30 - Husband's podcast data aggregation findings • 05:00 - Rich Roll and Tim Ferriss rejecting celebrity press tours • 10:00 - Personal story about trust and sources (blue methyl example) • 15:00 - Video podcasting trends and YouTube dominance • 20:00 - Niche content building dedicated communities • 25:00 - Seven ways to monetize podcasts • 30:00 - New podcast launches and political trends • 35:00 - What's fading in the podcast world • 40:00 - Reinvention Room evolution and personal journey • 45:00 - Big announcement: "Don't Trust Us" podcast launch • 50:00 - Closing thoughts on credibility and storytellingTips/TakeawaysAuthenticity beats polish - audiences can spot AI-generated content and recycled talking points immediately.Niche content with dedicated communities outperforms broad-appeal shows for building loyal audiences.Video podcasting is becoming essential as YouTube remains the top search engine above Google.Multiple revenue streams work better than relying solely on traditional sponsorships and ads.Contrarian perspectives are gaining traction as audiences reject mainstream narratives.Trust in sources matters more than ever - evaluate who you're getting information from and why. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Can we talk about how we've been fed complete BS about menopause and our hormones? I mean, seriously—the amount of fear-mongering and misinformation out there is making me want to throw things. But lucky for us, Dr. Kelly Casperson is here to set the record straight, and trust me, this conversation is about to blow your mind. If you've ever felt like you're going crazy during perimenopause or been told you're "too young" or "too old" for hormone therapy, this episode is your wake-up call.Dr. Kelly is a urologist turned women's health warrior who's dedicating her life to educating women about what's actually happening to our bodies during this transition. In today's episode, we're diving deep into the real facts about hormone replacement therapy, busting myths that have kept women suffering unnecessarily, and talking about why the medical establishment has failed us so spectacularly. This isn't just another menopause chat—this is your roadmap to reclaiming your power during midlife.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the 2002 Women's Health Initiative study created decades of hormone fear and how the media completely twisted the resultsThe truth about hormone pellets and why they might not be the silver bullet you think they areHow to advocate for yourself when doctors dismiss your symptoms as "natural"The real story behind "estrogen dominance" and why that lab test might be misleading youWhy testosterone isn't just for men and how it can transform your energy and moodThe connection between hormones and brain fog, and why your forgetfulness isn't early dementiaHow to find qualified menopause specialists and what questions to askThe surprising ways exercise and protein can impact your hormone healthReady to stop suffering in silence and start living your best midlife? Let's dive into this game-changing conversation that every woman over 40 needs to hear. Have you been struggling with symptoms that doctors keep dismissing as "just part of getting older"? WATCH ON YOUTUBE if that's your jam: https://youtu.be/9SlS4F-QtLcConnect with me on Instagram and let me know what resonated most with you from this episode. Resources MentionedDr. Kelly Casperson's book: "The Menopause Moment"Dr. Kelly's Instagram: instagram.com/kellycaspersonmd/Dr. Kelly's website: kellycaspersonmd.comInternational Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISHWISH)MIDI Health, Evernow, Alloy, GenEv, InterludeThe Casperson Clinic (Washington State) Quotes from Dr. Kelly Casperson"Women get, you're either too young for this or you're too old for this. Men never get told they're too young or too old for something." (08:29)"If there is a drug that you could take between the ages of 50 and 60, and several studies have shown it decreases your risk of death and helps you live maybe about two years longer, do you think everybody would be on that drug? Yeah, that drug's called estrogen." (30:47)"The best way to control a woman? Give her fear. Control her. How do we control her? Keep her afraid." (38:58)"Don't just brace yourself for hell, people. Get educated and advocate." (37:30)"Hair hates drastic changes. And that's why like if you have low hormones and you throw a pellet in, some people might experience some hair loss with it." (35:23) Key Timestamps00:03 - Introduction and the five orgasms story 01:54 - Dr. Kelly's background as a urologist 06:20 - The 2002 Women's Health Initiative study explained 08:04 - Myths about being "too young" or "too old" for hormones 10:11 - The truth about hormone pellets 14:24 - Lab testing and "estrogen dominance" myth 16:39 - Why we treat symptoms, not just numbers 20:27 - Brain fog and hormone connection 28:17 - Hot flashes and what causes them 32:01 - The benefits of taking estrogen 34:41 - Testosterone for women 37:05 - BRCA patients and hormone therapy Tips/TakeawaysStop using "natural" as an excuse not to treat symptoms - erectile dysfunction and cancer are natural too, but we treat those."Estrogen dominance" is just a snapshot of one day - don't hang onto that label as a fixed trait.Treat symptoms, not just lab numbers - if you're suffering, that's reason enough for treatment.Hair follicles hate sudden hormone changes - start low and go slow with any hormone therapy.Exercise is brain medicine - quadriceps strength is directly linked to dementia prevention.Protein needs increase with age - aim for about 1 gram per pound of body weight to build muscle. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Quick announcement and unpacking why uncertainty (instead of white-knuckling the grip of control) might be the most powerful move we can make.Links and announcements:Free Workshop: Plan Your Podcast - https://allisonhare.com/PYPEP262: w/ Tia Levings (recommended listen): https://podcast.allisonhare.com/post/tradwife-escape-christian-patriarchy-tia-levingsBook a free podcast clarity call: Schedule Here Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What happens when three entertainment veterans decide to launch a video-first podcast to grow their AI marketing agency? You get a masterclass in real-time problem-solving that'll make you rethink everything about your content strategy. When Dave Clapper reached out asking for live podcast coaching, I knew we were about to dive deep into the messy, beautiful process of turning natural chemistry into strategic content gold. The Taptico founders—Dave, Nick Tapp, and Tribble Reese—brought their radio backgrounds, reality TV experience, and rebellious energy to the Reinvention Room, and what unfolded was pure coaching magic.This is a live transformation where we tackle everything from naming confusion to audience clarity to the four foundational P's that make or break any show. We dig into why "Dave Learns AI" beats "Taptico Talks" every damn time, how to turn your personality into your competitive advantage, and why being clear trumps being clever when you're trying to build an audience. If you've ever wondered whether to go video-first or how to make your expertise approachable without dumbing it down, this episode is your roadmap.What You'll LearnWhy clarity beats cleverness when naming your podcast and how to remove barriers for your audienceThe four foundational P's: Purpose, Person, Premise, and Promise that anchor every successful showHow to identify your primary, secondary, and tertiary listeners without trying to please everyoneThe psychology behind video-first content and why YouTube is its own beast requiring different strategiesHow to channel your natural chemistry and humor into focused, strategic content that drives business resultsWhy the "everyman" approach works better than positioning yourself as the unreachable expertThe art of strong calls-to-action and why tentative language kills conversionsHow to create lead magnets that actually convert viewers into clientsThe Taptico guys prove that when you combine authentic personality with strategic focus, magic happens. Their willingness to be vulnerable, ask hard questions, and pivot in real-time is exactly what separates successful entrepreneurs from those who stay stuck. What's one area of your content strategy that needs this kind of honest evaluation? Ready to get the clarity you need to make your next move? Book a free clarity call with Allison or follow her journey on Instagram.Resources MentionedTaptico AgencyThe Lyra Prompt (Episode 9)CalendlyQuotes from the Episode"It's so much easier to be clear than clever, especially when it comes to names because you guys can have the most magnificent show ever, but if it's hard to find or hard to spell, it ends up putting a barrier." - Allison Hare (10:04)"We revoke and repent against corporate life. That's why we're doing this... It's also a filtration. These guys would be fun to work with once a week. Do they know what they're doing? Yeah, would they be fun to hang out with? Yeah." - Nick Tapp (17:26)"We're doctors. If we can fix the problems that you know that you have and the pains that you know that you have with little friction and well done and over deliver, call us. If you're not sure you need us, don't call us." - Nick Tapp (35:52)"I think one of our differentiating factors is our personality. And we know what we're doing. We're competent. We're smart. But we also have fun because why would you not enjoy what you're doing?" - Nick Tapp (17:00)"Don't wait one more minute. Get on the phone with us and let's talk about what that change would look like for you, what the ROI could look like for you. I would be really clear on your call to action." - Allison Hare (52:05)Timestamps00:00 - Welcome and introductions01:21 - Purpose of live coaching session01:58 - What Dave wants from coaching03:02 - Tribble's content strategy goals03:57 - Nick's distribution and SEO questions05:35 - Discussion about naming strategy09:40 - The case for "Dave Learns AI"14:47 - The four P's framework introduction16:37 - Purpose: Trust building vs lead generation23:11 - Person: Identifying ideal audience28:33 - The problem Taptico uniquely solves37:25 - Premise: What the show is about40:28 - Promise: What listeners walk away with46:58 - Format and personality discussion50:44 - Strong call-to-action strategies54:05 - Final feedback and wrap-upTips/TakeawaysName for clarity, not cleverness - Your podcast name should immediately tell people what they'll get, removing any barriers to discovery and understanding.Use the "you" language - Speak directly to one person rather than referring to "your audience" to create intimate, engaging content.Define your P1, P2, P3 audiences - Know exactly who pays you (P1), who shares your content (P2), and who enjoys but doesn't buy (P3).Lead with the problem you solve - People pay to have problems solved, so get crystal clear on what specific pain point you address.Make strong calls-to-action - Avoid tentative language like "if you're interested" and instead use direct commands that create urgency.Personality is your competitive advantage - Don't try to be someone you're not; lean into what makes you unique and engaging. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Ever feel like you're shouting into the void with your podcast promotion? You're creating killer content, but crickets when you post that audiogram on Instagram. What if I told you the problem isn't your content—it's how you're thinking about marketing it? This conversation with Marnie Joseph from Skutch Media is about to flip everything you think you know about podcast promotion on its head.We're diving deep into the real strategies that actually work for growing your show in 2025. Marnie breaks down why that "post a clip and pray" method is keeping you stuck, and reveals the engagement-first approach that's actually building loyal communities. If you're ready to stop spinning your wheels and start seeing real growth, buckle up.What you'll discover in this episode:Why getting someone to leave Instagram for your podcast is nearly impossible (and what to do instead)The difference between engagement prompts vs. calls to action that actually convertHow to use AI tools like Descript and Cast Magic to create 8+ pieces of content from one episodeThe secret to turning podcast episodes into SEO-optimized blog posts that drive long-term trafficWhy every podcaster needs a video strategy (even if you hate being on camera)The metadata magic that makes YouTube actually recommend your contentHow to batch content like a pro without burning outWhat questions to ask before hiring a podcast production teamMarnie gets real about the trenches of podcast marketing—from dealing with summer engagement drops to the truth about hashtags (spoiler: they're basically dead). Whether you're just starting out or you've been podcasting for years, this episode will give you a clear roadmap for turning your show into a growth engine for your business.Ready to stop leaving money on the table with your podcast? Let's dive in and start building that loyal audience you deserve. Connect with me on Instagram or grab a free clarity call to talk through your podcast strategy.Resources MentionedSign-up for the FREE Plan Your Podcast Workshop on 8/21Skutch Media: https://www.skutchmedia.comDescript: https://descript.comCast Magic: https://www.castmagic.io/Skutch Media Instagram: @skutchmediaQuotes from Marnie Joseph[00:04:25] "You're not going to get someone to leave one platform and go to another to listen to your show, watch your show. Whatever these platforms are, they're designed to keep you in the platform."[00:05:59] "You use engagement prompts versus a call to action to go to watch."[00:18:18] "The answer is every podcaster needs a video strategy. That's the answer."[00:30:32] "The number one mistake podcasters make, they leave too much meat on the bone."[00:42:53] "I love the idea of this sort of reinvention of public access television, which is how I look at video podcasts now, and sort of the ability for the average person to have a video podcast. You could have your own TV show."Timestamps[00:00:03] - Pop culture chat about F1 and Brad Pitt's clothing line[00:02:21] - Introduction to podcast marketing trends[00:03:06] - Creating engagement within your community[00:04:25] - Why people won't leave platforms to listen[00:06:08] - Engagement prompts vs calls to action[00:08:14] - How to seed initial comments[00:13:09] - Using AI tools for content creation[00:15:55] - Pre-recording strategy for better content[00:18:18] - Why every podcaster needs video strategy[00:21:25] - YouTube metadata and SEO optimization[00:28:25] - The future of podcasting and upfronts[00:30:23] - Leaving meat on the bone content mistake[00:33:27] - Skutch Media services overview[00:39:35] - Red flags when hiring production help[00:41:52] - Exciting trends in podcasting Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What happens when a stay-at-home mom in Indiana gets so fired up about injustice that she starts a movement that changes America? Shannon Watts, founder of Mom's Demand Action and author of the instant New York Times bestseller "Fired Up," knows exactly what it feels like to go from folding laundry to fighting the most powerful lobby in the country. Her story isn't just about gun safety—it's about every woman who's ever been told she's not the right person to create change. How do you know when it's time to stop letting someone else handle it and start taking action yourself?Shannon's journey from corporate communications executive to one of America's most powerful activists didn't happen overnight, and it sure as hell wasn't easy. In this raw, honest conversation, she breaks down exactly what it means to live "on fire"—and why the blowback you'll face for stepping into your power is not only predictable but completely worth it. We're diving deep into the messy middle of creating change, the double bind of "fucksgiving" that women navigate, and how to sustain yourself when fighting for what matters feels impossible.What You'll Learn in This Episode:• The bias towards action vs. letting someone else do it - and how to recognize when it's your turn to step up • Why blowback is predictable and none of it is personal - plus practical strategies for handling criticism when you're creating change • The "fire formula" for identifying your abilities, values, and desires to live authentically • How to distinguish between "false fires" (purpose, happiness, busyness) and what actually fulfills you • Why taking no pay for 11 years was Shannon's biggest mistake - and the martyrdom trap that keeps women small • The double bind of "fucksgiving" - being expected to give all the fucks about everything while giving zero fucks about criticism • How to build sustainable activism that doesn't burn you out (hint: it's about winning and finding your people) • The bridge-building strategies for having political conversations across divides without compromising your valuesShannon's story proves that you don't need permission, credentials, or the "right" background to create massive change. But here's what hit me hardest: her revelation that women's biggest fear isn't failure—it's that pursuing what they want will make them bad mothers. What would change in your life if you stopped believing that taking up space meant taking something away from others? Ready to discover what's limiting you and what's calling you? Follow me on Instagram for more conversations that challenge everything we've been taught about playing small.Resources and Links Mentioned• Fired Up: How to Turn Your Spark into a Flame and Come Alive at Any Age• Firestarter University - Register at firedupbook.com when you order the book • Mom's Demand Action• Eve Rodsky's book "Fair Play" Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Have you ever thought about your religious beliefs and where they came from, and how they shaped you as a person? What if the "traditional values" you grew up thinking were totally normal are actually part of a much darker system of control hiding in plain sight? Today I'm bringing you Tia Levings, New York Times bestselling author of "A Well-Trained Wife," and her story is going to blow your damn mind about religious trauma, Christian fundamentalism, and how the tradwife movement connects to patriarchal ideologies that are literally shaping our politics right now. From a mainstream Southern Baptist upbringing to the quiverfull movement, Tia's journey reveals how Christian patriarchy operates as a "cult within a cult" - your neighbors next door who looked a little conservative but were living under a completely different set of rules where abuse wasn't just normalized, it was sanctified.I've been chasing Tia down for a year and a half because her analysis of what's happening in our country today traces directly back to these core fundamental beliefs that have been patiently infiltrating mainstream America for decades. If you're wondering what the hell is going on in America, Tia's story is the key to decoding those invisible threads and figuring out how we move forward instead of backwards.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How mainstream Christianity can funnel people toward higher-control fundamentalist beliefsThe shocking reality of "Christian domestic discipline" and wife spanking in fundamentalist homesWhy the quiverfull movement aims to win the culture war through population controlHow the "fundy baby voice" is used to keep women sounding childlike and non-threateningThe hypersexualization tactics hidden behind modesty teachings in Christian patriarchyHow to recognize when political figures are using patriarchal manipulation techniquesWhy joy and happiness are actually forms of resistance against fundamentalist controlPractical ways to resist authoritarianism without burning yourself outTia's courage to tell the whole truth about Christian fundamentalism - including the secrets they don't want exposed - is exactly what we need right now to understand the forces shaping our reality. Her journey from controlled tradwife to fearless voice exposing religious trauma provides invaluable context about where our country is headed and how we can resist. Are you ready to stop normalizing the things that shouldn't be normal and start reclaiming your joy as an act of rebellion? Go follow Tia everywhere and grab her book "A Well-Trained Wife" - then share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What if your biggest career decisions could be guided by something deeper than spreadsheets and SWOT analyses? My guest Christina Trifero went from Silicon Valley tech executive to spiritual business coaching entrepreneur, and her journey of intuition development after 40 will challenge everything you think you know about inner authority. She literally got paid by her company to leave California (yes, really), found her dream home in Georgia by "challenging the universe," and now helps executives release control while building million-dollar businesses. In today's episode, Christina breaks down her practical approach to spirituality and entrepreneurship, sharing how she helps high-achieving women trust their gut without losing their analytical edge. We dive deep into the messy, beautiful process of major life transitions, why most spiritual influencers make her skin crawl, and how to tell the difference between intuition and just wanting something really, really badly.What You'll Learn:How to distinguish between real intuition and ego-driven desires (spoiler: it has nothing to do with urgency)The "challenging the universe" technique that landed Christina her dream job relocation packageWhy neutrality and non-attachment are the secret weapons of successful spiritual strategyHow to spot fake spiritual coaches who prey on vulnerable people seeking transformationThe three levels of surrender work that Christina uses with her executive clientsWhy your nervous system needs to be regulated before you can access clear inner authorityHow spiritual bypassing keeps you stuck in quicksand instead of real growthThe unexpected connection between feeling grief deeply and experiencing massive joyChristina's story proves that following your intuition doesn't mean throwing logic out the window—it means integrating both for decisions that actually serve your highest good. Are you ready to stop outsourcing your inner authority to everyone else's opinions and start trusting the whispers of your own wisdom? Connect with Christina at @christinatriferooo or visit spiritual-curiosity.com to explore her workshops and spiritual practice circles.Links & Mentioned ResourcesChristina Trifero's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christinatriferoooChristina's Website: spiritual-curiosity.comBook Recommendation: "No Bad Parts" by Richard SchwartzTimestamps03:11 - Christina's intuitive call to leave Silicon Valley for California08:06 - How to do a real intuition check and find neutrality13:06 - Why Christina renamed her business to "spiritual curiosity"18:46 - The difference between spiritual influencers and authentic healers24:44 - Christina's take on manifestation vs. true surrender31:19 - Spiritual bypassing and why we resist feeling uncomfortable emotions35:52 - The most important thing Christina wishes people knew Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What if I told you that the women whose images plaster stadium walls, who bring in millions for the NFL, were making less per hour than a Starbucks barista? The Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders Netflix phenomenon exposed something we all suspected but didn't want to say out loud—that our obsession with perfection comes at a brutal cost. Meanwhile, our beloved Sex and the City characters returned in And Just Like That, only to reveal how privilege and aging intersect in ways that make us cringe harder than a bad first date.In today's episode, we're diving deep into both cultural moments that had us all talking. From Kelly Finglass and Judy Trammell's leadership styles to the body image pressures that come with those iconic uniforms, we're unpacking what these shows really tell us about conformity, empowerment, and the price of looking perfect. Plus, I'm serving up some serious tea about ageism in pop culture and why Carrie Bradshaw's character development makes me want to throw my Manolos at the TV.In this episode, we cover:How the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders' 400% pay raise happened and why it still might not be enoughThe real story behind those uniforms and what they reveal about body image standardsWhy Kelly Finglass and Judy Trammell's leadership approach changed between seasonsHow Armani's alopecia journey became a powerful moment for diversity and representationThe brutal truth about conformity versus standing out in high-pressure environmentsWhy And Just Like That feels so tone-deaf compared to the original Sex and the CityHow fashion and privilege intersect in ways that make beloved characters insufferableThe ageism double standard that keeps women invisible after 50This episode got me thinking about how we navigate the tension between fitting in and standing out, whether we're 25 or 55. Are we moving forward as a society, or are we just dressing up the same old standards in prettier packages?Ready to start your own conversation about culture, authenticity, and what it means to reinvent yourself? Grab a free clarity call at allisonhare.com/freecall to discuss your personal brand and potential podcast.Links & Mentioned ResourcesMaking the Team - Available on NetflixAnd Just Like That - Available on MaxFollow costume designers for And Just Like That on Instagram for behind-the-scenes fashion contentTimestamps00:30 - Allison's Sex and the City outfit reveal02:25 - How Netflix changed everything for Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders07:10 - Kelly Finglass and Judy Trammell's leadership styles11:54 - Dayton's story and the mother-daughter pressure dynamic19:50 - Jada's leadership in fighting for pay raises21:49 - Armani's alopecia journey and representation31:21 - Diving into And Just Like That critique42:07 - The shoe scene that broke Allison's patience48:24 - Ageism in television then vs nowQuotes"These women were grossly underpaid, like something like getting paid $15 an hour. Think about that. Think about how many millions of dollars each football player gets paid to sign on with the Dallas Cowboys, yet the cheerleaders themselves... their images, their movements. It is the cheerleaders. Like they are their own brand.""There's so much of like, you will get kicked off, right? Like you will, you must conform to a certain standard of pleasingness for people to choose you, for you to fit in. There's so much conformity that happens within this, but also they are encouraged to stand out, but not too much, but stand out.""What made Sex and the City so clever and funny? And back then it really was that it was just this like super cheeky dialogue that was very quippy. They would use a lot of puns. They would be very funny. And that was very forward in the day, but now it just feels so surface." Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
After coaching podcasters since 2019 and building my own top-ranked show, I'm breaking down the four P's framework that separates sustainable podcast growth from the launch-and-crash cycle that kills most shows.This isn't about getting your first episode out there and praying to the podcast gods. This is about building a strategic, intentional platform that grows your influence and income for years to come.In this episode, you will be able to:Learn the four P's framework (Purpose, Person, Premise, Promise) that transforms podcast launches into sustainable, community-building machinesDiscover how to identify your ideal listener and use "you language" to create intimate connections that turn casual listeners into devoted fansUncover the difference between lead-generating and trust-building podcasts—and why this changes everything about your content strategy Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Want to know how to make money podcasting without needing 100K downloads per episode? I used to think that if I just flipped on the mic, brought on killer guests, and delivered great content, sponsors would be beating down my door and the money would just roll in. Spoiler alert: that's not how podcast monetization strategies actually work, and I learned this the hard way at a podcast conference that left me feeling like absolute shit. But here's the thing—after leaving my corporate job with zero income and no business plan, I discovered there are actually seven proven ways to monetize your podcast that have nothing to do with chasing download numbers.In today's episode, I'm breaking down the exact podcast revenue streams I've tested, refined, and used to build my business from scratch. We're talking real numbers, real strategies, and real talk about what actually moves the needle when your audience isn't massive yet. I'll also share the $16,000 mistake I almost made and why focusing on relationships over downloads changed everything for my podcast marketing strategies.In this episode, we cover:The truth about podcast sponsorship requirements and why 5,000+ downloads is the sweet spotHow to use Patreon for podcasters effectively (and why I eventually stopped using it)The best podcast affiliate marketing approach that doesn't feel salesy to your audienceWhy selling your own products/services through your podcast beats every other revenue streamHow to leverage listener donations and paid subscriptions without a huge followingThe live events strategy that's exploding post-pandemic for deeper audience connectionContent licensing opportunities most podcasters completely overlookMy "four Ps" framework that shapes every successful podcast strategySo here's my question for you: which of these seven revenue streams feels most aligned with where you are right now in your podcasting journey? I'd love to hear what resonated with you or what you're planning to try first. Ready to let your podcast fuel your business? Schedule a free clarity call with me at allisonhare.com/freecall. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
Ever wonder why toxic wellness culture has us dropping $80 on serums that don't work while wellness scams rake in billions targeting women who just want to feel better? I used to be that girl—clutching my overpriced celery juice, convinced the next biohacking trend would finally "fix" me, completely oblivious to how the wellness industry profits off our deepest insecurities. What if I told you that aging is not a disease to be cured, and that trillion-dollar industry built on essential oil wellness promises is actually designed to keep you coming back for more? Amy Larocca, award-winning journalist and author of "How to Be Well," is here to blow the lid off why wellness retreats feel like cults and how MLM schemes disguised as self-care are preying on our desire to belong.In today's episode, Amy and I dive deep into the uncomfortable truth about how the wellness industry specifically targets women, turning our natural desire for health and connection into profit margins. We're talking about everything from the psychology behind wellness scams to why "optimizing" ourselves has become another form of perfectionism that's keeping us stuck. If you've ever side-eyed your collagen gummies or wondered why that expensive retreat left you feeling more confused than transformed, this conversation is going to hit different.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why toxic wellness culture specifically targets women and how to spot the manipulation tactics before you fall for themThe real reason wellness scams are a $3.7 trillion industry—and it's not because the products actually workHow wellness retreats use cult-like psychology to make you feel like you belong (while emptying your wallet)Why MLM schemes disguised as essential oil wellness are preying on women's desire for community and financial freedomThe uncomfortable truth about biohacking trends and whether any of these "optimization" methods are actually helping youHow the wellness industry profits by convincing us that aging is a disease that needs expensive, complicated solutionsWhat Amy Larocca discovered during her deep dive into wellness communities—and why debunking doesn't workThe difference between actual health practices and commodified self-care that keeps you buying but never "fixed"This conversation with Amy hit me right in the gut because honestly, I've been that woman throwing money at wellness promises, hoping the next thing would finally make me feel "optimized." The truth is, we're all craving something real to believe in—but maybe what we're actually looking for isn't found in a $200 supplement or exclusive retreat. What if the real wellness revolution is learning to trust our own bodies and stop outsourcing our intuition to people who profit from our insecurities? If this episode made you question your collagen gummies or side-eye that wellness influencer in your feed, grab Amy's book "How to Be Well," share this episode in your group chat, and let's start having these conversations that actually matter.Buy How To Be Well - Amy Larocca's bookAmy's IG: https://www.instagram.com/amylaroccaauthor/ Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
The gender divide is tearing through every corner of our lives right now, and honestly? It's fucking confusing out there. While ambitious women are crushing it in boardrooms and lecture halls, we're watching a crisis of masculinity unfold in real time—and the dating challenges that follow are enough to make you want to swipe left on humanity altogether.How did we get to a place where traditional gender roles feel both completely outdated and weirdly appealing again, where toxic masculinity battles with something called "tonic masculinity," and where the trad wife movement is somehow trending on the same timeline as record-breaking female college enrollment? If you're watching this cultural battlefield from the middle like I am, wondering what the hell happened to just... connecting with people, then buckle up because we're about to unpack why everyone feels so damn lost.In today's episode, we're talking about everything from the rise of incels to why Gen Z is rushing back to church, plus the real tea on why building meaningful friendships in adulthood feels harder than landing your dream job. This isn't about picking sides—it's about understanding how gender and mental health, modern family dynamics, and our collective fear of rejection are shaping the way we love, work, and show up in the world.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why the gender divide is creating an 80/20 dating crisis that's leaving high-achieving women struggling to find equal partnersThe shocking data behind the crisis of masculinity—including why suicide rates among young men are skyrocketing and what it means for all of usHow toxic masculinity versus tonic masculinity is reshaping what it means to be a man in 2025 (and why Tim Walz is the perfect example)The real political agenda behind the trad wife movement and why "prairie core" isn't as innocent as those sourdough starters make it seemWhy 60% of college students are now women and how this educational flip is changing modern family gender roles foreverThe connection between avoidance of pain, dating challenges, and why everyone's rushing back to traditional gender normsHow ambitious women are burning out trying to prove their worth while simultaneously being told to "lean back" into feminine energyThe surprising strategy for building deep friendships in adulthood that actually works (hint: it involves getting comfortable with rejection)If this episode hit a nerve, GOOD! It means you're awake and ready to stop avoiding the hard conversations that actually change things. The state of gender roles is playing out in every boardroom, bedroom, and dating app, and understanding why we've ended up here gives you serious power to navigate it all differently.So tell me: which part of this cultural shift resonates most with your own experience? Are you feeling the dating struggles, the friendship challenges, or maybe you're questioning everything you thought you knew about modern gender norms?If you're ready to build something meaningful in your business, relationships, or leadership while working through any of this cultural chaos, book a free strategy call with me at allisonhare.com/freecall to find your voice in this shifting landscape.Links & Mentioned Resources"The Mask You Live In" - Documentary by Jennifer Newsome (Gavin Newsom's wife) about how boys are socialized to suppress emotionsThe Lost Boys Study - Research from The Center for Social Justice (UK-based organization) examining educational and economic disparities affecting young menEmily in Your Phone - Substack newsletter by Emily Amick discussing the political undertones of the tradwife movementLaunch your podcast - Book a free clarity call with AllisonNotable Time Stamps00:01 - Episode introduction: The elephant in the gender studies room and why everything feels confusing right now02:30 - Growing up in the 90s: How women were socialized to be small, pleasant, and pick-me girls06:45 - The makeup bag story: Personal reflection on teenage socialization and the need to "present perfectly"09:15 - The Lost Boys Study: Data on how men are struggling educationally, economically, and mentally12:20 - Male suicide crisis: Why suicide is now the leading cause of death for men under 5014:10 - "The Mask You Live In" documentary discussion: How boys are limited to only two emotions17:35 - Toxic vs. tonic masculinity explained (Tim Walz as an example)19:45 - The incel movement and Andrew Tate's influence on frustrated young men25:30 - The tradwife movement: Political undertones behind the "prairie core" aesthetic31:20 - Personal story: Leaving corporate job and unlearning "never rely on a man" messaging36:15 - Modern dating crisis: The 80/20 problem and educational gender flip40:25 - Friendship struggles: The shame of not having a best friend as a high-performing woman43:50 - Coach Dara's friendship strategy: Being upfront about wanting deep connections48:30 - Avoidance of pain as the root of cultural problems52:15 - Final thoughts on connection, rejection, and getting out of comfort zones Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
I cried before we even started recording. That’s how much this woman has impacted me.Ciara Burton isn’t just a guest. She’s been a lifeline, a mirror, and a deep, generous force of wisdom in my life—and in the lives of so many women who are waking up to the truth that doing more isn't the answer.This conversation is about what happens when you stop trying to control everything and finally trust yourself. We talk about the identity unraveling that happens in motherhood, the grip of perfectionism, the pain that forces clarity, and how to build actual self-trust—not just talk about it.Ciara doesn’t coach from a place of “here’s how to fix your life.” She shows you how to actually listen to yourself. This episode is for the women who are done muscling through and ready to hear what their life has been trying to tell them all along.🔥 What We Talk About:[00:03] The moment Ciara said “you don’t need tactics—you need to be heard”[08:00] Why “dropping into the heart” is more than a wellness meme—it’s a lifeline[13:00] Ciara’s perfectionist phase and the dark night that followed[18:45] Healing PCOS through belief work, moon cycles, and spiritual grit[20:10] The birth that broke her open—and what she learned when she surrendered[27:00] The solo trip to Maui that changed everything[33:00] Rebuilding a marriage, one aligned decision at a time[38:40] How control became her safety blanket—and what helped her release it[44:50] Why saying no is a spiritual practice[51:10] Authenticity as the highest vibration (yep, even higher than love)[55:30] How being love—not just doing the work—actually changes the worldConnect with Ciara:Website: ciaraburton.comInstagram: @ciaramburtonProgram: becometheceoofyoursoul.comBook a free podcast clarity call with Allison Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What do you do when everything you were raised to believe starts to crack?Holly, known as Hope with Holly on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube, has built a following of over 500,000 by saying the things most people are too scared to admit. She talks about religious trauma, surviving loss, parenting a transgender child, dating in midlife, and what it means to find your voice when it feels like everything’s falling apart.In this episode, Holly shares her raw, funny, heartbreaking story of leaving Christian fundamentalism. We talk about:Growing up Pentecostal and what “church” really looked likeMarrying under prophetic pressure (yes, really)Losing her daughter Monroe and the unraveling that followedBeing labeled a heretic for asking basic questionsRebuilding identity after religious and social deathParenting a transgender son in the Deep SouthBecoming a truth-teller with a platform—and a whole lot of hatersRedefining spirituality, purpose, and freedom on her own termsThis conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt betrayed by their belief system or pressured to stay quiet to “belong.” Holly proves you’re allowed to change—and you’re still worthy of connection even if you no longer check the boxes.📍 Notable Timestamps00:02 – Holly’s background growing up in Pentecostal chaos06:45 – The moment she was told to marry a man by a prophet14:00 – Losing Monroe and the wake-up call that followed21:38 – Questioning God, the Bible, and everything she was taught34:19 – Parenting through deconstruction and showing up for her trans son41:10 – How she found her voice and created “Hope with Holly”49:35 – Why she started her platform with just 4 followers in mind53:58 – What spiritual liberation looks like today59:00 – Her workbook for dating and self-discovery1:01:20 – Building her Soul Sisters community of over 1,000 women📚 Resources MentionedHope with Holly on TikTok, Instagram, FacebookHolly’s Dating & Self-Discovery WorkbookBook a free podcast clarity call with Allison Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
This episode marks 6 years behind the mic—and I’m telling the truth behind what it actually takes to make it this far in podcasting (hint: it’s not downloads, shiny guests, or the right mic).I’m spilling stories I’ve never shared—about the breakdowns, breakthroughs, and BS that made this podcast what it is today.If you’ve got a podcast, want one, or have outgrown something in your life, this is your episode.SHOW NOTES:In this raw solo episode, I pull back the curtain on what six years, five podcast names, a million downloads, and a reinvention (or ten) really looks like.Here’s what you’ll hear:Why your voice doesn’t need fixing—just a bigger roomWhat I learned from launching 250+ episodes and nearly quittingThe real story behind my very first podcast coaching cohortWhen Clubhouse was a thing—and how it changed everythingThe hard truth about podcast conferences and chasing downloadsWhy “go viral” is a terrible strategyThe Cindy Robinson phenomenon and how unknown guests can have the biggest impactWhat I wish every podcaster understood before buying another micThe 4 P’s that make a podcast actually work (this is gold)And a few things I got totally wrong that you shouldn’t repeatIf you're creating content, building a brand, or wondering if your message matters—this episode will speak to you.NOTABLE TIMESTAMPS:00:02 – The OG intro from 201906:11 – The real reason I started a podcast16:08 – Podcast name changes & identity shifts26:44 – My very first coaching program (Press Play origin story)32:20 – What podcast conferences taught me (and what they didn’t)41:13 – The Cindy Robinson effect (must-hear segment)51:32 – Leaving corporate: The mic gave me what the paycheck couldn’t58:05 – The top 3 ways to monetize your podcast01:09:18 – The 4 Ps of podcasting (Purpose, Person, Premise, Promise)01:19:50 – The power of intimate, honest podcastingRESOURCES MENTIONED:Book a free clarity call: allisonhare.com/freecallJoin the email list: allisonhare.com/emailCindy Robinson's book: Bright Girl Lacks Focus Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What would you do if you were told you were dying?When Nikki Boyer’s best friend, Molly, got a stage 4 cancer diagnosis, she didn’t shut down—she blew her life wide open. And Nikki, an Emmy-winning producer and host, recorded all of it.In this episode, we talk about Dying for Sex—the wildly popular Wondery podcast and now Hulu series starring Michelle Williams and Jenny Slate. But this is way more than a story about death and sex. It’s about reclaiming your voice, healing old wounds, and choosing to fully live—even when the clock is ticking.We cover everything from kinky adventures to the kind of grief that cracks you open in the best way. Nikki’s perspective on loss, friendship, intuition, and making space for joy will stay with you long after the episode ends.If you’re craving deeper conversations, better friendships, or just a little more life in your life—this one’s for you.🕰️ TIMESTAMPS:3:25 – How Dying for Sex was born8:40 – Feeling Molly’s presence after she passed13:45 – Seeing your life played out by Hollywood A-listers18:05 – The beauty (and discomfort) of being truly loved24:50 – Sex, kinks, and clown fetishes—yep, we went there36:55 – Listener reactions + the legacy Molly left behind40:10 – Why Americans are so weird about grief46:30 – Living bigger because of the people we’ve lost50:05 – Molly’s book Screw Cancer: Becoming Whole52:20 – How Nikki found peace in the messRESOURCES:Listen: Dying for Sex on WonderyWatch: Dying for Sex on Hulu, FX, and Disney+Read: Screw Cancer: Becoming Whole by Molly Kochan – Available on AmazonFollow: Nikki Boyer on Instagram → @nikkiboyerSchedule: Free Podcast Clarity Call with Allison Hare → https://allisonhare.com/freecall Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
What happens when your worst nightmare becomes your real life?Tennyson Jacobson lived through the unimaginable—fighting off a violent intruder in her home and ultimately killing him to protect her family. Her story made national headlines (CBS, NBC, Fox, CrossFit, Your Worst Nightmare) and now she’s telling the full story for the first time in her memoir, The Mother of All Days: The True Story of A Fatal Breakin and the Unexpected Path To Healing.This conversation isn’t just about the trauma—it’s about the winding path of healing, how intuitive whispers saved her life (twice), and what happens when you stop ignoring the nudge to speak up. Tenny’s approach to healing is personal, unexpected, and powerful—and we get into it all here.📚 The Mother of All Days drops May 13 — pre-order it here🕒 Notable Timestamps:3:12 – The first break-in: the moment everything changed14:48 – “I knew he was coming back” — the chilling return20:33 – The fatal fight and what it took to survive29:41 – How her body held trauma long after the attack36:50 – The role of intuition in survival41:14 – Healing begins: from exposure therapy to IFS46:45 – Internal Family Systems (IFS) explained through her lived experience55:10 – Her most “woo” healing modality (yep, Akashic records)1:03:07 – The cosmic “why me?” and what she hopes her story unlocks for others1:06:39 – Pre-order and bonus free 5-day healing guideSchedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com
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