Relationships Refocused

If you can no longer stand aside while culture shows you "it" says relationships should be then this is the place for you. Here, we share what we've learned and bring in wisdom to help you hop, skip, and leap the issues that others have had in their relationships. Our mission is to reestablish the HEALTHY way of doing life than what is force fed to us today. So, can you go another day? Join us.

Opening up DOES help your marriage | Ep. 26 | Relationships Refocused

SummaryThis is a conversation between Anthony and Essence, discussing the importance of #vulnerability in #relationships, especially #marriage. They emphasize that being closed off to one's spouse hinders growth and #intimacy. They explore the power, necessity, and risks of #vulnerability, highlighting that it fosters connection and is essential for deepening relationships. They also discuss their personal experiences and challenges with vulnerability, advocating for openness and sharing as a means to strengthen bonds and understand each other better.AnalogyThe analogy of an "emotional bubble boy" is used to describe someone who is closed off and avoids vulnerability. Just like the bubble boy is protected but isolated, an emotionally closed-off person misses out on the full experience of relationships and growth.Notes🗣️ Anthony and his wife emphasize the importance of not being closed off to one's spouse.💑 They discuss the power of vulnerability in creating intimacy and connection in relationships.🛡️ The necessity of vulnerability is highlighted, despite the risks it entails.🚪 Vulnerability is portrayed as a door to deeper understanding and closeness between people.🤔 Anthony shares his struggle with opening up and the impact it had on their marriage.💔 The potential #bitterness and #resentment that can arise from a lack of vulnerability are addressed.🌍 They suggest that greater vulnerability could lead to more harmony in the world.📖 Sharing personal experiences and struggles is seen as a way to help others and foster connections.🙏 The role of vulnerability in #ministry and sharing one's testimony is discussed.🔄 The importance of continually working on being vulnerable and open is emphasized.KeywordsVulnerability: The quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.Intimacy: Close familiarity or friendship; closeness.Testimony: A formal written or spoken statement, especially one given in a court of law.Emotional Bubble Boy: A metaphorical term used to describe someone who is emotionally closed off and protected, like the "bubble boy" who lives in a sterile environment to avoid infections.FOLLOW US:https://www.refocusedae.comInstagram.com/refocused.aeFacebook.com/refocused.aeBiography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness of what was going on in his life and the world. Navigating through college, career, and entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24 and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to his father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, and entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence was born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ-centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

02-22
39:44

Fix your marriage! Look at yourself first... | Ep. 25 | Relationships Refocused

SUMMARY"Fix Your Marriage Before It's Broken" is a detailed conversation about the importance of self-awareness, communication, vulnerability, and trust. This discussion covers the types of things folks should want to know about themselves and each other before marriage, the role of external perspectives in understanding oneself, and the significance of embracing individual growth alongside marital unity.RESOURCES NAMEDTemperments (Arno Profiling System)https://aandbcounseling.com/history-of-arno-profile-system/ANALOGYNavigating marriage is like gardening together; it requires understanding the soil of your own and your partner's emotional landscape, regular communication like watering, removing weeds of misunderstanding through vulnerability and nurturing growth through trust. Just as gardens thrive with care, patience, and attention to the needs of each plant, marriages flourish when both partners actively work on themselves and their relationship.NOTES 🗣️ Emphasizing communication as key to resolving misunderstandings. 💡 Highlighting the importance of self-awareness in personal and relational growth. ❤️ Discussing vulnerability as a strength in deepening marital bonds. 🔄 Reflecting on the dynamic process of learning and growing together. 🌱 Recognizing individual interests and passions is vital for a healthy relationship. 🪞 Using external perspectives to gain insights into one's own behaviors and attitudes. 💑 Exploring the balance between being a partner and maintaining individuality. 🛠️ Addressing the significance of constructive criticism in personal development. 🙏 Stressing the role of faith and spirituality in guiding relationship values. 📚 Planning to delve deeper into the concept of vulnerability in future discussions.KEYWORDS Vulnerability: The quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. In the context of the video, it refers to the willingness to be open and honest about one's feelings, thoughts, and experiences, fostering deeper connections. Self-awareness: The conscious knowledge of one's own character, feelings, motives, and desires. The video emphasizes its importance in understanding how individual behaviors and attitudes affect the marriage. Communication: The act of conveying meanings from one entity or group to another through the use of mutually understood signs, symbols, and semantical rules. The transcript highlights communication as essential for expressing needs, desires, and concerns within the marriage. Constructive criticism: Feedback given to someone to improve or help, rather than just criticizing. It's mentioned as a tool for growth and understanding in personal and marital development.FOLLOW US:https://www.refocusedae.comInstagram.com/refocused.aeFacebook.com/refocused.aeBiography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness of what was going on in his life and the world. Navigating through college, career, and entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24 and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to his father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, and entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence was born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ-centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

02-15
37:45

The Crisis of A Modern Marriage Views | Ep. 24 | Relationships Refocused

Essence and Anthony discuss the unconventional idea of married couples living separately. They express skepticism about such arrangements, questioning how it could impact intimacy and the traditional understanding of marriage. The episode explores the broader implications of this trend, considering how it aligns with or deviates from Christian teachings on marriage. The hosts emphasize the importance of togetherness and shared living spaces in fostering a healthy, intimate marital relationship.------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.------------------------------------------------Chapters00:00 - Introduction and Vacation Recap + Some Jokes13:54 - Unconventional Marriage Views: Anthony and Essence discuss a woman's desire for separate living spaces in marriage.15:24 - Marriage and Cohabitation: The conversation on the importance of living together for a healthy marriage.18:03 - The Essence of Intimacy: Discussing how cohabitation affects intimacy in a marriage.23:14 - Upholding Marriage Vows: Essence's strong stance on the commitment and significance of living together in marriage.

12-14
51:17

Balancing Finances with Rest and Faith | Ep. 23 | Relationships Refocused

Essence and Anthony discuss the dynamics of marriage, particularly in relation to financial habits and mindset. They talk about the importance of trusting in God and each other, and how their individual financial attitudes complement and balance their relationship. The episode emphasizes the significance of unity in marriage, both spiritually and financially, and how couples can work together to overcome differences and challenges.------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
36:23

Rethinking Negativity | Ep. 22 | Relationships Refocused

In this episode of Refocused, A&E take a deep dive into self-perception, particularly examining the concept of being a 'quitter.' The hosts engage in a candid discussion about their past decisions and how they align with their personal and spiritual growth. They challenge negative self-labels, exploring how such perceptions can impact one's life and choices. The conversation underscores the importance of reassessing one's self-image in light of God's guidance and the truth of one's actions and intentions. ------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
42:06

No, You're Actually Controlling | Ep. 21 | Relationships Refocused

For this episode they on the critique of societal norms regarding dating and relationships. Essence and Anthony challenge various 'lists' that define ideal partners, arguing these are often superficial and not aligned with Christian values or common sense in general. They stress the importance of spiritual alignment and personal growth over materialistic or external factors in relationships. The discussion also touches on issues like judgment, societal pressures, and the importance of understanding one's self-worth and values in the context of dating. ------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
01:01:47

Finding Peace and Trust in God's Timing | Ep. 20 | Relationships Refocused

Anthony and Essence delve into the concept of waiting and trusting in God's timing. They discuss the challenges of waiting for God's intervention in various situations and emphasize the importance of patience and persistence in prayer. The conversation includes personal anecdotes and reflections on how waiting on God's timing, while challenging, can lead to growth and deeper faith. They explore how waiting can test and strengthen one's trust in God, and the peace that comes from this trust.------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
45:12

Unpacking Emotional Intelligence | Ep. 19 | Relationships Refocused

This conversation revolves around understanding and managing our emotions. Anthony shares a personal experience about feeling angry at work, leading to a broader conversation about identifying and acknowledging emotions. They explore the importance of emotional intelligence, especially in recognizing different emotions like frustration and anger. The episode emphasizes the significance of prayer and seeking God's guidance in dealing with emotions, discussing how emotions provide valuable information and should be handled in a spiritually mature way.------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
56:59

Having Faith In The Middle of a Trial | Ep. 18 | Relationships Refocused

Essence and Anthony discuss their challenging year, emphasizing the importance of faith and resilience. They delve into personal hardships like financial struggles and car issues, reflecting on how these experiences tested their faith. The episode focuses on their commitment to God's work and ministry despite difficulties, and highlights moments of divine provision and learning. They stress the value of perseverance and trust in God's plan, sharing insights on the complexities of living a faith-driven life.------------------------------------------------Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
49:49

Embracing Change and Faith | Ep. 17 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------Show Notes:This episode's conversation between Essence and Anthony, co-hosts of Refocused. They reflect on the growth and changes since their previous season. They discuss the hiatus between seasons and the personal growth that took place. The episode details their experiences, including relocating, facing challenges, and trusting in God throughout the process. Their journey involves overcoming logistical hurdles and financial constraints, highlighting the importance of community support and faith in their lives. ------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-12
54:44

Many Get This Wrong, But You Won't | Ep. 16 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com ------------------------------------------------ FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR:https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes: ------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.  Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

07-08
27:02

"The Golden Rule" ... Abused 😲 | Ep. 15 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes:We have heard the adage of "Loving Thy Neighbor" all our lives, but how do we truly apply this, and when is it used out of line?The Story of the woman at the well (John 4: 7-26)Then a woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give Me a drink”— 8For His disciples had gone off into the city to buy food— 9The Samaritan woman asked Him, “How is it that You, being a Jew, ask me, a The Jews considered Samaritan women ceremonially unclean. Samaritan woman, for a drink?” (For Jews have nothing to do with Samaritans.) 10Jesus answered her, “If you knew [about] God’s gift [of eternal life], and who it is who says, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him [instead], and He would have given you living water (eternal life).” 11She said to Him, “Sir, The woman’s response is due to the fact that “living water” was the normal description for running water. She probably thought that Jesus was referring to the underground water source that fed the well. You have nothing to draw with [no bucket and rope] and the well is deep. Where then do You get that living water? 12Are You greater than our father Jacob (renamed Israel in Gen 32:28) was the son of Isaac, grandson of Abraham and father of the twelve sons who established the twelve tribes of Israel. Jacob, who gave us the well, and who used to drink from it himself, and his sons and his cattle also?” 13Jesus answered her, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again. 14But whoever drinks the water that I give him will never be thirsty again. But the water that I give him will become in him a spring of water [satisfying his thirst for God] welling up [continually flowing, bubbling within him] to eternal life.”15The woman said to Him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not get thirsty nor [have to continually] come all the way here to draw.” 16At this, Jesus said, “Go, call your husband and come back.” 17The woman answered, “I do not have a husband.” Jesus said to her, “You have correctly said, ‘I do not have a husband’; 18for you have had five husbands, and the man you are now living with is not your God does not regard cohabitation as marriage. Marriage is a binding, legal covenant between a man and a woman. husband. You have said this truthfully.” 19The woman said to Him, “Sir, I see that You are a prophet. 20Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews say that the place where one ought to worship is in Jerusalem [at the temple].” 21Jesus replied, “Woman, believe Me, a time is coming [when God’s kingdom comes] when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22You [Samaritans] do not know what you worship; we [Jews] do know what we worship, for salvation is from the Jews. 23But a time is coming and is already here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit [from the heart, the inner self] and in truth; for the Father seeks such people to be His worshipers. 24God is spirit [the Source of life, yet invisible to mankind], and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25The woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming (He who is called Ch

06-29
39:55

Are you a servant or just an opportunist? | Ep. 14 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website: https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes:It is very easy this day in age to confuse servitude with misrepresented opportunism. The question is, how do we avoid this? Let's find out in today's episode.------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

05-27
41:17

THE AUDACITY! Why Does My Faith Offend You? | Ep. 13 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes: In this episode we explore how and why others are offended by the Christian faith. Where it's wrong, and where it doesn't add up.------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

05-20
35:26

SUBMISSION! What's The Issue? | Ep. 12 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com-----------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes:With the social status where it is this day and age with relationships, the high value man, and the independent woman. Where is the room for submission between man and woman. Let's explore it this week's episode.------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.  Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother. #Marriage #RelationshipGoals #Submission

05-13
42:12

P.S. You need to REST | Ep. 11 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes: In this episode of Refocused we welcome back Anthony and Essence for Season TWO of their show. In this episode they cover everything from resting when necessary, to parenting, to even more. Stay tuned for this episode and the remainder of season 2 for more great content.------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

05-06
31:00

Judging isn't as bad as you think | Ep. 10 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes:We hear that we should not judge others our whole lives, however we challenge that judgement should come with some parameters. Let's explore this conversation together.------------------------------------------------Biography: Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.  #judgement

03-08
01:02:26

Should People Benefit from God without belief | Ep. 9 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes: With so many people "deconstructing" their faith these days its only a given that there will be those who were once Christian in their business, but now a question mark. Should those individuals still make money while using something they don't believe in?------------------------------------------------Biography: Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.  Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.  #deconstructing #religion #honesty #faith

02-11
44:21

Reconciliation is KEY | Ep. 8 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website:https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Show Notes:Many people in society today talk about the benefits of #forgiveness being in their own hearts. While this is true, we believe that forgiveness has to be extended on to #reconciliation as well. This can be a hard one to swallow because it involves humility and vulnerability on our own end.------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.  Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

01-07
54:30

Yes, you CAN make friends | Ep. 7 | Relationships Refocused

Get more blog posts, photos, and specials at our website: https://www.refocused-ae.com------------------------------------------------FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refocused.ae/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refocused.ae/TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdj9XBMP------------------------------------------------For you PODCAST listeners, you can find us on all platforms, just pick your favorite:ANCHOR: https://anchor.fm/anthony-and-essenceAPPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/refocused-with-a-e/id1586192271GOOGLE: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzU4ZThkNC9wb2RjYXN0L3JzcwSPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4gfRDlINIjUH7YDuSEJws9------------------------------------------------Purchase Your Merch here:https://refocused-ae.com/shop------------------------------------------------Show Notes:Relationships. Everyone has them, some people want them, we ALL need them. The question is are you doing everything you can to make sure you are pursuing them, maintaining them, and most importantly, categorizing your relationship the proper way?------------------------------------------------Biography:Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

12-17
46:02

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