Rock that Relationship!

If you’ve listened to the podcast for a while, you probably know the story about how Corey and Tracy met at a lesbian pool party and the subsequent past life connections they have uncovered over the years. But, did you know that Corey gets Tracy a Happy Friendaversary card every fourth of July or that Tracy’s favorite memory with Corey was trying to get past a rattlesnake while out hiking? Tune in for an honest chat about how Corey’s and Tracy’s friendship has changed over the years, the spiritual journey that continues to pull them together, and why Corey wants a doily for their ten-year Friendaversay. In the end, though, they decide on a new slogan for the friendship moving forward -Thriving, Not Surviving. Learn more about what that means in this special season finale! Show Notes: The Kardashians-Check out this reality show about the celebrity Kardashian family. The Wallenda Effect-Find out more about tightrope walker, Karl Wallenda, and how the fear of failure can lead to failure.

From being a provocateur to backstabbing and unpleasantness to dishonesty, we as humans often put up with a lot from people, some of whom are genuinely our friends. What can you do to prevent yourself from getting caught up in a toxic friendship, and how can you get out of one when your so-called friend has crossed the line? Tune in for some doozies of stories from Corey and Tracy about the toxicity they have each encountered, red flags to look for, and how to transition out of a toxic friendship. And, if you want to know about Tracy’s fears in keeping a journal (or secrets, for that matter) or why Corey won’t ever go “back into a burning building,” you’ll definitely want to check out this episode! Show Notes: Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage-Find out more about Belle Burden’s experience reflecting on a marriage in which her husband walked out with no real explanation. Worst Roommate Ever-Watch this TV series about roommates who turned out to be criminals. Worst Ex Ever-Tune in to this TV documentary series about exes who have engaged in violence and betrayal. The Kardashians-Check out this reality show about the celebrity Kardashian family.

Why do some people vanish once they enter a new relationship? Tune in for a discussion where we talk all about time management, capacity, jealousy, isolation, friends not liking partners and partners not liking friends, retreating during a time of historic unrest, and all sorts of other reasons people nest. Tracy talks about her limitations being around feelings of overwhelm in that you can’t just prioritize something like hanging out with a friend over a barking dog who is calling for your immediate attention. Corey talks about the social obligation she feels to bring other lesbians together as a way of creating solidarity and community. And, as usual, they don’t agree about traveling with others! Show Notes: Girls Just Wanna Weekend-Learn more Brandi Carlile’s weekend in Mexico where she brings together affirming musicians and performers in celebration of community!

Whether you decided to be friends before dating, ended up dating an acquaintance turned partner, or confessed your feelings to your bestie, a whopping 68 percent of people are in a relationship with someone they were friends with first. Tune in for Tracy’s story about heading off romantic vibes from friends by telling them she is a Republican and Corey’s about how salted tortilla chips and a metaphorical piano falling from the sky wooed her in to fall in love with a friend. And, you won’t want to miss some insightful tips about what to consider before confessing your feelings for your buddy! Show Notes: How Often Friends Become Lovers-Check out this article all about transitioning from friendship to romance. Coach Dorothy-Tune in to Dorothy Johnson’s podcast about getting past heartbreak. Unanswered Prayers-Listen to Garth Brook’s hit song about being thankful that some things don’t come to fruition after all.

Join us for an insightful and invigorating discussion with Alisa Kriegel, author of From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess, A Memoir. We talk all about her experiences and perspectives on fostering a post-marriage friendship with her ex-husband after his coming out. She shares about how relationships are built on three things – friendship, physical affection, and sex. We discuss how the loss of a relationship has the potential to turn our once-forever partners into “Somebody that I used to know,” according to singer, Gotye. We cover a lot of ground about women’s roles in society, co-parenting, conscious uncoupling, and the fine line between history with an ex and a friendship with an ex. Tune in for Alisa’s fascinating story and our amazing conversation all about exes as friends. Show Notes: Alisa Kriegel-Find out more about her book, From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess, A Memoir and Let’s Talk About Sex Really podcast as well as connect with her through social media Conscious Uncoupling-Read more about Katherine Woodward Thomas and the power of conscious uncoupling. Maestro-Watch this film about conductor and composer, Leonard Bernstein. Gisèle Pelicot-Read about this story of a woman’s survival from her husband’s orchestration of sustained sexual assaults over the years. Somebody That I Used To Know-Listen to this song from Gotye about the aftermath of a tragic breakup.