Room For Us

This week, Gay Italian Nonna (aka Monica) graces us with her IDGAF energy. And we could not be more grateful.As a daughter of Catholic Italian immigrants, coming out (or even *moving* out) felt like a huge act of rebellion for Monica. She tells us about navigating her years in the closet, finally coming into her own, and finding confidence in her sexuality and herself. Plus, how a fight with her neighbour turned into a TikTok following of 80K+.Follow Gay Italian Nonna on TikTok and IG for fashion, humour, queer advocacy, and thirst traps.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Alyy Patel is back! This time to grace us with a live poetry reading from their new book, "Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths". Alyy is a trailblazing LGBTQ+ scholar, activist, and creative and founder of the Queer South Asian Women's Network (QSAW). With the release of their first book of poems, you can add author to the list."Don't Tell My Parents" is an unflinchingly honest collection of poetry that follows the author's journey to self-love and self-acceptance as a queer South Asian daughter of Canadian immigrants who reject her sexuality. On this episode, Alyy reads a few of their favourite poems from the book, exploring the key themes of family rejection, lesbian relationships, emotional abuse, and discovering self-love.Get your copy of Alyy's book here.Follow Alyy on Instagram and TikTok.Learn more about Alyy's work here. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're kicking off a new season with SO. MANY. UPDATES! Sar is back from her trek through South Asia and Pers got herself a cat—and a girlfriend. Join us for this ultimate catch-up, where we explore P's first serious relationship with a woman, how they met, what she learned from her single life, and what she's looking forward to in the future. For anyone who has been listening to the show for a while, you know how big of a deal this is. Let's gossip, Girl on Girlies. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's episode, P sits down with her best friend of 21 years (WILD) Cailin Campbell to have the most vulnerable conversation. The two best friends talk about their childhood, growing up in a small town, and how they both navigated their sexuality as teens. Cailin openly identifies as pansexual and has been in a straight passing relationship with her boyfriend for nearly a decade. She dives into how she has struggled to fit in with the LGBTQIA+ community over the years since she got into a relationship at such a young age. However, Cailin has been able to grow and overcome those internal thoughts and is so grateful that she can be open with her partner about her pansexuality. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who identifies as queer but is in a happy and committed heterosexual relationship. Cailin says it many times throughout this episode but she wants everyone to know that your partner does not define your sexuality. If you want to send Cailin a message or keep up with her, you can follow this lil gemini babe below @cailincamps on Instagram. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

YA'LL this episode is a special one. P talks to the one and only Lauren Abedini aka @iamkittens. KITTENS is a Persian lesbian DJ based out of Los Angeles. She sits down with P to talk about her experience coming out as a first-generation Iranian American, the first moment she realized she was into women, and how she kickstarted her career as a DJ in a male dominated industry. Her unique DJ sets and eclectic music taste had gained the interest of iconic artists like Kid Cudi, Usher, Skrillex, and A-Trak. Throughout her journey, she's had the opportunity to DJ at some of the world's largest stages like Coachella, EDC, and residencies in Vegas. Lastly, KITTENS talks about how important queer representation is in the media and how a queer playlist she started is what lead to the creation of SHE/HER/THEY, a podcast highlighting queer guests and their stories. Check out the links below to follow KITTENS and keep up with the latest podcast episodes for SHE/HER/THEY. InstagramTikTokTwitterWebsiteAlison Brie and Dave Franco ICYMI Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today, P brings on her sister and other half Marshneill to talk about allll the things. In this episode, you’ll get to hear M’s perspective on what it was like growing up in an Indian household while P was navigating her sexuality, their 8 year age gap and its impact on their relationship, how M had ZERO clue P was gay growing up and if she would have been able to pick up on more signs if there was more queer media representation, and her advice for new parents on how they can educate their children on the LGBTQ+ community.*Spoiler* M is a new parent to baby Celle and a wants to ensure he grows up in a very open and progressive environment. Also, this lil babe has the key to Italy but we will save that story for another pod episode.We really hope you enjoy this vulnerable conversation between M & P and have the chance to learn more about their relationship as sisters and their family dynamic. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

While S is living it up in Thailand, P is riding solo to answer some listener Qs and maybe gush about Hello Fresh a lil (we promise this is not sponsored). In this episode, P gets real about not being fully over someone from her past and how she handles the unresolved feelings, how she felt growing up as a teenager with very minimal queer representation, what this generation of teens can do to find support, and why representation matters. Having LGBTQIA+ representation in books, tv shows, movies and any type of media you can consume is CRUCIAL. Let's never stop speaking out about this. Enjoy this candid episode!PS: Miss you S. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On this week’s episode, we had the most inspiring conversation with Alexa Rose Vitale. Alexa is a queer actor/director/total boss. She started her career as a model and actor in Punjabi music videos. Soon she was writing and directing her own work, including a queer TV pilot about two girls navigating their sexuality in Vancouver.Alexa tells us about the complex and frustrating process of shopping a pilot about queer characters—as a queer, feminine creator in a cis-male dominated industry. She navigated through so much pushback, ultimately reclaiming control of her work and standing up for her creative vision.We're SO grateful to Alexa for this eye-opening conversation. Keep up with Alexa HERE and check out her not-for-profit clothing line Rosebud Apparel. With a firm belief in equitable access to the arts, Rosebud's mission is to provide funds for youth in the arts across Canada. Don't forget to subscribe so you can find out when the first collection drops! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's our last episode of 2022 and your girls are in their feels. Let's talk about cuffing season: what it is, the pressure you might feel during it, and how to find your cuff (if you're looking for one). Plus, our thoughts on 2022 and a special announcement that will cause a *slight* change to the format of the podcast. But don't worry—it's only until next summer. Happy holidays and an even happier new year to our amazing, beautiful, brilliant, passionate, soul-searching listeners. Here's to another year of conversation, allyship, and queer joy. Love, S & P. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

All your questions about asexuality: answered. We sat down with Yasmin Benoit, British model and award-winning ace activist, to talk about her experience identifying as asexual and aromantic. She tells us all about the very real challenges asexual people face and how starting UK's first asexual rights initiative is her way of creating change—in legislation and in how asexuality is perceived by the world. We absolutely loved this conversation with Yasmin and we're so grateful for her honesty and perspective.Follow Yasmin here.Find links to all her work here. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Queer events are crucial for the community—now more than ever. So what does it take to cultivate strong, supportive, and safe queer spaces? We asked Jessica Figueroa, aka Fig, from QueerGxrl.QueerGxrl is a premier events company for the next generation of queer womxn. Based in San Diego with plans to expand, QueerGxrl has amassed over 100K followers online and hosts regular parties for hundreds of people.We sat down with Fig to ask how they did it. From filling a major gap for queer women to building a community where everyone feels included, Fig explains why the work that QueerGxrl does is so important. She also shares her personal story, from being a closeted college athlete to becoming the face of a successful queer events company.Follow QueerGxrl on IG and TikTokFollow Jess FigRead QueerGxrl's feature in ForbesRead more about QueerGxrl on SDVoyager Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Beauty is a complex thing. It has a million definitions and means something different to everyone. But one thing's for sure: our society is obsessed with it. On this episode we explore why.What even IS beauty? Is it subjective or objective (or both)? Do stereotypically "attractive" people succeed more? Why does beauty take up so much mental space, especially for women? How can we put less emphasis on how we look, while still celebrating our own inherent beauty?While we can't definitively answer these Qs, talking about them feels vulnerable and cathartic. We hope you feel the same listening. And in case anyone hasn't told you today—you're really, really beautiful.Links from this episode:Forbes: The Role Beauty Plays in Success At WorkNew York Times: Why Is Beauty Important to Us? Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

WTF is the lesbian breakup curse? How did it start? WHO allegedly started it? And why are lesbian breakups notoriously heart-wrenching? On this episode, P teaches S all about this new conspiracy. We explore why lesbian couples on social media have such a loyal, dedicated following. Plus, why the curse—although upsetting—is also relatable, realistic, and relevant.Link to The Cut article we reference, written by Emma Turetsky.Resources to support the women of Iran right now:How to Help Protesters in Iran (TIME Magazine)How to Help Iran Protests (including Iranian activists to follow for more resources) Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's a Girl On Girl FIRST. While Pers is off on a well-deserved European adventure, Sarah takes the mic solo. Apologies in advance, friends. In this episode, she talks about the top 4 questions she gets as a straight girl co-hosting a gay podcast. What she's learned, what she's had to UNlearn, and the age old question: is she SURE she's not gay? Plus, her top tips for how to start your own podcast! Featuring an *INSANE* deal from our friends at CoHost: our un-freaking-believable podcast hosting platform. CoHost has everything your podcast needs in one spot, including analytics, SEO boosters, and one-click marketing tools. Guys—they aren't paying us a cent to say this. We just love them lol. And they've graciously agreed to offer all Girl On Girl listeners access to the entire CoHost platform for only $20/month for their first year! The regular price per month is $59 soooo...ya lol. Go to cohostpodcasting.com and use code GIRLONGIRL to set up your account and get started. Can't wait to listen to your podcasts someday soon. 🥰Psst. Pers will be back for our next episode. Promise. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Friends with benefits: What are the pros and cons? Why can it be common in the queer community? What makes a successful FWB situation? And the real question — is it *actually* possible? We attempt to answer all of the above with the help of some insights from both queer and straight friends. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

WE'RE BACK! After an end-of-summer break, we've returned with a very special guest: lesbian somatic coach and restorative justice activist, Marlee Liss!TW: Sexual assault, trauma.In this honest and open conversation, Marlee describes how her own experience with sexual assault led her down a path she didn't expect. After years of taking her case through the punitive system, she discovered a groundbreaking alternative: restorative justice. Fast forward to today, and Marlee's case is the first EVER restorative justice case for sexual assault through the North American court system. We learn all about what that means and how restorative justice impacted Marlee's healing journey.Speaking of healing, we dive into all things somatics and trauma-informed pleasure. Marlee explains how trauma shows up in your body, not only in your sex life but in your everyday. Plus, her top tips for self-pleasure or pleasure with a partner after trauma.This episode gets heavy, but it is such a necessary and important conversation. We're beyond grateful to Marlee for having it with us!Want to keep learning from Marlee, work with her directly, or have her speak at your next event?Follow her on IG.Check out her website for resources on trauma-informed pleasure and restorative justice.Follow her and her girlfriend Britt on TikTok, because they're cute AF. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why did Bend It Like Beckham become a queer cult classic? On this episode, we break down all the reasons why the 2002 soccer hit was *supposed* to be the lesbian romance of our generation. Plus, other movies that we think should have (or could have) been gay. What movies did we miss? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast or shoot us an email at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Meet your LGBTQ+ travel guide: Chloe Beth! As a content creator and travel enthusiast, Chloe has created a community online for queer people to feel seen and supported. We ask Chloe about all the things: coming out in her mid-20s, falling in love with her girlfriend Jodie, being candid about her sexuality online, and of course all her tips for safe and enjoyable LGBTQ+ travel. You guys have been asking for this topic and we're SO honoured that Chloe is here to share her expertise! Take a listen, plan your next trip, and then invite us along pretty pls.Follow Chloe: @thechloebethChloe's favourite queer travel creators: @27travels@raviroundtheworld@lezseetheworld@wearewanderingtravel@onceuponajourneyChloe is in the process of launching her new blog and brand: www.anythingchlo.com. Stay tuned!  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's our very first LIVE episode! Recorded at Toronto's Adelaide Hall on June 23, this very special podcast event featured an unforgettable panel discussion with queer icons Humberly Gonzalez, Shannon Burns, Keara Graves, James Baley, and Alyy Patel. Plus a live performance by singer songwriter Brianna Musco and tons of other shinanigans in between with your hosts S & P. Hosting this event was a pod HIGHLIGHT for us, and we're beyond grateful to our incredible guests and the teams at MRG Live and Adelaide Hall who helped us put it all together. To everyone who joined us for this Pride celebration — the energy you brought to the room was next-level. And for everyone who couldn't make it to Toronto — this one's for you.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What does it mean to look/sound/act gay? On this episode we're deconstructing the stereotypes with Travis Nelson: the dreamy queer love interest on Amazon Prime Video's newest series "The Lake"! Travis tells us about growing up in a small town and how moving to bigger cities was the start of his coming out journey. As a cis gay man, Travis explains how the assumptions people make about his sexuality have been both a privilege and a challenge. We ask him about constantly being cast in straight roles and how it feels to be playing a proudly out gay character on such a prominant streaming platform. Plus, what was it like working with THE Julia Stiles?! This conversation with Travis is so honest, vulnerable, and introspective. We're so grateful for him and we can't wait for all of you to watch The Lake: now streaming on Prime Video!Watch The Lake HERE.Follow Travis HERE.Psst. Our LIVE Pride event is THIS THURSDAY, June 23! Want to come party with us as we chat live with some of our favourite Toronto queers? Grab your tickets HERE — proceeds from every sale support LGBT Youthline.  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy