Rooted In The Wild

The way we welcome our children into this world matters. Seemingly small decisions can have lasting impacts on children as they grow - and can also have lasting effects on us as mothers and fathers. The human body is a miracle, and few - if anything - is more miraculous than a woman giving birth to and caring for a child.  Birth experiences can vary greatly from family to family - and Dr. Mel and Jase share their personal journey through the birth of 3 children ranging from single birth to twin birth, homebirth to hospital birth, and the decisions made and insights gained along the way. Join us as we relive this journey and share the natural approaches as well as challenges we faced along the way. Dr. Mel is a board-certified Naturopathic Doctor that works with clients in-person in the West Michigan area as well as virtually from anywhere this podcast is heard. Visit www.rootedinthewild.org/care to view Dr. Mel's offerings and book an appointment.

Oh, the stories we create, and the assumptions we make in our relationships. We are so good at conjuring our unique perspectives about our partners - and often, those pseudo truths actually limit our own joy and growth.  Is a request for sex selfish and needy - or is it an invitation for reconnection and mutual pleasure?  Is someone taking on the finances a controlling move - or an act of service to take that burden from their partner?  Our stories can sometimes mask the truth, and this can have deeper effects on the masculine and feminine polarity dynamic in a relationship.  In this episode, Dr. Mel and Jase explore perspectives and polarity, and limitations our stories may have for is individually, and in relationship. Dr. Mel and Jase co-facilitate virtual sessions for couples seeking deeper meaning and connection.  Wildly Connected Couples Guidance explores the depths of self, truly beholding the other, and how these unique lives and paths can weave and dance together in a strong, beautiful, wildly connected relationship. With over 20 years of marriage, and deep relatability to the realities of partnership, Dr. Mel and Jase are honored to walk with you on your journey together. Visit www.rootedinthewild.org/wildlyconnected to learn more and book your session.

So often, we take advice from medical professionals at face value. Skepticism often gets a bad wrap - but what if a healthy bullshit meter is a good thing?  Dr. Mel and Jase return to the pod with stories of their own skepticism in the world of alternative healing, as well as the patterns and experiences with naturopathy, homeopathy, herbs, energy work and more that have opened their minds.  Perhaps the best medicine - for practitioners and patients alike - is the combination of healthy skepticism - and an open mind. Dr. Mel is a board-certified Naturopathic Doctor through Rooted In the Wild based in Grand Rapids, MI.  Dr. Mel brings together the best of modern and Western medicine with traditional, natural, Eastern medicine and modalities. Whether you are a skeptic and looking to dip your toe into naturopathic care - or fully embrace all the perspectives of healing - Dr. Mel meets you where you are as a bridge that embraces the full spectrum of wellness.  Book an in-person appointment in Grand Rapids, or a virtual appointment from anywhere at www.rootedinthewild.org/care  

In this episode, Dr. Mel brings up a frequent discussion she hears from clients - weight loss.  Why is weight loss such a common and difficulty issue? From the desire for a quick fix to the protocols that attempt to address weight in a silo, and from intrinsic motivation to the ups and downs of their own personal journeys, Mel and Jase dive into the mental, physical and emotional elements of weight loss. Looking for high-quality supplements and wellness products? Check out our Rooted In The Wild Fullscript Store And within the store, check out Protocols from Dr. Mel on Fullscript for area like weight loss, tick bites, parasite cleanses, and more! Log into your existing account, or create one for free to shop practitioner-grade supplements and wellness products at exclusive savings - and delivered to your door.

Never have we been more connected - and never have we felt so alone. How can we be surrounded by people, yet feel so isolated? The seemingly infinite digital connections in our lives can never replace the feeling of belonging and community. There is an unmistakable hunger for connection outside of our screens; a hunger to feel like we are part of something greater.  Whether it's feeling alone and unheard in our own homes, the grief that comes with loss of family and community due to life changes, or the just feeling disconnected and moving through life without a tribe, Mel and Jase talk about the importance and health benefits of community and belonging - as well as some hope and ways we might address this daunting trend in our culture.

What is your Everest?  In this episode, Dr. Mel and Jase discuss goal setting to reach your highest potential - from intrinsic motivation to methods to increase your chances of success. Jase walks through elements of his PATHFINDER program and finding your Everest - because you don't climb Everest without preparation or plan, you can't climb Everest in a day, and you're far more likely to reach the summit when you climb with a supporting team.

Animals are given parasite cleanses yearly, and yet humans have an interesting belief that parasitic infections are only possible after exotic vacations. In this episode, Dr. Mel and Jase dive deep into parasite cleanses - why it's necessary, what to do prior to detox, and commonly asked questions.   For listeners interested in a 30-day parasite cleanse, Dr. Mel has created a protocol on the Rooted In The Wild FullScript account. Easily order and have shipped to your door: DR. MEL'S 30-DAY PARASITE CLEANSE PROTOCOL ON FULLSCRIPT

Let's talk about sex. Let's talk about the polarity of masculine and feminine energy in a relationship. Let's talk about what we don't say out loud and the truth in our shadow. What does it mean to be a man in a time where women are both drawn to fantasy books and movies about men who ravish their partner, and also in a time of "me too" and consent. What does this say about the health of the masculine in society? Of the feminine? Dr. Mel and Jase dive deep into these questions while discussing ways to bring some healthy ravishing into your relationship - and your bedroom.

What is naturopathic medicine? What is comprehensive wellness?  Dr. Mel and Jase explore these questions, and the importance of owning your own health - from nutrition to relationships, and exercise to community.

Welcome back to the ROOTED IN THE WILD Podcast! This is PART 2 of our first episode getting to know Jase DeBoer and Dr. Mel DeBoer, ND.  Where PART 1 covered quite a bit about Dr. Mel and her journey, PART 2 has Dr. Mel turn the tables, and learn a bit about Jase and his journey. Together, Mel and Jase founded ROOTED IN THE WILD - a comprehensive wellness practice based in Grand Rapids, Michigan.  Mel is a board-certified Naturopathic Doctor, a licensed Registered Nurse, and a breathwork practitioner offering in-person and virtual appointments. Jase is a business professional who also leads the WILD MEN COMMUNITY offering individual coaching, empowering community for men, as well as regenerative community efforts such as thoughtful initiation for young men. Mel and Jase live on a homestead farm in West Michigan with their 3 children, exploring natural living, homesteading, alternative education, a deep connection with nature and a return to the concept of the village. Join Mel and Jase as they discuss comprehensive wellness, meaningful relationships, and reaching our highest potential! Learn more at www.rootedinthewild.org

Welcome to the ROOTED IN THE WILD Podcast!  In this first episode (PART 1), get to know Jase DeBoer and Dr. Mel DeBoer, ND.  Together, Mel and Jase founded ROOTED IN THE WILD - a comprehensive wellness practice based in Grand Rapids, Michigan.  Mel is a board-certified Naturopathic Doctor, a licensed Registered Nurse, and a breathwork practitioner offering in-person and virtual appointments. Jase is a business professional who also leads the WILD MEN COMMUNITY offering individual coaching, empowering community for men, as well as regenerative community efforts such as thoughtful initiation for young men. Mel and Jase live on a homestead farm in West Michigan with their 3 children, exploring natural living, homesteading, alternative education, a deep connection with nature and a return to the concept of the village. Join Mel and Jase as they discuss comprehensive wellness, meaningful relationships, and reaching our highest potential! Learn more at www.rootedinthewild.org

Happy Festivus! After adopting a fun tradition with the kids involving Nacho Libre style costumes and wrestling... Mel and Jase talk about truly embracing the "Airing of Grievances" as a challenging, but essential part of a healthy relationship. Perhaps the things your partner does that stir you - or the things that your children do that anger you - may be a mirror for you to reflect upon? What stories might you be telling yourself? And at the same time, sometimes things just need to be said - and making the airing of grievances a practice in the flow of your relationships as opposed to letting them build and boil is the key to long-term happiness in relationships.

What is sex, anyway? Mel and Jase get into this question, as well as the notion that sex often evolves through different phases of life. Differences that range from goals and quality to orgasms and energy - with communication being the important constant through it all.

Welcome to the Wildly Connected podcast. Yes, the Wild Monogamy podcast is now Wildly Connected! Catch up with Jase and Dr. Mel DeBoer as they discuss Mel's recent graduation as a Naturopathic Doctor, Jase's continued work with men and community development, as well as our expanded perspective for the Wildly Connected podcast.

It's more than your appearance. It's an energy. It's a way of walking in the world.  Would you fuck... you? What energy are you putting out to you partner? To the world?  Mel and Jase discuss several perspectives to being fuckable - what it can mean for you personally and for your relationship.

Sometimes we simply give in to the convenience of 'meh' frozen pizza.  Similarly, sometimes, we're simply trying to fill a void with pseudo sex.  We settle for less when we all desire gourmet pizza, and we end up settling for lackluster sex AND feeling worse.  How you do something is how you do everything - and Jase and Mel dive into what it means to live in your full vitality outside of the bedroom - so you can bring your full vitality to the bedroom.

How did we get here? How did we evolve from connected, supportive villages and tribes to individuals and families living so separate from one another?  Community is incredibly important, and Mel and Jase talk about the importance of community in our individual lives and growth, but also for the continued expansion and growth of relationships.  A supportive village can bring out the best in you, challenge you, hold you accountable, and celebrate your growth.

All too often we enter partnership with the expectation that this is the one who will complete us. Or we may feel burdened by the partner who expects to be completed.  The truth of the matter is that you are the only one who can complete you. In this episode, Mel and Jase discuss the burden we place on one another when we hold expectations and what it means to take responsibility for our own growth.

We're back!  Mel and Jase kick off the new year with an episode about intention. The word "goal" is used often this time of year, but what are your intentions? What are you "tending"? Your energy and attention are currency.  How - and with who - are you spending it?

What is medicine? Is it that which brings you joy? That which helps you heal? In this episode, Mel and Jase talk about medicine in all its forms - the amazing connections, new perspectives, hard lessons, unbelievable joy and growth you can experience when you ... as Nahko says ... "find your medicine and use it"