Roses Are Dead

Just because you want to do something in your heart doesn’t mean it will come easy. Going into a relationship, you should put forth all efforts to be loyal and faithful to your partner. Otherwise agreeing to be in a committed relationship is pointless. If you are someone who hasn’t been in a relationship in some time or have yet to be in a relationship at all; you may find it difficult to be and remain faithful, ESPECIALLY if you and your partner are getting too comfortable! But there are so ...

As human beings, we all have experienced a situation where something that once brought us great joy is now boring to us. This could be a career, a hobby, even a relationship. And the reason for this is simply because we expected the joy to always be maintained, even without doing anything to keep it fresh! In relationships, this is extremely important because all that work you put in over time can be in vain if you do not find ways to revive and keep alive the companionship. Leaving too much ...

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People always want to know your business. People always want to know the real you. People always want to learn about your past and what makes you who you are. But those same people don’t even know how to create a safe space for the ones they love and have so many questions for. Those same people end up judging, gaslighting, giving unsolicited advice or simply making a person feel like they can’t come to them about shit! However, creating a safe space is not easy and safe spaces are not easy t...

Have you ever met someone in person that you follow on social media and find out they’re in a relationship? And you would’ve never been able to tell based off of their social media? Is that necessarily a bad thing? What about if they post every else except that? Does it then become a bad thing? Why do people even hide their significant others and under what circumstances is it okay to be more private than public? Is posting your partner on social media something worth compromising about if th...

Before you lock in with someone, you have to make sure you both envision your future together from the same perspective. This isn’t to say you have to agree on every single little thing but the things that are important? Definitely. And these particular things need to be discussed prior to getting into a relationship because it’s a tough realization that you’ve wasted your time. Does this person even want children? Do they want to stay in their hometown forever? Did they vote for Trump? So ma...

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They say you get out of the universe what you put in. And as far as energy, good deeds and moral; that may be true! But in dating? Sometimes you find yourself giving more and more while the opposing party isn’t giving anything at all! But if you get to counting favors, is it really genuine? If you start tallying up what you do versus what they don’t do, should that be the end? If you’re only giving this to get that, is that truly showing sincerity? Perhaps that guy was doing all that they cou...

When you fail to open your eyes and see someone for who they truly are, you get caught in a vortex that could blind you to the point where you don’t see what’s happening. You put them on a pedestal for likeness or love and they are doing the same thing over and over but you don’t register it because you don’t want to believe it’s happening. But when you finally get fed up, which could be months or even years later? You look back and realize this has BEEN going on and you probably should’ve BE...

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You can be a heavy hitter in the bed and still use some sex tips. Honestly, it seems like the most experienced individuals are the ones most open to learning MORE. Personally, if you’re good at something, you should always be looking for ways to be better! And that’s where sex tips come in! What’s your best skill in bed? In what area could you use improvement? Do you know, or are you even willing to admit? If so, is that skill your ‘mild sauce?’ Did that just throw you off? Well, for starters...

If you know what it’s like to give and receive a great sexual experience, then you most likely know that foreplay is one of the most important parts of sex. But there are so many people who don’t know how essential this is and they end up dropping the ball. Foreplay can be anything you want it to be, as long as it’s not intercourse. “Kissing, hugging, squeezing, touching” or whatever Lil Jon said! So if you find yourself pushing to start and aren’t sure how to warm the engine, this is the gui...

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Ready? Set? Boundaries. Boundaries are so necessary in every area of our lives. We have to set boundaries within friendships, relationships, companionships in the workplace and even self. The lack of boundaries can leave you in situations that you could have avoided had you stood ten toes on what you were unwilling to accept, or even unwilling to do. Inconsistent boundaries can lead to a toxic situation. But setting healthy boundaries, especially when dating, increases the chances of dat...

Thanks to social media (as always) applying pressure has been one of the heavier conversations. It seems to have come out of the blue but in reality, it’s just another saying for “courtship and consistency.” Nowadays women say “apply pressure or move around” and men move around because it sounds intimidating. So, press play and let Terry and Kam break it down for y’all in the best way possible so you understand that applying pressure is not a bad thing! BUT listen closely because there are si...

Last year, a huge thing happened on social media with red flags! Some of them were funny, some were obviously personal attacks and some were actually quite realistic! In the dating realm, we tend to ignore red flags for whatever reason: you really like this person, you and this person have history or maybe you’re simply just tired of being by yourself. But ignoring red flags rarely ever works out and you may end up with your feelings hurt. But why is there always so much focus on the negative...

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Have you ever been on a first date from hell? Have you ever had a first date that you still think about sometimes? I think as adults, we can all say we have experienced both. First dates can be tricky! You don’t want to cross any lines but you don’t want to be timid either. Often both parties get caught up in impressing the other person, instead of just being themselves. This creates expectations that you may not be able to live up to later down the line. Press play and listen to Terry and Ka...