SAFEWORDS

Welcome to Safewords, the podcast where nothing is off limits. Get ready to dive into the hottest topics and deepest dilemmas with Phoebe Lyon and Anna Smolovyk. The hosts tackle everything from trending pop culture to pressing societal issues, adding their unique perspectives and sparking lively discussions along the way. With a blend of insight and humour, Phoebe and Anna aim to shed light on important topics while keeping things fun. Got a dilemma of your own burning a hole in your brain? Shoot a message over to @safewordspodcast on Instagram 🎙️🔥<br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

22. Name of Thrones, Don't Ask Don't Tell and Long Distance Drama

In today’s fiery episode, Anna Comes In Hot the Great Name Debate! She challenges Phoebe on the hot topic of whether she’d ditch her last name for her future husband’s... The ladies are armed with strong opinions, arguing that it’s time to retire outdated traditions and embrace a modern approach. Is a unifying name the way to go, or is keeping their own names a powerful statement of identity? Who knows—maybe love has the power to change everything!But that's not all...in What's New With You the girls spill the tea on their own love lives. Anna tries to play coy about her coffee date with a mysterious man, but Phoebe won’t let her off the hook that easily. What's new. The details may be scarce, but the excitement is palpable as we await the next chapter. Meanwhile, Phoebe plays coy about her own love life, but she’s definitely got that sparkle—could this be something special?As always, chaos ensues as they navigate a whirlwind of stories, sparking debates on long-distance relationships, contraception, and the myriad dynamics of love.Happy listening you lovely listeners. See you next week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11-01
01:13:03

21. Bonnie Blue: Fetishising Freshers, Glorifying Cheating and Rocky Reddit Relationships

Get ready! This ones a CORKER!In this juicy episode, Phoebe dives into a trending and controversial topic: Bonnie Blue, the 25-year-old OnlyFans star making waves with her provocative statements and actions. It’s a tough conversation for the ladies, who champion women's freedom—yet they can’t help but feel that Bonnie’s latest antics have crossed the line. Phoebe and Anna explore how she’s been fetishising "barely legal" boys and glorifying cheating, raising some serious questions.Meanwhile, Anna plays it coy about her love life but teases a second date after some tough love advice from a friend. Phoebe’s also got a glow about her, sharing details of her own love life—she even cooked, and thankfully, the house is still standing.As always, chaos ensues when the ladies dive into some wild Reddit write-ins. And honestly... it seems like every relationship in this episode belongs IN THE BIN!Happy listening!❤️ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-24
01:09:56

20. Women Take The Stand, A Honeymoon Crasher and Brotherly Love?!

In this spoiler-filled episode, Anna and Phoebe dive deep into the drama! Anna kicks things off with a hot topic—Tasmania’s Supreme Court decision to overturn the closure of a women-only art installation, celebrating a big win for women's spaces and empowerment. Then, Phoebe spills some juicy details about her recent third date with a mystery man. Will there be a 4th?The conversation takes a chaotic turn as the girls tackle eyebrow-raising family dynamics, relationships that cross the line, and friends overstepping boundaries—even on honeymoons. Tune in for all the drama, laughs, and don't forget the popcorn. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-18
01:22:45

19. Monsters, Feeld Fails and Painful Encounters

This episode comes with a TRIGGER WARNING for discussions around sexual abuse and murder.Phoebe dives into Netflix's new series Monsters — spoilers ahead if you haven’t watched it yet! The girls unpack the disturbing details of the sexual abuse the Menendez brothers endured. With all the media attention on them now, is there a chance for a retrial?Anna spills the tea on her recent first date. Is there a second one on the horizon?Meanwhile, Phoebe shares her final straw with dating apps after her experience on Feeld—yep, she’s done with them all.And as always, expect even more CHAOS involving other people's messy lives! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10-04
01:21:42

18. Playing the Feeld, A Boob Job Break-Up and Still Not Getting Any Sleep?!

In this episode, Anna dives deeper into the Feeld app, and both hosts are pleasantly surprised by the range of self-expression it offers. After some initial doubts in Episode 17, Phoebe admits to being a bit too judgmental and decides to download the app for herself. More to come on this…Phoebe introduces a savoury snack for a taste test...a spicy treat. As always, things take a wild turn when the girls tackle some chaotic Reddit stories—from a boob job threatening a relationship to a partner preventing sleep. Heated discussions ensue! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-26
01:20:05

17. Fyre Festival 2, Secret Paternity Tests and Solo Travels

In this episode, Phoebe dives straight into the chaos surrounding Billy McFarland’s outrageous plans for Fyre Festival 2. Could he really be serious, or are we all just getting trolled again? The girls break it down with plenty of laughs.Meanwhile, in What’s New With You, Anna reveals she’s smashed through an impressive 30 books this year, while Phoebe keeps us entertained with hilarious updates on wedding shenanigans and her dating life.As always, the laughs continue as they dive into juicy Reddit stories, from secret paternity tests to the odd phenomenon of flirting with married people. Nothing is off limits! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-20
01:12:52

16. Sexual Awakenings, First Dates and Uneven Ties

In this bite-sized episode, Anna kicks things off with a playful question: What was your sexual awakening movie? Intrigued? Next, it's time for some exciting life updates—Anna scores Oasis tickets for multiple shows, while Phoebe spills the tea on her friend’s big move across the globe and dishes on her own love life.And of course, it wouldn't be complete without diving into a bit of chaos from other people's lives! Buckle up for another fun and candid chat. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

09-07
41:01

15. Stealthing, Out Till 5AM and A Family Affair

In today's episode, Phoebe dives deep into a serious and often overlooked issue—stealthing, a form of sexual assault that’s gaining more attention. The girls dissect why this topic hasn’t always been taken as seriously as it should be, shedding light on the complexities surrounding consent.But it’s not all heavy; Anna steers the conversation into a lighter, more mischievous territory as the hosts recount their wild night out, where they may or may not have encountered some intriguing men.As always, the episode doesn’t shy away from the tough stuff. The ladies explore heavy topics like affairs, death, and friendship loss, blending raw honesty with their signature humor. Buckle up for an episode that's equal parts intense and entertaining. Enjoy the ride! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

08-30
01:17:31

14. Special Guest: UNCLE DAVE! Cottaging, Lavish Dates & Vegas Drama

In today’s episode, Anna and Phoebe are joined by a very special guest—Phoebe's godfather, Uncle Dave! They kick things off with a dive into dating in Newcastle during the '70s, as Dave opens up about his experiences as a gay man navigating the scene back then. He also weighs in on modern dating, reflecting on how much has changed (and how much hasn’t!).But things really heat up when they dive into some chaotic Reddit write-ins. Uncle Dave’s advice is as hilarious as it is questionable, so consider yourself warned—take it all with a pinch of salt!This episode is a wild ride, so grab some popcorn and enjoy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

08-23
01:07:40

13. Delulu Girlies, It Ends With Us Drama and Hygiene Horrors

In this episode, we're kicking things off with a bang! Anna dives into the wild world of TikTok with a jaw-dropping story about a woman who married her prison lover!Then, Phoebe takes the mic to spill all the tea on the It Ends With Us drama. She's got some strong opinions, and let's just say, we're not exactly thrilled with Blake and Ryan… it’s giving major ick vibes.And to wrap things up, we’re diving headfirst into some chaotic, loving, and downright horrific stories from Reddit that will definitely spice up your day. Buckle up—this one's a ride! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

08-16
01:31:42

12. Social Media Detoxing, Narcissists and Phone Sex Before A First Kiss?!

In this episode, Phoebe kicks off with "Coming In Hot," revealing signs you might need a social media detox. She dives into how we can all take more time away from our phones and be more present.Next, the girls catch up with their latest life updates in "What's New With You."Then, get ready for some WILD stories that you won't want to miss. Tune in and get all the tea! 👀 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

08-02
01:18:47

11. Open Marriage Failures, Straight Men In Gay Clubs and Fire Alarms

In this episode, Phoebe and Anna dive into the term "Girl Boss" and why it's problematic. They also share updates from their lives. Later, they read some wild Reddit write in's about sexless relationships, open marriage failures, and more. Tune in and don't forget to send your own dilemma to @safewordspodcast on Instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-25
01:28:41

10. Glastonbury Tales, Mother Daughter Holidays and He's Just Not That Into You

Join Anna and Phoebe for a lively hour of catching up on life in this latest episode! After weeks of pre-recording due to their holiday escapades, the girls are finally back together. Anna dives into her unforgettable Glastonbury experience, while Phoebe shares the unique adventure of vacationing with her mom at 28. They discuss dating, future plans, and tackle a listener write-in, along with some wild Reddit stories. Don't miss out on the fun and chaos! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-19
01:29:46

9. Microdosing, Catching Mosquitos and Saying The Wrong Name During The 'Deed'

In this episode, Phoebe spills the beans on her experience with micro-dosing mushrooms. She shares how practicing this has worked wonders for her, making her feel more balanced in everyday life. Get ready for some giggles and "aha" moments as she walks us through her experience and challenges some people's preconceived ideas of micro-dosing. Oh and don't miss the tales of Phoebe's trials and tribulations with finding herself a man that can satisfy her one most burning need... catching mosquitoes! Can anyone else relate?! Then of course, it's time for some juicy Reddit stories! The girls offer their thoughts and advice on a listener's dilemma about having a crush on their boss and whether it's really worth 'doing it for the plot'. Additionally, they unpack a scandalous tale of a man who mistakenly said his assistant's name during sex - you won't believe where this one ends!!Grab a glass of wine and tune in for a blend of personal anecdotes, relationship advice, and LOL moments that will have you giggling into the weekend. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-13
01:04:51

8. Revelations and A Must Listen For The Male Listeners

In this episode, Anna opens up about her transformative realisation that her so-called "quarter-life crisis" is actually a period of profound revelations. She shares her journey of how this shift in perspective is brining clarity and excitement to her life.Next, Phoebe and Anna dive into the world of modern dating with a discussion about a new app that challenges traditional norms. Would you go on a date where you’re not able to chat to your match before meeting up? Phoebe then recounts her latest dating adventures, including paying for the 2nd date and making the rookie mistake of not checking the menu before deciding to do so.The episode wraps up with a deep dive into the wild world of Reddit, with one writer finding out his long term partner is a Reddit troll herself. The girls then address the ongoing struggle many men face in understanding the unique issues experienced by women, offering insights and personal anecdotes to foster greater empathy and awareness.Tune in for a mix of personal growth, modern dating, and thought-provoking discussions on social media dynamics and gender understanding. Don't miss out on this rollercoaster of an episode! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

07-05
01:08:59

7. Digital Age Dilemmas, Hungover Voicenotes and Weird Attractions

Today, Phoebe kicks things off by introducing a thought-provoking debate: "Should It Be Illegal for Parents To Post Their Kids Online Until the Child Is Old Enough to Give Consent?" The hosts dive deep into the legal, ethical, and social implications of this topic, exploring various perspectives and the potential impact on children's privacy and digital footprint.Following the debate, the hosts shift gears to catch up on their personal lives. Phoebe shares her recent experiences with first date nerves, offering a mix of humour and vulnerability that listeners can relate to. Her candid reflections lead into a broader discussion about the anxieties and excitements that come with dating.The episode then transitions into a lively conversation about people's dilemmas and the non-physical traits that make someone attractive. From big hands to chid bearing ankles, the hosts explore peoples unique attractions.Give it a listen...you know you want to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-28
01:02:07

6. Global Dialogues, Hinge Returns, and Office Dreams

This week, Anna comes in hot with a deep dive into the current political state of the world. The hosts discuss feeling a sense of helplessness and how overwhelming it has all become.Phoebe shifts the tone by sharing her recent experiences dipping her toe back into the dating pool, sharing her mixed feelings on it.Exciting news though! The podcast received its first listener write-in, and the hosts couldn't be more thrilled. Got a dilemma you want them to solve? Slide into their DMs on Instagram @safewordspodcast. Nothing is off limits here! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-21
57:52

5. Guess The Tune, Sinister Thoughts and Sploshing Fetishes

In episode 5 of the Safewords podcast, Phoebe kicks off "Phoebe's Fun Fridays" to boost listeners' spirits. Anna dives into dilemmas involving a partner with a "SPLOSHING" fetish and a boyfriend with troubling thoughts about his girlfriend. Meanwhile, Phoebe tackles questions about whether early marriage leads to unhappiness in young men and deals with the issue of a cheating husband involved with an 18-year-old girl. The episode mixes humour with serious advice, aiming to help listeners navigate complex and often uncomfortable relationship scenarios Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-14
56:46

4. Life Updates, Living Alone and a Marriage Ending Adult Film

In this episode of the podcast, Anna shares the details of her latest Hinge date, which unfortunately didn't go as planned. She dives into the awkward moments and red flags she encountered, providing listeners with a mix of humor and valuable dating insights. Phoebe and Anna laugh about the mishaps and offer their perspectives on navigating the world of online dating.The hosts then transition to the "Coming In Hot" segment, focusing on the topic "Living Alone As a Girl." They explore the freedom and challenges that come with living solo, touching on safety tips, the joys of independence, and the societal pressures women often face. Phoebe shares some personal anecdotes about her own experiences living alone, while Anna highlights the importance of self-sufficiency and personal growth.As they move into the dilemma discussion, the hosts tackle some intriguing and controversial scenarios...tune in to take part in the discussion!! ❤️ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

06-07
01:22:16

3. Done With Disney, No Lie Ins Allowed and Nudes For Married Boss?!

In this episode, Phoebe and Anna dive deep into the myths and realities that shape our lives. They start by dissecting the fairytale narrative Disney has sold to young girls for decades, discussing how these stories impact real-life expectations and self-perception. Moving on, they tackle the contentious issue of a partner who refuses to let his girlfriend sleep in on weekends, examining the underlying control and respect dynamics. They also unpack the awkward and potentially career-altering situation of "accidentally" sending nudes to a married boss. Tune in for more juicy stories and some hot tea ☕️ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

05-31
01:10:30

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