A lot of women start new relationships and reinvent themselves, because they thing the old them was too this or not enough that... Its about what do I have to do to be able to stay where I want to be... Men do it too.Merry Chrimaaaaaaaa !!!It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This goes back to that saying " Happy Wife, Happy Life" thats lopsided or make sure you find a man that loves you more... Ummmm thats stank ass energy to me.#womenaintalwaysrightChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Some women cannot read the room and every mans threshold for ya BS isn't that strong. Some women saw women in their family annoy men for decades and those men still showed up and stayed in the relationships. These new men understand their worth, they have found out that they too deserve peace and happiness as they provide.Surprise Big Gotcha!!!!It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This is clearly a personal opinion from a man, but I'm still going to answer it.In my opinion, Men with big wallets and a consistent money flow never clocking what a woman has or brings, other than love, peace and a good attitude.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Its not always us its the propaganda painted visually about all of us...I truly believe that this man versus woman conversation that keeps happening with different situations is rooted in self hate. If we don't truly begin to love ourselves as Black people, we're going to have these distracting discussions that bring no progress to where we need to be as a people. We need black women and black men to love each other, love themselves and show up in life 100% to create the next generation. And we cannot do that by putting down each other and expecting happy prosperous families. Just press play so I can explain what I'm talking about.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
I promise yall, you ain't mad at women... its Men yall mad at.Its them society pressures !!!~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Now, I'm not gonna lie.This sounds bad but it's really it's the reality in 2025.A lot of our Moms wanted our Dads help more and they didn't know how to ask or explain it.There are some women that are okay with dating, love to be in a relationship with you but when it comes to having your kids, it's a definite no, no.It's not the no, that you think. Some women see that you are successful, they see that you are a gentleman and they see that you can support a family, but your personality doesn't say "Good Parenting Partnership". Some men already set a tone for women that tells her, if she has a child with you she will basically be doing 95% of what needs to get done physically for that child. A lot of women today, do not want to take on more than 70% of what it takes to take care of a child. Most women are looking for a fair parenting situation. So if you are successful, if you like to travel and you work all the time, in her mind.... Financially yes, you can probably take care of a child but how involved would you be in the day-to-day. No, you would not be an available partner how she wants a Dad around for her kids. It takes a lot to take care of a child and if you're not available the way she would want a partner she does not want your kids. Let me explain.It's SHE Gets It PodChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
We are not our grandmothers, we are not our mothers. Today's women would rather build, create, raise and explore this life single, than stressed and unhappy with a man refusing to see himself.A man willing to correct himself and mature in order to enjoy the peaceful life of being with the right woman for him.Every relationship is not worth holding on to, unfortunately a lot of todays marriages are included.The foundation was never built on good values to sustain it.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Ummmm.... We don't.We just want you to use your brain, without us saying what to do verbatim. The most attraction language you can have with a man is unspoken, learned needs being met.You know what we like to see, eat, hear and feel...Show us that you listened by taking the initiative to do the things we like or need.Let me explain.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Now, this one is a reality check for both Men and Women.Being a SAHM is not for the weak, it involves a lot of work. Unless that man is wealthy or as a woman you are well off.I'll explain myself, press play.Just remember, what we see on TV isn't all its cracked up to be.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Think about investing in yourself so you can move up the ladder in your career and life... You had goals for over a decade and completed all of them... Now you want a life you feel you deserve, options or benefits you see other people recieve, who put in the work too. Then boom... Society is yelling... You should get "use this" and make it work because blah, blah, blah... some people have no one just be happy this person wants to acknowledge you or talk to you.There is no Chemistry, but he thinks you're cute...Your self motivated, their not...You love peace and they have a great time in chaos...You want a healthy lifestyle and they think everyday is a YOLO moment...A Finished Product in a Man, is a diamond in the rough for most women.Imma tell you straight up, why it's either that SOLID MAN or single life for most of them.Women are outside for the ROI and not the crumbs for hugs or attention.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This idea of a "soft woman" is simple... Make a woman's life easier, better than she can and provide solutions to her... Watch how soft she gets. Change your approach compared to other men. Be the difference.Women can be soft single... they can take care of their self needs, pay for wants and needs too. If you are adding yourself to her life, more of what she already did for herself prior to you should be a possibility while with you. That's the part most men don't want to participate in. It checks and balances to a woman's softness in so many ways.Follow us on Chan & Pods channelSubscribe to the show on YT and on your podcast apphttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/TikTok: @chanbepoddinhttps://www.youtube.com/@chanpods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
It's PodFam do not be alarmed.We talked about so much we talked about was currently going on with us, we talked about different reasons why people are not finding pleasure in others and we also talked about where we would put that button if we were God.We respect God OK, but that was just a question.Gigi gave us insight on the difference between male strip clubs and the ones who wear bear heads.We also talked about other things, but when we all get together is a real good time.We also had a after show conversation that cannot be on air, but to be in different coast and still make time to bond that's PodFam.Follow the shows:Baylor- BTG For PresidentGigi - Call Me When You Get OffDrake - Everythang CultureChan & Pods ChannelChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Make it make sense.Do better, it was nice speak with yall and explaining a woman's why.I will check yall with a new season in March..Follow us on Chan & Pods channelSubscribe to the show on YT and on your podcast apphttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/TikTok: @chanbepoddinInstagram @TheczywmbpodcastX @theczywmbpod#parentinginabetterway #cozywomb #thekids https://www.youtube.com/@chanpods Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This is why women sometime get mean. For safety... some men can't handle boundaries or any level of niceness. Instantly ya wang enters the convo.Follow us on Chan & Pods channelSubscribe to the show on YT and on your podcast apphttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/TikTok: @chanbepoddinInstagram @TheczywmbpodcastX @theczywmbpod#parentinginabetterway #cozywomb #thekids https://www.youtube.com/@chanpods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Whats so crazy is a lot of men say I love a mean woman... I love being the only person that gets her soft side... But some men think women are mean when most are just protecting themselves from the daily BS they deal with. Now some women are just ugly to people they think they are above, make assumptions about or do not like. The idea that someone they don't like would have the confidence to even walk up and speak will piss them off.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
It's not allllll women.... Men rush into relationships too. In my experience.I love a good friend, relationship before I'm boo'd up.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Everyone's definition of the truth isn't the same.Women ask for things they think they should all the time it doesn't mean they want it. To ask for the truth and swallow it is "big woman" type shit. Strong, confident, sure of yourself type shit.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This one is a multi layered one:Why do women leave a man who cares for and supports them for cheating? Why get a new man or several men smash her without any commitment ? Why support all of them still being able to keep the other women they smashing?Different women care about different things in cheating.I wouldn't want to keep a man who cheats because Gemini women don't forget, they tuck thoughts. I might wake up one day decades later and choke you out because my rage kicked back in from that one day in 2001. So me not keeping you is me saving yo life. You are welcome, go be great giving out Costco sample wang.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Some women are told straight up, if you have a man and he doesn't do x,y,z, he aint it.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy