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You think you could be besties with Hailey Bieber? Cute.
We explore obsessive celebrity worship, parasocial relationships and digital intimacy. Each episode centres on a cultural icon or phenomenon—ranging from The Hunger Games, erotic fiction, 2010s YouTubers and (of course) Taylor Swift—to unpack how the media we consumed, particularly during our formative years, shaped our desires, ideals, and sense of self.
Tangents Include:
- Why we expect celebrities to be moral compasses, activists and entrepreneurs
- The deification and subsequent ‘dethroning’ of women in media (e.g. Blake Lively)
- The constant access to celebrities through social media, and our sense of ‘ownership’ over them (i.e. we made you what you are, therefore you owe us)
- How our early media diets reflected and influenced what we value, what we want, and who we are
- The evolution of fandom in an age where access is constant and attention is monetised
12 Episodes
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Our exceptional guests Ilissa and Michelle (of @totalbettypodcastnetwork) lead the conversation on Pretty Little Liars. We get into the evolving relationship between fandoms and writers rooms, the weird romanticisation of age-gap relationships and why the teen drama genre is so comforting and intoxicating. Tangents include...
the acceptable contexts to approach a woman in public
the thin line separating healthy from unhealthy fangirl relationships
the everlasting question: which teen drama rules them all!?!
You can find more of Total Betty Podcast Network through their:
Shows: https://totalbettypodcastnetwork.transistor.fm/shows
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/totalbettypodcastnetwork
YouTube channel: youtube.com/@totalbettypodcastnetwork?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnrhyc5j1_xJS9jRGPDMau2ZES76Vp5oKozMxiAiNV3XGiDfPwSnf-M8XxDtU_aem_5RM_vEqsQXaT9hteD4D_KQ
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/totalbettypodcastnetwork/?hl=en
Good morning upper east siders.
Our hysterical guests Yarden and Kaia (from Not My Scene podcast) lead the conversation on Gossip Girl. We get into how media catalyses the loss of childhood innocence, unrealistic expectations of adulthood and the versatility of New York City as a background character. Tangents include…
the completely unwarranted shame that accompanies menstruation
the feminine urge to (unsuccessfully) experiment with ‘preppy’ clothes
the black box of Connecticut (what actually happens there!?!?!)*
You can find more of Not My Scene on
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3yPek3emvnbB2CU1VOHuBl?si=d628c7ede31f4636
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotMyScenePodcast
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notmyscenepodcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notmyscenepod?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
*I spent 1/2 of my summers there since childhood, relax
Our genius guest Jayne (aka @didoriot) leads the conversation on The Row, and the Olsen twins. We get into the how the consumption cycle is diminishing the overall quality of clothing, successful marketing within post-irony culture and how the Olsen twins straddle the ‘competing’ identities of respected public intellectuals and slammin’ hotties. Tangents include…
the unparalleled comfort of imaginary boyfriends
the interrelated myths of Marie Kondo, elevated basics and ‘the capsule wardrobe’
the concern around online hatred (pointless) and media literacy (vanishing)
You can find @didoriot on
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@didoriot
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/didoriot?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
A video version of this podcast is available on Youtube.
Our marvellous guest Marilyn leads the conversation on twihard mania. We talk about the accidental success of the Twilight saga , the seductive wealth of the Cullens and the redeeming(?) qualities of Bella Swan as a female lead (jury's still out) Tangents include....
- the inevitability of crushing on authority figures
- the inaccuracy of representations of depression in pop culture
- the role of religion in young adult fiction
Our luminescent guest Lydia leads the conversation on the height of the YouTuber era in 2010s. We touch on vicarious living through lifestyle content, the ethics of childhood media exposure and the co-opting of content by thirsty corporations. Tangents include...
- the disappearance of our collective attention spans
- the enduring myth of the American dream
- the healing capacity of James Bond
Our amazing guest Kasey leads the conversation on American Girl, the dolls that defined a generation of playtime. We talk about the stages of educational and empathetic development, representation in toys and the darkness of American history. Tangents include...
- the unacknowledged difficulty of learning to read
- the consequences of the concerning rise of iPad kids
- the events of 9/11, i guess?
tw: sexual references (...obviously)
Our fabulous guest Jaylene leads the conversation on the growth of erotica produced by and for women. We talk about fan fiction, healthy sexual dynamics and women driven fantasies. Less serious tangents include...
- The romantic appeal of Brazil
- Harry Styles's hero's journey as "the world's boyfriend"
- The definitive hierarchy of Danish supermarket chains (iykyk)
Our glorious guest Kat returns to continue the conversation on One Direction's impact on young women during the height of their fame.
Less serious tangents include...
- Growing popularity and variety of erotic literature
- Having 'problematic faves' (e.g. Matty Healy)
- Reminiscing over Topshop's high street hegemony
Our glorious guest Kat leads the conversation on One Direction's impact on young women and the dis/advantages of having access to endless content during their developmental years.
Less serious tangents include...
- the flood of Americans moving to London
- the hell of teenage social dynamics
- explaining 'internet friends' to your parents
This episode was so juicy we made it into a two parter - enjoy!
Our brilliant guest Zara leads the conversation on the Kardashian's impact on culture, beauty and the nature of celebrity.
Less serious tangents include...
how dating evolves with age
misogyny in the workplace
yacht propaganda
tw: mental health, body dysmorphia & sexual abuse
Our incredible guest Hannah leads the conversation on Katniss Everdeen's impact on confidence & resilience in the face of hardship.
Less serious tangents include....
- Hypochondriac crashouts
- Making friends as an adult
- Misogynist double standards in sports
and the all important question...is it possible to be hot whilst wearing a balaclava?



