Samuel and Friends Heal the World

In this episode, Samuel Shin, a therapist & coach for men, dives into what he says in his practice when men are struggling to find meaning & purpose in their lives, and what he does to help them.

In this episode, I talk about some of the main issues I've seen working as a therapist and coach for Asian men. If you're interested in working with me or have any comments, questions, etc, feel free to connect with me on Instagram: @samuelshin.co

In this episode, I dive into the challenges of talk therapy and why so many have their doubts about it. I also share my thoughts on the reality of therapy, and how/why it does work in hopes that you can understand yourself, the process and make a more informed decision about what you might need (or not) on your healing journey.

In this episode, I interview Jason, a former client, on the work we did to transform his life and situation in just a few sessions. We dive deep into his journey of dealing with racial trauma, Asian-American identity, and a breakup that was holding him back. I also share bits of my own story throughout, leading to a genuine, heartfelt conversation between two Asian men about traversing identity, life and the healing journey. If you enjoyed the convo, please leave a comment or review and share with others. If you want to reach out to me, you can do so on Instagram: My Instagram. I hope you enjoy this episode, and I'll see you in the next one! Samuel

Should you work with a therapist, or should you work with life coach??? In this episode, I dive into: Definitions of Traditional Psychotherapy vs Life Coaching What are the key differences? The nuances that make it difficult to decide My recommendation and tips for choosing which direction you should go! You might want to take notes for this one, as it's very informative! If you want to connect with me, you can follow me on Instagram @samuelshincoaching. I also created a Facebook Group specifically for this podcast to connect with my audience, create a sense of community and answer any questions or get feedback. Search 'Samuel and Friends Heal the World' on Facebook, and request to join the group! :) I hope you enjoy this episode!! Samuel

Trigger Warning: Very real & intense experiences of racial trauma and suicidality This is part of a series I recorded 2.5 years ago when I was directly active in social justice & racial equity. Though this episode does not fully reflect my current work, it is still near and dear to my heart. Navigating racial & bicultural identity is challenging in Western society. Most therapists are not even adequately educated or trained on these issues to be able to support individuals struggling with racism (as my guest talked about). There is no agenda or intention in sharing this episode except to increase awareness around the issues that Asians, as well as all other races face, growing up in the USA. A useful model that I have recently learned about in navigating racial & bicultural identities comes from Sue & Sue. Derald Wing Sue is a pioneer at the intersection of mental health, racism and identity who is worth checking out. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow me on Instagram @samuelshincoaching. Leave a review wherever you heard this episode as it helps this podcast grow. Thanks so much! Samuel

Recorded 2.5 years ago when I first began my coaching career (with my guest agreeing to/knowing it being public), this episode is a "live" (recorded), unfiltered coaching session by me, with a real guest who agreed to share & open up vulnerably about her life, for you as the listener to connect, relate and experience your own insights, realizations and shifts. The journey of finding who you are can be difficult, and the commitment to living that discovery can be even harder! I hope this conversation can support you on your path wherever you are. Leave a review if you can on whatever platform you are listening from. It will be good feedback for me! Also, share it with your friends & family!! If you want to get in touch with me or follow me on social media, my Instagram handle is @samuelshincoaching. That's the best place to reach me!

Ankit is a 23-year old brand strategist & web designer with a high spiritual intelligence :)! We had a great, organic conversation, starting off with authenticity in career, healthy boundaries in Asian families, the psychological process of Separation & Individuation, and what the beauty of love looks like without ego or attachment (human vs. spiritual love). Check out my episode on Ankit's podcast where I dive into my spiritual journey (for the first time on a podcast) as well as the difference between science, religion & spirituality in the world: Ankit Sherke Podcast Ep. 016 Ankit's links: Instagram: www.instagram.com/ankitsherke.design Website: www.ankitsherke.design

Cam helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. He is a Professional Sex Coach, certified with the World Association of Sex Coaches, as well as a Sexologist, and the current Deputy Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists. In this episode, we dive into Cam's frameworks & examples of practices, the connection between sexual health, mental health & masculinity, and how to create more fulfillment, meaning & purpose as a man. Link to my episode with Cam on the Men, Sex and Pleasure Podcast: Episode #111 Cam's info: Instagram: www.instagram.com/thecamfraser Website: www.cam-fraser.com

Patrick aka "Leo" went through a breakup with his first serious relationship that left him struggling to pick up the pieces of his life & emotions afterwards. Through this painful experience, he learned the tools necessary to self-regulate, develop self-worth & re-discover his purpose in life – going on to become a prominent & successful breakup recovery coach. In this episode, Samuel & Patrick dive into attachment theory, how an Asian upbringing can affect relationships & intimacy in adulthood as well as how to approach relationship & intimacy as a vehicle for healing & growth (i.e. conscious relationships). Leo's info: Instagram: www.instagram.com/breakuprecoveryleo Website: www.breakuprecoverycoach.com

“The World’s Greatest Sex Hacker” – GQ  Kenneth Play is proof that great lovers are made, not born. He was an Asian immigrant with an average-sized cock who lived most of his life with crippling sexual insecurity. Determined to overcome this anxiety, he dedicated his life to studying the complexities of academic sex research, exploring the mysteries of Tantra, immersing himself in the forbidden world of BDSM, and joining the lustful chaos of underground sex parties. His quest worked. Now he’s an internationally-recognized sexpert focused on female pleasure, sexual performance, & rapid skill acquisition.  His book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence is an Amazon #1 Bestseller. In it, he shares the sex hacking secrets he’s successfully taught millions of men. His gold-standard online course, Sex Hacker Pro, is endorsed by women and sex therapists worldwide. In partnership with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, the premiere academic authority on open relationships and casual sex, he co-created the world’s largest scientific survey on female ejaculation, and guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State.  Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmopolitan, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events. Episode Synopsis: Growing up Asian-American and developing sexual confidence & freedom How learning just a little bit about sex can make you better than 99% of men out there The process of getting good at, competent with and even mastering sex Some basic theory, science & overviews of kink/BDSM and why it’s so popular & powerful Website: www.kennethplay.com Instagram: @kenneth_play

For reference, Karen and I were talking about our backgrounds being nice enough or not, our mic and headphone setups being professional, and then decided...WHO CARES!?!? And pressed record. That's what we meant by "Who cares?" :) Karen has a background in classical music, trained as pianist and cellist. She also worked in marketing for the Toronto symphony orchestra and classical music radio station in Toronto, and is the Host of The Secret Muse Society podcast where she explores topics around authenticity. Based in Toronto Canada with her husband, two daughters, and little dog named Arlo. She loves to pull weeds, walk by the water, eat ketchup chips. And loves talking about spirituality, human experience, the art of listening. Instagram: http://instagram.com/karenchoi.co

Seibo is the founder and head coach at the I AM Self Mastery Academy. His Enlightened Entrepreneurs Mastermind and H.O.P.E. Transformation Program are specifically designed to help burned out overachievers find alignment in their lives so that they can live a life of joy, purpose, and abundance. Prior to starting the I AM Self Mastery Academy, Seibo had a successful career in Silicon Valley and was a part of 5 successful exits (Data.com, Successfactors, E2open, Yammer, Fliptop (LinkedIn). He then started 3 separate companies in the cannabis space Vapexhale (2013) Hanu Labs (2018) and BRNR Labs (2020), all of which have won numerous awards for design and functionality. In his free time he enjoys date night with his wife, spending time with his kids, and meditating. Facebook - Seibo Shen Website - www.seiboknows.com Instagram - @seiboshen @iamselfmasteryacademy Tiktok - @iamselfmasteryacademy Youtube - @seiboshen  @iamselfmasteryacademy