Save The Date Show

The healthy dating preservation podcast. If you're looking for relationship advice, we don't have it for you. It's all casual here! Start your week with us biweekly on Mondays for tips, trends, stories and more. To have your dating story included or if you trust us to give you advice, email us at savethedatesos@gmail.com Follow us on instagram @savethedateshow Follow us on twitter @imaniorwhatever @okaykandice

Ep: 81 Shine Your Coin

We’re back from our first of year hiatus and we’re coming in hot! It’s Valentine’s Weekend and what happens when you lead with dollar signs?! Love might cost a thing. Let’s chat!

02-14
50:28

Ep. 83 Center of Affection

Imagine being someone’s everything? How do you feel? Does that scare you or excite you? Let’s chat.

03-29
50:10

Ep. 82 Settle Down

What does it mean to settle down? What if I wanna stay up?? Let’s chat!

03-15
01:03:18

Ep. 80 Hindsight is 2020

It’s the last episode of the year! We've learned so much this year, so we decided to mash up our Lessons Learned segments from 2020 for your listening pleasure. Enjoy! See you next year!

12-31
01:50:53

Ep. 79 Get Your Boots & Your Coat! We’re shack in up!

Is moving in together just a logical next step in the dating process? Or is it something that some people do and some people don’t? What are the pros and cons? What should we consider? Let’s chat.

12-07
01:00:55

Ep. 78 Speaking my Language

TW: domestic abuse in the rescue me segment. Did you know that your love language is not  a static personality trait?? We explore some of the critiques of the theory and address how trauma, especially a pandemic, can totally rearrange your love language rankings. So what do you do when your partner's love language changes?? Let's chat.

11-23
57:39

Ep. 77 You Can Get With This or...

So there's a clip of a popular couple's content going viral in which the husband has a very interesting question for his wife about their sex life... or lack thereof... and monogamy. So this episode explores ultimatums. What are they? What are they used for? Who benefits? Let's chat! 

10-19
01:26:04

Ep. 76 In Hot Pursuit

Once you shoot your shoot, who is responsible for pursuit? Is it once sided? Should it be mutual? Is it strictly based on gender? Let’s chat.

10-06
01:26:56

Ep. 75 Good Lover but Bad Date

What’s it mean when someone says they’re a really good partner but they’re good at dating. Or good at dating and not good in a relationship? Is there something to unpack here? What’s not being said? Let’s chat about it.

09-14
01:08:30

Ep. 74 The Honeymoon is Over

The Honeymoon stage is easily the best part of a new romance. What does that mean? How long should it last? And what do we do when the honeymoon stage is over?

08-31
01:16:07

Ep. 73 Bad Boys for Life

Hey family! We're back! Thanks for hanging in there with us! Sorry for the late episode but it's still lit! Why do we loooooove bad boys? Do nice guys ACTUALLY finish last?? Let's talk it out!

08-17
01:12:50

Ep. 72 We Work Jobs

Have you ever been embarrassed by a significant other's line of work? How important is a potential partner's career to you? How employed do they have to be? Can they have just ANY job? Let's chat!

07-20
01:01:11

BONUS EPISODE: ISSA CROSSOVER! with the guys from the Chef the Angry & the Adam Podcast

DISCLAIMER: This episode is more explicit than our normal episodes. If you have littles you may want to rethink this episode Lol Hey guys! We linked up with our friends over at The Chef the Angry & the Adam Podcast for this fun Quarantine episode where they asked us a lot about dating and shared some of their views as well. This episode originally dropped on their platform but we wanted to share too because it's HILARIOUS. Thanks to the guys for having us on their show! 

07-15
02:00:47

Ep. 71 Dating but make it Plural ft. Brother Nova and Just GQ

We're talking about Plural dating so we have plural guests on the show and they're both men Lol. In the wake of August Alsina telling his truth about his relationship with the Smith family, specifically Jada, we talk Plural dating and open relationships with Brother Nova, a poly dating enthusiast, and Just GQ from the Travel Guydes Podcast. It gets... interesting. Lets chat!

07-06
56:33

Ep. 70 City to city

Dating in different cities can actually yield totally different experiences depending on who you are and where you are. Why is that? Let’s talk about it.

06-22
01:05:33

Ep. 69 Dating with Differences

Welcome listeners! We're back and there's quite a bit to discuss here lately. How do we introduce these discussions into our vetting processes for dating? Are these even conversations we need to worry about having while casually dating? Let's chat!

06-01
01:23:50

Ep. 68 Love After Lockup

**disclaimer** this episode has just a bit more profanity than normal so keep in mind if there are children nearby.  What's like to be millennial, married, divorced, and back on the dating scene? Kandice and Imani have no idea. Which is why they've called on their friends CJ and Shona for their perspective. Dating after ending a marriage can be a lot so let's chat about it!

05-11
53:27

Ep. 67 Ride or Die

What does it mean to Ride or Die? How can you tell if someone will ride for you before you even get serious? What's the difference between Ride or Die and blind loyalty? Let's chat!

04-27
01:02:48

Ep. 66 Til The 3rd Wheels Fall Off

2 is a couple, a 3rd wheel is a crowd but a wingman is a party! On this episode Kandice and Imani talk 3rd wheels, the issues and how to navigate them and how to be a really good or REALLY bad wingman. Let's chat!

04-14
01:47:10

Ep. 65 Who is Lame Lance?

Who or what exactly is a Lame Lance? or Lame Linda? What do we do when we simply cannot bear someone's personality? Let's unpack.

03-23
01:16:20

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