Schein On

Episode 80 of the Schein On Podcast spotlights Nikki Tucker, a personal financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst. Nikki shares her expertise on finance management pre- and post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of prenups, staying organized, and having open financial discussions in relationships. The show also delves into how public figures handle relationship scrutiny, the impact of social media on divorce settlements, and offers listener advice on navigating extended separations. Tune in for a blend of practical financial advice and engaging conversations on trending topics. More on Nikki at https://thefiirmapproach.com/ Topics 01:30 Halloween Highlights and Pop Culture 03:08 Daylight Saving Time Debate 04:29 Divorce and TikTok 07:34 Halloween Candy Controversy 10:41 Jessica Simpson's Marriage Rumors 12:37 Ask Evan: Legal Separation vs. Divorce 15:46 Interview with Nikki Tucker: Marriage and Money 20:05 Prenup Discussions: Protecting Each Other 22:07 Financial Transparency in Marriage 22:46 Common Financial Mistakes During Divorce 25:55 Rebuilding Financial Confidence Post-Divorce 28:24 Rewarding Financial Milestones 30:38 Nikki's Personal Philosophy and Advice 35:05 Famous Quotes and Financial Wisdom 40:28 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Contact Info

A thought-provoking discussion on marriage, divorce, and mental health with Dr. Monica Vermani, a Toronto-based clinical psychologist and author of 'A Deeper Wellness.' Evan and Dr. Vermani delve into the complexities of emotional well-being during life transitions such as divorce. The episode features insightful conversation on topics ranging from the importance of tuning into one's authentic truth amidst external noise, to practical advice for those contemplating a move amidst a potential divorce. The episode also brings thoughtful commentary on the stigma surrounding mental health and the importance of resilience and self-compassion. Topics 03:00 Celebrity Divorce: Jeremy Allen White 06:52 Political Differences Leading to Divorce 09:47 Ask Evan: Moving and Divorce 12:17 Interview with Dr. Monica Vermani 37:02 Embracing Uncertainty and Building Confidence 37:45 Learning from Patients and Personal Growth 38:55 The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists 41:29 The Journey of Writing 'A Deeper Wellness' 42:54 Creating Accessible Mental Health Resources 49:10 The Role of Mentors and Personal Development 52:07 The Impact of Vulnerability and Resilience 59:22 Addressing Mental Health Stigmas and Narratives 01:04:59 Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Impact 01:09:28 Conclusion and Resources for Mental Wellness

The guest is Rhonda Noordyk, a renowned divorce financial strategist and host of the podcast 'Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women.' Evan and Rhonda discuss the true meaning of disruption in divorce, emphasizing challenging the status quo for better outcomes. Rhonda shares her journey from the financial industry to specializing in helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce. The episode covers crucial topics like the emotional and strategic aspects of divorce, the significance of understanding money stories from childhood, and practical advice on financial stability during the divorce process. Topics 01:54 July 4th Weekend Plans 03:20 The Role of a Divorce Lawyer 06:11 Client-Lawyer Relationship Dynamics 09:34 Gray Divorce Insights 12:35 Ask Evan: Legal Grounds for Divorce 14:33 Interview with Rhonda Noordyk 24:26 Strategic Thinking in Divorce 25:14 Misconceptions About Financial Stability 27:19 Building Financial Confidence 28:27 Handling Emotional Decisions 32:57 Changes Needed in Divorce Industry 35:19 The Women's Financial Wellness Center 38:26 Future Vision and Impact 42:09 Lessons Learned from Clients 44:59 Fun Segment: They Said It 50:54 Conclusion and Resources

The guest is Lisa Smith, author of 'Girl Walks Out of a Bar' and a renowned recovery coach and former attorney. Lisa shares her personal journey through high-functioning addiction and her path to recovery, offering profound insights and practical advice. The episode concludes with a fun rock-and-roll-themed segment involving memorable quotes from famous songs. This week's docket includes topics ranging from American celebrity culture to NFL star Darren Waller's emotional song. Lisa's candid conversation about her struggles and recovery, along with her passion for rock music, makes this episode both inspiring and enlightening. Find Lisa at https://lisasmithadvisory.com/ On IG: @girlwalksout Topics: 00:42 Guest Introduction: Lisa Smith 02:10 Celebrity Gossip: 'Bennifer'07:48 Darren Waller's split -- and song10:55 Divorce Registry Discussion14:24 Ask Evan: Marital Property16:09 Interview with Lisa Smith29:24 Normalizing Non-Drinking at Events30:09 Lisa's Pivotal Recovery Moment32:17 The Reward of Sharing Her Story33:28 Music and Recovery39:51 Navigating Social Situations Without Alcohol43:01 Podcast Highlights and Rock Star Guests44:41 Rock and Roll Quotes Game52:34 Final Thoughts and Farewell

In the 75th episode of the Schein On podcast, Evan invites Dr. Judy Ho, a triple board-certified and licensed clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, professor, podcast host, and author, to explore the complex realms of attachment, self-sabotage, and the pursuit of happiness. Dr. Ho shares insights from her books 'The New Rules of Attachment' and 'Stop Self Sabotage,' discussing how understanding our attachment styles can significantly improve personal and professional relationships, mental health, and overall life satisfaction. The episode covers the impact of childhood experiences on adult attachment styles, the dynamics of healing and personal growth, and the role of creativity and authenticity in achieving success. In addition to Dr. Ho's expertise, the podcast also dives into various topics such as the nuances of navigating friendships during divorce and the psychological effects of social media consumption. It's a comprehensive and enlightening discussion on improving one's life by fostering better relationships, self-awareness, and resilience against self-sabotage. More on Dr. Ho at drjudyho.com Topics02:49 Navigating Divorce: Advice, Support, and Personal Experiences15:41 Discovering Your Attachment Style with Dr. Judy Ho30:29 Puzzle Analogies and Parenting Insights31:24 Exploring Attachment Styles and Mental Health32:13 Attachment Styles in Relationships and Communication34:26 Navigating the Complex World of Social Media39:48 Rethinking New Year's Resolutions41:26 The Journey of Writing Books and Parenting43:25 Expert Witness Work and Courtroom Dynamics47:51 Mentorship, Mistakes, and Learning52:03 They Said It: Reflecting on Mental Health Quotes

Evan welcomes Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, co-founders of 'Been There Got Out,' and acclaimed authors of the must-read book on navigating toxic relationships and high-conflict divorces. Their conversation delves deep into the indicators of toxic relationships, emphasizing the often-hidden nature of emotional and financial abuse. Lisa shares her personal story of living in an abusive relationship for two decades, highlighting the difficulty in recognizing and admitting to being in such a situation. Both Lisa and Chris discuss the concept of coercive control, explaining its detrimental impact on relationship dynamics and emphasizing the importance of conflict in healthy interactions. The discussion also covers the strategies for handling high-conflict co-parenting situations, underscoring the necessity of detailed and enforceable parenting plans to mitigate post-divorce manipulation. Finally, they touch upon the pervasive issue of legal abuse in the court system and share insights into navigating such challenges, including the empowerment found in self-representation and the importance of focusing on recovery and support. More at https://beentheregotout.com/ Topics: 02:09 Drake's Generosity: Paying for a Fan's Divorce 04:07 Polyamory and Young Divorces06:50 High-Impact Couples Therapy: A 16-Hour Fix?11:19 Ask Evan: Navigating Finances in Divorce13:32 High Conflict Divorce Coaching with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry25:16 Understanding and Combating Legal Abuse31:45 Navigating Divorce with Legal and Emotional Support32:20 The Strategy of Building a Paper Trail in Divorce33:46 The Journey to Self-Representation and Victory34:37 The Challenges and Strategies of Going Pro Se37:26 Supporting Friends in Toxic Relationships41:06 Empowering Survivors Through Shared Experiences44:34 Advice for Navigating High-Conflict Divorces49:26 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Professional Evolution53:54 Engaging with the Community: They Said It Segment

'Our Son' filmmaker Peter Nickowitz joins the show to talk about the film's themes of family dynamics, relationships, power struggles, love, intimacy, and passion. The film is groundbreaking in addressing a child-custody struggle for a same-sex couple. Watch 'Our Son' on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.35fc6343-49f9-4b0b-baaf-549559b93a89?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb

Dr. Luana Marques is a global speaker, author, scientist and innovator. She is an associate professor at Harvard Medical School and a former president of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America. More at https://drluana.com/

The guest is Duygu Balan, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in familial and intergenerational trauma. Duygu is the first author for Re-Write: A Trauma Workbook of Creative Writing and Recovery in Our New Normal. She is a regular contributor at Psychology Today, and has been featured on CNN, The Washington Times and MSN. More at https://www.duygubalan.com/

The guest is author Brad Stulberg, whose new book is entitled 'Master of change.' Brad is a regular contributor to the New York Times and his work has been featured in major media outlets such as the Wall Street Journal. Get the book: https://a.co/d/2FhxdQt

Christine B.L. Adams, M.D. is the author of Living On Automatic: How Emotional Conditioning Shapes Our Lives and Relationships, which "offers a groundbreaking new concept of personalities and relationships... for people in mid-life who have questions about what goes on and what causes problems in their most important relationships – whether in dating, marriage or with their children." More at https://www.doctorchristineadams.com/

Alex Kapp is not only a highly regarded divorce manager and coach but also a talented television actress and accomplished writer. Her primary focus lies in guiding individuals through the complex and often emotionally charged process of divorce, helping them make informed decisions and rebuild their lives successfully. More on Alex's business at https://goldenruledivorcemanagement.com/ Before embarking on her career as a divorce manager, Alex achieved recognition as a versatile actress, known for her role as Lindsay in the CBS sitcom "The New Adventures of Old Christine," where she shared the screen with the iconic Julia Louis-Dreyfus. She also had a memorable turn as George's girlfriend on an episode of 'Seinfeld.' Early in her life, Alex had a relationship with Robert Chambers, who was later convicted in the 1986 'preppie murder' scandal. Her experiences during that period have been revisited in the documentary 'The Preppy Murder: Death in Central Park.' In this engaging podcast episode, we delve into Alex's journey from her role as a divorce manager to her experiences in the world of acting and her unique perspective on life's unexpected twists and turns. Her story is one of resilience, creative prowess, and an unwavering commitment to helping individuals not just survive but thrive through challenging life transitions. Join us for a captivating conversation with this extraordinary talent and mentor.

Clinical Psychologist Dr. Dorianne Weil, once named one of South Africa’s Most Influential Women, joins the show to discuss her adventures in being a high-profile expert in psychology, mentoring, coaching and becoming friends with Nelson Mandela.

Olivia Howell and Genevieve Dreizen are the co-founders of the Fresh Start Registry, the "go-to platform to help you design your future during and after divorce." Visit https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/

Author and matchmaker Rachel Greenwald returns to the show to discuss her upcoming matchmaking training retreat in October, "The Love MBA." in LA Jolla. California. For more info: https://rachelgreenwald.com/the-love-mba/

Evan is joined by Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan, Ph.d, professor of psychology and a faculty affiliate of the Institute for Population Eesearch at the Ohio State University. She's a member of the board of the Council on Contemporary Families and directs the Children and Parents Lab at Ohio State. More at https://u.osu.edu/schoppesullivan/

The guest is Tonya Lester, a psychotherapist in Brooklyn, New York. She's the author of the essay 'Couples Therapist, Heal Thyself' in the modern love section of the New York Times. More on Tonya at https://www.tonyalester.com/

Evan and producer Dave consider a host of current topics connected to divorce including: - The Case for Staying in a Broken Marriage - Why Divorce Registries Are A Real Thing - Is the Seven-Year Itch a Genuine Phenomenon?

Kiaundra Jackson is a trusted Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She has been featured in Oprah’s Magazine and recognized by Beyonce and the NAACP. Website:www.KWCouplesTherapy.comHard Work of Harmony? www.HardWorkOrHarmony.comYouTubewww.youtube.com/@kiaundrajackson

The guest is Tess Wilkinson-Ryan, author and professor of law and psychology at the University of Pennsylvania. She is the author of "Fool Proof: How Fear of Playing the Sucker Shapes Our Selves and the Social Order― and What We Can Do About It." Get the book at https://www.amazon.com/Fool-Proof-Playing-Sucker-Order_and/dp/0063214261