Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

The Black Effect Presents... Selective Ignorance! In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B sits down with comedian Jay Jurden for a dynamic and humorous deep dive into today’s most pressing cultural and political conversations. The episode opens with Mandii welcoming listeners and sharing updates from her week [00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion], setting a lighthearted yet inquisitive tone. She then introduces Jay, kicking off a conversation that’s equal parts sharp-witted and socially aware [00:54 Local Politics and the New Face of Leadership], as they unpack how new political voices are reshaping local communities and bringing authenticity back to leadership. The discussion shifts as Jay reflects on his latest comedy special and how personal experience informs his work [02:05 Guest Introduction and Comedy Special Discussion], blending humor with honesty about identity, politics, and social responsibility. Mandii and Jay dive into the power of using comedy as both a coping mechanism and a form of activism [04:34 Comedy and Personal Experiences], offering listeners a behind-the-scenes look at how laughter can bridge uncomfortable conversations. The energy picks up as the two tackle the realities of gentrification and community integration [09:19 Gentrification and Community Integration], particularly how cultural shifts transform neighborhoods and the tension between revitalization and displacement. From there, the duo unpacks the blurred line between flirting and harassment in politics [13:19 Politics and Flirting vs. Harassment], using recent stories from New York’s local political scene [16:27 New York Politics and Relatability] as examples of how power and perception influence public trust. The conversation takes a more analytical turn as Mandii and Jay discuss the government shutdown and its ripple effects on working-class Americans [21:47 Government Shutdown and Its Impact], linking it to the larger issue of SNAP benefits and political responsibility [24:53 SNAP Benefits and Political Responsibility]. They emphasize how political decisions directly affect everyday lives, challenging listeners to think beyond party lines. Transitioning to the digital age, the hosts dive into digital racism and AI representation [30:32 Digital Racism and AI Representation], dissecting how algorithms perpetuate bias and how emerging technologies, like AI-generated music, are reshaping creative industries. Jay shares his insights on navigating identity in a digital world where authenticity is often at odds with virality. The tone lightens as they celebrate the vibrancy of The Bronx’s culture and community [37:33 Exploring The Bronx: Culture and Community], before taking a curious detour into “cruising” culture [38:21 Understanding Cruising: A Cultural Phenomenon], exploring its historical and social significance with humor and openness. The two then reflect on how comedy intersects with politics [40:57 Comedy and Politics: Navigating Sensitive Topics], particularly how comedians balance freedom of speech with accountability in an increasingly polarized society. As the discussion unfolds, Mandii and Jay examine AI’s growing influence in music through the emergence of artists like Zaniyah [47:03 AI in Music: The Rise of Zaniyah], questioning what creativity means when technology starts to mimic human emotion. The dialogue seamlessly transitions into celebrity controversies [54:03 Celebrity Controversies: The Case of Nicki Minaj], where they analyze how fame, social media, and public opinion collide in shaping narratives around high-profile figures. Finally, the episode winds down on a reflective and empowering note as Mandii shares her appreciation for dining alone [01:03:16 Dining Alone: Celebrating Solitude], turning the simple act into a metaphor for self-care, confidence, and independence. The conversation closes with heartfelt reflections on community and support [01:10:40 Closing Thoughts: Community and Support], reminding listeners that balance, boundaries, and self-awareness are key to thriving in both personal and social spaces.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media @jayjurden Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod   Ep. 37 | Public Outrage: Digital Racism, MAGERS & Cruising feat. Jay JurdenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B welcomes the “classmates” for a lively, interactive assembly, kicking off with a warm introduction and playful nod to community-driven conversation [00:00 Introduction to Selective Ignorance]. The episode quickly jumps into one of the most talked-about topics among women—traveling with friends—as Mandii and the group unpack the unspoken rules, expectations, and preparation involved in group trips, playfully coined the Black Girl Travel Checklist [00:58 Traveling with Friends: The Black Girl Travel Checklist]. From there, the classmates dive into moments of personal ignorance and growth, sharing candid stories that highlight how humor, vulnerability, and participation fuel real conversation [05:42 Ignorant Moments: Class Participation and Sharing]. The discussion shifts to the delicate balance between critique and disrespect in the entertainment industry, sparked by reactions to Denzel Washington’s latest film and the importance of giving honest feedback to even the most respected creatives [09:56 Critique in the Entertainment Industry: Denzel Washington's Latest Film]. This leads into a deeper exploration of the challenges of critiquing cultural icons like Beyoncé and J. Cole, and how fandom, loyalty, and cultural pressure often silence honest opinion [17:25 The Challenge of Critiquing Icons: Beyoncé and J. Cole]. Pop culture continues with a conversation about Ryan Murphy’s new show and Kim Kardashian’s acting performance, questioning talent, opportunity, and industry access [23:37 Ryan Murphy's New Show: Kim Kardashian's Acting Skills]. The group then debates movie date etiquette, unpacking expectations around the “perfect first date,” gender norms, and financial responsibility [29:21 Dating Etiquette: The Movie Date Debate]. The conversation takes an unexpected but fascinating turn into legal consequences of infidelity, discussing the rarely known law of Alienation of Affection—and whether someone can actually be sued for ruining a marriage [39:07 Suing for Infidelity: The Case of Alienation of Affection]. Mandii then pivots toward larger societal concerns, examining the crisis in healthcare education and how policy changes are reshaping student access, training quality, and future care [45:15 Healthcare Education Crisis: The Impact of Policy Changes], followed by a breakdown of Project 2025, exploring its political implications and potential impact on everyday Americans [48:41 Unpacking Project 2025]. Back in celebrity culture, the classmates analyze relationship accountability, diving into the blurred lines between privacy, morality, and public perception [51:26 Celebrity Relationships and Accountability], before exploring Usher’s legal battle involving friends, dissecting loyalty, business, and personal boundaries [59:04 Usher's Legal Battle with Friends]. The episode wraps with a spirited conversation on tipping culture, debating when tipping is appropriate, whether it's becoming an expectation versus a reward, and how service standards have evolved [01:16:58 Tipping Culture and Service Expectations].  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media @jayjurden Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... Selective Ignorance! On this week's episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B leads a candid, insightful conversation that tackles the persistent myths and societal pressures women face as they approach and cross the age of 30 (00:00). Joined by joined by special guests Lex P (Pour Minds), KikiSaidSo, and KillahBee, who speak from both personal experience and cultural observation, the episode explores how outdated timelines around career success, marriage, and motherhood continue to shape expectations—often creating unnecessary stress and self-doubt (07:36). The discussion challenges the idea that turning 30 signals a decline in beauty, value, or opportunity, and instead reframes it as a time of growth, clarity, and empowerment (14:31, 18:53). From navigating family expectations and breaking free of traditional gender roles (14:31), to redefining romantic partnerships in an era where women are increasingly financially independent (29:03, 39:55), the conversation highlights how modern women are rewriting the rules. Mandii and her guests unpack how financial freedom shifts relationship dynamics (44:34), why prenups are becoming essential tools of empowerment (44:34), and why real connection should matter more than status or security (34:42). They also open up about fears around aging and fertility (18:53, 47:17), offering affirming perspectives on how to embrace each phase of life with grace and power. Wrapping up with heartfelt advice to their younger selves, the conversation emphasizes the importance of confidence, self-worth, and financial literacy (56:36)—reminding listeners that the journey is theirs to define, no matter what the world says.“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Pre Sale LinkFollow the Guests: IG:@lex_p_@kikisaidso@thekillahbeeWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod Ep. 14 | Are We Racing Against Our Own Biological Clock feat. Lex P, KikiSaidSo & KillahBeeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this gripping episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B alongside super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez, opens with her signature energy, spotlighting current projects and inviting listeners into another layered and thought-provoking conversation [00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion]. She quickly shifts gears, venturing into the eerie and unsettling true crime stories emerging from Florida, examining how the state has become a breeding ground for some of the most bizarre and tragic narratives [00:55 Exploring Florida's Dark Side]. The discussion turns deeply investigative as Mandii dissects the Netflix documentary “The Perfect Neighbor,”unpacking the disturbing case, its psychological twists, and the broader themes of manipulation, gender, and societal blind spots [20:09 The Perfect Neighbor Documentary Discussion]. The true crime analysis continues with “Eileen: Queen of Serial Killers,” where Mandii explores the intersections of trauma, systemic neglect, and the blurred lines between victimhood and villainy [29:45 Eileen: Queen of Serial Killers Documentary Discussion]. Transitioning from crime to culture, Mandii examines the modern complexities of relationships, breaking down how societal expectations shape conversations around emotional vulnerability, gender roles, and attraction [41:25 Exploring Relationships: Women and Men Dynamics]. This leads into an honest dialogue on commitment, marriage, infidelity, and the realities people avoid discussing in relationships [47:25 The Complexity of Commitment: Marriage and Infidelity]. From there, she unpacks how financial independence and shifting gender roles have transformed modern relationship dynamics, particularly how women’s autonomy is reshaping expectations in love, dating, and partnerships [51:23 The Shift in Independence: Women and Financial Expectations]. The episode dives into a surprising but insightful discussion about the role of gaming and the rise of digital intimacy, exploring relationships in the era of virtual connection, online communities, and the emerging “metaverse of dating” [55:49 Gaming and Relationships: The New Metaverse of Dating]. Mandii then reacts to various celebrity opinions on music, dating standards, and relationship expectations, analyzing how high-profile commentary influences public perception and romantic ideals [01:00:16 Celebrity Opinions: Music and Relationship Standards]. Finally, she closes the episode with a reflective conversation on navigating past relationships, emotional growth, and choosing partners with future alignment, offering thoughtful insight into modern love [01:09:13 Navigating Modern Dating: Past Relationships and Future Prospects]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media Hey Assante Instagram @heyassante Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with a candid breakdown of how the recent government shutdown has thrown travel into chaos—from delayed flights to system failures—setting the stage for a conversation rooted in both humor and frustration [00:00 Government Shutdown and Travel Chaos]. She shares her own travel nightmare, using the experience to highlight how political decisions trickle down to everyday inconveniences, especially for frequent travelers. The episode transitions into the delicate territory of weight gain in relationships, where Mandii discusses how partners often struggle with honesty, sensitivity, and boundaries when broaching the topic [18:29 Navigating Weight Conversations in Relationships]. She unpacks the emotional complexity behind body changes, emphasizing communication over criticism and the importance of approaching loved ones with empathy rather than judgment. As the conversation deepens, Mandii explores family dynamics during the holidays, especially for queer individuals navigating acceptance, identity, and the pressure of returning home to families who may not fully understand or respect their experiences [29:14 Family Dynamics and Queer Identity During Holidays]. She reflects on the emotional labor that marginalized people often carry during these gatherings and encourages listeners to honor their own comfort and boundaries. The episode concludes with a thoughtful discussion on microaggressions and diversity in the workplace, where Mandii breaks down the subtle biases that marginalized employees encounter and how companies frequently fall short in fostering truly inclusive environments [36:40 Microaggressions and Workplace Diversity Issues]. She stresses the need for accountability, open dialogue, and intentional change—both in corporate culture and in personal interactions.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media @jayjurden Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens up with a candid reflection on her week and life updates [00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates], setting the tone for an intimate and thought-provoking conversation. This episode blends personal storytelling, listener engagement, and cultural critique, all wrapped in Mandii’s signature humor and honesty. The discussion kicks off with political awareness and selective ignorance [08:18 Politics and Selective Ignorance], where Mandii unpacks the challenges of engaging in political discussions in today’s hyper-polarized climate. She explores how people often choose comfort over confrontation, avoiding difficult topics to protect their peace — a concept she labels “selective ignorance.” Mandii emphasizes the balance between staying informed and maintaining emotional boundaries, particularly for those constantly exposed to online debates and misinformation. From there, the episode transitions into a nuanced discussion on cultural sensitivity and accents [16:04 Cultural Sensitivity and Accents], where Mandii reflects on the ways language, dialect, and tone shape perception in professional and social spaces. She highlights how accents can trigger bias — consciously or unconsciously — and challenges listeners to reconsider the assumptions they make about intelligence, professionalism, or background based on how someone speaks. Next, the conversation moves into an honest exploration of financial struggles and budgeting [20:23 Financial Struggles and Budgeting]. Mandii shares personal anecdotes about learning to manage money while balancing independence, lifestyle, and unexpected life costs. She breaks down the emotional side of financial growth — from guilt and comparison to empowerment — and reminds listeners that everyone’s money journey looks different. The dialogue resonates with anyone navigating the pressures of financial literacy and self-sufficiency in adulthood. The tone becomes more introspective as Mandii tackles racial profiling and validating experiences [30:57 Racial Profiling and Validating Experiences], recounting personal and listener-submitted stories about bias and discrimination. She reflects on the emotional toll of constantly having to justify one’s experiences, while also calling for empathy and active listening across communities. This segment invites listeners to acknowledge the intersection between awareness and accountability — and the courage it takes to confront uncomfortable truths. The episode concludes with closing thoughts and announcements [36:22 Closing Thoughts and Announcements], as Mandii encourages her audience to reflect on their own perspectives and the role “selective ignorance” plays in their daily lives. She emphasizes the importance of balance — staying informed without being overwhelmed — and maintaining humanity in a world that often rewards outrage over understanding. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, alongside super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez, dives into a timely and layered conversation about the fine line between critiquing and hating — and how that distinction shapes modern culture, creativity, and discourse. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], followed by a warm welcome to Selective Ignorance [00:38] that sets the stage for an engaging and introspective discussion on the culture of critique and haters [00:57]. Mandii, A-King, and Jayson unpack the difference between constructive feedback and negativity, especially within the entertainment industry. Their conversation transitions into a broader dialogue on Black art and criticism [02:35], where they examine how cultural expression often faces unfair scrutiny compared to mainstream counterparts. The tone remains conversational yet insightful as they introduce the super producer [03:37] — with A-King adding a behind-the-scenes lens to the discussion — before diving into language learning and cultural references [04:16], exploring how global influences shape both art and perception. The hosts briefly pivot to Bad Bunny’s political commentary [06:16], discussing how artists use their platforms for activism and the public’s polarizing reactions to it. The energy stays dynamic as Mandii shares career updates and her new radio show [09:11], giving listeners a peek into her professional growth and reflections on navigating media spaces. This leads naturally into a deeper conversation about the music industry [16:24], the blurred lines between artistry and business, and the constant evolution of creative identity. As the dialogue progresses, the hosts examine the power of social media and public perception [21:35], analyzing how online platforms amplify both critique and hate. They consider the challenges artists face when every opinion becomes public property and every misstep a trending topic. The group transitions to expectations and criticism in art [28:23], exploring how audience bias, nostalgia, and personal preference influence what’s celebrated and what’s condemned. The conversation takes a cinematic turn as Mandii, A-King, and Jayson begin diving into film critiques [40:43], starting with Marlon Wayans’ film Him [41:39]. Mandii praises the project for its symbolism and layered themes [42:23], describing how it thoughtfully examines identity, faith, and self-reflection. The discussion briefly detours into football culture and American society [43:53], drawing parallels between competitive spirit in sports and the cutthroat nature of creative industries. Next, the team tackles critiquing the critics [46:27], reflecting on how discourse itself can become toxic — especially when audiences conflate differing opinions with hate. This meta moment sets up their review of Spike Lee and Denzel Washington’s ‘Highest to Lowest’ [52:49], where Mandii delivers an unfiltered yet thoughtful analysis of the film’s creative shortcomings and emotional intent. They analyze ‘Highest to Lowest’ in depth [56:15], exploring how execution, storytelling, and audience expectations intersect in shaping reception. As the discussion unfolds, they reflect on the art of critique and audience reactions [01:01:57], questioning whether social media has made honest conversation about art nearly impossible without backlash. The hosts then share their favorite films and personal preferences [01:13:43], grounding the discussion in a shared appreciation for storytelling and diverse perspectives. The episode wraps with final thoughts and an outro [01:19:17], where the trio emphasizes the value of open-mindedness, empathy, and balance when engaging with art — reminding listeners that critique, when done with care, is an act of love, not hate. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media Hey Assante Instagram @heyassante Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Mandii B and @HeyAssante discuss a variety of topics including Halloween plans, celebrity gossip, cultural discussions around the term 'ghetto'; the recent monkey outbreak, the implications of the government shutdown on EBT benefits, and the impact of AI on jobs. Theyalso share their experiences at the One Music Fest, highlighting performances and thesignificance of the event. In this episode, the hosts review their experiences at a recent musicfestival, discussing various performances, artist interactions, and personal reflections on theevent. They highlight standout moments from artists like Rashida, Busta Rhymes, and JazmineSullivan, while also addressing the challenges of festival logistics and crowd engagement. Theconversation delves into the emotional impact of performances and the significance of artistlegacies, culminating in a wrap-up of their overall festival experience and thoughts on future events. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media Hey Assante Instagram @heyassante Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for a vibrant, unfiltered conversation that spans pop culture, politics, personal growth, and the beauty of life’s everyday moments. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], setting the tone for a thought-provoking and entertaining discussion that seamlessly blends humor, insight, and cultural critique. The hosts kick off with current events and cultural commentary [00:51], diving into the latest headlines shaping society — from celebrity antics to political hot takes. Their witty banter and sharp analysis keep the energy high as they connect seemingly small pop culture moments to larger societal trends. The conversation naturally transitions into personal reflections and life’s joys [02:52], where Mandii, A-King, and Jayson share intimate stories about finding gratitude and balance amidst chaos. They remind listeners of the value in celebrating the simple things — from shared laughter to moments of stillness — that often get lost in the pursuit of success. The dialogue deepens as they examine the concept of the “ride or die” mentality in relationships [05:57], unpacking how loyalty, love, and sacrifice are often romanticized at the expense of self-worth. Through personal anecdotes and cultural references, the trio explores how this mentality impacts both men and women, ultimately asking whether unconditional loyalty still has a place in modern relationships. Moving into political commentary and social issues [12:13], the hosts tackle current events with their trademark candor, discussing how systemic challenges and shifting political landscapes influence everyday people. They then speculate on upcoming events and performances [23:51], weighing in on what fans can expect from major stages like award shows and festivals while reflecting on how performance culture mirrors broader societal values. The conversation takes a sharp turn as they explore the price of fame and acceptance [35:52], dissecting how public figures often struggle with maintaining authenticity while catering to fan expectations. This leads into a fiery discussion on Don Lemon’s controversial statements [36:51], where the trio breaks down his remarks on race and gun ownership, examining how media narratives continue to shape — and sometimes distort — conversations about identity and justice. From there, the group delves into the nuances of race and identity [40:08], tracing how personal background, privilege, and perception intersect in defining who we are. They expand this reflection with a conversation on immigration and belonging [43:31], acknowledging the shared struggles and cultural hybridity that form the American experience. As they explore the melting pot of American history [45:25], the hosts challenge listeners to consider how the nation’s diversity can both unite and divide, depending on perspective and power dynamics. Shifting to a more personal lens, Mandii and her co-hosts unpack the politics of gift giving and relationships [48:35], discussing how material gestures often serve as reflections of love, validation, or obligation. The episode culminates in an honest and heartfelt discussion about navigating family dynamics and acceptance [01:03:25], where the hosts address the emotional complexities of being seen and understood — especially in families confronting issues of identity, tradition, and change. Throughout the episode, Mandii B, A-King, and Jayson Rodriguez offer a rare balance of humor, honesty, and intellect, creating a conversation that feels both deeply personal and universally resonant. Their insights invite listeners to examine their own relationships, beliefs, and roles in shaping a more open, compassionate society. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B sits down with culture critic Barry Neal for a dynamic, unfiltered conversation that dives deep into the intersections of culture, controversy, and community. The episode opens with an introduction and guest welcome [00:00], setting the tone for a thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, honesty, and critical insight into the realities of modern media and identity. The conversation kicks off with a cultural commentary on the Joe Budden podcast incident involving Marc Lamont Hill [01:28], where Mandii and Barry unpack the viral controversy and what it reveals about accountability, ego, and the performative nature of online discourse. They examine how the situation underscores deeper tensions within the Black podcasting space, where authenticity often collides with influence and public perception. From there, the dialogue explores the role of conflict in podcasting [15:07], dissecting how debates, disagreements, and drama drive engagement but can also distort meaningful dialogue. Mandii and Barry reflect on the fine line between using controversy as content and maintaining integrity as creators in a rapidly evolving digital landscape. The episode transitions into a sharp examination of classism and intellectualism within Black culture [20:22], as the hosts question who gets to represent the community in public spaces. They discuss the tension between academic voices and street perspectives, emphasizing the need for both authenticity and nuance in shaping cultural narratives. This leads naturally into a broader discussion on the complexity of Black identity and representation [38:56], where Mandii and Barry reflect on the pressures of visibility, code-switching, and how mainstream success can sometimes come at the cost of cultural authenticity. As the conversation shifts gears, they spotlight the rise of Kevin McCall [41:18], exploring his talent, public struggles, and complicated journey in the music industry. This segues into a detailed breakdown of Chris Brown’s enduring impact and performance legacy [50:34], as the hosts analyze how fame, redemption, and public opinion intertwine in the lives of artists who’ve faced both acclaim and controversy. In one of the most introspective portions of the episode, Mandii and Barry address burnt bridges and unforgivable actions [01:01:52], discussing how personal accountability and growth play out in both public and private life. The conversation deepens as they explore navigating relationships and choices [01:12:10], tackling sensitive topics like forgiveness, boundaries, and the emotional toll of living under constant scrutiny. The episode concludes with closing thoughts and a look ahead to future conversations [01:18:09], where Mandii and Barry encourage listeners to embrace nuance, challenge assumptions, and remain open to growth — even when faced with uncomfortable truths. This installment of Selective Ignorance masterfully balances cultural critique with personal reflection, offering listeners a space to think critically about identity, fame, and integrity in today’s hyper-connected world. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media Barry Neal Instagram @micdroppers Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and special guest Glasses Malone for a bold, thought-provoking, and humor-filled exploration of culture, community, and connection. The conversation kicks off with a spirited discussion about the Powerball lottery and the fantasies it fuels [01:24], as the crew reflects on how sudden wealth can amplify values—or expose insecurities. From there, they shift into a sharp critique of community ownership and responsibility [02:47], questioning what true “buy back the block” movements look like in practice and who actually benefits when outsiders invest in Black neighborhoods. The dialogue takes a playful yet insightful turn with a dive into celebrity gossip and gender dynamics [03:41], using pop culture as a lens to unpack deeper truths about fame, loyalty, and the human desire for validation. Glasses Maloneoffers a compelling perspective on the identity of hip hop and cultural authenticity [05:38], reminding listeners that the genre’s foundation lies in truth-telling and community representation, not algorithms or vanity metrics. As the episode progresses, the hosts unpack the nature of relationships and accountability [12:41], questioning how much transparency partners owe each other and how past experiences shape current dynamics. This seamlessly leads into navigating fame and public perception [20:06], with reflections on how visibility alters personal relationships—particularly in the age of social media. The group then circles back to a fan-favorite question: “What would you do if you actually won the lottery?” [23:39], sparking an honest debate about money’s impact on morality and motivation. A recurring theme of giving back and community impact emerges [29:53], as Mandii and her guests emphasize the importance of reciprocity and responsible leadership. That message is echoed in their dissection of the Turkey Leg Hut controversy [34:19], a heated conversation about respectability politics, community standards, and the tension between cultural pride and public image. The tone shifts as the panel examines men’s insecurities around women’s pasts [41:20], tying it to the broader complexity of romantic relationships [50:00] and the unrealistic expectations often placed on women in love and life. The discussion deepens further with Kanye West’s ongoing struggle with fame and mental health [53:22], exploring how the pressures of celebrity amplify emotional vulnerabilities and distort public empathy. This leads naturally into a sharp analysis of power dynamics in relationships [59:27], where the hosts explore how ego, gender norms, and social conditioning influence control and communication. From there, they open the floor to conversations around sexual education and representation [01:04:50], acknowledging how misinformation and stigma still shape public discourse—particularly in communities of color. In a standout moment, they reflect on Snoop Dogg’s evolving views on LGBTQ+ representation [01:15:21], celebrating growth while confronting the cultural hurdles that make such progress difficult. The episode concludes with a nuanced discussion on tourism in underprivileged communities [01:23:18], questioning the ethics of cultural consumption versus contribution, and challenging listeners to think critically about how they engage with spaces that aren’t their own. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Glasses Malone @glassesloc Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B takes listeners on an introspective and thought-provoking journey through the concept of selective ignorance—the conscious choice to disengage from certain realities for the sake of peace, perspective, or personal growth. The episode opens with an introduction to the philosophy behind selective ignorance [00:00], as Mandii breaks down how people often tune out overwhelming information or societal pressures to protect their mental well-being. She shares personal anecdotes that highlight when ignoring the noise can be both a strength and a survival skill in today’s overstimulated world. The conversation then transitions to parenting and the challenges of managing children in public spaces [02:24], where Mandii explores the delicate balance between judgment and empathy. Through humor and honesty, she discusses how parents navigate public expectations, social media critiques, and their own inner battles when children act out. This segment offers both relatable and raw insight into the societal double standards placed on mothers, especially when it comes to discipline and public behavior. From there, Mandii examines the role of accents and speech in professional settings [12:36], addressing how language and tone often shape people’s perceptions of intelligence, competence, and credibility. She raises powerful questions about authenticity versus assimilation, sharing personal experiences and listener observations that reveal the hidden biases professionals face. This section challenges listeners to consider how often they “code-switch” to fit into spaces that don’t always make room for their full identities. As the episode deepens, Mandii shifts into one of her most candid and emotional conversations yet—a discussion on the complexities of abortion decisions [22:03]. With compassion and sensitivity, she explores the emotional, moral, and societal layers surrounding reproductive choices, including the stigma and isolation many face in silence. She unpacks the conflicting narratives around bodily autonomy, judgment, and faith, urging listeners to approach these discussions with empathy rather than condemnation. Closing the episode, Mandii reflects on the importance of staying engaged yet intentional about what we choose to absorb [36:20]. She encourages her audience to practice mindful awareness—choosing understanding over outrage, empathy over ignorance, and dialogue over division. This intimate and reflective installment of Selective Ignorance captures Mandii B at her most vulnerable and insightful, blending storytelling, social commentary, and emotional depth to remind listeners that sometimes, knowing when to tune out is just as powerful as speaking up.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by special guest Ace Metaphor, creator of Tonight’s Conversation, for an insightful and provocative discussion on the complexities of modern dating, self-worth, and the evolving expectations of love in the digital age. The conversation opens with a reflection on relationship standards and the various types of partnerships people seek in 2025 [00:00], setting the stage for a deep dive into how social media and influencer culture shape public views on dating [00:54]. As the discussion unfolds, Ace Metaphor and Mandii explore the role of content creators in driving relationship conversations online [02:21], acknowledging both the empowerment and confusion that come from an oversaturated advice culture. They break down how viral relationship clips and podcasts have redefined gender roles, emotional intelligence, and expectations in dating [06:42], highlighting the tension between authenticity and performance in today’s social climate. Transitioning into practical insights, the duo share honest dating advice for women navigating the modern landscape [12:18], emphasizing the importance of recognizing genuine interest, protecting emotional boundaries, and maintaining self-respect in situationships and long-term relationships alike. Their candid conversation serves as a reality check against performative dating trends, encouraging listeners to prioritize compatibility over validation[19:44]. The dialogue then turns to pop culture as they analyze Summer Walker’s recent dating decisions and how celebrity relationships mirror broader societal issues [25:47]. They question whether fame distorts the idea of love and explore the pressures that come with being in a public relationship, where every action is scrutinized through social media’s lens [30:28]. The episode deepens when Mandii and Ace dissect Aisha Curry’s comments about feeling overlooked in her marriage to Steph Curry, unpacking the weight of societal expectations placed on women to be fulfilled, desired, and self-assured all at once [34:15]. They candidly discuss how even successful women can experience insecurity and longing for validation [35:27], framing it as part of the broader human experience of vulnerability and growth[39:47]. From there, the conversation expands into the emotional process of healing after relationships [43:10], emphasizing that each breakup represents a chapter of self-discovery and evolution rather than a failure. Mandii and Ace reflect on how personal growth often requires confronting one’s own patterns and redefining identity outside of romantic attachments [50:00]. As the episode nears its conclusion, they discuss the role of public perception in shaping personal identity, especially for public figures whose love lives become fodder for entertainment [57:04]. They challenge listeners to embrace new beginnings without comparison, reminding them that every season of love—whether painful or joyful—contributes to building emotional resilience and clarity. Blending humor, vulnerability, and social critique, this conversation between Mandii B and Ace Metaphor offers a refreshingly grounded perspective on love, self-worth, and growth in the era of digital relationships, making it an essential listen for anyone seeking to navigate modern dating with emotional intelligence and authenticity.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B invites her patrons for a lively and unfiltered Assembly of Classmates — an open discussion that blends current events, humor, and raw honesty. The conversation kicks off with introductions and setting the tone for the group’s engaging dialogue [00:00], before diving headfirst into the New Orleans jailbreak and the chaos that followed [02:50]. The group examines how crime, justice, and media narratives often collide, sparking debate over public perception versus personal accountability. From there, the conversation pivots to the highly publicized Diddy sentencing, with Mandii and her patrons questioning whether the punishment fits the crime [06:10]. Through sharp commentary and witty exchanges, they unpack what justice looks like in a celebrity-driven culture, and how public opinion often influences legal outcomes. Things take a provocative turn as the group addresses Cam Newton’s controversial request for a list of his partner’s past sexual partners [14:31]. This sparks an intense, funny, and revealing conversation about trust, transparency, and insecurity in modern relationships. The discussion deepens as they debate relationship standards and emotional baggage [34:58], moving into how people navigate secrets, pasts, and expectations with new partners [40:18]. As the dialogue unfolds, Mandii and the patrons examine the complexity of sexual history and double standards in dating [44:55], questioning whether full disclosure builds intimacy or fuels insecurity. The debate evolves into a broader reflection on judgment, dating preferences, and the pressure to uphold certain moral standards in modern society[50:05–55:47]. The episode then shifts into a heartfelt yet hilarious exploration of family dynamics and financial responsibility[01:00:08], where the group calls out the hypocrisy in parenting, relationships, and “doing it all” culture. Finally, they close with a thoughtful look at intentionality in relationships and parenthood [01:04:29], emphasizing that personal growth and honest communication are at the heart of healthy connections. With a mix of real talk, laughter, and perspective, this Selective Ignorance bonus episode captures the essence of Mandii B’s community — candid conversations that challenge norms, encourage vulnerability, and remind listeners that learning through dialogue is the ultimate act of growth. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez unpack the powerful intersections between social media, mental health, and self-perception, exploring how digital culture shapes modern identity and relationships. The conversation opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before delving into the “monster in our pockets” — the pervasive influence of social media on mental health and self-worth [00:51]. They reflect on their experiences at the Sheen Magazine Awards, discussing the pressure to remain professional while navigating the blurred lines between celebrity culture and authenticity [04:59]. The team examines the evolving role of journalists and content creators in an age driven by viral narratives and online engagement [09:44], while also addressing how generational perspectives on work and mental health have shifted over time [20:03]. From there, the conversation turns to knowing your worth in the job market and how financial security can impact self-esteem and boundaries [29:31], leading into a broader discussion about relationships, self-value, and social media’s effect on connection and trust [30:30–31:29]. The hosts emphasize the importance of therapy and emotional growth, particularly for those battling internalized expectations and societal pressures [37:11]. As the dialogue deepens, they challenge traditional notions of masculinity and the stigmas surrounding men’s mental health [48:48], before highlighting the value of long-term vision over quick success in both personal and professional life [58:18]. The latter part of the episode takes a reflective turn as Mandii and her team discuss the hypocrisy surrounding money, morality, and integrity in entertainment [59:46], sparking debate about accepting funding from controversial sources— specifically in light of the Saudi Arabia Comedy Festival controversy [01:05:01]. They explore the broader cultural implications of comedy, free speech, and ethics in global entertainment [01:11:35–01:19:31], ultimately concluding that true growth comes from aligning one’s actions with their values, regardless of public perception. This thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance offers an unfiltered look at how social media, money, and morality continue to shape modern consciousness — reminding listeners that integrity and balance remain the ultimate measures of success.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by friend of the show Carla Wilmaris for a raw and thought-provoking conversation about abortion, parenting, relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape these decisions. The episode opens with [00:00] an introduction and book promotion, before shifting to [01:51] current events and personal opinions that set the stage for a deeper dive. The hosts candidly address [04:57] abortion views and personal experiences, unpacking the stigma, complexities, and emotional realities of reproductive choices. From there, the discussion moves into [11:31] conversations around unprotected sex, highlighting the societal double standards and consequences that follow. Celebrity culture enters the spotlight at [18:35] as Mandii and Carla react to Cardi B’s pregnancy controversy, examining how fame magnifies judgment and public opinion. This naturally leads to [26:23] judgment and parenting decisions, exploring how money, career, and outside scrutiny impact motherhood. The conversation then pivots to [29:05] the balancing act of motherhood and career, reflecting on how women navigate personal growth and societal expectations. By [31:29], the dialogue shifts to relationships and their role in shaping personal growth, followed by [33:27] navigating time and life decisions that often come with compromise and sacrifice. The tension between [36:47] judgment vs. support in friendships takes center stage, where both hosts explore how empathy, communication, and honesty can either build or break trust. The episode doesn’t shy away from the consequences of choices, unpacking [39:37] the fallout of poor decisions and [42:54] the power of empathy in communication. At [47:11], they expand the conversation to judgment in public life, connecting personal stories to the broader cultural dialogue. Finally, the episode closes at [57:39] with thoughts on growth, understanding, and self-reflection, leaving listeners with the encouragement to reconsider how judgment, support, and experience shape their own views. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@carlawilmaris Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by special guest Carla Wilmaris for a thought-provoking conversation that weaves together freedom of speech, friendship dynamics, faith, and cultural identity. The discussion opens with a celebration of five years of voices and the platform’s growth [00:00], before diving into the challenges surrounding freedom of speech in today’s climate [00:55]. From there, Mandii and Carla reflect on the dynamics of friendship and how differing perspectives can create both friction and growth [02:49], as well as how contrasting upbringings shape personal views [05:58]. This leads into a candid exploration of navigating public opinion while maintaining personal expression [08:46], highlighting the emotional toll of public scrutiny in a social media-driven world [12:10]. The hosts further explore the complexities of free speech and its societal implications [15:04]. The conversation then shifts to religion and faith, examining the role of hope in religion as a source of resilience[17:50]. They unpack how faith can be misinterpreted or misused [30:44], while also acknowledging the importance of hope and belief systems as personal anchors [39:46] [43:21]. The dialogue also addresses the struggles of navigating faith and doubt in modern society [50:21]. The episode takes a sharper turn as Mandii and Carla reflect on public figures and their influence on health perceptions, including the controversy around Trump’s statements on autism [51:20] and the intersection of autism awareness with pharmaceutical interests [59:47]. The discussion closes by examining cultural identity and representation in media, including the anticipation surrounding Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl performance and its broader cultural significance [01:02:33].  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@carlawilmaris Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and former music executive and media personality Wayno for a deep dive into the state of hip hop, R&B, and the ever-changing music industry. The conversation begins with an introduction and book promotion [00:00] before moving straight into a breakdown of the current state of hip hop and R&B and how the Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar feud has shaped cultural conversations [00:55]. The crew then examines the cultural pulse of media and marketing and how these forces influence public perception of artists [02:20]. Drawing from their own careers, the hosts share personal experiences in media and content creation, highlighting both the opportunities and challenges of today’s digital-first environment [05:52]. The discussion turns to the role of gatekeeping in media—a double-edged sword that can both protect and limit access for artists [19:36]. From there, they reflect on the dynamics of Dreamville and the importance of industry relationships, exploring how collaboration, reputation, and authenticity shape success [32:21]. This naturally transitions into a broader conversation about navigating industry relationships and staying true to one’s voice [39:25]. As the conversation develops, the panel revisits the topic of gatekeeping in the music industry and how it affects rising talent [41:44], before diving into one of the most debated questions in culture: what defines the “Song of the Summer”?[42:09]. They unpack how streaming, TikTok, and changing audience habits have altered how hits are made and sustained. From there, they explore the evolution of music promotion and artist visibility in a landscape oversaturated with content [59:51], followed by a discussion on the state of R&B festivals and whether the genre’s live presence reflects its cultural impact [01:05:04]. They then critique the oversaturation of media and music, stressing the importance of differentiation and strategy for artists [01:08:23]. The episode also tackles the changing metrics in the music industry [01:12:28] and how the obsession with numbers affects music perception and success [01:16:39]. From there, they highlight the tension between cultural impact and artist recognition [01:21:22], offering perspective on how audiences, critics, and platforms assign value in today’s fragmented landscape. The conversation closes with reflections on navigating the modern music business [01:26:04] and why leverage is one of the most important tools artists can have in today’s industry [01:30:26].  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media@wayno119 Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and returning guest Ray Daniels for a thought-provoking exploration of pop culture, accountability, and the current state of society. The conversation kicks off with an introduction and book promotion [00:00], before moving into a sharp dissection of today’s biggest pop culture headlines [00:55]. From there, the hosts dive into the art of public apologies and accountability [02:44], reflecting on how controversial perspectives on relationships continue to shape both personal dynamics and public perception [05:14]. This leads into a larger discussion on the role of social media and how it amplifies — and sometimes distorts — public discourse [08:59]. The episode then shifts into rap culture, beginning with an honest breakdown of hip hop and street culture’s current state [13:48], followed by an in-depth look at Young Thug’s leaked jail calls and what they reveal about celebrity, loyalty, and consequences [18:44]. Relationship dynamics return to the forefront through the lens of Mariah the Scientist’s public narrative [24:32], before the group pauses for reflections and conclusions on how these conversations connect back to accountability and cultural responsibility [29:52]. As the dialogue expands, they explore the ecosystem of confidence and leadership and how it influences both individuals and communities [33:07]. The conversation also examines the evolution of language and shifting social norms [36:09], before celebrating athletic achievements like Carmelo Anthony’s Hall of Fame speech as part of a broader narrative about legacy and inspiration [37:33]. In its final stretch, the episode tackles the complexity of relationships and public perception [40:44], the impact of political narratives and violence — including the controversial killing of Charlie Kirk [45:05] — and ends with a powerful reflection on empathy, accountability, and the real-world consequences of opinions in today’s hyperconnected society [50:35]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guest on Social Media@raydaniels Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by returning guests Ish from the (Joe Budden Podcast) and Barry for a dynamic conversation unpacking the state of modern discourse and the way culture, technology, and gender shape how we think. The episode opens with an introduction and book promotion [00:00] before diving into the rise of parasocial relationships and how echo chambers created online influence how people interact and form opinions [00:56]. From there, the hosts explore the ongoing struggles women face in society [03:47], examining how criticism often intersects with gender and the broader challenges of having one’s voice heard [08:07]. This leads into a larger reflection on the importance of healthy discourse [11:49] and the difficulty of maintaining objectivity in an era dominated by social media [14:41]. The conversation then shifts to the role of algorithms in shaping information consumption [18:00] and how audiences balance education and entertainment when engaging with digital platforms [21:50]. They also dissect the outsized influence of celebrity culture on perceptions of success [24:55], while stressing the importance of forming independent opinions amidst the noise [28:35]. As emotions naturally play a role in these exchanges, the group discusses how to navigate emotional responses in conversations [31:59] and the growing impact of AI in shaping both information and content creation [35:36]. This sets the stage for a thoughtful breakdown of how wealth and success are often perceived [39:39], alongside a deeper discussion on music, culture, and representation in media [43:48]. The episode concludes with a reflection on why critical thinking is more essential than ever [47:44], tying together the themes of information overload, digital culture, and societal growth before closing with final thoughts [51:35]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the Guest: IG:@thatsthatish Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.