Self-love and Pleasure Podcast

A podcast hosted by your favourite award winning Pleasure & Toy Queen Patricia. The podcast that inspires and empowers you on your self-love and pleasure journey to unlock your deepest self-love and ultimate pleasure potential for an orgasmic life - to be and live pleasure-lit! Please follow/subscribe to the podcast channel & share any of the episodes you liked with others! With love & pleasure, Queen Patricia 🫦 For more go to https://selflovepleasure.com

#30 Orgasm denial, praise kink & talking while having sex with Alexa

In this episode, I have Alexa as a guest speaker chatting about various kinks and how to communicate with your partner during sex. Tune in as we explore: Alexas personal self-love & pleasure journey D/s dynamics & FemDom Orgasm denial and edging Praise Kink How to talk during sex Cock & Pussy worship Her number one tip for self-love & pleasure Her fav toy, lingerie, pleasure products and book recommendation ...and so much more! You can find more about Alexa at https://instagram.com/sexwithalexa or tune into her podcast "In Bed with Alexa" Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Want to become your most confident version of yourself? Then Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure join: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Reviews, FemDom, Online Courses, Work with the Queen and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow all her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠socials⁠

09-08
41:46

#29 Meet Belinda Gavin

In this episode, I have Belinda Gavin joining me as a guest speaker. You might have heard from her Sexpo or seen her involved in other projects. She is a passionate advocate for pleasure and sex education, dedicated to empowering individuals with the knowledge and confidence to embrace their sexuality. Tune in as we explore: Belindas personal self-love & pleasure journey Her challenges and learning lessons Her work at Sexpo Australia Her autism pleasure project Her number one tip for self-love & pleasure Her fav toy, lingerie, pleasure products and book recommendation ...and so much more! You can find more about Belinda at https://instagram.com/belinda_gavin Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Want to become your most confident version of yourself? Then Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure join: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Reviews, Online Courses, Work with the Queen and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow all her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠socials⁠

09-01
38:15

#28 Pro-Dominatrix Tips with Mistress Malissia

In this exciting episode of the *Self-Love & Pleasure* podcast, our Pleasure & Toy Queen Patricia is joined by the incredible Malissia, a former Mistress and Pro Dominatrix, to dive deep into the fascinating world of Professional Female Domination. Tune in as we explore: ✨ Malissia’s journey to self-love and pleasure—plus her top tip! ✨ The difference between a Lifestyle and Pro Dominatrix ✨ The challenges she faced on her Mistress path ✨ Lessons learned as a Pro Domme ✨ Her favorite kink/fetish and the joy it brings ✨ Transformations in submissives ✨ Pro Dominatrix tips for aspiring Dommes ✨ The power of Domme Space & insights into Dominatrix Academy ✨ And so much more! Whether you're curious about the Domme lifestyle or looking for inspiration on your own self-love journey, this episode is one you don’t want to miss. Listen now and let’s explore the world of pleasure together!  You can find more about Malissia on her website and her socials. Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Want to become your most confident version of yourself? Then Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure join: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Reviews, Online Courses, Work with the Queen and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow all her ⁠⁠⁠⁠socials⁠

08-18
43:04

#27 Cock Worship with Kiki Maree

In this episode, Pleasure & Toy Queen Patricia has Kiki Maree from Yonilicious as her guest speaker to talk about Cock Worship. You might have also heard the phrase "lingam worship". She is a certified Sexologist & Educator. We will go into: what cock worship is what the benefits for the receiver and the giver are the process of the worship tips to include and change it up her favourite pleasure toys and her partners favourite pleasure toy self-love & pleasure tips and much more You can find more about Kiki & her programs here You can use Code TOYQUEEN to save on her program Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Want to become your most confident version of yourself? Then Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure Content: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Reviews, Online Courses, Work with the Queen and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow all her ⁠⁠⁠socials⁠

08-11
29:09

#26 Pleasure & Toy Queen Dominatrix

In this solo episode, the Pleasure & Toy Queen shares updates on her personal self-love and pleasure journey. She discusses how her experiences have inspired and empowered her to embrace new paths in life. - 6 months sober and the positive impact it has had on her well-being - Attending play parties and navigating the swinger/BDSM lifestyle scene - The importance of aftercare and self-care practices - Exploring her dominant side and embracing her queen archetype - Encouraging listeners to explore and embrace hidden parts of themselves Timestamp overview 00:00 Sharing journey, transformation, and continuous learning process. 04:00 Resisted alcohol, proud of permanent residency achievement. 08:34 Importance of aftercare in energy exchange activities. 12:05 Exploring dominant role, societal concerns, and hesitation. 16:04 Dominatrix desires pleasure, service, sensuality, body adoration. 17:38 Exploring dominant roles with authenticity and pleasure. Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Want to become your most confident version of yourself? Then Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure Content: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Reviews, Online Courses, Work with the Queen and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow all her ⁠⁠socials⁠

08-04
20:39

#25 Girls Get Off with Viv

In this episode, I have Viv Conway as a guest speaker. She is the co-founder of the pleasure toy brand Girls Get Off. Their mission is to reduce shame and empower women to experience more pleasure. We chat about her self-love & pleasure journey, her dating life, pleasure toys, beginner tips, confession stories, women empowerment and so much more... You can find GGO here Use Code PLEASURE to save Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure Content: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Reviews, Online Courses, Work with the Queen and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠ Follow all her ⁠socials

07-28
35:21

#24 My Boudoir photoshoot experience & tips

In this episode, I go into more details about my recent professional boudoir photoshoot experience & pass on some tips I have learnt. I had my photoshoot with Lush Boudoir Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure content: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠⁠ Follow all my ⁠socials

07-21
14:36

#23 Adult play & pleasure with MoonRose

In this episode, I have MoonRose as a guest speaker. She is a temple mistress to awaken your sensual soul. We chat about the importance of play for pleasure & how you can harness more of into your daily life & embrace your true erotic self... You can find MoonRose here Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure content: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠⁠ Follow all my socials

07-14
48:13

#22 10 Tips to communicate with your partner to include pleasure toys in your partner play

Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Pleasure content: ⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠ Follow all my socials: https://selflovepleasure.com/socials

07-07
09:18

#21 How to pleasure a pussy with your tongue - with Eleanor Hadley

In this episode I have Eleanor Hadley as a guest speaker to speak all about how to pleasure a pussy, including technical tips on how to use your tongue and fingers to provide mind-blowing pleasure. You can find more about Eleanor and her Online Course here. Use Code TOYQUEEN to save at Tongue Tactics Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult content: ⁠⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠⁠ For Adult Industry community, join ⁠here⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠

06-30
38:00

#20 - Pleasure & Pleasure Toys

Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to deepen your self-love & unlock your ultimate peak pleasure potential? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure & Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Adult content: ⁠⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠⁠ For Adult Industry community, join here For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠

06-23
14:30

#19 - Nude Yoga with Rikki Yeowart

In this episode I have the Rikki Yeowart as a guest speaker to talk about nude yoga and nude body confidence. She is a certified naked yoga teacher & sex, love and relationship coach majoring in female sexuality and women’s empowerment. Question we cover: Where is Rikki currently at on her own self-love & pleasure journey? What brings her the most pleasure? What is nude yoga? What are the benefits of nude yoga? How does the nude yoga workshop look like? What are some of the tips to integrate the naked yoga experience? Upcoming nude yoga workshops What is Rikki's favourite pleasure toy & fav lingerie? Self-love & pleasure tips Book recommendations and so much more Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. You can find Rikki at Instagram @rikkiyeowart and her personal website ⁠here Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ For Adult content: ⁠Pleasuretoyqueen⁠ For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more go to ⁠⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠

06-16
24:34

#18 Men sexuality & how to overcome performance anxiety with Cam Fraser

In this episode I have the Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist Cam Fraser as a guest speaker to talk about men sexuality & how to overcome performance anxiety. Question we cover: Why do men feel intimidated by pleasure toys? Why do men compare themselves to pleasure toys? What is performance anxiety? How does it show? What can lead to performance anxiety? How can you overcome performance anxiety? What are some tips for partners to support them? What is Cam's favourite pleasure toy? Self-love & pleasure tips for men and so much more Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. You can find Cam Fraser at Instagram @camfraser and his personal website here. Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ For Adult content: Pleasuretoyqueen For discount codes, Pleasure Toy reviews, Online Courses, Work with Patricia and more go to ⁠⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠

06-10
37:15

#17 How did I become an OnlyFans adult content creator?!

In this episode I will share more about.. How did I start working in the adult industry as an adult content creator on OnlyFans? Why and how did pleasure toys become my brand? How is my journey as an adult content creator? What other pages do I have? What content do I create? How did my friends and family react? What are some benefits working as an adult content creator? Tips for anyone considering to start their own adult content page.. and so much more Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠here⁠ For discount codes and more go to ⁠https://selflovepleasure.com⁠

05-27
24:54

#16 Answers to your most common questions to a pleasure toy reviewer

BeDaring, an Australian pleasure toy retailer, interviewed me asking some of your most common questions that I receive as a pleasure toy reviewer. How did I become a pleasure toy reviewer? What does it take to become one? How often do I play with my toys? What is my favourite pleasure toy? How many toys do I have? What is the Self-love Pleasure Toy School? What is coming up next? and so much more. Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your self-love & pleasure journey. Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools to deepen the love with yourself & experience more pleasure? Want to learn more about pleasure toys & tools? Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ For discount codes and more go to https://selflovepleasure.com Use Code TRISHA to save at BeDaring

05-13
26:46

#6 All about Kink with Priestess Vanessa

In this episode, I have the beautiful Priestess Vanessa joining to talk all about kink. What is Kink? What is the difference of Kink, BDSM & fetishes? What are the benefits of Kink? Top tips for Kinksters & sooo much more Tune in to be inspired & empowered on your journey to unlock your deepest love & pleasure potential for an orgasmic life! For more go to https://selflovepleasure.com https://instagram.com/selflovepleasure_ Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Find Priestess Vanessa at https://instagram.com/yespriestess

05-08
47:21

#15 The history of pleasure sex toys with Hallie Lieberman

In this episode, I had the opportunity to chat with Hallie Lieberman about the history of sex toys. She is a sex historian and journalist and the author of BUZZ: A stimulating history of sex toy. We chat about the history of the dildo, vibrator, magic wand, butt plugs, the legal system around sex toys, future sex toys, robots, and so much more... I really enjoyed this conversation. Let me know any questions you might have & any feedback and reviews of the podcast is highly appreciated! You can find Hallie Lieberman online at hallielieberman.com When you are ready to unlock your deepest love & pleasure potential for an orgasmic life, Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ For more go to https://selflovepleasure.com

04-29
42:02

#14 How to embody your Dominatrix with Priestess

Ever wondered how to embody your dominatrix? Priestess and I talk about how to embrace your Domme side. Priestess is a former professional Dominatrix, bdsm educator, shibari performer and sexologist. What we cover: what is a Dominatrix, including different types of Dommes how to approach embodying your dominant side safety measures and other things you should consider before stepping into this role Dominatrix as a profession and personal Femdom Dominatrix pros and cons & so much more… You can find Priestess at https://instagram.com/priestessdesire When you are ready to unlock your deepest love & pleasure potential for an orgasmic life, Join the Pleasure Toy School now ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Find more details & how to join here: https://selflovepleasure.com With love & pleasure, Queen Patricia

04-15
48:03

#13 How to improve your libido with Chloe

In this episode, Chloe and I are talking about all things libido. What is libido? How can you measure your libido level? What is mismatched libido? What contributes to changes in your libido How can you improve your libido? Chloe is an internationally certified Somatic Sex & Intimacy coach and Sexual Wellness Educator. She is the founder of Honey-ed. She is also the host of "The Honey-ed Podcast" which provides bite-sized sex and intimacy tips for time-poor women. You can find her at https://www.honey-ed.com/links When you are ready to unlock and widen your self-love & pleasure potential, go to https://selflovepleasure.com With love & pleasure, Queen Patricia

04-01
47:20

#12 Pleasure for women in their midlife with Penny van der Sluys

In this episode, Penny and Patricia talk about self-love & pleasure for women in their midlife. What is different for Women in their midlife when it comes to pleasure, how can you improve your pleasure & self-love experience by giving you many practices that you can implement today to experience more pleasure in your life.. & so much more.. Penny van der Sluys is a pleasure activist, feminine empowerment coach, conscious creatrix, soul-led connector and podcast host. She invites women to prioritise pleasure, play and passion, and discover their powerful, untapped sensual, sexual and feminine energy so they can feel confident, free and in love with their body and life. She creates unique, empowering spaces, programs and events for women in their midlife and beyond, to reclaim the feminine, explore their sexy, sensual side, discover a new way of being in sisterhood, and establish a powerful relationship with Mother Nature. Website: pennyvandersluys.com When you are ready to unlock your deepest love & pleasure potential for an orgasmic life, go to https://selflovepleasure.com With love & pleasure, Queen Patricia

03-18
39:21

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