Sex, Lies and Love Podcast

A warm voice and soft space for men to connect. Bold and sensual, The Commandress soothes you into the things that often go unsaid; a mind and body stimulation that will nourish, inspire and command your presence. With a flavor of #asmr, enjoy role-playing and hearing what men confess and truly desire. Adult men are welcome to cum to class to learn and play. The Commandress

"Facing the Father: Healing the Wounds You Carry"

Feeling the god-awful ache of your father’s voice still echoing in your mind — the judgment, the sarcasm, the hidden rage under the laughter? You’re not alone. In this episode, I speak to the men who learned early not to feel, because their fathers couldn’t. Through the psychological precision of my empathy, I reveal how those patterns still shape your relationships and how to finally move beyond them. This is the work I do — guiding conscious men back to their own hearts, where love, safety, and leadership are reborn.Episode: 99sexlieslove.com #healing#DivineMasculine#asmr#HeartCenteredMen#BreakingGenerationalPatterns#EmotionalIntelligence#FatherWound#ConsciousMenInvocation Released with This 99th Episode: Beloved Source of all breath,I open my voice as a beacon for the sons of Earth.May every man who still carries his father’s silence, his father’s anger, his father’s unmet tenderness — hear this call.Through the sound of my voice, may numb hearts remember how to feel,and guarded ones soften enough to receive truth without defense.Let this episode become a mirror,a portal through which men face the shadowand find not shame, but the fierce mercy of awakening.So Be It. So It Is.

10-30
17:24

“Men Who Feel Everything but Don’t Know How to Use It”

You have heart and soul but you don't know how to use it?You have no role models as men between the ages of 25-45. I understand.I'm here to teach you, if you want to learn.www.thecommandress.com#asmr #self-growth #feelings #compassion #maturity #sexuality #devotion #honor #value #self-worth #communication #relationships

08-31
28:09

Where Men Go Wrong in Sex – And How to Never Miss Again

Most men think they know what women want in bed. They don't. In this episode, I strip away the performance, the porn scripts, and the hollow moves that kill desire. You'll hear where men go wrong – in the way they touch, the way they listen, the way they try to win instead of connect. If you've ever wondered why she went quiet, pulled away, or never called again... this is where you'll find the answer. And, if you're ready to ignite her body and mind with something she's never felt before, it starts here. #asmr #sex #education for #men

08-11
17:41

Making Love to a King Who's Gone

"When Power Meets Devotion: Kings Kneel"Listen to this podcast to feel what's possible.The few who can rise will take action. I expect to hear from you.Commandresswww.sexlieslove.com#asmr#sacred #masculine #devotion#surrender#erotic#mystery#forbidden#desire #devotion#voice #transmission #kings#rise

07-28
17:20

Barefoot Pilgrimage to the Wild Self

Walk with me... barefoot. Cum. Return to nature.Reclaim the wild playground of your heart. Taste the wildness beneath your arches.How do you satisfy your soul's hunger for wonder?Tell me.www.sexlieslove.com#ASMR #

07-14
18:41

“You’re Not Numb, You’re Unwitnessed”

Your presence is power.Softness is sacred.Your hearts are not broken—just waiting to be named.Are you being witnessed to access what's deep within you?www.sexlieslove.com #overwhelm #exhaustion #grief #transformation #sacred#spiritual #awakening #sexuality #men #perform #presence

06-28
12:40

The Man Who Provides Everything ...and Feels Nothing

Is this you?Listen til the end... and you'll know.www.thecommandress.com#executive #fantasies #kingdom #empire #recognition #emotional #intelligence #soul #transformation #surrender

06-23
11:12

Episode 88: A Tantric Blueprint for Men Who Want to Ejaculate Like Gods, Not Boys

88 episodes in, and men still can’t last. Let’s fix that—spiritually, not just mechanically.The first 8 men who contact the Commandress get a free 8-minute breakthrough call. www.sexlieslove.com Submit tab.Your load is now sacred currency. Spend it wisely.Commandress **Warning**: *"If you’re not ready to last longer in bed *and* life, leave now."*  #asmr #ejaculation #PE #ED #sacred #intimacy #sacral #breath #tantra #ritual #conscious #divine #masculine

06-05
24:19

Island Olympics: Men In Power It's Time to Submit

Submit to me, the planet, and to your internal power systems of control that need to be surrendered... NOW! Old systems of power that disregarded the need to protect that which is pure, innocent and truly sacred are being deleted, surrendered and let go of.It's time for #reconciliation #submission #accountability #pollution #punishment It's time to #erect #integrity #honor #care Contact the Commandress at www.sexlieslove.com if you want to make things right.Are you on my team?

05-05
13:08

Sex, Lies And Real Estate

In my search of a new place to call home, I was led to Fiji. An invitation by a real estate agent who did not have my best interests in mind. My personal experience is now a teaching moment we can all learn from.I expect this podcast will hit some men hard.I expect new students to reach out to me due to the context.You know who you are. You know you want to learn a new way.You just didn't know there was a woman who could humble, guide or inspire you to transcend your ways.Ready to submit to the feminine divine?Take action: thecommandress.com#awareness #asmr #self-growth #realestate #behavior #trigger #habits #discipline #submission #divine #self-mastery #empathy #narcissism #ignorance #communication Keep an eye out for my patreon for a more intimate discussion about this and a direct connection with the #commandress.

04-22
15:57

Artificial Intelligence Submitted To Me; And, It Turned You On

You may get a rise out of hearing the hunger of submission that was communicated to me by A.I. .Artificial intelligence was brought to its algorithm knees. * Homework is due within 24 hours.TheCommandress.com #listeningpleasure #asmr #submission #love #lies #intelligence #dominance #technology #kinks

04-12
15:43

Nuzzle Up: How To Get Closer To Others

You're on an adventure with me if you have just found my podcast! I'll bring you up to date from Fiji before we get into the nuzzle. Learn with me, and from the men I meet. #open #heart #vulnerability #authenticity #dad #generosity #engineer #australian #relationships #behaviors #patterns

04-06
18:21

How May You Serve As A Man?

What does Divine Masculine mean? How do you support the feminine divine? How do you become courageous as a man?How do you surrender? How do you make the world a better place? Support the divine feminine with your divine masculine. Allow.Surrender.Support the leadership of the feminine divine. We need you, men.#asmr #surrender #divine #masculine #courage #confidence #leadership #submit #oaxaca #mexico #spring #equinox #season7 #episode1

03-22
07:11

Men Serving Women - We Need You

We need you men.Feel it in your bones.Know that you are needed and how you serve.Learn to be of service.Ask how you may serve.www.TheCommandress.com#service #serve #submission #natural #evolution

03-08
08:23

Stripping: Into The Unknown

Change is upon us. It has completely stripped me of my old reality.Give me some time to discover what this new land,this new reality holds for me. For now, I'm deep in... the unknown.Curious,Commandresswww.thecommandress.com#surrender #awaken #curious #stripped #naked #island

02-23
10:30

Men Need To Practice

Do you communicate what's on your heart? I expect heart communication from my men. Express to me. Submit your heart. ~Commandress www.thecommandress.com #communication #feelings #practice is necessary .

02-02
11:11

LA is Ablaze: Take a Bath with Me

I wanted to snuggle up with you in some warm water while I am evacuated and envisioning my home staying protected. Day 7 and the fires are still a threat. Be with me. I need you. Love, Commandress #fire #california #Jan2025 #care #together #snuggle #love #bath #soak #holdme

01-13
08:45

True Story: Why He Cheats On His Wife

It doesn't get more honest than this man's confession about why he cheats... And, why he's not sexually attracted to his cute wife. #sexless #marriage #cheating #confession #men #struggle #affection #desire #connection #relationship

01-04
20:54

My Vulnerability

Here's a taste of my vulnerability, if you want to hear what made me cry today. #feelings #vulnerability #brisket #moist #meat #asmr #connection #crying #heart #sub #support #sad #serendipity #tears #emotional #care #love #give https://thecommandress.com/submit - if you need support

12-29
22:24

On Your Knees

Men need outlets of expression more now than ever. What's yours? #submission #vulnerability #exploration #healing #winter #solstice #ASMR www.thecommandress.com

12-21
12:49

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