Sex, Love & Money with Rebecca Antonucci

Are you tired of dating for partnership but keep being met with non-committed men? Are you trying to date from maturity and a desire for real connection… But keep ending up with emotionally unavailable partners? Then today’s episode is for you. Because there’s a reason you keep bending your standards. There’s a reason you walk away from certain dates feeling flat, disconnected, or even resentful. And there’s a way to stop repeating the same dating experience over and over, without ever giving up on love. Today I’m sharing with you my 3x3 rule that helps me get clear on relationships before I get swept up in our chemistry or our potential. I’m also providing you with the tools to reconnect to what feels true, healthy, and empowering for you in YOUR dating experience. Not what the internet says, not what your friends think, and definitely not what he wants. Together we will cover:  How to pace your dating life so you don’t get so attached so quickly Why “great chemistry” isn’t enough + how to know when it’s time to walk away The question to ask yourself after every disappointing date so that the next one will always be more aligned How to stop second guessing your standards and finally stick to them A new perspective that will help you feel hopeful (and in control) about finding your person …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Ready to break through what’s holding you back and create real transformation? Click this link to book a connection call with my head coach and let's get started. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

What fears does a film maker, content creator and son of a famous American actor still wrestle with… Even with 700k followers? What’s the real story behind the gorgeous, 6’5” man who’s only ever done two interviews? Today Sacred Thomas is sitting down with me to share the version of himself that doesn’t always make it online. The fears he’s working through. The love he wants but is challenged to hold. The mental health story in his family that changed everything. Whether you’re still figuring yourself out, building something online, or trying to show up better in your relationships… there is something in this episode for you. Together we will cover:  Why public speaking makes Sacred nervous - even with a massive online following The surprising way that his father’s fame shaped him (and what people always get wrong) His most vulnerable break up and what it taught him about his avoidant attachment style Why he’s ready to have kids… and the emotional story behind the name he’s already chosen His brother’s schizophrenia, the shame that surrounds mental health and his passion to create true change …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Want more of Sacred? Follow him on IG @sacredthomas or Tik Tok. Ready to break through what’s holding you back and create real transformation? Click this link to book a connection call with my head coach and let's get started. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

TRIGGER WARNING: We speak about suicidal thoughts in this conversation. If this feels tender for you right now, please take care of yourself first. You can reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14. I have a question for you. What would rise to the surface if you finally stopped? Stopped rushing. Stopped working. Stopped doing more. Would you finally feel the thing you’ve been trying to outrun? Brittini Burton spent 8 years on the move, living in vans, working on yachts, and even appearing on Below Deck. But the moment she settled down, everything she had been running from bubbled to the surface. She experienced anxiety, thought loops, suicide ideation… and eventually a dark night. But from the darkness, she built an empire. Today Brittini is the founder of Big Pussy Energy, a movement and sisterhood that reconnected women with their sensuality, vitality and power. And she’s never felt more herself. So if you are a high performing woman who is terrified of stillness, and feels deeply disconnected from herself… Then this episode is for you. Together we cover:  What Big Pussy Energy actually is (and why it’s not what you think) How Brittini built a global brand while in her deepest emotional crisis Why being constantly “on” might look productive but is actually keeping you disconnected The first step to reconnecting with your body (no lingerie, no mirrors, no pressure to perform) Why stepping into a room of women can be so intimidating and how to move through that fear The exact practice Brittini used to build trust in herself and her body Why performance in sex, work, and even self pleasure is draining your power …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Want more of Brittini? Follow along @brittiniburton or join the BPE community @bpecommunity and www.bigpussyenergy.co If you’re interested in joining Brittini’s retreat, it will be on September the 11th - 14th in Austin Texas. Click here if you want to learn more! Ready to break through what’s holding you back and create real transformation? Click this link to book a connection call with my head coach and let's get started. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

If you’re in your 30s and starting to lose faith that love is coming… then this one’s for you. In this raw and very juicy Q&A, I’m sitting down with dating and relationship coach Megan Thoma to answer your BIGGEST questions about dating in your 30s. We’re covering everything from how to stay selective when your heart’s aching for partnership, to navigating boundaries, rejection and how to show up with an open heart to love even when you’ve been hurt before. Stay tuned to hear answer: 06:07 - Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? 09:53 - I know what my boundaries are… but why do I keep saying yes when really I mean no? 12:52 - How do I stop falling for potential? 16:11 - How do I be content being single? 19:23 - Where are all the commitment-ready men and how do I find them? 23:00 - Are my high standards ruining my love life, and how do I know if I’m being too picky? 27:12 - What is the number one reason men lose interest? 29:54 - How do I stay open to love and still protect my heart?  34:17 - Is it okay to make the first move? 36:04 - Should a man always pay on the first date, and what should a woman do if he does not? 40:19 - I stay with my partner because I can’t handle the jealousy of him being with another woman… help! 45:16 - How do I let a man know I’m interested in him without seeming desperate? …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Want more of Megan? Follow her on IG @megan_thoma. Ready to break through what’s holding you back and create real transformation? Click this link to book a connection call with my head coach and let's get started. Book a free call with my team  I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

She scaled an 8 figure business while couch surfing. Business while going through a divorce. Was brought back to life by a 25 year old Calvin Klein model. And is now the happiest she’s ever been. Olivia Steele is the definition of a woman who burned it all down in order to build something better. And this conversation is as juicy, raw, sexy and unapologetic as it gets. This episode is about how pleasure became Olivia’s greatest business strategy. We’re talking all about the link between feeling sexy and being successful, why women should be orgasming before they head into important meetings, how developing relationships with likeminded women has changed her life and SO much more. You’ll hear: The link between asking for what you want in bed… and asking for what you want in business What it looks like to truly lead with your feminine Her theory on why high achieving women feel resentful, disconnected and exhausted What happened when she stopped calling on men for business advice and started reaching out to her sisters instead How she landed a six figure contract when she didn’t even have a house OR a car Why she believes “trying to do it right” is exactly what made her lose herself Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Want more of Olivia? Follow her on IG @livwithluxury, email her at olivia@jadeva.us or learn more about Jadeva here @jadeva.us I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

Back in May, Chris Griffins lost $30k in brand deals, in just four days, because of a reel he uploaded weeks earlier. The video? A  statement about money, providership, and what he believes a man’s role is in a relationship. Watch it here. It was picked up by a major Australian podcaster, stitched and shared, and suddenly… the country turned on him.  Thousands of hate messages. News articles. Debates on The Project.  And yet, Chris says it was the calmest he’s ever felt. So why did I bring him on the podcast? Because women in my world are tired. We’ve built the businesses. Been the providers… and we’re proud of it.  But so many of us are quietly asking: “Do I still want to be the one carrying it all?” This episode isn’t about picking sides in an online debate. It’s about what happens when someone speaks a hard truth out loud and what it takes to stay in your integrity - even when people don’t like it. In this raw and completely unfiltered conversation, we dive into:  How to stay grounded and clear when the internet is tearing you apart The pattern Chris saw in EVERY message he received about the reel (and what he noticed about the women who reacted most strongly) What real safety in a relationship looks like, for BOTH partners Why being neutral or “nice” online might be keeping you invisible… and what to do if you actually want people to care The unexpected reason high achievers struggle to hold onto wealth How Chris reframes “losing everything” as the best thing that ever happened And the mindset that has helped Chris become completely unshakeable. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

You finally hit the number. The income’s flowing.. You’re ticking all of the boxes you thought would make you feel safe, proud, powerful. But instead? You feel like it’s still not enough. You’re working harder… Feeling more pressure… and wondering why you don’t feel how you thought you would. That was me when I made $85k in 4 weeks. And I had my first ever panic attack. So if you're an entrepreneur chasing your first 6 figure, 7 figure, or multi 7 figure year, but are stuck wondering why it still doesn't feel like enough? Then this episode is for you. You’ll hear:  A really vulnerable share on what it actually felt like to make $85k in a month How to make your business feel as good as it looks Why there is a part of you that doesn’t feel safe to grow… and how she’s holding your business back And finally… A reminder that healing your relationship with money is just as important as learning how to make more of it …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

You have the life. The career. For some of you, maybe even the picture perfect family. You’re doing it all - and people are telling you how inspiring you are. That you’re a superwoman. But they don’t know that it’s costing you everything. Today’s episode is one that a lot of high achieving women are going to relate to. That the ideas and lifestyle you strived for, didn’t end up bringing you the happiness and peace you thought it would. So what happens now? Joining me on the podcast is Rayne Bryant: a woman who from the outside, had it all. Married to an Australian footballer. A mother of three. An influencer. The kind of woman people admire for holding it all together. But behind closed doors, she was exhausted.  Now at 42, Rayne is reclaiming her desires and finally stepping into her purpose and her magic. Together we will cover:  The hidden cost of being ‘the strongest one’ in the room How self abandonment shows up (even when you’re think you’re thriving) The physical toll of ignoring your intuition How to let go of an old identity, even when the world doesn’t want you to change What to do when you're scared of being judged for wanting more …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Want more of Rayne? Find her on IG @raynebryantofficial or listen to her podcast The Pursuit of MiSELF on Spotify or Apple. In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

Why do we continue to look past our standards even when we know that it’s a boundary we don’t want to cross? This is an episode I know many of you will relate to. Because even when we know our standards… sometimes we still catch ourselves thinking: Maybe I could look past this He has everything else I’m looking for, maybe this one doesn’t matter Am I asking too much? Maybe this is good enough… This week I’m taking you inside a moment where this happened in my own life very recently - with a story about Mr. South America. But this episode isn’t actually about him. It’s about what I noticed about myself and what it felt like to self-abandon.  And more importantly, I want you to use my experience to reflect on the times you said yes, when really you meant no… and the times you've been tempted to look past what you know to be true for you.  Here’s what I want you to listen for in this episode…  What it sounds and feels like when you’re about to settle… and how to catch it next time the feeling comes up How to recognise the very first red flag (and why it matters to pay attention to it) What it feels like in your body when something isn’t aligned but your head doesn’t know it yet How I’ve learnt to put myself out there without chasing or overgiving Why so many women wait for a man to bring aliveness to their life… and what I do instead to build that feeling for myself …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

Do you feel like you’ve been playing it safe, in love, in business and in life? Are you terrified of losing everything you’ve worked so hard to build, but deep down… You know you’re being called to do things differently? When Preston Smiles was 40 years old, he realised he had spent his whole life playing not to lose. He was calculating, controlling and avoiding failing at all costs. But what happened when he started playing to win? Today Preston is back on the podcast to chat about all things sex, love and money but this time we’re focusing on the mindset shift that allowed him to let go of control, reclaim his freedom and start building from abundance instead of fear. If you missed Preston’s recent episodes with Alexi Panos, the links are below. If this sounds like you… You don’t want to miss this one:  If you are outwardly successful but don’t feel fulfilled If you’ve been waiting for the man, the business, the life and is starting to wonder if you’ve waited too long If you want to go all in, but can’t seem to shake the fear of not being in control Prefer YouTube? Watch here. If you want more of Preston head over to IG @prestonsmiles or listen to our most recent episodes together here: Preston Smiles & Alexi Panos’ Money Stories: How to Build a Life Where Money Flows Easily on Spotify | Apple | YouTube How to Have Wilder, Deeper & More Intimate Sex & Love ft Preston Smiles & Alexi Panos on Spotify | Apple | YouTube In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

You know him for the sex masterclasses. The confidence and the chaos. But on Sex, Love & Money you get to see the version of AJ that the internet doesn’t have access to. Today I’m sitting down with AJ Paps, sex educator with over 9.6 MILLION likes on Tik Tok (@ajpapadatos) to talk about what's going on behind the camera. From creating his own sex toy (buy it here), the investment that lost him his savings, the biggest mistakes people are making that could be keeping them single, and the limiting beliefs he’s had to overcome to create the business that he’s expanding into now … We’re talking about it all. Together we will cover:  How to ask for what you want in the bedroom without triggering your partner The story behind his new sex toy and why it’s unlike anything he’s ever promoted before Why losing his investment was the best thing that ever happened to him If AJ will ever share his relationship online …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. If you missed AJ’s last episodes, go back and watch them here: Exploring the Man Behind the Sex Shop on Spotify | Apple Unlocking the Male Perspective on Pleasure and Desire on Spotify | Apple Are you ready to step into your most confident self AND find a community of like-minded women doing the same? Join us in our next Bali Retreat here. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

Do you feel like your intuition might be speaking… but you’re not sure if it’s real or if it’s just fear? Are you in that uncomfortable in-between where you’re no longer who you were but you just don’t know what’s next? Then this episode is for you. Today, I’m sharing two pivotal moments:  The night I bumped into the man that ghosted me… while I was at dinner with a client. And the day $2000 cash and my bank cards were stolen right out of my villa in Bali, and by someone who I trusted!  Because both of these moments became proof that my intuition was guiding me the whole time.  But this episode isn’t about my story… It’s about helping you to start to hear your own. And to start to trust the inner knowing and feeling of intuition even through intense moments of discomfort.  You will learn:  What it feels like to have intuition flood your body How to stay in the discomfort and sit in the fear without rushing back to safety What to do when you know that where you are isn’t right… but have no idea what’s next The simple way to build trust in your intuition, so it becomes easier to follow each time …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Are you ready to step into your most confident self AND find a community of like-minded women doing the same? Join us in our next Bali Retreat here. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

This episode is for the woman who wants love. Who wants true partnership. Who wants the babies…  And is quietly wondering if it’s too late for her to have it all. Last week I had Jeddy Azuma on the pod to chat about how we can understand men better. If you missed it, queue it up on Spotify, Apple or YouTube because it’s the perfect companion to this episode. Today I’m chatting with Kari Azuma, my nervous system mentor and one of the most powerful women I know, to chat all about dating and relating when you’re scared you’re running out of time. We talk about the ache of longing, the fear of settling, and how to stay connected to your truth when the world is telling you to hurry up and compromise.  Tune in to hear:  How to stop abandoning yourself in dating just to be in partnership What to do when you feel pressure to make the next man “the one” How your nervous system might be tricking you into settling How to stay soft and open without collapsing your needs Why being powerful doesn’t mean being alone forever …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Listen to Kari’s previous episodes on Raw, Real & Vulnerable here: It’s Never too Late to Start Doing Nervous System Work on Spotify | Apple How to Know What Your Boundaries Are + What Your Body Does When They’re Crossed on Spotify | Apple Healing Your Nervous System and Reclaiming Your Power on Spotify | Apple Want more of Kari? Head over to IG @kariazuma or www.kariazuma.com   In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

You’ve done the work. You’re ready for love. But why does it feel like you’re doing all the emotional lifting? What is going on inside the minds, and hearts of the men in our lives? Today I’m sitting down with Jeddy Azuma, a men’s coach, a rite of passage facilitator, and the husband of my nervous system mentor, Kari Azuma. Jeddy works with men to help them become leaders in their own lives, but what I love most is how grounded, open and emotionally intelligent Jeddy is. This episode isn’t about pitying men, or fixing them. It’s about understanding them so that we can stop projecting, blaming and emasculating, and start to shift how we are relating to the men in our lives. We talk about:  What emotional safety actually looks like for men (and why it’s different to what we’re taught) Why a man’s silence isn’t always what you think it is PLUS how to stop making it mean something about you The subtle ways we’re disempowering our men even when we think we’re helping The difference between inviting a man into his potential and dragging him there What to do when you’ve your work… but your partner isn’t there yet …and so much more. Don’t miss next week’s episode because this time I’m chatting with Kari Azuma.  Prefer YouTube? Watch here. Want more of Jeddy? Follow him on IG @jeddyazuma or learn more about The Rising Man Movement at www.risingman.org or on IG @risingmanmovement. In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci

Have you ever felt like if people knew the real you… they’d walk away? Have you ever carried something so heavy inside, it convinced you that you were unworthy of love? Today’s episode is centered around facing the parts of you that you’re scared to let others see and taking BACK your internal power. I’m using my most recent dating experiences to walk you through the shifts you can make to stop living in fear of rejection and finally feel safe, loved, and fully seen for who you are. If you have the herpes virus then you’re going to want to stick around to the end because I’m also coaching you through one of my most commonly asked questions… “How can I expect anyone to accept me with the herpes virus, if I would never have accepted someone with this?” But this episode isn’t just about dating with HSV. It’s for anyone that feels like there’s something in their past, their personality, or even their fears that makes them unlovable.  Together we will cover:  The emotional difference between a preference and a boundary and why confusing the two is keeping you stuck The single mindset shift that broke my cycle of attracting the wrong kind of partner What dating could look like for you when you finally rid yourself of the guilt and shame My current tinder bio that I’m using to call in my husband …and so much more. Prefer YouTube? Watch here. 🎧 Herpes Spotify Playlist is here. Are you ready to break free from the shame you feel about herpes and start to feel empowered? I’ve created a Spotify playlist that holds all of my herpes-related episodes. This is a space for you to learn and heal so whether it’s for you, or someone you know who needs support, save my playlist so you can return to it when you need it. In 2017, I walked into the Bridge Experience and my whole life changed. If you’re ready to disrupt your old habits, own your voice and power, start showing up as a leader… then join us in Austin, Texas this July or October. Make sure to use my exclusive podcast only discount code SEXLOVE&MONEY at thebridgemethod.org to save yourself 20% off enrolment. I’ll see you there. I get SO lit up by every single conversation I have with my community. 💜 If you loved this episode, screenshot it, tag me, and come and say hi on Instagram @rebecca.antonucci