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Author: Emily Morse, Doctor of Human Sexuality - SexWithEmily.com

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Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily by emailing feedback@sexwithemily.com. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com.
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Hot Summer Sex

Hot Summer Sex

2021-06-1541:291

Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure your sex life follows suit. In this episode, I’m sharing ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. I also answer your questions, like how to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties, where to (safely) have sex in public, how to navigate a friends-with-benefits relationship, and what to do with penis anxiety if your partner plays with a toy bigger than you. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Bellesa, Magic Wand, Green Chef, System Jo Show Notes: Yes No Maybe List Je Joue Mimi Soft Vibrator Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator Emily’s Vesper Vibrating Necklace Je Joue Mio Penis Ring b-Vibe System Jo Lubricants Foria: Premium CBD Products Dame Hands-Free Eva Dame Finger Vibe  Episode: Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex w/ Dr. Ian Kerner Bellesa Ethical Porn Feeld Dating FetLife #Open For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction. I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Dame, Yarlap, Foria, Jordan Harbinger   Show Notes: Bellesa - Ethical Porn Yes No Maybe List Je Joue Uma G-Spot Vibrator Je Joue G-Spot Bullet Vibrator Glass Dildos at Good Vibrations For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
In this episode, I’m taking more of your most pressing questions from the Sex With Emily hotline. We’re covering what to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man), if your birth control is tanking your sex drive, why bisexual men are often shamed, how to bring back intimacy after a baby, and what to do if your partner won’t share their sexual desires. Inspired to ask for my opinion? Call and leave a voicemail with your question! You can reach me at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). Can’t wait to hear from you! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Jordan Harbinger, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
On today’s show, I am joined by activist, author, and queer commentator Jeffrey Marsh to discuss all things gender. Regardless of how you identify, Jeffrey’s radical self-acceptance will help you to gain a new perspective, have a different understanding of yourself and allow you to stop any negative self-talk. Jeffrey breaks down the difference between confidence self-acceptance, how fearlessly demanding respect from others frees you up to fully be yourself, and their experience as the first openly non-binary person on television. We share the basics of gender pronouns, the difference between being trans and non-binary, how gender differs from sexual orientation, and how parents can support their children regardless of their identity. We also dive into Jeffrey’s book How to Be You, what happens during meditation and self-care journeys, and why learning to ask for what you need is crucial for healthy relationships. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Bellesa, Promescent, Yarlap, Magic Wand For more information about Jeffrey Marsh (they/them), visit: http://jeffreymarsh.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
On today’s Best of episode, I am joined by renowned biological anthropologist and author of Anatomy of Love, Dr. Helen Fisher. We discuss whether love at first sight is possible, how our personality traits shape our attraction to others and the way our biology influences who we love. We dive into the parts of your brain responsible for your sex drive, romantic love, and deep attachment. Dr. Fisher also shares findings from studies she has done with Match to answer the question: why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? We also explore the best age to marry, why orgasms create connection, the importance of space in a relationship and why casual sex is not really so casual (hint: catching feelings is real). You can take Dr. Fisher’s personality test to learn about how your personality impacts who you love and how you bond. Take Dr. Fisher’s Personality Test here: https://theanatomyoflove.com/relationship-quizzes/helen-fishers-personality-test/ Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Je Joue, Foria, System Jo, Good Vibrations For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
In this episode, I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it!  Your questions include: what to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible. You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).   Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Pill Club, Foria, Magic Wand For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com   Show Notes: Yes, No, Maybe List https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Article: How To Have Sex in a Full House https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-sex-when-youre-in-a-full-house/ Logan Ury Episode: https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-not-die-alone-w-logan-ury/
Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving. Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives. Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.) Also, how does all the endless scrolling affect your confidence? I offer advice on how to manage the relationship with your phone, so you can stop the “compare and despair” mindset and build stronger relationships with yourself and others. A special thanks to our interns, Maria and Erica, who helped produce this episode. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Modern Fertility, Match.com, System Jo For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Today I’m joined by meditation teacher, speaker, and author Light Watkins to share how we can better practice mindfulness in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss how meditation can transform relationships, reduce stress, and allow you to be more present during all areas of your life—including sex. Plus, we’re sharing easy hacks to curate a meditation routine, how you can cultivate happiness and fulfillment, and why training your brain is important to your overall well-being. Light also shares the ways that sex is similar to meditation, the importance of following your intuition, how to foster true positive change, and the best ways to maintain a gratitude practice. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: System Jo, OSEA, Meater, JeJoue For more information about Light Watkins, visit: https://www.lightwatkins.com/ For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Masturbation w/ Emily

Masturbation w/ Emily

2021-05-1846:04

It’s the most wonderful time of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s show, I’m honoring a month of self-love by giving you a brief history of the celebration (no, I didn’t make it up), the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys for bringing you pleasure all year long. Plus, I’m answering your questions like what to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator, why masturbation may be your key to success if you keep orgasm blocking yourself in the bedroom, signs that you’re masturbating too much and how to get rid of religious shame surrounding masturbation. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Promescent: http://bit.ly/2Tih9p4 Function of Beauty: https://bit.ly/32Rt4kj Match.com: https://www.match.com   Show Notes: Mutual Masturbation Guide: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/   The Psychology and Shame of Masturbation: https://sexwithemily.com/psychology-and-shame-of-masturbation/   Je Joue Mimi Clitoral Vibe, G-Spot Vibe, Bullet Vibe, & Mio Penis Ring: http://www.sexwithemily.com/jejoue   Magic Wand: http://bit.ly/2UqVf38   Tenga Egg Masturbators: http://bit.ly/2hNwnDe   Foria Lube: https://bit.ly/3rJFggP     For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit https://sexwithemily.com
On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date. Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Foria, Match.com, Promescent Show Notes: Pat Allen - Getting To I Do Kink.com Bellesa For more information about Nikki Glaser, visit: nikkiglaser.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner. We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.” Show Notes: Yes No Maybe List Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Magic Wand, System Jo, Yarlap For more information about Dr. Megan Stubbs, visit: sexologistmegan.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
I’m joined by board-certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman to talk about virtually every penis topic there is and explore how overcoming your penis challenges can boost your sex life. He even shares some cautionary tales about penis fractures when your partner is on top. We discuss the most common penis challenges (low testosterone, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction) and ways to work through them, how to get your brain on board when you’re dealing with performance anxiety, and how a penis implant actually works. Dr. Karpman also breaks down the pivotal role testosterone plays in your sex life, how his patients think about their penis size and the benefits and drawbacks of pills that treat erectile dysfunction. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Foria, OSEA, Magic Wand, Promescent For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Today I’m joined by the fabulous and entertaining hosts of The LadyGang; Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jac Vanek. We set intentions together and give recipes for feeling sexy after the pandemic, ways to give a killer bj (without it feeling like well, a job), and the different kinds of desire. Plus, I share the best ways to clean your sex toys, my most common listener questions, and what happens when TSA pulls your bag full of vibrators. I also answer your questions about alleviating pain during sex, how to let your partner know you have been faking your orgasms, and what’s actually happening when you squirt. Show Notes: UVee Home Play Strokers Magic Wand System Jo Flavored Lube Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Modern Fertility, Pill Club, Good Vibrations, For more information about LadyGang, visit: theladygang.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com  
Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), to tips to enhance pleasure and the wide variety of things to try while you’re back there, we’ve got you covered. I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom. for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Foria, Jordan Harbinger Podcast   For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com  
On today’s Best Of roundup, I break down attitudes about oral sex, the oral double standard, the evolutionary significance of oral sex, how to overcome vibrator intimidation, tips for alleviating delayed ejaculation, ways to combat sexual insecurities, and what to do when you’ve given up on having an orgasm (hint: don’t give up). I also discuss how to address mismatched libidos in a relationship, tips for getting ready for anal play, how feeling pressure to initiate and perform can affect the quality of your sex life, and the best ways to approach potential partners. Show notes: FAQ: How Can I Get Better at Oral Sex? 6 Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a Vulva Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: OSEA, Jordan Harbinger, Function of Beauty For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Renowned clinical sex therapist and best-selling author, Ian Kerner Ph.D. joins me today to talk about sex scripts, why fantasies are important for a relationship, the dynamics of kink, porn as “homework” and how to get into a flow state during sex. Dr. Kerner is the author of the legendary book She Comes First, “the thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman” and he just released a new book So, Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. We cover a lot in this interview including what has changed in his last 20+ years as a practicing sex therapist. Hint: erectile dysfunction in younger men is real. Dr. Kerner (“the man who made oral sex into an art form”) walks us through his latest book and explains how you can decode and rewrite your relationship’s sex script and bring your erotic self into the bedroom to transform your sex life. We discuss the importance of psychological arousal, what happens to your body during the honeymoon phase, when to challenge the monogamy script, what to do when there is a “desire discrepancy” in a relationship and so much more. “When it comes to sex and relationship problems, many of us are leading lives of quiet desperation. Sometimes you can be lying in bed next to someone and feel a million miles apart. Talking about sex and relationships is hard, but self-silencing can be even harder in the long run.” – Dr. Kerner Show Notes: Ian's New Book: So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex Getting Cliterate w/ Dr. Ian Kerner Rosemary Basson Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. The Kinsey Institute Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Foria, Jordan Harbinger For more information about Ian Kerner, visit: IanKerner.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Happy 4/20! I’m joined by badass medicine woman, spiritual mentor, and rap priestess Lizzy Jeff to break down how cannabis can elevate your bedroom experiences. We discuss how to use THC and CBD for sex, the importance of getting high with intention, the necessity for healing sexual experiences, and why high sex is hot AF. We also share how to find the best strains and doses for users of all experience levels, the importance of quality cannabis, our OWN relationships to weed+sex, and how “sex magick” can transform your life. Plus, we answer your questions about whether or not marijuana can improve orgasms, cottonmouth (not fun for oral), and how to shift your energy out of your head and into your body. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, OSEA, Songfinch, For more information about Lizzy Jeff, visit: lizzyjeff.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Visualize Your Vulva

Visualize Your Vulva

2021-04-1751:455

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by four guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, the importance of strengthening your pelvic floor, WTF is up with menopause, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting. Next, we have MaryEllen Reider, from Yarlap, who joins me to talk about the importance of the pelvic floor muscles. Did you know that stronger pelvic floor muscles can make stronger orgasms? It’s true! Finally, the founder of Tabu, Natalie Waltz, and her mother, Ouhoud Dabbas help me demystify menopause and discuss how masturbation can help increase your libido. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Jordan Harbinger Podcast, Magic Wand For more information about Dr. Sherry, visit: drsherry.com For more information about MaryEllen Reider & Yarlap, visit: yarlap.com For more information about Natalie Waltz & Ouhoud Dabbas, visit: heytabu.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
The brain is the largest and most important sex organ. So on today’s Best Of, I’m joined by one of the world experts on optimal brain performance, Jim Kwik. We talk about how to sharpen and focus your memory (no more forgetting your anniversary), specific steps to activate a healthy brain, and the best foods to give your brain a boost. You’ll be able to follow along as we walk through very specific, impactful, and easy to learn exercises you can use right away –– because a big, healthy brain is always sexy. For more on Jim Kwik visit jimkwik.com Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Promescent, Modern Fertility For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner. We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Foria, Yarlap For more information about Dr. Ina Park, visit: inapark.net For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
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beav909

Yeah, Hillary's so smart she stayed with an abusive cheater who palled around with Weinstein and Epstein.

May 9th
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beav909

I guess it's ok for one of your friends to talk about "grabbing ****y".

Mar 9th
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beav909

The banter with Anderson is tiring.

Jan 19th
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ERENHAN ÇOBAN

how is it get feels the oral sex I don't know but I wanna do it with my wife when we get married. But I don't know she agree, I am shy to ask her about this topic. Could you recommend to me something?

Jan 2nd
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Claudia Prinsloo-Rempel

Emily trying to talk the dude into the hand job was super fucking awkward and gross.

Dec 8th
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Nick Betraun

Anderson should've known the movie "That's My Boy" had a blackout masterbation scene.

Dec 5th
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Mallory Conklin

I think for a woman it's also really hard to let a man down & say "I'm not interested". They breadcrumb because they'll feel bad rejecting others. that's just my opinion

Oct 15th
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beav909

Good Lord, does Menace ever shut his mouth?

Sep 28th
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Nicole Bonacci

what if u are not comfortable playing with ur self

Sep 23rd
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Nicole Bonacci

what if u are not comfortable playing with ur self

Sep 22nd
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beav909

Menace proves his douchebagginess!

Sep 18th
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beav909

Honesty, Menace ruins the show. The dude sounds like a douchebag.

Sep 17th
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beav909

I just started listening to this and started at the beginning....at least as far back as is available on Castbox. I've listened to only 25 or 30 episodes so far. I enjoy it but Menace is a downer and I keep hoping she dumps him from the show.

Sep 14th
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Tom Parisi

love your podcast Dr. Emily. I do need to send you an emsil

Aug 12th
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CHYNA HOPKINS

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Aug 11th
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Scoutk Bartholomew

No one fishes thinking it's going to get them laid.

Aug 5th
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masked Marlin

I think I might be a guy stuck in a lesbians body. for many reasons but one being I pay attention to matching panties and bra and what there wearing trying to be sexy. so if any girl it there says there lesbian but still wants to he with a man to bring home to mom I'm you're guy I guess lol

Jun 3rd
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masked Marlin

ya he's got deep seeded issues

Jun 3rd
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Joey Ratto

hi Emily the retreats that you talked about with some of your guests and from your own experiences sound amazing. I am wondering if there are any that are structured in the same way but focused on males.

May 24th
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Dustin Bushart

were you guys having sex doing the show?

May 22nd
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