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Author: Emily Morse, Doctor of Human Sexuality - SexWithEmily.com

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Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily by emailing feedback@sexwithemily.com. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com.
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The brain is the largest and most important sex organ. So on today’s Best Of, I’m joined by one of the world experts on optimal brain performance, Jim Kwik. We talk about how to sharpen and focus your memory (no more forgetting your anniversary), specific steps to activate a healthy brain, and the best foods to give your brain a boost. You’ll be able to follow along as we walk through very specific, impactful, and easy to learn exercises you can use right away –– because a big, healthy brain is always sexy. For more on Jim Kwik visit jimkwik.com Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Promescent, Modern Fertility For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner. We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Foria, Yarlap For more information about Dr. Ina Park, visit: inapark.net For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Fire Up Your Flirting

Fire Up Your Flirting

2021-04-0748:212

After a year of social distancing, many of us have forgotten how to flirt and date IRL. The good news: with a little practice, you’ll be stronger and sexier than ever before. In this episode, I cover the lessons we’ve learned from a year of isolation and digital dating and I also take a look at what might be in store for us in the year ahead. I walk you through how to regain confidence, uplevel your flirting skills, and important questions to ask yourself before jumping back out there. I also answer questions about what to know when considering a “friend with benefits” arrangement, how to prepare for sex after a dry spell, getting back with an ex, and dating post-divorce. Show Notes: Love Language quiz Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Talkspace, Good Vibrations For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
What if the euphoric bliss from an orgasm was captured in other moments of your daily life? Whether you’re eating a meal or spending time outside, prioritizing sensuality helps you start to experience what today’s guests like to call “orgasmic living.” I’m joined by the creators of Afrosexology, Dalychia Saah and Rafaella Fiallo who join me to discuss the power of this life-changing concept. Their mission is to empower, educate and explore Black sexuality and self-improvement through sexual liberation. We discuss their journey into creating Afrosexology, the importance of embodiment, the power of centering pleasure and being intentional in the present moment. We also demystify different aspects of kink, polyamory, and compersion, so that you can see if any of these are things you’d want to add to your sex life. Plus, we answer your questions about prioritizing your pleasure as much as your partner’s and feeling more connected during and after sexual experiences. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Foria, Good Vibrations, Promescent For more information about Dalychia Saah & Rafaella Fiallo , visit: afrosexology.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Lube It or Leave It

Lube It or Leave It

2021-03-3051:093

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a million times: there should be a bottle of lube (or more) on every nightstand. I mean, seriously just a few drops can transform your sex and amplify the amount of pleasure. But, it can be difficult to know what kind of lube is best suited for you and your needs. On today’s show, I break down the best lubes for masturbation, anal, penetrative, and oral sex. I share the results of our Better Sex Survey sponsored by Pjur Lube. I cover products that are safe for a vagina’s PH and some household items that are better kept in the kitchen than inside of you. I also discuss what your wetness really means, the transformation lube can have with discomfort during sex, how sex increases intimacy between you and your partner, and how penis size can change with an erection. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Tabu, Promescent For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Ahh, the honeymoon phase. You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones. I answer your questions about what to do when your partner asks you to be in a threesome but it’s not your fantasy, how to communicate to your partner that their Instagram habits make you uncomfortable, and what to do when you feel like you have become more friends than lovers with your significant other. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Muse, Good Vibrations, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship. We discuss how ‘dealbreakers’ may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark’ may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you’re not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, OSEA, Yarlap For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Sex can get stale but today I focus on ways to keep it fresh. In this Best Of episode, I share some sex hacks that bring back spontaneity in easy and creative ways. I share new uses for pillows, ideas for games you can play anywhere, and tricks to make doggy-style even better. I answer your questions about how to know if you should end a long-distance relationship, why prostate orgasms feel so good, and what to do if your partner’s porn habits lead to problems in the bedroom. Thank you for supporting our sponsor who helps keep this show FREE: Arcwave For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
What’s your biggest fantasy? It might be watching your partner with someone else, group sex, or sex in a public place. All answers are welcome because there’s no shame in your fantasy game! In this episode, I discuss the psychology behind your fantasies, how to bring them up with a partner and why having a rich fantasy life is an important part of your overall sexual health. Then I reveal the top fantasies you shared with me on Instagram. I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Womanizer, Adam & Eve, Yarlap Show Notes: Podcast with Justin Lehmiller Dating apps: Craigslist, Feeld, OkCupid, FetLife, Adult Friend Finder, #Open Yes, No, Maybe List Tips For Better Communication Free Guide For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Touch Me, Please

Touch Me, Please

2021-03-1241:332

How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Quarantine has caused many of us to experience a “starvation diet” of physical touch and now it’s to feast. The lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety or depression, on today’s show I’ll share how you can find more touch and intimacy in your daily life. I also answer questions about how to get back out there and date while newly sober, how to bring the excitement back in a sexless relationship, and how to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom. Show Notes: Yes, No, Maybe list Pleasure Planner Frequently Asked Sex Questions Womanizer Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Arcwave, Talkspace, Magic Wand For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his new book Your Brain is Always Listening. We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. I also answer your Rapid Fire questions covering everything from tips for hotter shower sex to bring up your kink to a partner. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Honey, Good Vibrations Show notes: Find out which dragons you have here: KnowYourDragons.com Order Dr. Amen’s latest book Your Brain Is Always Listening here: YourBrainIsAlwaysListening.com For more information about Dr. Daniel Amen, visit: danielamenmd.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Your masturbation class is in session. In today’s episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure. I answer your questions about how to try masturbation when you never have, which sex toys to use, and the magic of mutual masturbation. I get into the tricky relationship between shame and fantasy and discuss how often you should masturbate in a relationship—it’s probably more than you think! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Muse, Tabu, Promescent For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
In this Sex With Emily best of, I’m joined by sex and intimacy coach John Wineland to discuss the driving force behind attraction, sexual connection, and desire.  We discuss the polarity of masculine and feminine energy, what symbolic aspects of anal make it so hot, how to build attraction from the inside out, and give tools to enhance connection. We also get into your questions like why the urge to have an affair can be so strong, how to know if there is enough sexual chemistry to pursue a second date, and what to do to bring sex back into your long-term relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Arcwave, Magic Wand, Muse For more information about John Wineland, visit: johnwineland.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Setting boundaries within your relationships is not only necessary—it’s hot AF. In today’s episode, psychological astrologer, therapist, and sex educator Dr. Jennifer Freed joins me to discuss how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. We discuss the definition and different types of boundaries (including sexual and financial), what makes them important, how they affect our sex life, and why they might be difficult for some folks to create. We also dive into your email questions like how to avoid drama when you’re the third in a threesome relationship, how to let someone know you’re not into them without ghosting, if talking to escorts is considered cheating, and what to do if your partner is more interested in meeting their sexual desires than yours. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Tabu, Yarlap, Good Vibrations, For more information about Dr. Jennifer Freed, visit: jenniferfreed.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Do you remember your first time? It could be your first date, first threesome, first orgasm, or your first time experimenting with a new position. No matter what it is, any “first” experience can feel intimidating, but I’m here to help eliminate any fear that might be holding you back. I answer questions about how to navigate first-time experiences: having sex, getting on a dating app, performing oral sex, trying anal play, and other adventures. Whether it’s your first time or you want to expand your sexual repertoire, this episode will encourage you to try something new and sexy. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Muse, Good Vibrations, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Ever want to know what really goes down in your girlfriend’s group chat? Today you’ll find out when I’m joined by Chelsea, Glynn, and Sade, the hosts of the popular much talked about Black Girls Texting. We explore sex dreams, what it’s like to have a threesome with your best friend, and the art of sending nudes. We answer questions and discuss cultural stereotypes, manscaping, pre-gaming sex, and the power of setting sexual intentions. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Honey, Yarlap For more information about Black Girls Texting (Chelsea, Glynn, Sade), visit: blackgirlstexting.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Breakups! They can be painful. Losing a partner can feel like a mini-death, especially if you’ve spent time planning a future together. In this episode, I give my top tips for how to cope with a breakup and reground yourself. If you are struggling to move on after a breakup, following even one of these steps will help you recover. I also answer your questions with tips for giving better oral sex, sexy gift recommendations for long-distance relationships, and communication tools for expressing your emotional and sexual needs. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Muse, Promescent, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Ever wonder why you’re not having more sex? Well, wonder no more. This episode identifies the 6 most common roadblocks to sex. Whether you’re too stressed to get too turned on or too self-conscious to get naked, we all have barriers that hold us back from sex and pleasure. In this episode, I’m sharing specific tips so you can overcome the most common sexual barriers. I also answer your questions including what to do if your wetness level is inconsistent during sex, the relationship between OnlyFans and cheating, how to handle a jealous partner, and what to do if your partner has a fetish but lockdown has made it more challenging. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Talkspace, Emily's Vesper, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Here’s the secret formula to better sex: prioritize it! In this episode, we’re talking all about sex success stories and how taking just one step can take your sex life from static to ecstatic. From finding closure with an ex to trying out swinging and finding it works and looking for sex after a life of not having any, each of these people has taken a big step towards changing their lives. Get inspired to create your own sex-cess story. I also answer questions about what to do if your boyfriend won’t communicate openly with you about your sex life, how to be more confident rocking the cowgirl position, and what to do if mismatched libidos are making you feel insecure in your relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Muse, Adam & Eve, Tabu, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
V-Day is right around the corner! Whether you’re living your best single life or you have a special someone, I want to set you up to have a sexy, love-filled day. In this episode, I’m sharing some of my hot tips for creating the ideal date night—regardless of who it’s with. I cover everything from toy recommendations to thoughtful personal gifts you can give yourself or a loved one. I also answer questions about how to prep for anal sex, how to get back into dating in your 40s, and why wetness doesn’t always equal arousal. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Adam & Eve, Promescent, For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
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beav909

I guess it's ok for one of your friends to talk about "grabbing ****y".

Mar 9th
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beav909

The banter with Anderson is tiring.

Jan 19th
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ERENHAN ÇOBAN

how is it get feels the oral sex I don't know but I wanna do it with my wife when we get married. But I don't know she agree, I am shy to ask her about this topic. Could you recommend to me something?

Jan 2nd
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Claudia Prinsloo-Rempel

Emily trying to talk the dude into the hand job was super fucking awkward and gross.

Dec 8th
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Nick Betraun

Anderson should've known the movie "That's My Boy" had a blackout masterbation scene.

Dec 5th
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Mallory Conklin

I think for a woman it's also really hard to let a man down & say "I'm not interested". They breadcrumb because they'll feel bad rejecting others. that's just my opinion

Oct 15th
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beav909

Good Lord, does Menace ever shut his mouth?

Sep 28th
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Nicole Bonacci

what if u are not comfortable playing with ur self

Sep 23rd
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Nicole Bonacci

what if u are not comfortable playing with ur self

Sep 22nd
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beav909

Menace proves his douchebagginess!

Sep 18th
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beav909

Honesty, Menace ruins the show. The dude sounds like a douchebag.

Sep 17th
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beav909

I just started listening to this and started at the beginning....at least as far back as is available on Castbox. I've listened to only 25 or 30 episodes so far. I enjoy it but Menace is a downer and I keep hoping she dumps him from the show.

Sep 14th
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Tom Parisi

love your podcast Dr. Emily. I do need to send you an emsil

Aug 12th
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Aug 11th
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Scoutk Bartholomew

No one fishes thinking it's going to get them laid.

Aug 5th
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masked Marlin

I think I might be a guy stuck in a lesbians body. for many reasons but one being I pay attention to matching panties and bra and what there wearing trying to be sexy. so if any girl it there says there lesbian but still wants to he with a man to bring home to mom I'm you're guy I guess lol

Jun 3rd
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masked Marlin

ya he's got deep seeded issues

Jun 3rd
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Joey Ratto

hi Emily the retreats that you talked about with some of your guests and from your own experiences sound amazing. I am wondering if there are any that are structured in the same way but focused on males.

May 24th
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Dustin Bushart

were you guys having sex doing the show?

May 22nd
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Scoutk Bartholomew

Please Emily, take a breath.

May 15th
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