Sexology

Welcome to Episode 413 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined by Soleil Merroir a certified sex therapist, supervisor, and sex worker, who brings a rare perspective on the intersection of therapy and sex work. Soleil opens up about her journey from a strict upbringing in a fundamentalist Christian cult to becoming a clinical social worker who integrates her professional identities as both a therapist and sex worker. This unique blend of experiences informs her work and advocacy for sex worker rights and mental health care improvements.Angie/ Soleil (she/ they) is a licensed clinical social worker, AASECT certified sex therapist and supervisor, group facilitator, and sex worker. While their sex therapy and sex work clientele never overlap, a similar wealth of psychological, emotional and erotic knowledge integrates into every aspect of their work. Soleil strives to combine technology and sexuality efficiently and creatively, including sex tech and VR/ XR intersections, as well as digital teaching, client and play offerings. In addition to sexuality, they are a new mom, and love art, music, dance, nature, cultural exploration and learning Spanish.In this episode, you will hear:·      Soleil Miroir's Background and Journey·      Understanding Sex Work and Its Diversity·      Personal Experiences and Empowerment in Sex Work·      Navigating Dual Identities·      Challenges and Misconceptions in Therapy·      Systemic Oppression and Its Impact·      Equitable Care Certification·      Supporting Sex Workers and Advocacy·      Creating Equitable Care CertificationGet Your Sex Bucket ListFollow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Our Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 412 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to have Suzannah Weiss with us today as we delve into her powerful new book, Subjectified. In this episode, we explore the book’s central themes, focusing on empowering women to reclaim their sexuality and self-determination. Suzannah also shares her personal journey of healing from an eating disorder, a struggle intricately linked to societal pressures around sexualization.Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. In this episode, you will hear:·      Reflecting on ‘Subjectified’: A Discussion on Body and Identity·      How Societal Standards Influence Self-Perception and Self-Worth·      Reconnecting With and Celebrating the Body·      Examining the Male Gaze and Its Effect on Women’s Body Image·      Healing Through Self-Acceptance and Embracing Body Positivity·      Challenging and Redefining Harmful Beauty Norms·      Navigating Media’s Role in Shaping Self-Perception·      Embracing Authenticity in Personal Appearance Choices·      Advice for Nurturing Personal Sexual EmpowermentIncrease Your Libido Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Our Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 411 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m excited to have Dr. Avrum Weiss joining us today. Dr. Weiss is a psychologist, author, and speaker, known for his work on men's emotional experiences and fears in relationships, and his latest book, Hidden In Plain Sight: How Men’s Fears of Women Shape Their Intimate Relationships. In this episode, we explore the complex and often misunderstood fears that heterosexual men experience in relationships, especially when it comes to showing vulnerability. Drawing from his background as a psychotherapist, Dr. Weiss shares how deeply these fears are rooted in early life and shaped by societal messages about masculinity. We discuss everything from evolutionary influences and the role of early maternal attachment to the cultural pressures men face. Dr. Weiss offers practical strategies, including the value of men’s groups, to help foster emotional openness. We also look at how understanding these fears can create more empathy between partners and lead to stronger, more resilient relationships. In this episode, you will hear:·      Insights From Dr. Weiss's Book·      The Roots of Men’s Fears in Relationships·      A Look at the Still Face Experiment·      Evolutionary Views on Male Vulnerability·      Concerns About Control and Abandonment·      How Masculinity is Culturally Reinforced·      Therapeutic Approaches and Support Groups·      Why Taking Risks and Embracing Vulnerability Matters FREE Foreplay Checklist Ideas Follow Us on Instagram Podcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to Episode 410 of the Sexology Podcast! I’m thrilled to be joined today by Dr. Elliot Justin, Founder and CEO of FirmTech. In this conversation, we explore Dr. Justin’s inspiring journey - from launching FirmTech to developing innovative, sophisticated solutions for men’s sexual health. We’ll also explore the creation of his breakthrough product, a cutting-edge and remarkably comfortable cock ring designed to support both function and comfort.Dr. Justin is an Emergency Medicine (EM) specialist and healthcare technology consultant in erectile neuromodulation, cardiovascular disease, and diabetes. He spent 25 years practicing EM and directing ERs. In 2004, he started the second oldest telemedicine company, SwiftMD. In 2008, he established Pegasus Emergency Group, an EM company that staffed more than 30 ERs nationwide and won awards for its customer service. Dr. Justin has founded six healthcare companies and exited four of them, as well advising as several service, telemedicine, and tech startups. In this episode, you will hear:·       Innovative Approaches to Men’s Sexual Health·       The Benefits of Regular Sexual Activity·       Navigating Challenges in Sexual Health Conversations·       Addressing Ejaculation Concerns·       Impact of Medications and Illness on Sexual Health·       Cock Rings: Uses and Benefits·       Objective Measurements for Men's Health·       Counseling’s Role in Sexual Health·       Managing Performance Anxiety and Relationship Issues·       Adding Variety to Sexual Experiences·       Addressing Erectile Dysfunction Over 50Thank you to our sponsor FirmTech! Their incredible TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the FirmTech MaxPR, their non-tech ring, enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”FREE Foreplay Checklist IdeasFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 409 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Gabriela Rosa. In this conversation, we discuss the often-overlooked issue of male fertility, highlighting the need for comprehensive diagnostic approaches and lifestyle changes.Gabriela Rosa is a fertility specialist, reproductive health educator, and Harvard University-awarded scholar and an accomplished and experienced business leader and entrepreneur. Gabriela created the world’s first entirely virtual and holistic fertility clinic. As the founder and CEO of The Rosa Institute, which currently serves patients in every continent (other than Antarctica), Gabriela leads a team of holistic specialists.Her treatment methodology has become an authority in its industry for identifying and addressing biochemical obstacles that guide couples in overcoming infertility and recurrent miscarriage, despite previous reproductive difficulties and failed treatments. Through various programs, Gabriela and her team have educated over 140,000 couples in more than 110 countries. She is also the host of the TalkSex with Gabriela RosaTM podcast.In this episode, you will hear:·       Personal Fertility Journey·       Challenges in Male Fertility·       Systemic Issues in Fertility Treatments·       Importance of Comprehensive Testing·       Personal Experiences and Insights·       Male Fertility: Key Factors and Recommendations·       Case Studies and Success StoriesThank you to our sponsor FirmTech! Their incredible TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the FirmTech MaxPR, their non-tech ring, enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”FREE Foreplay Checklist IdeasFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 408 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Justin Birckbichler. In this conversation, we discuss his personal journey with testicular cancer. Justin shares the importance of self-examination, recounts his diagnosis at 25, and the subsequent emotional and physical challenges.Justin Birckbichler is the Director of Project Management at Savvy Cooperative, an innovative healthcare platform that connects patients with healthcare companies to provide valuable insights and feedback. In this role, Justin oversees the planning, implementation, and tracking of multiple projects that aim to empower patients to share their experiences and knowledge with the healthcare industry. As a survivor of testicular cancer, he started the blog "A Ballsy Sense of Tumor" to share his story and raise awareness about men’s health issues. He has further spread his message by performing a TEDx talk on the importance of early detection of testicular cancer. Outside of the health field, Justin enjoys spending time with his family, traveling, and cooking.In this episode, you will hear:·       Discovering Testicular Cancer·       Diagnosis and Immediate Actions·       Emotional Impact and Coping Mechanisms·       Prevalence and Awareness of Testicular Cancer·       Fertility Concerns and Solutions·       Using Humor to Cope·       Encouraging Men to Prioritize HealthThank you to our sponsor FirmTech! Their incredible TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the FirmTech MaxPR, their non-tech ring, enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 407 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Justin Houman. In this conversation, we discuss the often overlooked issue of delayed orgasm in men. Dr. Houman explains the primary causes, including aging, erectile dysfunction, and mental factors, and provides insights into the differentiation between physiological and psychological issues.Dr. Justin Houman is a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist, whose practice is focused on men’s health, include male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, Peyronie’s disease, and male incontinence.  Dr. Houman’s practice is centered on enhancing men’s quality of life through hormone management, improving sexual function, and achieving reproductive goals.In his academic pursuits, Dr. Houman has published multiple manuscripts on Men’s Health, male fertility, and the health effects of wearable technology. Dr. Houman’s studies have been published in peer-reviewed journals such as the Journal of the American Medical Association and the Journal of Sexual Medicine. He has also presented his research at the national and international levels.In this episode, you will hear:·       Understanding Delayed Orgasm·       Causes of Delayed Orgasm·       Penile Sensitivity and Aging·       Psychological vs. Physiological Factors·       Impact of Medications·       Alternative Therapies and Placebo Effect·       Emerging Treatments and Techniques·       Addressing Sexual Health ConcernsThank you to our sponsor FirmTech! Their incredible TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the FirmTech MaxPR, their non-tech ring, enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 406 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Justin Dubin, MD. In this conversation, we discuss the prevalence of erectile dysfunction among both the general male population and male porn stars, findings from Dr. Dubin's research studies, and the unrealistic expectations set by the porn industry.Dr. Justin Dubin is a Urologist who specializes in Men's Health at Memorial Healthcare System in South Florida. Justin grew up in Wayne, NJ and graduated from Johns Hopkins University in 2010 with a BA in Biology and Minor in Entrepreneurship and Management. He then attended Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School which he graduated from in 2016. Dr. Dubin completed his training in Urology at the University of Miami in 2021 and his Andrology fellowship at Northwestern University in 2022.  Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, GQ and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health through which he hopes to destigmatize men's health topics and motivate men to improve their overall lives.In this episode, you will hear:·       Dr. Justin Dubin's Background and Research·       Understanding Erectile Dysfunction·       Factors Contributing to Erectile Dysfunction·       Porn Stars and Erectile Dysfunction·       Addressing Erectile Dysfunction with Medication·       Penile Size and Cosmetic Enhancements·       Female Sexual Dysfunction in Adult Entertainment·       Penile Size and Sexual SatisfactionThank you to our sponsor FirmTech! Their incredible TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the FirmTech MaxPR, their non-tech ring, enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 405 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Tracy Gapin, a board-certified urologist and founder of the Gapin Institute. In this discussion, we’re exploring the core habits men can build to support their sexual health, while also recognizing how closely it's linked to overall well-being. We’re focusing on key elements like gut health, regulating blood sugar, balancing hormones, and managing stress—all of which are essential for maintaining sexual vitality.Tracy Gapin, MD is the founder and CEO of the Gapin Institute, the Leader in Precision Medicine. He’s a board-certified urologist and world renowned men’s health & performance expert with over 25 years of experience focused on men’s health optimization, performance and longevity.  Recognizing our traditional healthcare system is broken, he created the proprietary Gapin Precision Method and G1 Program for High Performance Health, designed to help entrepreneurs optimize their mind and body so they can be the best version of themselves.He’s a member of the American Academy of Anti-Aging, Age Management Medical Group, and the International Peptide Society. He’s a thought leader, a TEDx speaker, and the author of the best-selling books Male 2.0 and Codes of Longevity. He’s been featured on NBC, Entrepreneur Magazine, and Dave Asprey’s Biohacking Conference.In this episode, you will hear:·       Foundational Habits for Male Sexual Health·       Understanding Sexual Health Beyond the Physical·       The Importance of Vascular Health·       Hormones and Sexual Performance·       The Role of Cortisol and Stress·       Diet and Nutrition for Sexual Health·       Blood Sugar Regulation: Carbs and Protein·       Hydration and Blood Sugar's Impact on Sexual Health·       Fasting: Benefits and Best Practices·       The Truth About Ozempic and Weight Loss·       Early Signs of Sexual Health Issues in MenFirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech’s TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Make Her Go Wild In The Bedroom​Ready to elevate your bedroom game and make her wild with desire? Go here to get a step-by-step approach to help you become an exceptional lover in the bedroom.Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 404 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Daniel Watter. In this conversation, we discuss his insightful book: “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”. Dr. Watter explains how childhood trauma can influence sexual dysfunction, why men might experience erectile unpredictability in deepening relationships, and how existential crises can lead men to seek a functioning penis at great lengths.Dr. Watter is an AASECT-certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA). In addition to his clinical practice, Dr. Watter has held several faculty appointments. Currently, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work’s Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.A frequent lecturer at professional meetings throughout North America, Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He is the author of the recently released book, “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”.In this episode, you will hear:●      Understanding Male Sexual Communication●      War Veterans and the Existential Crisis of Losing the Penis●      Medical Interventions and Psychological Impacts●      The Deepening Relationship and Erectile Unpredictability●      Existential Psychotherapy and Sexual Addiction●      Sexual Addiction and Existential Psychotherapy●      Confrontation with Mortality and Sexual BehaviorFirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech’s TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Make Her Go Wild In The Bedroom​Ready to elevate your bedroom game and make her wild with desire? Go here to get a step-by-step approach to help you become an exceptional lover in the bedroom.Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 403 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Jean Franzblau.In this conversation, we discuss the meaning of kink, sexual shame, and the misrepresentation of kinky behaviors in media. They also discuss the importance of consent, safe words, and the impact of cultural norms on sexual expression.As an Intimacy Coordinator for TV and film, Jean Franzblau helps actors perform sexy scenes with respect and care. This year she made a decision to disclose her private backstory. She is the writer and performer of My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky. It's an award-winning solo play which is now on tour. Passionate to share what she has learned, she created the Sexual Bucket List online class. You can find Jean featured in Rolling Stone and as a guest expert on Keeping Up with the Kardashians.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Kink and Its Cultural Context·      Media Representation of Kink·      Personal Experiences and Reflections on Kink·      Sexual Shame and Healing·      Discovering Kinks and Early Memories·      Communicating Desires in Relationships·      Tools for Safe Exploration of Kinks·      Understanding Slow Healing Kink·      Resources and Tools for Exploring Kink FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech’s TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 402 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with a professional dominatrix and author - Tina Horn. In this conversation, we discuss her book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink, the evolution of Internet platforms for sex workers, and the politics surrounding sex work and bodily autonomy. Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette. Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited. Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centers all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theater, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence. In this episode, you will hear:·       Understanding Anal Sex Myths·       Anatomy and Safe Practices·       Exploring Anal Play·       Fisting and Safety·       Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health·       Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex·       Anal Orgasms and Prostate StimulationFirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech’s TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

EP401 - A Little Behind: Exploring Anal Play and PleasureWelcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives. He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Anal Sex Myths·      Anatomy and Safe Practices·      Exploring Anal Play·      Fisting and Safety·      Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health·      Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex·      Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation Discover if you have Erectile Dysfunction and what to do about it: Take Our ED QuizWatch EP 273 with Dr. Evan: The Best Ways to Enjoy Anal Sex Safely with Dr. Evan GoldsteinFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 400 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to be speaking with Susan Morgan Taylor. In our conversation, we delve into the sexual polarity that draws partners together, highlighting the significance of embodying and shifting between masculine and feminine energies. We also explore ways for couples to reconnect, focusing on the importance of conscious intimacy practices and effective communication, including the idea of 'sacred dialogue'.Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By 2008, Susan was working professionally as a medical intuitive and spiritual guide.In 2011, Susan earned a master’s degree in Professional Counseling and pursued sex therapy, building a successful practice in Austin, TX. After ten years, she transitioned to focus solely on intimacy and somatic sex coaching for couples and individuals, continuing her dedication to healing and personal growth.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Understanding the Loss of Sexual Charge·      Reviving Sexual Polarity·      Embodied Intimacy Practices·      Creating Space for Passion·      The Dance of Desire and Communication·      Clarifying Sexual Intentions·      Navigating Oral Sex Preferences·      Blowjob Tips for Enjoyment·      Cultivating Self-Pleasure·      Reigniting Passion in Relationships  Congrats to beloved.dom42 our 400th Episode Giveaway Winner!  Get Your List of 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship HOT!Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 399 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this conversation, we explore personal anecdotes from both our marriages, looking at the dynamics of long-term relationships, and share tips for maintaining a strong, passionate connection. Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules. In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-by-step skills have helped hundreds of women reignite their marriages. Known for encouraging women to step outside their comfort zones, Veronica does not offer superficial solutions. Instead, she teaches life-changing healing methods.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Veronica's Love Story: Meeting Willie·      Maintaining the Spark in Marriage·      Navigating Resentment and Roles in Marriage·      Personal Growth Amidst Challenges·      Curiosity and Relationship Agreements·      Defining Cheating in Relationships·      Navigating Fidelity Conversations·      Understanding Family Scripts·      Setting Boundaries and Communication·      Self-Discovery and Independence·      Feeling Sexy and Confident  Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Get Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Our Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 398 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Edy Nathan. In this conversation, we explore the idea of sexual grief. Edy explains how this term is tied to the traumatic events that can shape one's sexual identity and desire. Drawing from her clinical experience, Edy provides a thorough look at how sexual grief appears and impacts people. Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma. Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of “It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss.”In this episode, you will hear: ·      Edy's Journey to Discussing Sexual Grief·      Defining Sexual Grief·      Identity and Sexual Trauma·      Developmental Sexual Grief·      Sexual Grief and Trauma·      Clinical Responses·      First Sexual Experiences·      Hostage Situation in Grief·      Curiosity and Exploration·      Conservative Backgrounds and Shame·      Recovering from Sexual Grief Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth! Grab a HUGE 30% Discount HERE using code SEXOLOGY Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Our Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues. Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals·      Sensory Sensitivity Explained·      Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity·      Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity·      Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner·      Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships·      Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People·      Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Our Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 396 of the Sexology Podcast! In today's solo episode, we’re excited to delve into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies. We’ll be featuring insights from esteemed sex therapists and educators who will provide a deep understanding of this intriguing topic. We'll explore various theories about where these fantasies come from, including Freud's theories on evolutionary psychology and the perspectives offered by social learning theories. These insights will help us understand the complex nature of our fantasies and their origins. In addition, we’ll be sharing a wide range of sexual fantasies that have been submitted anonymously by our audience. Our goal is to reduce stigma and diminish feelings of shame surrounding these experiences, offering a safe space for open and honest discussion.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Exploring Sexual Fantasies·      Freud: The Way Fantasies Reveal Childhood Desires·      Evolutionary Psychology: Fantasies and Reproductive Success·      Social Learning: How Our Environment Shapes Fantasies·      Integrative Approach: Combining Psychological Theories·      Common Fantasies: Group Sex and Taboo Themes·      How Cultural Backgrounds Shape Fantasies·      Normalizing Fantasies for Self-Acceptance Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning.Afternoon DelightPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 395 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amanda Olson. In this conversation, we discuss the importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health, the functions of pelvic floor muscles and the role of specific products from her company, Intimate Rose, in addressing these issues.Dr. Olson earned her Bachelor of Science degree from Pacific University, and a Doctorate Degree in Physical Therapy from Regis University, graduating as a member of the Jesuit National Honor Society. She holds a Certification of Achievement in pelvic floor physical therapy (CAPP-PF) from the American Physical Therapy Association, and the Pelvic Floor Practitioner Certification (PRPC) through the Herman and Wallace Pelvic Institute. She is also a certified Stott Pilates instructor and RRCA certified running coach. She is the president and chief clinical officer of Intimate Rose where she develops pelvic health products and education.  She is passionate about empowering women and men with pelvic health issues including pelvic pain, incontinence, pregnancy, and post-partum issues. Dr. Olson teaches internationally on various pelvic health topics including pelvic floor dysfunction in runners. She has written newspaper and magazine articles on pelvic floor dysfunction, and running and also authored the book Restoring the Pelvic Floor For Women.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Creating Tools for Pelvic Health·      Understanding Pelvic Floor Function·      Pelvic Floor Health Across Genders·      Impact of Aging on Pelvic Health·      Pelvic Floor Exercises and Techniques·      When to See a Pelvic Floor Therapist·      Tips for Maintaining Pelvic Health Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Survey Link Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 394 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Richard Espinoza. In this conversation, we discuss the evolving landscape of online dating and its impact on modern relationships and societal views. Dr. Espinoza shares insights from his work with the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges and psychological impacts faced by individuals using dating apps, and the importance of effective communication and introspection in forming meaningful relationships.Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.In this episode, you will hear: ·      The Evolution of Online Dating·      Psychological Challenges of Online Dating·      The Impact of Ghosting·      Safety Concerns in Online Dating·      Introspection and Self-Understanding·      Sexual Compatibility in Online Dating·      Alternatives to Online Dating Intimate Rose Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Survey Link Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyOur Sponsors:* Check out Adam & Eve and use my code SEXOLOGY for a great deal: https://www.adameve.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy