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Conversations and actions to create a life and marriage fully alive! We explore the wisdom and skills of the relationship world's most passionate and brilliant minds. Through in-depth conversations with authors, counselors, psychologists, professors, doctors and specialists, each episode explores topics every relationship faces and offers conversation starters or actions you can take to propel your life and marriage into deeper and more meaningful directions.

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of date nights in marriage and offer a unique tip to make them more enjoyable. It's the idea of having sex before going out on a date to possibly relieve the pressure and create a deeper connection. We provide practical ideas for incorporating this tip into date nights, such as getting ready together, having sex in the morning, or asking the babysitter to take the kids out for a while. It is also important to expand and challenge the script of traditional date nights. Takeaways Date nights are important for maintaining a strong marriage. Having sex before a date night can relieve pressure and create a deeper connection. Practical ideas for incorporating sex into date nights include getting ready together, having sex in the morning, or asking the babysitter to take the kids out. Expanding and challenging the script of traditional date nights can make them more enjoyable and fulfilling. On the Xtended Version ... The world of self-help and self-improvement at times only works on one aspect of the equation.  There is also self-healing that is just as important. The areas where you work on your shadow self. We explore both today.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better Help: SMR is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% your first month at https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Have Sex First on Date Night #672 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, Dr. Marty Klein joins me and discusses the importance of reframing the conversation around sex and challenging our ideas about sexuality. We emphasize that sex is not just a behavior, but an idea, and that our ideas about sex shape our experiences. He highlights the need for individuals to have a sense of agency and the ability to shape their own sexual experiences. We also address common conceptions people have about sex, such as the belief that it should be a continuous, seamless connection, and the exceptionalism around sexuality. He encourages a more realistic and accepting view of sexuality, where not every sexual encounter needs to be transcendent or perfect. We also talk about how foreplay is about getting mentally and emotionally tuned into the sexual experience. It's important to leave behind the cares of the day and focus on the connection with your partner. Plus, as we age, our bodies change, and it's important to adapt and explore new ways of pleasure.  Learn more about Dr Klein here - https://www.martyklein.com/ Takeaways Sex is not just a behavior, but an idea that shapes our experiences. It is important to challenge and examine our ideas about sexuality. Having a sense of agency and the ability to shape our own sexual experiences is crucial. Not every sexual encounter needs to be perfect or transcendent; a more realistic and accepting view of sexuality is needed. Foreplay is about mentally and emotionally preparing for sex. Planning and scheduling sex can be beneficial for busy adults. As we age, our bodies change, and it's important to adapt and explore new ways of pleasure. Knowing what you want in sex is just as important as knowing what you don't want. Sexuality is a local experience, not an express one. Communication, experimentation, and understanding your own desires are key in a satisfying sexual experience. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... One Skin: Get 15% off OneSkin with our code SMR at https://oneskin.co  #oneskinpod The post The Idea Of Sex | Dr Marty Klein #671 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
This week let's talk about jealousy. Shanenn Bryant joins me for a conversation about overcoming jealousy in relationships. Shanenn shares her personal journey with jealousy and how she discovered that she was not alone in experiencing these feelings. She explains that jealousy is often rooted in past experiences and a lack of self-worth.  The conversation provides practical steps for moving forward and overcoming jealousy, including identifying and changing insecure habits. We also discuss the difference between fear and intuition. Learn more about Shanenn here https://www.topselfpodcast.com/ Takeaways Jealousy is a common emotion that can be rooted in past experiences and a lack of self-worth. Overcoming jealousy requires self-awareness and a willingness to change insecure habits. Differentiating between fear and intuition is crucial in addressing jealousy. Open communication and trust are essential for building healthy relationships. On the Xtended Version ... In the XTD content, Pam and I discuss how the topic of jealousy and insecurity has played out in our life, as well as what can be done about it.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Paired App: Connect with your spouse every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Factor: Get fresh, flavor packed meals ready in 2 minutes for 50% off when you use our code passion50 at https://factormeals.com/passion50. The post Jealousy and Insecurity | Shanenn Bryant #670 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode, we dive into how marriage is simple but difficult, and emphasize the importance of honest conversations. Then we move into the main focus of the episode -- an email from a husband who feels that his wife wants to be wanted but doesn't want to want. There are complexities of desire discrepancy and sexual frustration in every marriage. So waht do we do with them? We also touch on the vulnerability and shame associated with discussing sexuality and the deeper parts of our lives. Takeaways Marriage is simple but difficult, and it requires honest conversations and a willingness to face challenges. Desire discrepancy and sexual frustration can be common issues in marriage, and it's important to have open and honest communication about these topics. Vulnerability and shame can play a role in the dynamics of marriage, and it's important to create a safe space for discussing sensitive topics. Resilience and overcoming resentment in marriage require facing negative thoughts and feelings, addressing traumas, and implementing boundaries. On the Xtended Version ... There are 2 common attitudes people approach marriage and relationships with - an attitude of entitlement or an attitude of exposure. We explore them and how they play out in life today. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... SMR Getaway: Join us June 13-15, 2024 in the DFW area for a fantastic getaway. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Want To Be Wanted But Don’t Want To Want #669 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, Tripp Lanier joins me as we discuss the importance of self-reflection, understanding self, and overcoming resistance. We explore the impact of scripts, narratives, and parts in our lives and the need to integrate different aspects of ourselves. Our conversation also dives into the balance between love and boundaries in relationships and the power of acceptance and forgiveness. We wrap up by discussing the importance of taking personal responsibility for our happiness and finding a balance between meeting external expectations and honoring our true selves. Learn more about Tripp here - https://www.tripplanier.com/ Takeaways Self-reflection and understanding are key to personal growth and overcoming resistance. Integrating different aspects of ourselves leads to wholeness and a deeper sense of self. Balancing love and boundaries in relationships is essential for maintaining an open heart. Acceptance and forgiveness, both of self and others, are powerful tools for healing and growth. Taking personal responsibility for our happiness allows us to create fulfilling relationships and lives. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better Help: SMR is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% your first month at https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Procrastination and Resistance | Tripp Lanier #668 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, I'm joined by Stacey Sherrell and Rachel Faccio from Decoding Couples. We have a great conversation about the transition from normal married life to intimacy, the importance of creating margin, and the different desire levels in a relationship. We also explore the role of initiation and rejection in sexual activity, as well as the significance of character and emotional intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, playfulness, and understanding each other's desires and boundaries. Learn more about Decoding Couples here - https://www.decodingcouples.com/ Takeaways Transitioning to intimacy requires communication and understanding of each other's desires and boundaries. Creating margin between different roles and responsibilities is crucial for a healthy sex life. Initiation and rejection play a significant role in sexual activity, and it is important to navigate these dynamics with empathy and understanding. Building emotional intimacy and connection is essential for a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life. On the Xtended Version ... In the XTD content, we discuss the importance of initiation and communication in relationships. We each explore how initiation plays out in our own marriages and the challenges we face. We also discuss the power of intimacy school and the importance of understanding the difference between sex and sex with a partner. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Paired App: Connect with your spouse every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Babbel: Get 55% off a subscription at https://babbel.com/SMR The post Initiating Intimacy | Rachel Facio and Stacey Sherrell #667 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode, in recognition of this being episode 666, we go a bit dark and discuss the concept of normal marital sadism (a term coined by Dr David Schnarch), which refers to the intentional infliction of pain, cruelty, and hurt within a marriage. We explore various examples of normal marital sadism, such as poking fun at and embarrassing a spouse, lying to inflict pain, restricting the autonomy of your spouse, and manipulating them to establish compliance or gain dominance. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing our own capacity for cruelty and the need to address it in order to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. Takeaways Normal marital sadism refers to the intentional infliction of pain, cruelty, and hurt within a marriage. Examples of normal marital sadism include humiliating and demeaning others, lying to inflict pain, restricting the autonomy of others, and manipulating others to establish compliance or gain dominance. It is important to recognize our own capacity for cruelty and address it in order to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. Denying the existence of normal marital sadism can lead to its prevalence and negative consequences in a relationship. On the Xtended Version ... What do we do about normal marital sadism? How do I address it? Get rid of it? Or, at the very least limit it's presence in my marriage? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... AG1: Take ownership of your health this year with AG1. Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase exclusively at https://drinkAG1.com/sexymarriageradio The post Normal Marital Sadism #666 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, Dr Laurie Watson joins me as we discuss the dynamics of relationships and how they can impact sexual intimacy. We explore the misconceptions and expectations that couples often bring into therapy, as well as the triggers and defensive mechanisms that can lead to negative cycles. We also discuss the importance of recognizing patterns and understanding attachment styles in order to create healthier relationships. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the need for communication, empathy, and a willingness to work through challenges in order to cultivate a satisfying and fulfilling sexual connection. Learn more about Laurie here - https://www.foreplayrst.com/ Takeaways Misconceptions and expectations can lead to disappointment and frustration in relationships. Triggers and defensive mechanisms can create negative cycles in relationships. Understanding attachment styles can help couples navigate challenges and create healthier relationships. Communication, empathy, and a willingness to work through challenges are essential for cultivating a satisfying sexual connection. On the Xtended Version ... In this XTD conversation, we provide an example of a couple's interaction and explore the emotional and physical reactions that can arise. We emphasize the importance of creating space for communication and understanding each other's needs. By expressing vulnerability and making plans, couples can overcome the negative cycle and improve their sexual experiences. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better Help: SMR is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% your first month at https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Attachment Styles and Cycles | Dr Laurie Watson #665 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Yes, But … #664

Yes, But … #664

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This week we discuss the impact of trauma on reactions and responses in marriage. An email from a listener points out she felt that trauma was not adequately addressed last week. We explore more how both partners are responsible for their reactions and responses, and that there is no hierarchy of pain. We also discuss the importance of regaining a sense of safety in the relationship and the need for both partners to work on themselves.  Takeaways Both partners are responsible for their reactions and responses in marriage. There is no hierarchy of pain in life and relationship. Regaining a sense of safety in the relationship is important, but it is not solely the responsibility of a partner. Recognizing and changing patterns is essential for personal growth and a healthier marriage. On the Xtended Version ... We continue to explore the idea of sexual polarity and look at aspects of masculine and feminine energies. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Babbel: Get 50% off at https://babbel.com/SMR The post Yes, But … #664 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Today let's explore the impact of reactions and perceptions in relationships, specifically in the context of discovering pornography usage. There are lots of complexities with the aspects of honesty, trustworthiness, fear, and shame. Like how others perceive us, the importance of acknowledging others, the reactions to the discovery of pornography usage, motivations for lying, managing fear and shame, breaking the cycle of fear and reaction, recognizing the scripts we carry forward, and seeking professional help or self-reflection. To name a few. Listen to hear us explore them all. Takeaways Reactions and perceptions play a significant role in relationships. Honesty and trustworthiness are crucial in addressing the discovery of pornography usage. Fear and shame can fuel destructive reactions. Breaking the cycle of fear and reaction requires self-reflection and seeking professional help. On the Xtended Version ... Sexual polarity plays a large role in the energy found between husband and wife - particularly the sexual energy. What is it? How do I enhance it? Listen to find out. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... 2024 Passionately Married Getaway -- June 13-15, 2024. Register now. The post More Destructive: His Porn Or Her Reaction? #663 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, I'm joined by Jason Van Ruler as we discuss the importance of addressing past wounds and traumas in order to move forward in life and relationships. We talk about the concept of scripts and how our past experiences shape the narratives we tell ourselves.  Learn more about Jason here - https://www.jasonvr.com/ Takeaways Addressing past wounds and traumas is essential for personal growth and healthy relationships. Scripts, formed by past experiences, shape the way we perceive ourselves and others. On the Xtended Version ... Jason and I dive into the work of Dr. Schnarch and his theory of traumatic mind mapping, which examines the deeper layers of trauma and the motivations behind it. The conversation emphasizes the need to confront the dark side of ourselves and rewrite our narratives to chart a new course. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Paired App: Connect with your spouse every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Factor: Get fresh, flavor packed meals ready in 2 minutes for 50% off when you use our code passion50 at https://factormeals.com/passion50. The post Get Past Your Past | Jason VanRuler #662 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In today's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio,  we discuss the truth about pressures in marriage and sex. We explore the dynamics of power distribution in sexual relationships and the responsibility each partner has for their own pleasure. We also dive into the impact of how we relate to our sexuality and the importance of facing responsibility and making conscious choices. The overall goal? Have open and honest conversations about your sexual relationship and to take ownership of your own pleasure. Takeaways There are natural dynamics and pressure in every marriage. How you relate to your sexuality and sex life is important. It all boils down to choice - are they consciously and freely made? On the Xtended Version ... There are three main components that help contribute to the female orgasm. What are they? Listen to find out. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Paired App: Connect with your spouse every day using Paired. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Miracle Made Sheets: Upgrade your sleep with Miracle Made Sheets! Click the link to claim your FREE 3 PIECE TOWEL SET and SAVE over 40% OFF https://trymiracle.com/passion The post Who’s Responsible For Whose Orgasm? #661 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In today's episode, we continue the discussion on the topic of mercy sex and the pressures and obligations that can arise in marriage. Let's explore the impact of religious beliefs and family of origin on sexuality, and the importance of peeling away layers and developing new ones to create a more fulfilling sex life. So what are the practical steps for dealing with pressure and obligation, shifting responsibility, and finding your voice? Takeaways Pressure and obligation can arise in marriage, and it's important to navigate these challenges together. Religious beliefs and family of origin can have a significant impact on sexuality and the dynamics of a marriage. Taking the time to evaluate your desires and needs is crucial for personal growth and a fulfilling sex life. Enhancing sexuality and growing together as a couple requires open communication, understanding, and a willingness to explore and adapt. On the Xtended Version ... What are the components that help create optimal sexual experiences? We talk through some research that found six factors and work through them and how they overlap. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Babbel: Get 55% off at https://babbel.com/SMR AG1: Take ownership of your health this year with AG1. Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase exclusively at https://drinkAG1.com/sexymarriageradio The post The Truth About Pressures In Sex #660 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, John Eldredge joins me as we discuss the impact of busyness and unhealed trauma on relationships. John brings up the concept of inner ages and how unresolved childhood trauma can surface in adult relationships. It is important to create space for our younger selves and having honest conversations about the needs and fears that arise. We also discuss the fragility of the world and how it can affect individuals and relationships.  Learn more from John here - https://wildatheart.org/ Takeaways Busyness can take a toll on relationships, leading to a lack of leisure time and personal well-being. Unhealed childhood trauma can resurface in adult relationships, causing emotional challenges and conflicts. Tuning into inner ages and understanding the needs of younger selves can help navigate relationship dynamics. Honesty and open communication about fears and needs can foster intimacy and understanding in relationships. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #659 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode, we discuss the concept of mercy sex in a marriage. What are the  characteristics of mercy sex and the impact it has on both the lower desire and higher desire spouses? We also discuss the pressure to have sex and how it affects the dynamics of a relationship. As well as a discussion on how to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex, where both spouses are actively participating and enjoying the experience. Takeaways Mercy sex is characterized by a lack of initiation, a distaste for sex, a desire to get it over with quickly, and a lack of presence and connection during the act. The lower desire spouse may feel pressure and guilt when it comes to sex, while the higher desire spouse may accept mercy sex as a way to ease their own insecurities. Both spouses need to confront their own issues and communicate openly about their desires and boundaries in order to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex. Facing the pressure to have sex in a marriage is a normal part of committed relationships, and both partners need to accept and navigate this pressure in a healthy way. On the Xtended Version ... Join us in a thought experiment. We all strive for great sex in marriage, or at least many people do. But could great sex actually be a hinderance to good sex in marriage? Listen to hear us explore this idea. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Mercy Sex In Marriage #658 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode, we address some of the  feedback from last week's episode about a husband losing attraction to his wife. We explore the impact of such revelations on men and women - is there a difference in how it impacts each gender - and we explore the concept of facing dilemmas and making choices in relationships. The key here is the importance of self-validation and differentiation in personal growth. That is the best way to achieve relational growth as well. Takeaways Accept and love family members despite their flaws. Revelations about lost attraction can be devastating, but they provide an opportunity for change. Facing dilemmas in relationships requires courage and self-reflection. Self-validation and differentiation are essential for personal growth. On the Xtended Version ... At the beginning of each new year, we use a process of My 3 Words to help frame our focus in the coming year. Join us as Pam and I go through our words for 2024. And share yours on the https://my.smr.fm platform. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... AG1: Take ownership of your health this year with AG1. Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase exclusively at https://drinkAG1.com/sexymarriageradio. Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post The Search For Intimacy #657 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In today's episode, we dive into a listener's question about a lack of desire in her marriage. After working through the Our Intimate Choices worksheet, the husband shared he has no desire or attraction towards his wife. What does she do now? It's important she faces the truth of the system and begins recognizing the underlying dynamics. In this process it is imperative she recognizes the importance of separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion and works to make choices that align with her personal values. Takeaways Facing the truth and recognizing the underlying issues in a marriage is essential for personal growth and relationship development. Separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion is crucial for maintaining a healthy sense of self. Choosing to stay in a marriage while not feeling stuck requires personal growth and self-reflection. Marriage is a people-growing machine that demands constant self-confrontation and growth. On the Xtended Version ... Questions from a recent Q&A session regarding what do you do when attraction has disappeared or never really existed in the first place? There is a natural ebb and flow of attraction and desire in marriage, but facing this dynamic requires a great deal of self work.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post My Husband Doesn’t Desire Me #656 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
The 2024 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... Natalie Hickson joins me as she shares her mission of helping moms overcome anger and anxiety in motherhood and marriage. We discuss the challenges of transitioning into parenthood and the triggers that can lead to destructive anger. Natalie emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in a healthy way, and she dives into the SIT and PRAY method. We also explore the concept of anger as a covering emotion and the need for forgiveness and personal growth in healing relationships. We all as parents need to take responsibility for our actions and possibly offer empathy and compassion for our own parents' struggles. Learn more from Natalie here https://nataliehixson.com/ Takeaways Transitioning into parenthood can be challenging, leading to feelings of anger and anxiety. Recognizing and expressing anger in a healthy way is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. Anger can be a covering emotion, masking deeper feelings of sadness, fear, or insecurity. Forgiveness and personal growth are key to healing and breaking generational patterns. Taking responsibility for our actions and seeking support can lead to stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Helping yourself is the key to helping your kids. Episode Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Mission 05:32 The Challenges of Motherhood and Marriage 06:40 The Transition into Parenthood 08:23 Recognizing the Need for Change 11:42 Seeking Therapy and Personal Growth 13:13 Differentiating Destructive Anger from Normal Anger 16:29 Clarifying Emotions and Communicating Effectively 20:06 Anger as a Covering Emotion On the Xtended Version ... The conversation goes deeper as we explore the importance of personal growth and self-improvement in the context of marriage. We can only change ourselves and our reactions, which can lead to positive changes in our relationships. We touch on the fact that there is often  resistance to change and fear of uncertainty that can arise in relationships. But it is important that take responsibility for our own lives and actions. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Honeylove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove by going to https://honeylove.com/SMR! #honeylovepod Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Overcome Destructive Anger | Natalie Hixon #655 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Today we discuss the topic of flirting in relationships. Plus, let's explore the concept of 'good naked' and 'bad naked' and how it can impact erotic energies. It is important to maintain energy and tension in your relationship. One way to do this is through the process of flirting with your spouse. How you ask? We go over several tips today - including being congruent with who you are, using playful teasing, complimenting each other, and showing genuine interest. We also discuss the role of body language and physical cues in flirting. Takeaways Does bad naked negatively impact the connection and energy between spouses? It is important to maintain tension between spouses. Flirting is a playful and subtle way of expressing romantic interest. There are several ways to flirt - but most importantly it must be genuine and authentic. Instigate - Escalate - Isolate Episode Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the show 01:25 Topics: How to Flirt 04:30 Discussion on 'Good Naked' and 'Bad Naked' 05:32 Does 'Bad Naked' Impact Erotic Energies? 08:17 Maintaining Energy and Tension in a Relationship 09:37 How to Flirt with Your Spouse 11:42 Defining Flirting and Being Congruent 12:47 Playfulness and Teasing in Flirting 14:14 Complimenting and Genuine Interest 21:36 Body Language and Physical Cues 24:45 Instigating, Escalating, and Isolating On the Xtended Version ... An email from an Academy member who is in a dilemma having his wife's reactions to his attraction towards her as him being  gross or untrustworthy.  We unpack how there are moves every person makes in marriage. So how do you become more aware of your moves while also making better ones in response to your spouse's moves?  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Factor: Get fresh, flavor packed meals ready in 2 minutes for 50% off when you use our code passion50 at https://factormeals.com/passion50. Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post How Do I Flirt With My Spouse? #654 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Today we discuss the Our Intimate Choices worksheet, a communication tool designed to facilitate conversations about boundaries, preferences, and comfort levels in a couple's sex life. We also touch on holiday etiquette and the role of sex toys as stocking stuffers. It is important to have open and honest communication in marriage and the benefits of using tools like the Our Intimate Choices worksheet can enhance both intimacy and understanding between spouses. Takeaways Be aware of your surroundings as overnight guests in someone else's home. When giving sex toys as gifts, keep the recipient's comfort level and preferences in mind. Open and honest communication is essential in a marriage, especially when it comes to discussing boundaries, preferences, and comfort levels in the bedroom. The Our Intimate Choices worksheet is a great tool for couples to explore and clarify their desires and expectations in their sex life. Episode Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Sexy Marriage Radio 01:27 Today's episode topics 06:40 Holiday etiquette and sex 12:19 Exploring the Our Intimate Choices worksheet 23:03 Benefits and reflections on this exercise On the Xtended Version ... Every November there is a growing number of people who participate in No-Nut November. Not sure what this is? They commit to go one month without masturbating/orgasming. What began as an online fad has grown quite a lot over the years. But what if it's actually dangerous? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SMR at https://www.oneskin.co/  #oneskinpod Honeylove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove by going to https://honeylove.com/SMR! #honeylovepod The post No-Nut November May Be Dangerous #653 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
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Hossein Tala

I'm 20 and i didn't have sex till now😂😑

Aug 2nd
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Devin Dufrene

Ditto. 😆

Jul 30th
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Dan Davis

It is too bad we have no term for self touch other than masturbation. Masturbation almost always implies orgasm and not just pleasurable, relaxing massage of erogenous body parts.

Feb 5th
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Lesa Jeannette

Giving your man a handjob with a condom on... why even bother?!

Aug 29th
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Julie and James Robert Marvin

My husband has never told me he was listening to this advice. I pray he listens and takes action

Oct 24th
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Othman Atari

thanks for the episode!

Oct 4th
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Othman Atari

listening to your castbox from Dubai, how can we send ya a voice note, thanks

Sep 24th
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