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How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important? About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from lectures at Ivy League Universities to kink demonstrations at dive bars. She's been featured in podcasts and print + digital publications on topics like beginner’s tips, BDSM how-tos, spicing up date night, self-care and sexual wellness, and - of course - the latest sex toys and trends. (She was even given the kinda absurd yet accurate title of “sex toy fairy godmother” in an article for Women’s Health Magazine). Always lacing humor into her lessons, Finn makes it a goal to "make sex-positive information accessible, and remind [everyone] that pleasure should be fun." To learn more go to https://www.babeland.com/ SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum with code SHAMELESS at http://tryepiphany.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to venture down this path? And what makes SHA different from other sexuality training programs?  About our guest: Heather McPherson is the CEO and Founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, a premier education and certification provider for sexuality professionals. Heather also founded Respark, a national brand that encompasses a group therapy practice, Respark Foundation Nonprofit, and ReSpark Retreats. Respark Therapy & Associates (respark.co) is a group practice that serves Colorado, Washington and Texas specializing in sexuality and relationships. She is published in Playboy Magazine as well as Playboy Online, and has been featured on CNN, HuffPost, Rolling Stone, SheKnows, Quartz, Bravo, the Body, the Sun, Sex and Psychology with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Psychology Today with Dr. David Ley, Parent Harald, and more.  Heather McPherson has lectured at prestigious universities including University of Texas at Austin, Texas State University, University of Utah, University of Colorado Denver and Governors State University in Chicago. She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S) and a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S). She also is the Texas Section Leader for AASECT (American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists). She has appeared on several podcasts including Loveline with Dr. Chris Donaghue as well as Sex with Dr. Jess. Heather helps clients gain confidence, rebuild trust, increase playfulness, and find passion and meaning in their erotic lives. Heather graduated with honors from Texas State University with a MA in Marriage, Couple and Family Therapy; a CACREP Accredited Program. To learn more go to https://sexualhealthalliance.com/ https://www.instagram.com/sexualhealthalliance https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualhealthalliance https://www.facebook.com/SHAteams https://www.instagram.com/resparkgroup   SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless SexUnleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum with code SHAMELESS at http://tryepiphany.com Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom. Bio: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, through which she offers concierge guidance and online courses and resources for couples and individuals exploring healthy non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. She has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016, committed to promoting consensual, empowered, and respectful interactions as a leader within the sex-positive space. As a certified consent and communication specialist and respected non-monogamy ‘sexpert’, Ally sits on the executive leadership board of one of LA’s most distinguished sex-positive nightlife events. She regularly shares her insights on podcasts and at live events, and has been quoted in numerous consumer and industry-facing publications, further solidifying her reputation as a knowledgeable and influential voice on the subject of non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. Contact: hello@passport2pleasure.com Website: www.passport2pleasure.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@passport2pleasure Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61554151163099 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@passport2pleasure Free Tools Relationship Ratio: www.passport2pleasure.com/ratio Big Why: www.passport2pleasure.com/bigwhy ENM 101: Exploring Healthy Non-Monogamy | www.passport2pleasure.com/enm101 The Limitless Love Formula | www.passport2pleasure.com/llf Play Party Prep: Private Concierge Session | www.passport2pleasure.com/resource_redirect/offers/Xzny9Yzz Concierge support to prepare for a play party from outfit choice to toy selection, conversation starters to faux pas. Play Party Prep - Just the Tips | www.passport2pleasure.com/resource_redirect/offers/otGPbn7T PDF containing two checklists (Day Before and Day Of) with everything you need to know and do to get ready and excited to explore a play party with confidence. SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events PS If you upgrade to VIP tickets you get over $400 worth of sex toys, so.... :) Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Listen to the Sex Ed With DB podcast here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com Other links: Get 20% off Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum with code SHAMELESS at http://tryepiphany.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What are some of the many reasons why people might not be interested in having sex with their partners? When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to convince people to change their minds about it, but what are the main hangups are about period sex? Are there any benefits? And how can people have more pleasurable period sex? About our guest: Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators with Jordan D’Nelle is designed to give women a place to learn about women’s health and sexual wellness. Tune in every Thursday for topics that are relevant to learning how women’s bodies work and how to improve your intimate life. To learn more go to http://jordandnelle.com SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events PS If you upgrade to VIP tickets you get over $200 worth of sex toys, so.... :) Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Listen to the Wild and Sublime podcast here: https://wildandsublime.com/podcast Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

This mini episode features a 10 minute clip for a new mini series that we absolutely love called Making Magic, featuring some of the world's most renown sex educators and all about how the Magic Wand became the world's most famous vibrator. Porn is one of the most common ways people find out about the Magic Wand and get excited to try it themselves. In this episode, we hear from porn performers and directors about why the Magic Wand works so well in on-screen sex – and why filming with it can sometimes be challenging. Guests this episode: Writer, sex educator, & retired adult filmmaker Tristan Taormino (she/her) BDSM educator, former Kink University director, & Two Knotty Boys co-founder Danarama (he/him) Crash Pad Series director Ava La Prima (she/her) Spectrum Boutique CEO/founder, author, & adult content creator Zoë Ligon (she/her) Writer & former pornographer Stoya (she/her) Writer, educatrix, pornographer & podcaster Tina Horn (she/her) Listen to the full episode here: http://https://makingmagicseries.com More about the Making Magic mini series: Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World's Most Famous Vibrator Magic Wand has improved the sex lives of millions of people and has shaped how we think about, talk about, and depict sex more broadly in society.  Making Magic, a limited audio series, is told by sex writer and podcaster Kate Sloan and connects listeners to the stories of people whose lives have been changed by this vibrator.  Featuring over 30 sex and relationship experts such as Dr. Carol Queen, Stoya, Zoe Ligon, Hallie Lieberman, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Alice Lovegood, Tristan Taormino, Elle Chase, Tina Horn, Lorrae Bradbury, and more, Making Magic is streaming now anywhere you get your podcasts. Episode 5 explores Magic Wand's influence on porn and why so many performers and filmmakers turn to Magic Wand to shoot authentic, orgasmic scenes.   Listen on your favorite podcast app or checkout their website at http://makingmagicseries.com

In this episode we talk about how to pleasure all the dicks, cocks and penises in your life with fellatio expert and Sexologist Jody ProHOEvocative. And PS: Jody is going to perform in our live show in Chicago this Sunday, June 24th. Listen to this episode to understand why you don't want to miss it :) More details below. About our guest: Jody is a certified sexologist and fellatio instructor, unapologetically exploring the realms of sexuality, blending candid discussions on sexual health, personal stories, and kinks. She is also the resident Sexpert at Tease University, helping women explore their sexuality in an unfiltered, raunchy, and provocative way. After more than a decade of repressed sexual desires and sexual shame, she realized that to have a more pleasurable sex life, she had to unlearn how she viewed sex. Along her journey, she discovered that many others shared similar stories and made it her mission to help women reclaim and reimagine their sexuality. Jody also offers the following services for couples, singles, and groups: kink exploration sessions, pleasure and sex goal mapping, her signature Throat choreography class (fellatio class), and sensual massage and stretching. In addition to being on The Never Ever Mets, Jody has been featured on Yahoo! Lifestyle, Vocal.org, and WBEZ discussing sexual freedom and healthy sex conversations. Jody has also appeared on Whoreible Decisions, the Hard or Soft Show, So Shameless, We Talk Back, Tequila Tlk, Esh your Heart out, Cocktales Dirty Discussions Live Tour, Exxxotica, and more. You may have also recently seen her on OWN's new reality TV series "The Never Ever Mets."  You can connect with Jody here:  Instagram: @jodyprhoe Website: PrHOEvocative.com Classes/services: beacons.ai/prhoevocative Podcast: prhoevocative.podbean.com CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events PS If you upgrade to VIP tickets you get over $200 worth of sex toys, so.... :) Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Discover why we love the Magic Wand (and get you own O on) at https://magicwandoriginal.com/where-to-buy/ Get 15% off Amy and April's new fave sexy women's lingerie and leatherwear by MARIEMUR with code SHAMELESS at https://mariemur.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode repeat guest and world renown Sexpert Tyomi Morgan teaches us all about how to become the master of pussy pleasure. From techniques for hands and mouths to toys and beyond, Tyomi will blow your mind (and maybe your lover's bits) with all of the gold she shares. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, digestible sex education has garnered her success throughout the world and her love for coaching women has impacted millions. Tyomi is the founder of The Cowgirl Workout™ and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. She also serves as the seminar coordinator for The Exxxotica Expo, the Largest Event Dedicated to Love and Sex in the USA. To learn more go to linktr.ee/realglamazontyomi Products we referenced in the show: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System Sportsheets 5-Piece Hog Tie Cuffs and Set CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events PS If you upgrade to VIP tickets you get over $200 worth of sex toys, so.... :) Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Listen to Sex Ed With DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com Join our free Discord channel: https://discord.gg/K3AE43zBjb Other links: Get 20% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

This episode is with the fabulous duo Florence and Reed from the Come Curious podcast. We talk about everything from awkward/uncomfortable sexual experiences to top super hot sexual experiences, why you should have your friend film you having sex, why sex on the beach isn't for everyone, sex in bathroom stalls, kink and fetishes, and how people move through/beyond body shame and discover their unique “sexy”. Be prepared to laugh and learn because these two women are absolutely shameless! About our guests: Florence Bark is a content-creator, and sex and relationships expert, and author of 'This book will make you feel something'. Using her own experiences as (often painful) gold, her expansive, multi-disciplinary work cuts to the heart of what it means to live in pursuit of a genuinely fulfilling and growth-inspiring love and sex life.  Sex Educator and presenter Reed Amber has been in the adult industry for over 10 years both behind and in front of the camera. She has always been passionate about achieving equality and high levels of duty of care in an industry that can lack both. Reed worked as an ethical porn director and is now an advocate for sex-worker rights. She has been a regular guest on the BBC Tricky podcast for kinks, festishes and sex work as well as Cosmopolitan discussing pleasure and sexuality.  Together they are the co-creators of Come Curious, a leading British sex and relationships YouTube channel, with over 218k subscribers. Their award-winning podcast ‘F**ks Given’ (now Come Curious) has over 5 million listens on episodes exploring everything from polyamory and fetishes to STIs and having difficult conversations with your partner. Links: linktr.ee/comecurious instagram.com/reedamberx linktr.ee/reedamberxx https://geni.us/thisbookwill www.florencebark.com Instagram: @florencebark CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events NEW YORK! Get your tickets to one of Billy Precida's upcoming naked comedy shows here: http://eepurl.com/Ve3WD Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What is the slut pledge and why should we take it? How does embracing our desires relate to bravery? What does it mean to “lose your erotic virginity”, and how does this bring more pleasure and aliveness into one's life? How does being a bisexual person require a lot of erotic bravery? Are bi folks the ultimate unicorn for threesomes? And what are some top tips (regardless of orientation) for successful threesomes? About our guest: April Hirschman is the author of the self-help book Best Breakup Ever! Her new memoir Desire Makes Me Brave came out in March 2024. She is a sex and relationship coach and the host of the Heart Centerfold Memoir podcast. She is also a belly dancer, film maker and yoga instructor. To learn more go to Aprilhirschman.com Links IG April.hirschman Fb April Hirschman TikTok April.Hirschman Get the ultimate connection card deck I'm Curious to Know to play with lovers, dates AND friends, created by Kiki Says So and Medinah Monroe of the Cocktales Podcast (and use code SHAMELESS for a discount): https://imcurioustoknow.com/ PORTLAND, CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events VANCOUVER, WA! We are coming for you too for a FREE couple's workshop at Hustler Hollywood. Get your tickets here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% our fave Fun Factory toys as well as the best water-based lube out there AKA Sutil with code shameless at https://us.funfactory.com Get 20% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

How did the fabulous designer Melanie Rose of Netflix's hit show How to Build a Sex Room become known as the “Mary Poppins of sex rooms”? How would someone know what kind of sex room would be the right fit for them, and what they lived in a small two bedroom apartment and have kids? Or a one bedroom or studio…can they make a sex room (or closet/trunk)? What is the purpose of couples making a "mood board" and how does it apply beyond building sex rooms? How can couples uncover their desires and fantasies to add more play and sexiness into the bedroom and beyond? What are some simple DIY ways people can sexify their spaces here and now? And what about sex rooms or toys/products for folks with disabilities? The one, the only, the talented Melanie Ruth Rose shares this and more. About our guest: Melanie Rose was born and raised in London, England. She spent over a decade as a successful actress in theater and television. Since relocating to Los Angeles she has become a much sought-after interior designer. Alongside traditional design and renovations, she also specializes in creating “sacred spaces:” rooms, suites and areas dedicated to the sensual and erotic. She is the host, designer, and consulting producer of the wildly successful reality show on Netflix “How To Build A Sex Room”. To learn more go to http://melanieruthrose.com Follow her on Instagram @melanieruthrose PORTLAND, CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Get more of The Horny Housewife podcast here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Give the gift of a customized song at http://songfinch.com/SHAMELESS + get your song on Spotify so everyone can enjoy - a $50 value! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What is happening behind the scenes when sex/intimacy happens in film, television and porn? What us an "intimacy coordinator" and why do they play a pivotal roll in the on-set production? How do intimacy coordinators choreograph a scene, awnd hat makes CINTIMA’s training important and unique? How does watching a show with intimate plots deepen a couple’s relationship, and how does the quality of the content for intimate scenes - as well as what is happening behind the scenes - affect the consumer? And how can someone become an "intimacy coordinator"? Is it just a career move or can it change an individual's everyday life? About our guests: Jimanekia (she/her) is a Queer Media Consultant, Comprehensive Sex Educator, and Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. She is the host of Trauma Queen - a podcast mini-series for survivors of assault and our allies. She is also the Founder of Tending The Garden, a nonprofit for sexual assault survivors that have been marginalized. Her work as a sex educator has been featured in Playboy, Cosmo, Nylon and MANY more. Jimanekia has worked with Intimacy Coordinators in creating content and teaching since 2021, and became one of the co-owners and co-founders of CINTIMA in 2023. Yehuda Duenyas (he/they) is a transdisciplinary artist creating at the intersections of Intimacy Coordination, Experiential Design, Performance, Film, and Sound. Proudly representing the LGBTQIA+ community, Yehuda brings an authentic and personal voice to their role. As a SAG-AFTRA accredited Intimacy Coordination trainer, Yehuda co-runs CINTIMA.CO, a pioneering training program tailored for marginalized identities entering the field. Notable Film & TV credits include projects such as "MONSTER: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story" (Ryan Murphy/NETFLIX), "Westworld Season 4" (HBO), "The Afterparty Season 2" (SONY/APPLE TV), and "American Gigolo" (Paramount+/Showtime). Intimacy for Performance credits include Faye Driscoll’s Weathering (NY Live Arts; The Blackwood, Toronto), The Beautiful People (Rogue Machine, LA), and Tom Bradshaw’s Fulfillment (The Flea, NYC; ATC, Chicago). Jaclyn Chantel (she/her) is Co-Founder at CINTIMA: Cinematic Intimacy Artists. She is a true multi-hyphenate and has been working in the entertainment industry for over 10 years. After earning her BFA in Acting from the University of Cincinnati’s College-Conservatory of Music, she has worked in production, directing, casting, and acting. This body of work inspired Jaclyn to begin her work as an Intimacy Coordinator, filling her toolbox with experiences and skills from which to draw as she approaches this important work with actors. Using Alexander Technique, Alba Emoting, Viewpoints, and Labon, Jaclyn is a natural at fostering collaboration and personal agency in her work as an Intimacy Coordinator.  Want to become an Intimacy Coordinator? Go to https://www.cintima.co and use code SHAMELESS10 for 10% off! PORTLAND, CHICAGO, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What is a “relationship/sex life reboot”? What are some of the main reasons why women and/or couples find themselves in a place that needs a reboot, and is this the same as a "sexless" marriage or relationship? How do hormones tie into all of this? Are there any preventative measures people can take to avoid entering the “I/We need a reboot”? And what about DIY ways people can do on their own when they are in the “help, I need a reboot” space?  About our guest: Dolly Josette is a somatic sex coach, sexological bodyworker, and founder of Relationship Reboot: a private retreat in Nashville, Tennessee for women and couples. With a focus on intimacy enhancement and embodiment, Relationship Reboot teaches clients how to have the best, most connected sex of their lives. Through embodiment coaching, somatic exercises, and sexological bodywork, Dolly helps clients heal sexual shame, and listen to their body’s subtle cues for safety, arousal and expansive desire. She has been called “a sexual midwife” and a “consummate professional who holds a safe, non-judgemental container”  By accessing the deeper psychology of eroticism and attachment, she helps couples and women experience the aha and yes moments that lead to a lifetime of satisfying sex.  The former President of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers, Dolly’s a recurring guest on Sex With Emily, has been with us before on Shameless Sex, and was named “a leading practitioner in hands-on sexual therapy” by Hustler Magazine.  From retreats to private coaching to online courses, including her Pleasure Rx and Touch.Feel.Connect video series, Dolly Josette has quickly become a go-to voice in sex therapy and pleasure rehab. Now based in Nashville, she spends her countrypolitan time with her hubby of 14 years, their two rescue dogs and their three pygmy dwarf goats. Learn more about Dolly at http://pleasureMuse.com. IG: @PleasureMuse Relationship Reboot Retreat in Nashville Pleasure Rx for just $98 NEW YORK! Come to our FREE meet n' greet at the Museum of Sex on Friday, May 17th from 7-9pm (no ticket required) PHILLY! Come to our FREE Couple's workshop at Hustler Hollywood on Saturday, May 18th from 6-8pm (get tickets ASAP here or on our website http://shamelesssex.com) PORTLAND, CHICAGO, LOS ANGELES, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% your first Bathmate pump when you go to https://bathmatedirect.com/ShamelessSex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode we chat with dear friend and fellow sex educator Tracy Felder. Tracy has traveled the world and has years of experience mastering the art of "sex on the road". From optimizing your (sexual) health while traveling, sex on airplanes, knowing what should be in your sexy travel kit, safety regulations with sex toys, and staying connected to partners from afar, listen to this episode to get your road time sexy on. About our guest: On a mission to spread her sex-positive skills at a national level, Tracy’s career path has led her to COTR, Inc., where she serves as Product Education Director. Working alongside company founder and CEO Alicia Sinclair, Tracy is proud to represent the female-led manufacturer of cutting-edge premium pleasure product brands. With her sights set on promoting sexual wellness, self-care, and acceptance of all gender identities and sexualities, Tracy has also became a certified sex educator. Tracy believes that by embracing oneself sexually and sharing that with a partner(s) is the key to happy sex life. Her motto is: "Share, love, give ... and receive unlimited pleasure!” Links:  b-Vibe | Le Wand | The Cowgirl Insta: @lewandmassager @bvibe.social @tracyflowerchildsherree NEW YORK! Come to our FREE meet n' greet at the Museum of Sex on Friday, May 17th from 7-9pm (no ticket required) PHILLY! Come to our FREE Couple's workshop at Hustler Hollywood on Saturday, May 18th from 6-8pm (get tickets ASAP here or on our website http://shamelesssex.com) PORTLAND, CHICAGO, LOS ANGELES, SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Why is it so important to create a safe erotic space for bi and bi curious women (as compared to other sex parties)? What actually happens at Skirt Club parties? Why do a lot of people feel bisexuality is an “invisible” orientation? Who are all women play parties for? And how can people talk to their partners about wanting to attend Skirt Club (or explore bisexuality in general)?  About our guest: Genevieve is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 24,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. Born in England and raised in Hong Kong, Genevieve has lived in many of the world’s major cities. Her career has spanned financial marketing, sales, branding and journalism. Ten years ago she left her corporate days in finance behind, to pursue a vision of advancing women’s sexual confidence. Genevieve was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. Today she is building the world’s first dating app for bisexual women. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times. Genevieve resides in Miami. About Skirt Club: Away from the prying eyes of men, Skirt Club parties are designed to facilitate a night of consensual experimentation – no consequences, no questions. All our guests share a girl-on-girl interest and no men are allowed, in fact they are banned entirely. ‘Sexual empowerment is not about turning your boyfriend on with another girl’ she says. ‘It’s about doing what excites you’. Geneviève is a firm believer in the link between high risk and high intelligence. Smart sex requires honesty; the ability to express sexual preference and manage the tension between control and risk. Trust and respect with your partner is important, discretion is key. Skirt Club’s mission is to build an exclusive all-female community for empowerment and sexual discovery. A network of career minded women with a common interest. Confident, informed women are more successful and the world only benefits from this.  Designed by women, for women, Skirt Club promotes glamour; free-flowing champagne, burlesque performers and… much more. Attend one of our parties in London, Berlin, Vienna, Ibiza, NYC, SF, LA, DC, Austin, Miami, Shanghai, Brisbane, Sydney and Melbourne.  All of their events are listed here  Come see us LIVE! Learn more about our events here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Give the gift of a customized song at http://songfinch.com/SHAMELESS + get your song on Spotify so everyone can enjoy - a $50 value! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What is the purpose of pheromones? What do they do and how do they work in the body? Do pheromones change based on hormones? Is it true that certain people’s pheromones are not for us? Is there anything that can be done when pheromones don't feel aligned? Is the universe saying this person isn’t compatible with me? About our guest: Jacqui Rubinoff is a dynamic entrepreneur and relationship expert with a profound passion for promoting healthy and fulfilling connections between individuals. With over a decade of dedicated work, Jacqui has made a significant mark in the international market, having successfully built a brand that spans over 20 countries. As an owner and the Vice President of Eye of Love, a distinguished company specializing in high-quality sensual products, Jacqui is at the forefront of creating innovative solutions to enhance people's love lives. Her products, which include vegan and cruelty-free pheromone perfumes and body products, are crafted with meticulous attention to detail, reflecting her commitment to quality and ethical standards. Beyond her role in the sensual products industry, Jacqui is a certified Love Coach and Relationship Expert. She leverages her expertise to offer invaluable advice and guidance to singles and couples alike. Whether through events, seminars, or the Eye of Love platform, Jacqui empowers individuals to strengthen their relationships and foster enduring connections.  With a vision deeply rooted in the belief that everyone deserves a love- filled, fulfilling life, Jacqui Rubinoff continues to make significant strides in the realm of relationships and sensuality. Her unwavering dedication, coupled with her innovative products and expert guidance, has solidified her as a leading figure in the pursuit of love and connection.  Eye of Love links / handles: EOL website: https://www.eyeoflove.com/ EOL IG: https://www.instagram.com/eyeoflove/ EOL FB: https://www.facebook.com/Eyeoflovecollection/ EOL YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-mwk0DpYohJbyu36Jz43VQ EOL TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@eyeoflove EOL Twitter: https://twitter.com/eyeoflove_ Jacqui IG: https://www.instagram.com/jaxrubinoff/   Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% our fave Fun Factory toys with code shameless at https://us.funfactory.com Sign up for our events here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Send us your sex/relationship Q's here: https://forms.gle/ShSCYM84ZhgcuA8r5 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off some of the best toys on the market with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What is ED, what are the main causes, and who does it affect? What are some of the common treatments and exercises that can help with blood flow issues that cause ED? Is Scrotox really Botox for the balls? What does it do and does it really work? What about Botox for the penis? Is it a thing and how can it help with erections? How does a person’s mental health (stress/depression/anxiety) have an effect on ED just as much as a person’s physiological health? And can people who have experienced prostate cancer still have a bright sexual future? About our guest: Dr. Gittens is one of the country’s leading specialists in sexual function for men and women, hormone replacement, male infertility and wellness. He is a board certified urologist, fellowship trained specifically in sexual medicine and male infertility. He is also a clinical associate professor in obstetrics and gynecology. He founded the Rockwell Centers for Sexual Medicine & Wellness in Philadelphia, New York, and Lehigh Valley (formerly Centers for Sexual Medicine) – to provide patients a place with expert care, where they can discreetly address their sexual medical concerns without being rushed or waiting hours to see a physician. An expert in the field, Dr. Gittens takes the time to provide an unmatched level of individualized care by listening to his patients and devising personalized treatment plans. To learn more go to https://centersforsexualmedicine.com or https://xersizer.com/ Come see us LIVE! Learn more about our events here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% sexy lingerie, lubes, massage oils, and the best sex toys in the industry with code HOTSEX at https://hustlerhollywood.com Give the gift of a customized song at http://songfinch.com/SHAMELESS + get your song on Spotify so everyone can enjoy - a $50 value! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

How has the porn industry shifted over the past 20 years, and how is it that Hollywood still gets it wrong when it comes to intimacy? What are the most common fantasies that women have based on their top porn interests? What about men/other genders? If I identify as a feminist and yet I’m super attracted to porn that involves dominance and submission, and maybe even some rough sex, can I still be a feminist while thinking this is hot? How can gang bang scenes (and gang bangs in general) be empowering? Can the woman receiving all the D be in control? About our guest: Erika Lust is an award-winning indie erotic filmmaker who creates sex-positive adult cinema by portraying relatable characters and realistic hot sex, going beyond gender stereotypes and harmful fetishization to offer a ground-breaking alternative to mass-produced mainstream porn. Over the past 20 years, the Erika Lust brand has gone from strength to strength. Erika has directed 6 feature films and series, over 130 short films, and produced around 180 more. In 2015, Erika gave her essential TEDx talk 'It’s Time for Porn to Change'. Her story was featured in the Netflix documentary series 'Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On (“Women on Top”)', directed by Rashida Jones, and 'Principles of Pleasure', directed by Niharika Desai. In 2019, Erika was named one of the BBC 100 Women’s most influential women of the year, and in 2022, her alternative vision of porn was featured in The New York Times and in the BBC Three & HULU series 'Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne'.  Want to see for yourself? Go to http://erikalust.com and use code 30Shameless for 30% off! Come see us LIVE! Learn more about our events here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% sexy lingerie, lubes, massage oils, and the best sex toys in the industry with code HOTSEX at https://hustlerhollywood.com Get 50% off our favorite delicious, healthy pre-made meals with code chipndip50 at http://factormeals.com/chipndip50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode Amy talks about our current favorite sex toys including Amy's mom's favorite, which just might be your mom's kryptonite too. From pussy toys to cock stimulators, Amy shares all about what's getting us off in 2024, as well as how to find the right sex toy for you. For toy references: Check out the Womanzier with air-pulse technology here (and get 20% off with code SPRINGWOMAN20*), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=womanizer* Check out the VIM wand by Fun Factory here (and get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/fun-factory-vim-wand-midnight-blue?_pos=1&_sid=8942195e8&_ss=r Check out the Miss Bi dual stimulator by Fun Factory here (and get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=Miss%20bi* Check out the Solo by Hot Octopuss here (and get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/hot-octopuss-pulse-solo-interactive?_pos=5&_sid=0443a83be&_ss=r

What’s the truth about being single? The good, the bad, the ugly? Why is being single at some point in your adult life important? How can single people become “single and stoked”? What are the steps or what does it take to love single life? What if I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. How can I navigate casual sex without getting into a relationship? And what if I’m single and looking for a LTR? Top tips for navigating sex and dating from this perspective? About our guest: Brianne Hogan is a Canadian writer, author, and podcast host. She has written for over 60 publications, including The Washington Post, the BBC, Elle Canada, Shondaland, Men’s Health, BuzzFeed, HelloGiggles, among others. She’s a regular contributor for Scary Mommy, Lifehacker, SheKnows and Parents, writing mainly in the relationship and lifestyle space. Google “Brianne Hogan and dating” and you’ll find articles ranging from “Easy First Date Ideas” to “How to Flirt” to “How to Date After Divorce.” Ironically, however, she's been single for most of her adult life. Which is why she started the podcast, Seriously Single. You can read her most personal writing on her substack: briannehogan.substack.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% our fave Fun Factory toys with code shameless at https://us.funfactory.com Get 10% your first Bathmate pump when you go to https://bathmatedirect.com/ShamelessSex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off some of the best toys on the market with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Amy Merrill is an artist/activist at the intersection of creative communications, technology, and social change. In 2015, she co-founded Plan C to transform access to abortion pills by mail in the US, and under her co-leadership Plan C has grown to an annual audience of millions on an award-winning website, press reach in the billions, nationwide partnerships in research, creative and tech and “Plan C” as a household term for abortion pills. She was named in Fast Company’s 2023 Most Creative People in Business, serves as advisor for new gen-z emergency contraception brand Julie and new abortion chatbot Charley, and was an inaugural member of the Buckminster Fuller Institute’s Design Science Studio in 2020. Amy holds 20+ years navigating complex social issues, from human trafficking to economic injustice to gender equity: which led to reproductive health and access as a current focus. Her design studio Eyes Open leads creative communications for purpose-driven individuals and organizations. She is based in the Bay Area CA. To learn more about Plan C go to https://www.plancpills.org