Sharing My Truth

What women say they want in a man often sounds clear on paper: emotionally available, confident, strong, kind, and secure. But in real life, attraction doesn’t always follow the script. In this episode, we unpack the growing gap between what women say they want and how they actually respond to masculine men in dating and relationships. This isn’t about blaming anyone; it’s about getting real about desire, polarity, and the confusion a lot of men feel when they do “everything right” and still get rejected. We talk about why masculine energy is often misunderstood, how modern dating culture has softened or distorted what masculinity actually looks like, and why some men feel pressured to tone themselves down to be chosen. If you’ve ever felt like the advice doesn’t match the outcomes or wondered why confidence and leadership are praised but punished in practice, this conversation will hit close to home. Honest, uncomfortable at times, and long overdue. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.  

Is it smarter to settle for the nice guy who treats you well or hold out for the dream man who gives you butterflies but no guarantees? In this episode, we unpack the quiet thoughts many women have but rarely say out loud. The pressure to choose safety over chemistry, fear over desire, and timing over truth. We talk honestly about what “nice” really means, why attraction can’t be negotiated, and how guilt plays a bigger role in dating decisions than most people admit. This conversation goes beyond surface-level dating advice. We explore emotional safety vs sexual spark, the fear of ending up alone, and how social expectations push women to stay in relationships that look good on paper but feel empty in real life. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re being unrealistic, too picky, or quietly settling, this episode will hit close to home. It’s raw, honest, and exactly the conversation people avoid having about modern relationships. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.  

She never meant to fall into an affair. It didn’t start in a dramatic or scandalous way, it started slow. A few late-night work chats, a growing connection, and the feeling that someone finally saw her. But everything changed the moment she found out she was pregnant. Then his wife announced she was expecting too, and he chose his wife and family over her. In this listener story, we dig into how these situations actually unfold, the emotional slide from innocent conversations to a full relationship, and the power imbalance that keeps women hoping things will turn out differently. We discuss the guilt, the heartbreak, and the shock of realizing the man who made big promises is now trying to hide you and the baby. This episode gets into the truth about affairs, workplace boundaries, emotional manipulation, and what happens when you become the “other woman” without ever intending to. We also unpack how to move forward, protect your mental health, and break patterns that pull you into relationships that hurt. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.  

Our Instagram inbox lit up again, and this round of listener questions goes straight into the real-life problems couples argue about. In this episode, Mel and Suzie tackle the classics: do you actually have to like his friends, what to do if you don’t get along with her family, whether it is okay to crash boys night, and how much space a healthy relationship really needs. We break down boundaries, respect, and expectations, plus what these situations say about your connection as a couple. You’ll hear honest advice on handling friend drama, navigating in-law tension, balancing independence, and setting boundaries without turning small issues into bigger relationship problems. If you’ve ever searched for answers about relationship boundaries, partner compatibility, family issues, friend groups, or how to deal with uncomfortable social dynamics in a relationship, this episode gives you clear, grounded guidance. Part 2 of our Instagram write-in series covers the questions couples face all the time but rarely talk about openly. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

Listeners sent in their biggest relationship questions on Instagram, and we’re digging into all the issues people are actually dealing with. In this episode, Mel and Suzie break down everything from mixed signals and lack of communication to intimacy problems, emotional disconnect, arguments that never get resolved, and the classic “are we even compatible” panic. We talk about why relationships start to feel one-sided, what to do when the spark drops, how to handle conflict without blowing things up, and the signs your partner might be pulling away. If you’ve ever searched for answers about communication issues, trust problems, attachment styles, or why dating feels so confusing, this episode is packed with real guidance and honest advice. Whether you’re trying to save a relationship, figure out if it is worth the effort, or just understand why things feel harder than they should, this Instagram write-in episode gives you a clear way forward and shows you that you’re not the only one trying to make sense of love. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

She’s tired of swiping, drained from first dates that go nowhere, and starting to believe she might never meet someone who feels right. This listener story captures online dating burnout in a way so many women relate to, especially when you keep putting in the effort and getting the same disappointing results. In this episode, we get into why modern dating feels so overwhelming, how app fatigue shows up, and the emotional toll it takes when you start wondering if you’ll be single forever. We also talk about what actually helps you break that cycle. From rebuilding confidence to meeting people in real life, to spotting the patterns that keep leading you to the wrong matches, we share practical ways to get out of the dating rut. If you’re scared you’ll never find someone or you’re losing hope, this conversation offers a grounded, honest look at what you can do next and how to feel excited about dating again. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

In this bold and unfiltered episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie dive into one of the most viral debates online: the “women are the prize” mindset. They break down where this idea came from, how it plays out in today’s dating culture, and why so many men feel the scales have tipped too far. From confidence vs. entitlement to the hidden insecurities behind “high-value” dating talk, this episode gets real about gender dynamics, attraction, and who’s really chasing who in 2025. Expect laughter, a few jaw-drops, and some hard truths about what both men and women bring to the table. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

In this emotional listener write-in episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie read a message from a woman who admits that her relationship has completely broken down. The talking has stopped. The sex has disappeared. And now, she’s wondering if there’s any way to bring the connection back or if it’s already too late. This episode dives deep into the painful silence that builds when couples stop communicating and how that loss of emotional connection almost always leads to a loss of physical intimacy. Mel and Suzie break down what happens when partners stop feeling seen, heard, or desired and why so many relationships end up in this quiet, disconnected place without anyone meaning for it to happen. They explore both sides of the story: what men often misunderstand about emotional closeness and what women need to feel safe enough to open up again emotionally and physically. Together, they unpack how resentment, routine, and lack of effort can kill passion and share realistic, no-BS steps to rebuild intimacy before the relationship is beyond repair. Whether you’re married, dating, or trying to reconnect after years together, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt like their relationship turned into a friendship or worse, strangers under the same roof. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

If you keep asking yourself, “Why can’t I meet anyone in real life?” this episode’s for you. Mel and Suzie break down the real reasons modern dating feels impossible. From endless swiping and ghosting to social anxiety and unrealistic expectations, they unpack why so many people are stuck in the “still single” loop. You’ll hear raw, funny, and brutally honest truths about what’s holding you back, plus real advice on how to actually meet someone worth your time. Whether you’ve been single for years or just feel like dating has lost its spark, this episode will help you get unstuck and start connecting again. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

A listener sent us a deeply personal confession: she has never truly found pleasure in sex! In this brutally honest episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie dive into her story and what it reveals about how so many women experience (and fake) pleasure. They talk openly about the reasons women pretend in bed, fear of rejection, emotional disconnection, performance pressure, and deep-rooted shame and what that does to relationships over time. You’ll hear unfiltered truths about what women really need to feel turned on, safe, and satisfied. And for the men listening, this episode is a wake-up call: Mel and Suzie share what you can do to help your partner stop faking it, communicate what she truly needs, and finally enjoy sex the way it’s meant to be real, connected, and mutual. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.  

What happens when you discover the man you love has been living a double life, or worse, when it turns out you’re not the only one he’s been lying to? In this wild episode, Mel and Suzie read two explosive listener write-ins; one is from a wife revealing a jaw-dropping story of her husband's secret love child, the other from a man who is the "love child," the product of a hidden marriage. From the shocking discoveries to the emotional wreckage left behind, Mel and Suzie dive deep into the lies, the denial, and the heartbreak that comes when the truth finally surfaces. Why do some men risk everything to live two lives? And what should you do if you ever find yourself in the same devastating situation? With their signature mix of humour, empathy, and tough love, Mel and Suzie break down the red flags, the psychology behind double lives, and the lessons every woman can take away. Real stories, raw emotions, and reactions you won’t forget, this is one episode you’ll be talking about long after it ends. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

Are women their own worst enemies when it comes to love? In this brutally honest and funny episode, Mel and Suzie dive deep into the ways women unintentionally sabotage their relationships, from setting impossible standards to confusing independence with emotional walls.  They unpack why so many women say they want connection but push good men away, how people-pleasing kills desire, and why self-sabotage often hides behind “I’m just protecting my peace.” Expect raw truth, personal confessions, and a few uncomfortable laughs as they explore what it really takes for women to stop fighting themselves and start finding real intimacy. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

A YouTube listener asked us a big question: “Why are conventionally gorgeous women so surprised when men approach them?” He also pointed out that in today’s dating world, many men don’t approach women at all, and when they finally do, women often reject them. In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie unpack the psychology of dating rejection, attraction, and confidence. Why do some women act shocked when men show genuine interest, even if those women are considered beautiful? Why are so many men holding back from making a move? And how do modern dating dynamics, social media, self-esteem, and shifting gender roles play into all of this? We break down the real reasons women reject men (even good ones), why men hesitate to approach, and what both sides can do to break the cycle. Expect laughs, blunt honesty, and some tough truths about rejection, attraction, and relationships in today’s dating culture. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

Why do women say they want a “nice guy” but still chase the bad boys? Why do they seem shocked when a man actually approaches them? And what do women really mean when they say they’re “not ready for a relationship”? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie take on the biggest, most confusing questions men have about women. With zero filters and plenty of honesty, they break down dating dynamics, attraction, and the hidden signals women send whether they realize it or not. If you’ve ever felt like understanding women is impossible, this conversation is for you. From first dates to long-term commitment, we explore what women actually want, what turns them off, and how men can stop second-guessing themselves. Packed with real stories, laughs, and straight talk, this episode gives men the clarity they’ve been searching for. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

Is men’s self-care weak, or is it essential to attracting women? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie break down how grooming, mental health, fitness, and confidence play into dating success. Is skipping self-care actually keeping you single? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie get into the debate, does looking after yourself make you more attractive, or do men risk being seen as “not masculine” for doing it? From grooming and mental health to sleep, skin care, we explore whether self-care is a weakness or the ultimate secret weapon for finding a woman who actually wants to stick around. Get ready for laughs, some hard truths, and maybe even permission to book that massage without guilt. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

A young man, a married woman in her 50s, and a suburban street where temptation lived just over the fence. In this episode, we unpack the jaw-dropping story of a young guy who finds himself in a steamy affair with his brother’s hot, married neighbour. It’s got all the ingredients of a guilty pleasure drama—age gaps, family betrayal, and the kind of secret rendezvous that can only end in chaos. Mel and Suzie break down what really drives affairs like this. Is it the thrill of danger? The allure of experience? Or just two people escaping their reality in the worst possible way? We’re talking sex, secrecy, and the messy fallout of chasing desire where you absolutely shouldn’t. Buckle up—this one is raw, funny, and way too relatable. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.  

Is dating secretly a competition? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie ask if men actually date better when there’s rivalry in the mix. Do guys bring more effort when they know other men are in the picture—or is it just toxic game-playing disguised as romance? We dig into psychology, ego, attraction, and whether competition makes men step up… or just act out. If you’ve ever wondered why men suddenly plan dates, dress sharper, or turn on the charm only when there’s “another guy,” this one’s for you. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

Every guy’s had the thought: what if my girlfriend grabs my phone and starts snooping? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie go all in on digital boundaries. Should you give your GF your password as a sign of trust—or is that just an invitation for drama? We talk about where men and women should draw the line, what password sharing really says about your relationship, and how much privacy you’re actually entitled to when you’re in love. From late-night Instagram DMs to the “let me just borrow your phone” move, we’re breaking down the unspoken rules of digital trust. Is sharing passwords proof of loyalty or the fastest way to get labelled guilty before trial? Listen in as we stir up the debate and drop some hard truths about modern dating, snooping, and trust in the age of screens. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

Is seeing more than one person at the same time the ultimate dating freedom… or a ticking time bomb for heartbreak? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie spill the tea on the realities of multi-dating, when it’s exciting, when it’s smart, and when it’s just plain messy. We unpack the pros and cons, how to keep things honest (and drama-free), and the signs your “just having fun” phase might actually be a relationship red flag. From the thrill of variety to the awkward “exclusive talk,” we share personal stories, listener confessions, and a few cringe-worthy moments you’ll relate to. If you’ve ever wondered whether dating multiple people is empowering or a disaster waiting to happen, this episode gives you the real talk, flirty, unfiltered, and just a little scandalous. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more. Tough love, a few laughs, and real talk that might just save your marriage.

Ever wondered what actually happens at an orgy, beyond the wild rumours and whispered conversations? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie strip away the myths and talk openly about the world of group sex. We cover what an orgy really is, the rules and etiquette everyone should know, how consent is handled, and what it’s like to be in the room when things get heated. Suzie even recounts her own experience, from the moment she walked in, to the surprising moments that weren’t what you would think, to how she felt the morning after. We talk about everything from first-timer nerves to seasoned secrets, the planning to the play, and how people actually navigate sex with multiple partners. Mel listens and has questions! Whether you’re curious, considering an invite, or just want to know what really goes down, this conversation is raw, real, and anything but shy. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.