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#157 It’s Time 4 Change: Spring Forward or Fall Back

We all hit those moments when we have to make a choice — do we move forward or stay where we are? In this episode, we’re getting real about the tough decisions that come with growth, relationships, and purpose. Let’s talk about it: How do you know if staying is the right thing to do? What signs or evidence should you look for before making your move? How can you tell if it’s true growth or just a guilt reaction holding you back?Join the conversation LIVE and let’s unpack what it really means to spring forward into your next season — or recognize when it’s time to fall back and let go. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

11-12
01:01:03

#156 Gentle Parenting Part 2

In this episode, we’re back with Part 2 of our gentle parenting convo — and we’re taking it even deeper. Because let’s be honest, raising kids with patience, grace, and understanding sounds good… until real life shows up. Tonight we’re breaking down Culture vs. Kingdom parenting, learning to communicate without chaos, and getting clear on the bigger purpose behind how we raise our kids. It’s not just about keeping peace — it’s about shaping hearts, building character, and raising world-changers. This one is real, raw, and necessary.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

11-05
01:01:38

#155 Healing Old Wounds

In this episode, we’re talking about those old wounds we thought we got over—but didn’t. The stuff from our past that still shows up in how we love, trust, and communicate today. We break down what real healing looks like, how to stop bleeding on people who didn’t cut you, and how to finally let go of what’s been holding you back. It’s time to stop covering it up and start doing the work to get free.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

10-29
01:00:52

#153 Trauma Bonds - "The Ties That Break Us"!

We’re diving deep into the connections that feel like love but are really chains. This episode uncovers how pain can disguise itself as passion, why we stay tied to toxic cycles, and what it truly takes to break free and heal for realSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

10-15
01:01:12

#152 "Having Babies Before Saying I Do" - Covenant Vs Culture

We’re diving deep into the connections that feel like love but are really chains. This episode uncovers how pain can disguise itself as passion, why we stay tied to toxic cycles, and what it truly takes to break free and heal for reaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

10-15
01:06:56

#152 Old School Truths for a New School Generation

In this episode, we talk about the struggles between parents and children. When conflict shows up, is it the parents who need to adjust, or are the children pushing boundaries? We’ll dig into discipline, communication, and understanding on both sides, asking the hard question: where does the real problem lie—and how can families work together to fix it?Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

09-24
01:02:54

#151 You Know Me, But Do You Really See Me

In this episode we talk about the struggle many couples face—being known but not truly understood. In relationships, it’s easy to fall into routines and assumptions, but real connection goes deeper. We talk about what it means to feel seen, valued, and understood by your partner. Real TalkSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

09-17
01:02:19

#150 I'm Frustrated, And I've Been Quiet About It

In this episode, we get real about the moments when frustration builds up but words stay locked inside. Sometimes silence feels safer than speaking up—but holding it in can create distance, resentment, and even more pain. Let's have some Real Talk about why people choose to stay quiet, what that silence really communicates. Because staying silent may protect peace for the moment, but speaking up is what helps relationships truly grow.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

09-10
01:06:09

#149 Intimacy Beyond the Bedroom

In this episode, we’re talking about intimacy that goes way deeper than just the bedroom. Real intimacy shows up in the little things. What is Intimacy? Should intimacy evolve with the relationship? Let have some real talk.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

09-03
01:00:08

#148 Silently Broken

In this episode, we talk about up about the quiet pain of being hurt and broken in a relationship while choosing to stay silent. So many carry unspoken wounds—bottling up emotions, hiding disappointment, and suffering in silence to keep the peace. But silence doesn’t heal; it only deepens the hurt. Let's talk about itSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

08-27
01:01:45

#147 DealBreakers in Relationships

In this episode, we talk about the non-negotiables that can make or break a relationship. What happens when those boundaries are crossed? Are deal breakers the moment to walk away—or can they be a chance to grow? Let's talk about it!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

08-20
01:01:16

#146 What Are We Fighting For, What's The Point?

Are we truly addressing the real issues, or just battling over pride, past wounds, or misunderstandings? Ask youself, Is this fight worth it; Is there a purpose; or is it that neither one of us want to let go of the rope. Real Talk TonightSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

08-13
56:42

#145 Love Is More Than Just A Feeling with Guest Baritone

In this episode we talk about the difference between true love and the fantasy of being in love. It’s easy to get caught up in the emotions—the butterflies, the passion, the excitement—but what happens when the feelings fade and real life sets in?.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

07-30
58:27

#144 What's Done In The Dark Will Come To The Light

In this episode we talk about the hidden secrets, silent struggles, and private choices that can quietly impact a relationship. Whether it's dishonesty, emotional affairs, financial secrets, or unresolved pasts—what’s kept in the dark doesn’t stay there forever. We talk about the pain of exposure, and the opportunity for healing and restoration. This episode is about accountability, transparency, and repentance.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

07-23
01:01:16

#143 Is Marriage Work

In this episode we talk about what it truly takes to build and maintain a strong marriage. Is love enough, or is effort the glue that holds it all together? Whether you're newly married, thinking about marriage, or years into the journey, this episode explores the truth behind the phrase “marriage takes work” and why the effort is worth it.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

07-16
59:55

#142 What Happens Couples Live Apart For Growth?

Today we talk about couples who choose physical distance in pursuit of personal healing, spiritual growth or just a breather. Is it possible to grow individually without growing apart? We discuss the challenges, boundaries, and communication it takes to maintain love while living separately. This episode unpacks the reasons behind the decision, the emotional impact, and how some distance—when done with purpose—can actually strengthen the relationship.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

07-09
01:01:53

#141 Silent Struggles - What Couple Don't Talk About But Should

In this episode we talk about breaking the silent struggles in relationships. Because what’s left unspoken can become the loudest problem. How can we create a safe space for honesty, and build stronger, more transparent connections.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

07-02
01:03:12

#140 Church Hurt - Pews, Pains and Pretenders

In this episode we dive into the painful but often unspoken experiences of being wounded within a faith community. Whether it’s from judgment, betrayal, leadership failures, or feeling overlooked and misunderstood, church hurt runs deep and can shake your faith. This is a space for honesty, reflection, and hope—for anyone who’s been hurt in a place that was supposed to feel safe.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

06-18
01:06:00

#139 Torn Between The Two - A Child's Dilemma

In this episode we talk about the emotional tug-of-war children often face when caught in the middle of separated or divorced parents. This episode sheds light on what kids may feel but rarely say, and offers insight for parents on how to prioritize the child’s peace over personal conflict.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

06-04
01:03:09

#138 I Can't Take This No Mo - When The One You Love Takes The Hit

In this episode we’re talking about the pain of being the emotional punching bag for someone you care deeply about. What do you do when the stress, anger, or frustration they carry ends up directed at you—the very person standing by their side? It’s time to talk about what we carry, what we allow, and when enough is enough.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/shiftrealtalk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

05-28
01:10:15

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