Should We Get Married

What is marriage? What is a relationship? Hosts Kiley & Kyle enjoy talking about the human connection. Listen along to VERY open conversations of love and humor, shortcomings and growth as we make our way through the the nooks and crannies of day-to-day relationshipping.

E34 - YES

In a surprising plot twist, Kyle & Kiley share the detailed story of their engagement, how the answer to this podcast came to be "yes", and what's next on this journey. Watch on YouTube to see the proposal video, photos and more goodies. Is this the Finale or do you want more Episodes? Let us know on Instagram @SWGMpodContinue the Journey: @tamekyle  @motorcyclesandfilm @kileybs  

06-16
01:07:52

E33 - Ask These Questions Before You Get Married

Ask These Questions Before You Get Married: What is the meaning of life? What happens when we die? Do you believe in ghosts or spirits? How religious are you? Does religion show up at our wedding? The list goes on...Now on YouTube: Watch This EpisodeInstagram: @SWGMpodAsk Us Anything: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? Leave a Review!

02-23
01:03:48

E32 - Are We Monogamous?

It may be an easy questions on the surface, but how about when we dissect it as a societal construct in a world of ever-evolving human relationships? Kiley & Kyle watched "Monogamy, explained" by Vox on Netflix and waited for this episode to discuss it.Now on YouTube: Watch This EpisodeInstagram: @SWGMpodAsk Us Anything: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? Leave a Review!

02-09
01:00:00

E31 - Are You Me Or Am I Me?

Kyle & Kiley talk about checking other people out on social media and who they're attracted to, what they need from one another during rough times since they have different love languages, and answer some listener questions.Now on YouTube: Watch This EpisodeInstagram: @SWGMpodAsk Us Anything: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? Leave a Review!

01-26
01:04:33

E30 - A Midnight Piss

Kyle & Kiley tell the story of what happened at midnight on New Year's Eve - the most magical moment followed by horror. After story time, they each share Top 5 Relationship Moments of 2020, and personal goals for 2021. Happy New Year!Now on YouTube: Watch This EpisodeBehind the scenes: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? Leave a review!

01-05
01:11:10

E29 - A Very Married Christmas

This Covid Christmas looked a bit different than others. Kiley & Kyle reflect on what they learned about each other during the first few years of meeting family and attending holiday functions, and how that's changed. They get into the nitty gritty about some current disagreements and how to laugh them off. Enjoy the last episode of 2020!Now on YouTube: Watch This EpisodeBehind the scenes: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? Leave a review!

12-29
01:20:46

E28 - Is This Thing On?

What's been going on? Kiley & Kyle are here to talk about it. In a new location!Now on YouTube: Watch This EpisodeBehind the scenes: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? Leave a review!

12-15
01:27:19

Episode 27 - Repairing Relationships During Isolation

Kiley & Kyle are isolating together during the Covid19 pandemic, which is full of sex, video games & working from home. But when your lockdown buddy gets on your nerves, it's a good time to review Gottman's Repair Checklist!Episode credit: Gottman's Repair Checklist Instagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

04-08
01:14:26

Episode 26 - Coronavirus Family Time

Coming at ya from a Coronavirus HOT SPOT, Kiley & Kyle end up talking sex, birth control, PMS, recent (poorly timed) travels, plans and ideas for social distancing during the looming Washington shutdown. Instagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

03-17
01:10:35

Episode 25 - What Happens When You Cheat

Kiley & Kyle discuss their unplanned 3 month hiatus from the podcast.Instagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

03-02
01:13:22

Episode 24 - Inevitable Blessing Slams

Kiley & Kyle tune in POST-Thanksgiving and PRE-vacation with gratitude talks and favorite traditions, ending with Kyle playing Blackbird on the Ukulele!Instagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

11-30
01:09:09

Episode 23 - Binge-Watch the Universe

Kiley & Kyle talk about 25 things to do together instead of binge-watching Netflix, and then talk about all the sweet shows & movies they've been watching lately. Also in this episode: Most embarrassing childhood halloween costumes.Episode Credits: 25 Things to Do as a Couple instead of Binge-Watching NetflixInstagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

11-07
01:03:43

Episode 22 - Zip on your Winkle

Kiley talks about her trip to London & Birthday abroad. Kyle takes us on a stroll through Reddit of why different couples decided to divorce after 20+ years of marriage. Can you find the impromptu Me No Likey in this episode?Episode Credits: Butt-wiping giff & Reddit FeedInstagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

10-30
01:08:36

Episode 21 - We're All Flawed & It's Ok

Why Fleabag is everything, Kyle's very specific (hilarious) dating fear, how to walk through anxiety & be there for others, internet "tips" on traveling away from your SO, a "Question of Questions" segment on losing virginity, and more.Check us out on the Live In Everett Podcast! Sharing Secrets with Should We Get MarriedInstagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

10-11
56:47

Episode 20 - Word Association Test Gone Wrong

Word Ass Tests have been used in therapy for years, but can be a good dating tool to sift through weirdos or gain insight into your current partner's psyche in surprisingly few words. See what happens when Kiley & Kyle try it out. More from this episode: relationship challenges of home remodeling and the Emmy's!Credits: All about Carl Jung's Word Association Test and his full word list.Instagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

09-20
01:04:57

Episode 19 - Snack Wipe Ball Hit

Me Likey Me No Likey is back for another segment with confessions of things that irritate and satisfy each other. Kiley & Kyle get into the weeds about making the bed (it's important) and other bedroom habits. They talk about seeing Bon Iver & Sharon Van Etten at the Gorge, chasing a thunderstorm,  and answer some thoughtful listener questions. Instagram: @SWGMpodAsk a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous.Do you Likey? A review would be cool.

09-11
01:02:10

Episode 18 - Non-pubis Hairomie

Kiley & Kyle sit down this week to decipher the newest dating lingo. They share plenty tales of "first times", like first (awkward) I Love You's, first time shaving, first bra (and bully), etc. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool. Episode Credits: WTF Is Roaching?...

09-04
53:07

Episode 17 - 7 "Signs" It Won't Last

The Pod is back on track! In this episode, Kiley & Kyle take a "Should we get married?" temperature check, set half-way expectations for those New Year resolutions, and talk through another helpful (or not) internet article about 7 subtle signs that a marriage/relationship won't last. Complete with a violent edition of the returning segment: Question of Questions. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous. Do you Likey? A review would be cool. Episode Credit: Experts Say These 7 Subtle Signs May Mean a Marriage Won't Last (Hey, wordy much?)

08-27
47:46

Episode 16 - F*** Wholesome

If you want wholesome, you'll have to go to Reddit. Instead, we're here to answer all of our listener questions. Find out who has faked an orgasm, our astrological compatibility, how we feel about the 4 relationship pillars, and more. Thanks for writing in! ASK MORE QUESTIONS! Tell us your secrets. It's anonymous: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Do you Likey? Let us know!

08-12
45:03

Episode 15 - 6 Years Later

So much time has passed. 6 Years as a couple, and 6 weeks since the last episode. Kiley & Kyle are back to chat about road trips, fights, and motorcycle meltdowns. Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know!

06-30
55:59

Arlyce Hopkins

The Stand is awesime

11-30 Reply

Arlyce Hopkins

Divorce is hell...it is always the chance you take when you get married. Just don't waste your Life being married to the wrong person.

10-03 Reply

Arlyce Hopkins

Divorce really sucks...if I could have a redo, I would not have married the wrong guy...

09-06 Reply

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