Sisters In Sobriety

Welcome to another episode of "Sisters in Sobriety." Today, Sonia and Kathleen tackle the highs and lows of the early sobriety journey. They'll break down the "pink cloud" phase and share tips on handling sobriety fatigue, making sure you're well-prepared for the ride ahead.In this chat, Sonia and Kathleen discuss the pink cloud—those early days of sobriety when everything feels amazing. They’ll answer questions like: What is the pink cloud? How long does it last? Why do we experience sobriety fatigue? And how can we deal with it? These insights will help you stay balanced and motivated.You’ll learn about the temporary nature of the pink cloud, how to stay grounded, and practical strategies to overcome sobriety fatigue. Topics include the physical and mental perks of early sobriety, the challenges of long-term recovery, and the importance of self-care, mindfulness, and support networks.The episode also features personal stories, including Sonia's struggles with sobriety fatigue and Kathleen's reflections on her early sobriety. This is "Sisters in Sobriety," the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramHighlights: [00:02:08] What the pink cloud is and why it matters. [00:02:29] Introduction to sobriety fatigue. [00:04:00] Sonia’s first sober high. [00:05:00] Understanding the temporary pink cloud. [00:06:53] Kathleen’s personal experience with early sobriety and fatigue. [00:09:00] How the pink cloud affects mental health and relationships. [00:10:30] Staying grounded during the pink cloud phase. [00:11:18] Feelings during the pink cloud. [00:12:46] How long the pink cloud lasts. [00:13:25] Why the pink cloud can be misleading. [00:14:24] Staying motivated after the pink cloud. [00:15:33] Navigating relationships while on the pink cloud. [00:18:13] Common setbacks after the pink cloud. [00:19:18] Managing expectations during early sobriety. [00:20:51] Prepping for the end of the pink cloud. [00:22:26] Sonia’s experience with sobriety fatigue and how she copes.[00:24:00] Kathleen talks about the value of gratitude in sobriety.[00:26:09] Recognizing symptoms of sobriety fatigue.[00:27:31] Effective strategies for dealing with sobriety fatigue.[00:28:13] Importance of mindfulness and self-care.[00:29:00] Impact of sobriety fatigue on mental health.[00:31:12] Role of therapy and counseling in recovery.[00:32:45] The significance of self-compassion in overcoming fatigue.[00:34:44] How support groups like Everbloom can help.[00:35:39] How family and friends can support during sobriety fatigue.[00:36:43] Turning challenges into growth opportunities.[00:37:51] Maintaining a balanced perspective on sobriety.[00:38:57] Final reflections and takeaways from the discussion.

Join Sonia in this episode of Sisters in Sobriety as she sits down with Jon Kostas, an inspiring advocate for addiction recovery and a trailblazer in the field of psychedelic-assisted therapy (PAT) for alcohol use disorder. Jon’s journey from struggling with alcoholism to finding a path to sobriety through PAT is nothing short of transformative. His mission? To make this life-changing treatment accessible to everyone who needs it.Jon Kostas made history as the first person to complete a clinical trial at New York University studying psilocybin-assisted therapy for alcohol use disorder. He credits this therapy with curing his stubborn alcoholism and saving his life. Now, he’s on a mission to spread the word and help others through his organization, the Apollo Pact, which raises awareness and promotes psychedelic research by working with researchers and Congress.Sonia and Jon dive into some fascinating topics: What drove Jon to try psilocybin therapy after other treatments failed? How does this unique therapy work, and what sets it apart from traditional methods? What are the potential benefits and risks? This episode sheds light on the exciting world of psychedelic therapy and its promise for addiction recovery.Get ready to learn about the science behind psilocybin therapy and its potential to treat a range of mental health issues. Jon breaks down the rigorous clinical trial process, why medical supervision is crucial, and how advocacy plays a key role in advancing this groundbreaking research. Keywords like "psilocybin-assisted therapy," "psychedelic research," and "addiction recovery" will pop up throughout, making complex ideas easy to understand.Jon’s personal story is incredibly relatable. He opens up about his battles with alcohol, the many recovery attempts that didn’t stick, and how psilocybin therapy turned his life around. His journey from hopelessness to hope will resonate with anyone facing similar struggles. As he shares his current advocacy efforts, Jon paints a hopeful picture of the future of addiction treatment.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.*Jon was interviewed by Anderson Cooper for 60 Minutes, Harry Smith for NBC’s TODAY Show, Nightly News with Lester Holt, Sunday TODAY with Willie Geist, and Michael Pollan for How to Change Your Mind. He has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Fox, CBS, NBC, CNN, TIME Magazine, New York Post, Washington Post, U.S. News & World Report, among other national outlets.Highlights:[00:01:14] - Introduction of Jon Kostas, his journey from alcoholism to recovery through psychedelic-assisted therapy.[00:02:00] - Jon discusses the founding of the Apollo Pact and its mission to change addiction treatment.[00:02:37] - Jon shares a bit about his early life and what led him to begin his recovery journey.[00:04:00] - Jon describes his first experience with AA meetings and how it resonated with him.[00:07:00] - Sonia asks Jon if he continued drinking after his first AA meeting, and Jon explains his struggle with maintaining sobriety.[00:08:50] - Jon talks about his experience with numerous treatment attempts and the frustration of treatment-resistant alcoholism.[00:11:00] - Discussion about the perception of alcoholism as a disease and how it impacts patients.[00:12:30] - Jon shares his thoughts on the guilt and moral hangovers associated with drinking.[00:16:00] - Jon explains his initial fear and hesitation about entering the psilocybin-assisted therapy trial.[00:19:00] - Description of the screening and preparation process for the psilocybin sessions.[00:21:00] - Jon describes the setup and environment of his first psilocybin therapy session.[00:24:00] - Jon shares the transformative experience during his first psilocybin session and the realization of its impact.[00:26:00] - Jon discusses the symbolism he experienced during his sessions, such as seeing a liquor bottle disintegrate.[00:28:00] - Insights into the peacefulness Jon felt during a death experience in one of his sessions.[00:30:00] - Jon talks about the difference between psilocybin therapy and other treatments like ketamine.[00:32:00] - Explanation of the legal status of psilocybin and the importance of clinical trials for approval.[00:34:00] - Jon emphasizes the need for proper medical supervision and the safety of psilocybin treatment.[00:36:20] - Discussion about the potential for FDA approval and making psilocybin treatment more accessible.[00:38:00] - Jon talks about the advocacy work of the Apollo Pact and its role in advancing psychedelic research.[00:44:00] - Jon reflects on how his understanding of recovery has evolved and the importance of new treatment approaches.Links:Find Out More About Jon's Work Here - www.apollopact.orgSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Kathleen and Sonia tackle a fear many in recovery face: wondering if all the fun ends when you choose sobriety. Spoiler alert—it doesn't! They dive into how life without alcohol can be more vibrant and full of genuine joy, with the sparkle just beginning.Kathleen and Sonia chat about how our ideas of fun change in sobriety, what it means to truly thrive, and how to find joy in the little things. They bust some myths about fun in sobriety and share their own experiences. Keywords: sobriety, joy, recovery, genuine connection, vibrant life.Listeners will pick up tips on discovering the "sparkle of sobriety," redefining what fun means, and making authentic connections. Kathleen and Sonia discuss how to handle social events without drinking, deal with FOMO, and find activities that genuinely interest you. In the personal story segment, Sonia and Kathleen share how their ideas of fun have evolved since getting sober. They recount memorable, joyful moments and talk about the ups and downs of finding new ways to enjoy life. These stories are relatable and inspiring for anyone on the sober journey.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:00:55] - Sonia and Kathleen introduce the episode and discuss the common fear of losing fun in sobriety.[00:01:26] - Sonia shares Mary Carr’s quote about finding true sparkle in sobriety, setting the tone for the episode.[00:02:14] - Kathleen explains how sobriety can lead to a vibrant life with genuine joy.[00:02:31] - Sonia encourages listeners to grab their favorite non-alcoholic drink and get comfortable.[00:03:00] - Kathleen describes how her definition of fun has evolved since becoming sober.[00:03:46] - Sonia talks about the clarity and awe that comes with sobriety, sharing her experience with a memorable sunset.[00:05:01] - Kathleen shares how feeling physically amazing was a turning point for seeing joy in sobriety.[00:06:16] - Sonia recounts her sober trip to Italy and how it changed her perspective on fun and vacations.[00:08:15] - Sonia reflects on how her wild and crazy persona was shaped by alcohol and her fear of losing it.[00:09:51] - Sonia discusses finding real, authentic fun by leaning into things and people she loves.[00:11:01] - Kathleen talks about how sobriety can boost self-confidence and improve social interactions.[00:12:13] - Sonia explains how sobriety helps uncover the true self hidden under the influence of alcohol.[00:13:25] - Kathleen emphasizes the importance of aligning fun activities with personal values.[00:14:12] - Sonia debunks the myth that alcohol reveals our true selves, sharing her negative experiences.[00:16:20] - Kathleen describes how sobriety allows for a deeper connection with passions and interests.[00:17:12] - Sonia suggests looking back to childhood for inspiration on fun activities in sobriety.[00:19:13] - Kathleen shares how her social life changed drastically after getting sober.[00:21:35] - Sonia talks about finding joy in spontaneous moments with family, like making a lemon pie with her niece.[00:23:47] - Kathleen describes her ideal fun weekend now, focusing on nature and exploring new things.[00:25:34] - Sonia and Kathleen discuss creating new traditions for holidays and celebrations to maintain sobriety and have fun.Links:Sisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," host Sonia Kahlon is joined by the inspiring Valerie Mason-John, also known as Vimalasara. Valerie is a renowned author and public speaker whose work in the field of addiction and recovery has made a profound impact. Today, Sonia explores Valerie's unique approach to addiction recovery, which blends mindfulness, compassion, and holistic practices. They will be discussing Valerie’s journey, their groundbreaking methodologies, and how these can help listeners on their own sobriety journeys.Valerie Mason-John (Vimalasara) is the author of several acclaimed books, including "Eight Step Recovery: Using the Buddha’s Teachings to Overcome Addiction" and "Detox Your Heart: Meditations for Emotional Trauma." They are also a public speaker and co-founder of the international Mindfulness-Based Addiction Recovery (MBAR) program. With their extensive background in both addiction recovery and Buddhism, Valerie offers a unique perspective that combines practical strategies with spiritual insights. Their latest book, "First Aid Kit for the Mind: Breaking the Cycle of Habitual Behaviors," continues to provide valuable tools for those seeking recovery.Throughout the episode, listeners will delve into key questions such as: What are the primary triggers for addictive behaviors? How can mindfulness and meditation be integrated into recovery practices? What role does self-compassion play in overcoming addiction? By addressing these questions, the episode provides valuable insights and practical strategies for listeners on their sobriety journey.Educational takeaways from this episode include understanding the habit loop of addiction, the importance of creating a personalized recovery plan, and techniques for managing cravings and triggers. Listeners will also learn about the benefits of meditation and mindfulness, and how these practices can support long-term recovery and emotional well-being.In the personal story segment, Valerie shares their journey from struggling with addiction to becoming a leader in the recovery community. Their candid account of overcoming challenges and finding empowerment through mindfulness and compassion is both moving and motivational. Valerie also discusses how their Buddhist practice has shaped their approach to addiction and recovery, providing deeper insights into the spiritual aspects of their journey.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:00] - Introduction to Valerie Mason-John, also known as Vimalasara, author and public speaker with a profound impact on the field of addiction and recovery.[00:02:00] - Valerie's early life and initial struggles with addiction, including sugar and shoe cleaner.[00:04:00] - Valerie discussing the challenges of disordered eating and their journey with bulimia and anorexia.[00:06:00] - The turning point in Valerie's life when they realized the need to seek recovery.[00:07:30] - Valerie’s experience working with women in rehab and the influence of the Petrasca cycle of change.[00:09:00] - The beginning of Valerie’s sobriety journey and the role of meditation and mindfulness.[00:10:20] - Valerie’s one-woman show and how it influenced their recovery from disordered eating.[00:11:00] - The role of specialized treatment in Valerie’s recovery from disordered eating.[00:12:30] - Valerie discussing the importance of mindfulness and meditation in their recovery.[00:13:30] - How Buddhist teachings, particularly the Four Noble Truths, shaped Valerie's approach to recovery.[00:15:00] - Valerie explaining the concept of “going for refuge” in Buddhism and its impact on their recovery.[00:17:00] - The significance of letting go in the context of recovery and stopping addictive behaviors.[00:19:00] - The story of Angulimala and its relevance to addiction recovery.[00:22:00] - The difference between stopping a thought and spiritual bypassing in recovery.[00:23:30] - Valerie's perspective on self-love and compassion as critical components of recovery.[00:25:00] - The importance of addressing childhood conditioning and trauma in the recovery process.[00:27:00] - Valerie distinguishing between mindfulness and meditation and their interconnection.[00:30:00] - The realization that the biggest addiction was their own thinking and how to manage stinking thinking.[00:34:00] - The practice of recognizing thoughts without a thinker and understanding that thoughts are not facts.[00:40:00] - Valerie explaining the concept of coming home to the body and its significance in recoverLinks:First Aid Kit for the Mind BookValerie Mason-John's WebsiteSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

Today on Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen dive into the unique challenges and joys of vacationing while maintaining sobriety. They share their personal journeys and practical tips to help you navigate your next getaway with confidence and ease. Whether you're planning a family visit, a beach retreat, or a solo adventure, this episode is packed with insights to support your sober travel experience.In this episode, Sonia and Kathleen tackle the big questions that come with sober vacationing. How do you handle unexpected triggers? What strategies can you use to maintain your routine? And how do you navigate cultural differences around alcohol consumption? These discussions are crucial for anyone in recovery, ensuring you're well-prepared and supported on your trip.You'll walk away with practical tips for packing, creating a supportive itinerary, and developing strategies for social situations involving alcohol. The hosts cover essential topics like managing anxiety, setting boundaries, and finding joy in new experiences, all while staying true to your sobriety. Sonia shares her transformative experience of a trip to Italy booked before her sobriety journey, offering candid insights on navigating wine tours and social pressures. Kathleen recounts her enriching, sober trip to Hawaii, highlighting how sobriety opened up new opportunities for connection and self-care.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:0:00 - Introduction: Navigating Sobriety on Vacation 6:30 - The Unique Challenges of Vacationing Sober 8:45 - Planning Ahead: Why It’s Crucial 10:20 - Strategies for Managing Triggers 12:15 - Importance of Maintaining Routine 14:05 - How to Handle Social Situations with Alcohol 16:10 - Tips for Navigating Airports and Flights Sober 18:50 - Kathleen’s Experience with FOMO on Vacation 21:00 - Sonia’s Story: Sober Trip to Italy 24:30 - Kathleen’s Story: Sober Trip to Hawaii 26:45 - Cultural Differences Around Alcohol Consumption 29:20 - How to Communicate Sobriety to Friends and Family 32:15 - Creating a Supportive Travel Itinerary 34:00 - Finding Joy in New, Alcohol-Free Experiences 36:10 - Practical Tips for Packing and Preparing 38:00 - Mocktail Hour: Favorite Non-Alcoholic Beverages 40:25 - Personal Story: Sonia’s Struggles and Triumphs 42:00 - Wrap-Up: Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

This week on Sisters in Sobriety, we explore the transformative power of art therapy in addiction recovery. Joining us is Sarah Smith who will guide us through the fascinating intersections of creativity and healing. Sarah is a passionate artist and non-traditional art therapist, owning Soul-Full Art Therapy where she helps individuals explore the wellness benefits of the creative process. Sarah is a member of the Canadian Art Therapy Association (CATA) and has chosen to maintain her focus on art for wellness rather than merging with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). She facilitates art workshops at Sweet Spot Family Counselling and offers private sessions for individuals seeking a creative outlet for wellness. Her servIn this episode, we dive deep into the role of art as a therapeutic tool. Key questions we'll explore include: How can art therapy support individuals in their recovery journey? Do you need to be artistically talented to benefit from art therapy? What are some practical ways to incorporate art therapy techniques at home? These discussions will highlight keywords such as "art therapy," "addiction recovery," and "creative healing." Listeners will gain insight into several key concepts, including the importance of open-mindedness in art therapy, how art therapy can complement other forms of therapy like mindfulness and physical exercise, and the cognitive and emotional benefits of engaging in creative processes. We'll also discuss practical art therapy exercises like art journaling, and how to identify and interpret personal symbols in your artwork. Our guest, Sarah, shares her compelling personal story about her journey with art therapy. You'll hear about a transformative moment in her own art therapy experience, where she discovered hidden themes in her work that led to profound personal insights. This segment underscores the deep emotional connections that art can reveal and how it can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and healing.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:00:00] - Sonia introduces the self-paced seven-day reset program designed to help reset your relationship with alcohol.[00:01:34] - Kathleen shares her initial hesitation about art therapy due to perceived lack of artistic talent.[00:01:55] - Sarah explains that no artistic talent is needed; an open mind is what counts in art therapy.[00:02:19] - Sarah describes starting with collage and art journaling for those who feel intimidated by drawing.[00:02:56] - Sarah recounts her personal story about discovering a recurring heart theme in her artwork during art therapy school.[00:04:00] - Sarah reflects on how she realized she wasn't paying attention to her own needs, leading to an emotional breakthrough.[00:05:02] - Discussion about the importance of a non-judgmental, supportive environment in art therapy.[00:06:06] - Sarah emphasizes that there is no judgment in art therapy and encourages self-expression without self-criticism.[00:07:13] - Sarah explains the benefits of focusing on the process and feelings rather than the final product in art therapy.[00:09:16] - Kathleen suggests using art therapy techniques in couples therapy and mindfulness practices.[00:10:00] - Sarah talks about the art therapist's role in helping clients interpret and understand their artwork.[00:11:00] - Sarah shares a story about a boy who stopped speaking and how art therapy helped uncover and address his trauma.[00:12:33] - Kathleen recalls her childhood trauma and how it influenced her drawings, highlighting the subconscious power of art.[00:14:00] - Sarah discusses the use of repetitive and grounding activities, like mandala drawing, to manage overwhelming emotions.[00:15:22] - Sarah identifies common challenges clients face when starting art therapy, such as apprehension about their artistic skills.[00:16:56] - Sarah shares her experience working with dementia patients and how art therapy helps them express themselves.[00:18:46] - Sonia and Sarah discuss the cognitive and emotional benefits of art therapy, such as improved mood and emotional expression.[00:20:31] - Sarah provides practical advice for starting an art journal at home, emphasizing the importance of just starting and letting the process unfold.[00:25:00] - Kathleen and Sarah talk about the holistic benefits of art therapy in conjunction with other therapeutic modalities, emphasizing the mind-body-soul connection.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters in Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen explore the powerful role of art in healing, wellness, and recovery from alcohol use disorder. Joined by Sarah Smith, the compassionate owner of Soulful Art Therapy, the discussion delves into how art therapy can transform lives, providing a unique and effective outlet for emotional expression and long-term sobriety. Today, Sonia and Kathleen will guide you through the fascinating world of art therapy, sharing insights and stories of transformation.Sarah is a passionate artist and non-traditional art therapist, owning Soul-Full Art Therapy where she helps individuals explore the wellness benefits of the creative process. Sarah is a member of the Canadian Art Therapy Association (CATA) and has chosen to maintain her focus on art for wellness rather than merging with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). She facilitates art workshops at Sweet Spot Family Counselling and offers private sessions for individuals seeking a creative outlet for wellness. Her services are not a replacement for therapy and are not covered by insurance, serving instead as a tool for healing and recreation.This episode unpacks the multifaceted role of art as therapy in the recovery process. Key questions addressed include: How can engaging in creative processes provide a powerful outlet for emotions? What are the unique benefits of art therapy compared to traditional talk therapy? How does art therapy support long-term sobriety and emotional well-being? Through these discussions, listeners will gain a comprehensive understanding of how art therapy can be a vital tool in their recovery journey. Listeners will learn about the core concepts of art therapy, including its ability to foster self-awareness, emotional expression, and healing. The episode highlights how art therapy can address common misconceptions and explains how the creative process can help individuals regain a sense of control and manage their emotions effectively. Sarah shares practical insights and examples of art therapy in action, demonstrating its therapeutic impact and the potential for profound personal transformation.Sarah shares a touching story from her practice about a man who initially resisted art therapy but ultimately experienced a significant emotional breakthrough. This powerful narrative illustrates the deep impact art therapy can have, revealing underlying emotions and facilitating healing in unexpected ways. Through Sarah’s compassionate guidance, this story serves as a testament to the transformative power of art in recovery.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:00] - Introduction of guest Sarah Smith, owner of Soulful Art Therapy, and her work in guiding people on their wellness journeys through art.[00:01:34] - Kathleen discusses the role of art as therapy in recovery, exploring its benefits in providing an outlet for emotions and supporting long-term sobriety.[00:02:03] - Sarah introduces her sidekick, Louie the dog, who might be heard snoring during the episode.[00:02:31] - Sarah shares her background, how she became an art therapist, and her journey from being an artist to discovering art therapy.[00:04:10] - Sarah explains why she chose to practice art for wellness rather than merging with the College of Psychotherapists.[00:04:38] - Sarah defines art therapy and explains how it differs from other forms of therapy.[00:05:30] - Discussion on common misconceptions about art therapy, such as it being child's play or requiring artistic skill.[00:07:00] - Kathleen and Sarah discuss the judgment people face in school art classes and how it impacts their willingness to engage in art therapy.[00:08:12] - Sarah explains how art therapy can help people in addiction recovery by providing a sense of control and a healthy outlet for emotions.[00:09:13] - Sarah talks about the unique elements of art therapy that make it effective for those dealing with addiction, such as self-expression and emotional release.[00:10:13] - The importance of the process and how art holds the space for individuals, helping to lighten their emotional load.[00:11:00] - Sonia shares her experience with photography as a form of art therapy during her sobriety journey.[00:12:59] - Sarah explains the various art mediums used in art therapy and how they are chosen based on individual needs.[00:15:00] - Discussion on how the process of creating art, rather than the finished piece, is essential in art therapy.[00:17:06] - Sarah describes the typical process of an art therapy session, including grounding exercises and personalized art directives[00:20:09] - Sarah explains that the art therapy process for those in recovery is the same but tailored to individual needs, addressing physical, emotional, and mental aspects.[00:21:00] - Discussion on how creating art helps people process their emotions by shrinking them to a manageable size.[00:22:00] - Sarah shares a powerful story about an inpatient unit participant who found emotional release and self-discovery through art therapy.[00:29:00] - Sarah discusses how art therapy addresses trauma and severe anxiety, commonly associated with addiction, by providing a healthy escape and emotional management.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen continue their insightful discussion on mindfulness and its vital role in the recovery process. Today, they delve deeper into practical mindfulness techniques and guide listeners through a mindful meditation practice designed to foster grounding and mindful decision-making.Expect a comprehensive exploration of mindfulness, addressing key questions such as: How can mindfulness be effectively integrated into daily life? What are common challenges in starting a mindfulness practice? How can group settings enhance the practice of mindfulness in recovery? These questions set the stage for a rich discussion filled with practical advice and personal experiences.Kathleen and will educate listeners on several mindfulness concepts, including the "SOBER" meditation technique, urge surfing, and grounding exercises. She will also discuss the importance of starting small and gradually building a mindfulness routine. Key terms such as "mindfulness," "grounding techniques," and "urge surfing" will be thoroughly explored.Sonia shares how the guided meditation has transformed her understanding of mindfulness. She discusses the challenges she faced with traditional silent meditation and how Kathleen's guidance has provided the support she needed to stay focused and present.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:13] - Kathleen begins guiding listeners through a meditation practice.[00:02:43] - Kathleen introduces the SOBER meditation technique.[00:03:02] - The first step: Stop, pause, and take a deep breath.[00:03:25] - The second step: Observe thoughts and feelings without judgment.[00:04:19] - Observing physical sensations and surroundings.[00:05:00] - The third step: Breathe deeply and slowly to calm the mind.[00:05:14] - The fourth step: Expand awareness to include all observations.[00:06:00] - The fifth step: Respond mindfully to the situation or set an intention.[00:07:08] - Sonia shares how guided meditation was helpful for her.[00:08:21] - Kathleen addresses common misconceptions about mindfulness.[00:09:15] - Discussing the benefits of group mindfulness sessions in recovery.[00:10:25] - Kathleen explains common challenges when starting mindfulness practices in sobriety.[00:11:43] - Kathleen emphasizes starting small with mindfulness practices.[00:12:10] - Techniques like urge surfing are explained.[00:13:26] - Discussing the importance of grounding techniques.[00:14:22] - Best practices for mindfulness when feeling overwhelmed or in a crisis.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia tackles the timely topic of staying sober while on vacation. She dives deep into how to keep your recovery journey strong, even when you are sipping mocktails poolside. Whether you're facing social gatherings, airport temptations, or hotel happy hours, Sonia will help you pack your bags with tools and confidence for your next trip.Throughout this episode, she'll answer some key questions like: How can you handle social events that often involve alcohol? What strategies can you employ to stay strong in airports and hotels where alcohol is readily available? How do you communicate your sobriety needs to travel companions? With practical advice and relatable insights, this episode is packed with tips on how to manage common triggers and stay sober during your travels.Listeners will learn how to identify and avoid triggers in various vacation settings, the importance of planning and setting boundaries with travel companions, and engaging in sober-friendly activities. Sonia emphasizes the benefits of staying engaged in activities that do not involve alcohol, helping you to appreciate your vacation spot better and maintain your sobriety.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights: [00:01:15] - Listener Question: Jill from Houston asks about staying sober at an all-inclusive resort.[00:01:38] - Temptations on Vacation: Discussion on the various temptations one might face while on vacation.[00:02:00] - Common Triggers: Exploring common settings where triggers for drinking might appear.[00:02:20] - Social Gatherings: Tips on managing social gatherings that involve alcohol.[00:02:41] - Airports: How to handle the stress and accessibility of alcohol in airports.[00:03:00] - Hotels: Managing the availability of alcohol in hotels and during happy hours.[00:03:04] - Planning Ahead: Importance of having a plan for social situations where alcohol is present.[00:03:21] - Sober-Friendly Destinations: Choosing vacation spots that support sobriety.[00:03:39] - Travel Companions: The importance of traveling with supportive people.[00:04:01] - Engaging in Sober Activities: Planning activities that don't involve alcohol to stay engaged.[00:04:21] - Mental Preparation: Preparing mentally for the presence of alcohol in airports.[00:04:35] - Alternative Relaxation Spots: Finding quieter zones in airports to avoid bars and lounges.[00:04:57] - Alcohol-Free Accommodations: Requesting alcohol-free rooms in hotels.[00:05:16] - Avoiding Happy Hour: Planning activities during happy hour times to avoid temptation.[00:05:39] - Communicating Sobriety: Tips on explaining your sobriety to travel companions.[00:06:14] - Setting Boundaries: Importance of setting and maintaining boundaries with companions.[00:07:00] - Sober Activities: Ideas for engaging in sober activities while on vacation.[00:08:00] - Overcoming FOMO: Strategies to handle the fear of missing out when others are drinking.[00:10:25] - Enhanced Engagement: Benefits of engaging fully with your environment while staying sober.[00:11:51] - Playing the Tape Forward: A technique to visualize the consequences of drinking.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen explore the transformative power of mindfulness in the recovery journey. They will delve into how mindfulness can help manage stress, recognize triggers, and cultivate a sense of peace and stability, all of which are crucial for long-term sobriety.Join the discussion as Sonia and Kathleen unpack the concept of mindfulness. What does mindfulness really mean? How can it be integrated into daily life and recovery efforts? They will answer these questions and more, providing valuable insights into emotional regulation, improving focus, and fostering a deeper connection with your inner self. Listeners will learn about the key principles of mindfulness and its significant impact on both physical and mental health. The episode will cover how mindfulness helps in recognizing triggers, managing stressors, and creating a calming effect. Non-judgmental awareness, present moment focus, and mindfulness techniques for managing cravings and emotional triggers will be discussed. Kathleen shares her personal journey with mindfulness, from her initial intimidation to integrating it into her daily life through yoga and meditation. Her story highlights how mindfulness has helped her manage ADHD, anxiety, and depression, providing a relatable and inspiring example of its benefits. Tune in to hear more about how mindfulness has transformed her life and can potentially transform yours too.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:06] - Kathleen talks about the importance of mindfulness and her excitement for the topic.[00:01:33] - Sonia shares a personal story about running for the first time in years and the impact on her physically.[00:02:07] - Discussion on the concept of mindfulness and its relevance in a fast-paced world.[00:02:27] - Kathleen outlines the key principles of mindfulness and its benefits in recovery.[00:03:00] - Kathleen introduces Jon Kabat-Zinn and his definition of mindfulness.[00:04:14] - Sonia shares her initial struggles with understanding and practicing mindfulness.[00:05:02] - Kathleen defines mindfulness in her own words as being fully present in the here and now.[00:05:21] - Kathleen talks about integrating mindfulness into her life through yoga.[00:06:47] - Kathleen shares her experience with meditation during her yoga teacher training in Mexico.[00:08:00] - Discussion on how mindfulness helps manage stress and recognize triggers in recovery.[00:08:46] - Kathleen explains the physical and mental benefits of mindfulness for those recovering from addiction.[00:10:07] - Sonia and Kathleen discuss the impact of mindfulness on anxiety and how it helps manage emotional triggers.[00:11:36] - Kathleen explains how mindfulness allows for mindful choices rather than impulsive reactions to triggers.[00:12:47] - Kathleen describes the process of observing cravings and urges like waves, emphasizing the temporary nature of these feelings.[00:14:41] - Sonia talks about her personal experience with cravings and how they typically last about 20 minutes.[00:16:38] - Discussion on the stages of recovery where mindfulness is especially beneficial, particularly in early sobriety.[00:18:59] - Kathleen shares how mindfulness reduces symptoms of anxiety and depression by focusing on the present moment.[00:19:58] - Sonia and Kathleen discuss integrating mindfulness with other forms of therapy and treatment.[00:25:25] - Kathleen talks about her participation in a mindfulness-based cognitive therapy group and the positive impact of mindfulness research.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen explore the multifaceted world of recovery support, diving deep into the roles of one-on-one coaching, sober companions, and group support systems. They are joined by Alida Flannery. Alida is the Founder of Epiphany Recovery Inc., an organization that provides Recovery Coaching, Companioning, and Case Management services to individuals who are struggling with substance use and disordered eating. She is a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach and Companion, who completed her Intervention training with Earl Hightower in 2018, and has previously worked for several in-patient treatment centres across Canada. Alida is the Co-Founder of SOULBRIETY, a sober collective for women offering retreats, events, and group workshops to those who are sober-curious, sober-exploring and sober-serious. She also works with Amazing Grace Canada, a charity whose mission is to bring recovery to families and communities affected by addiction in developing nations.Throughout the episode, listeners will hear a broad discussion on the different paths to successful recovery. Key questions include: What is the role of a sober companion in the recovery process? How does one tailor recovery support to meet individual needs? What are some common misconceptions about sober companionship? These questions are dissected, offering a thorough understanding of the nuances involved in each recovery pathway.Listeners will gain valuable knowledge on the educational aspects of recovery support, such as the importance of a safe transition from rehab to home, the challenges of maintaining sobriety in a familiar environment, and the need for personalized recovery plans.Alida shares her own experiences and stories from her work as a sober companion. She reveals the small yet significant victories in recovery, such as a client successfully setting boundaries or enjoying a sober weekend with family. These stories underscore the emotional and transformative journey of recovery, making the episode relatable and inspiring.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:08] – Alida explains the public perception of sober companionship, mentioning its association with the rich and famous.[00:01:27] – Alida describes the role of a sober companion, providing support throughout the day.[00:02:00] – Alida talks about the challenges of returning home from rehab and the importance of having a sober companion during this transition.[00:03:06] – Discussion on the need to navigate interpersonal relationships and daily challenges after rehab.[00:03:45] – Alida elaborates on providing support for those who can't leave their lives for extended treatment, such as single parents.[00:04:22] – Kathleen asks how Alida tailors her companionship to individual clients, and Alida explains her intuitive approach.[00:05:18] – Alida talks about receiving briefings from families or treatment centers and the importance of the right fit for effective companionship.[00:07:06] – Alida emphasizes observing and understanding the client's daily routines and interpersonal interactions.[00:08:00] – Kathleen inquires about common misconceptions of sober companionship, and Alida addresses these.[00:09:34] – Alida clarifies her role as a motivator, cheerleader, problem solver, and advocate, not a housekeeper or chef.[00:10:17] – Discussion on the importance of the recovery doing the work themselves for successful outcomes.[00:12:08] – Alida shares her personal commitment to protecting her own recovery fiercely.[00:13:14] – Sonia asks Alida to describe a typical day as a sober companion, and Alida explains the variability in her daily routines.[00:15:17] – Alida highlights the importance of establishing a new recovery routine and lifestyle at home.[00:17:49] – Alida discusses the challenge of rewiring daily activities that were previously associated with substance use.[00:19:22] – Establishing a daily routine involving making the bed, nourishing oneself, and incorporating activities like prayer, meditation, and journaling.[00:20:00] – Alida reflects on the transformational moments and small victories that signify successful recovery.[00:24:41] – Closing remarks by Kathleen, expressing gratitude to Alida and inviting her for future discussions.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In today's episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen are excited to welcome Alida Flannery, a passionate advocate for sobriety and the founder of Epiphany Recovery. Alida brings her unique experience as both a sober companion and recovery coach to the conversation, sharing her inspiring journey from addiction to aiding others on their paths to sobriety. Stay tuned as Sonia and Kathleen delve into Alida's multifaceted approach to recovery.Alida is the Founder of Epiphany Recovery Inc., an organization that provides Recovery Coaching, Companioning, and Case Management services to individuals who are struggling with substance use and disordered eating. She is a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach and Companion, who completed her Intervention training with Earl Hightower in 2018, and has previously worked for several in-patient treatment centres across Canada. Alida is the Co-Founder of SOULBRIETY, a sober collective for women offering retreats, events, and group workshops to those who are sober-curious, sober-exploring and sober-serious. She also works with Amazing Grace Canada, a charity whose mission is to bring recovery to families and communities affected by addiction in developing nations.This episode will explore various paths to recovery, including one-on-one coaching, sober companionship, and the benefits of group support. Alida will address key questions like: What are the unique challenges and benefits of each recovery approach? How can someone determine the best recovery path for their individual needs? These discussions will be enriched with Alida's personal insights and experiences, providing a comprehensive look at addiction recovery.Listeners can expect to gain a deeper understanding of the recovery process, including practical strategies for managing triggers and maintaining sobriety in real-world scenarios. Alida will discuss the importance of creating a supportive environment and how tailored recovery plans can significantly enhance the success of one's sobriety journey. This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights[00:03:10] - Alida's role as a sober companion is explained, highlighting her commitment to 24/7 support for her clients.[00:04:18] - Alida joins the conversation, expressing her gratitude for being part of the podcast.[00:04:33] - Alida shares her personal journey with addiction and the impact of hitting a profound emotional and physical bottom.[00:06:44] - Discussion about the pivotal moments that lead to seeking change and the universal nature of pain in the journey to recovery.[00:07:26] - Alida speaks about the challenges she faced in recovery, particularly the overhaul of her lifestyle centered around substance use.[00:08:39] - The concept of 'rewiring behaviors' in sobriety is explored, discussing the difficulties of adapting to a sober life.[00:10:05] - The personal story continues with Alida discussing how recovery coaching and sober companionship work in practical scenarios.[00:11:57] - Alida discusses the inspiration behind starting Epiphany Recovery, linking her experiences in the corporate and philanthropic worlds.[00:13:49] - Alida recounts her early experiences as a COVID coach during the pandemic, aiding clients in isolation.[00:15:20] - Sonia and Alida discuss the integration of personal recovery experiences into coaching methods, stressing authenticity and relatability.[00:17:15] - The conversation shifts to the importance of not using personal sobriety metrics as a standard for others' recovery.[00:18:12] - Alida and Kathleen discuss misconceptions about addiction, like not having a DUI meaning you don't have a problem.[00:20:11] - The discussion touches on the personal lows and the concept of 'slipping faster than lowering standards' in addiction.[00:22:04] - Alida explains the brain science behind addiction, particularly how substances affect the prefrontal cortex and decision-making.[00:23:32] - How Alida's approach to recovery has evolved over time, emphasizing a need to stay informed about new methods and therapies.[00:25:19] - Closing thoughts on resilience in recovery, discussing whether it's something that can be taught or needs to be embodied and lived.LinksGet In Touch With Alidahttps://www.epiphanyrecovery.com/https://www.soulbriety.ca/info@epiphanyrecovery.comSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

Today, we're addressing a common concern among our listeners—navigating the temptations of summer while maintaining sobriety. This episode is dedicated to answering questions from you, our listeners, about dealing with the triggers that come with warm weather and social gatherings.Understanding and Managing TriggersOur listener SP from Houston shares her anxiety about summer being a trigger to drink. We start by acknowledging that feeling anxious about seasonal changes is normal and discusses strategies for managing these feelings. Sonia emphasizes the importance of recognizing triggers and preparing mentally, akin to packing sunscreen to protect your skin, to maintain sobriety during challenging situations.Proactive Planning for Social EventsSonia shares practical tips for planning ahead when attending social gatherings. Suggestions include:Bringing a tasty non-alcoholic drink or a sober-friendly friend to help navigate through drinking pressures.Setting personal boundaries and declining invitations that might jeopardize your recovery.Establishing a support plan with your sober circle to stay strong during tougher times.Setting BoundariesUnderstanding when to say no and how to communicate your needs is crucial. The episode covers how to set boundaries effectively:Being honest with yourself and others about your limits.Offering alternatives to typical alcohol-centered activities.Preparing responses for uncomfortable situations to ease pressure.Establishing New TraditionsSonia encourages listeners to create new, sober-friendly traditions that focus on connection and fun without alcohol. Some ideas include:Morning hikes, sober picnics, group workouts, craft nights, and exploring new recipes.Hosting game or movie nights where the focus remains on fun, not drinks.Keeping Non-Alcoholic Options HandyThe importance of having non-alcoholic beverages available is discussed, with suggestions on how to incorporate them into various social settings effectively.Feeling nervous about seasonal changes is normal but manageable with the right tools and support. She encourages all listeners to embrace the summer with confidence, knowing they are equipped to enjoy it sober and strong.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In today's episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen take a deep dive into the world of self-soothing and its crucial role in maintaining sobriety. Self-soothing isn't just about keeping calm; it's a vital skill for balancing emotions and preventing relapse, which can be a tricky path to navigate. Join them as they unpack strategies and personal stories, providing you with tools and insights to bolster your recovery journey.Throughout the episode, Sonia and Kathleen will explore essential questions that touch the core of self-soothing: What exactly does it mean to self-soothe? Why is it so important, especially during recovery? How can you transition from harmful old habits to beneficial new routines that genuinely support your well-being? They'll also tackle the nitty-gritty challenges many face, like finding the focus to meditate amidst chaos or discovering hobbies that genuinely soothe rather than inadvertently stress you out.Listeners can look forward to gaining a richer understanding of emotional regulation, the transformative power of mindfulness, and how to craft a personalized toolkit of strategies for tough times. Whether you’re just starting your sober journey or you’re a seasoned veteran, this discussion is packed with insights on fostering resilience and emotional autonomy.Join us at "Sisters in Sobriety," where we mix honest talks with hearty laughter, all while supporting each other in redefining our relationship with alcohol. Don’t forget to check out our substack for a treasure trove of supportive advice and to connect with a community that roots for you every step of the way. Come for the strategies, stay for the stories, and leave feeling empowered!Highlights:03:19 - Discussion of common pitfalls when trying to meditate and how social media can be a distraction.00:03:44 - Sonia and Kathleen address significant questions on beginning the self-soothing process.00:04:12 - Kathleen describes various self-soothing techniques and emphasizes the importance of finding what uniquely works for each individual.00:05:31 - Sonia relates self-soothing to the concept of infants learning to calm themselves, drawing parallels to adults in recovery.00:06:09 - Exploration of how self-soothing helps manage triggers and stressors without resorting to alcohol.00:07:00 - Sonia explains the emotional, mental, and physical aspects of self-soothing.00:08:11 - Sonia shares a personal story about recognizing the need for self-soothing in challenging moments.00:10:05 - Discussion on the transformation from using substances as self-soothing to finding healthier alternatives.00:14:06 - The hosts delve into how the journey of self-soothing began with their sobriety.00:15:00 - Sonia shares insights into the early difficult days of sobriety and finding things that calmed her mind.00:17:20 - Kathleen discusses misconceptions about self-soothing and emphasizes its immediate and practical benefits.00:18:35 - Kathleen explains the RAIN technique for emotional awareness and self-soothing.00:20:36 - Discussion of specific triggers for self-soothing and personal responses to emotional challenges.00:22:31 - Advice on recognizing the need for self-soothing and developing mindful awareness throughout daily activities.00:25:20 - Kathleen clarifies that successful self-soothing is about managing, not suppressing, emotions.00:28:01 - Sonia shares how self-soothing techniques helped prevent potential relapses during her divorce.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

On today's episode, Sonia and Kathleen delve into the vital topic of protecting your peace. As life throws its many challenges at us, finding and maintaining inner tranquility is more crucial than ever, especially when it comes to sustaining sobriety and mental health. Join them as they explore strategies to safeguard your emotional and mental balance, ensuring you stay strong and serene no matter what life brings your way!Ever wonder how to keep your cool when life gets tricky? Or how to say 'no' without feeling guilty? Sonia and Kathleen have got you covered! They’ll be unpacking how to set boundaries that stick, ways to dodge life’s curveballs, and the secrets to building your personal calm zone. It's all about finding peace in the chaos and making sure it stays that way.Today’s takeaway is all about real-life strategies: learning how to recognize when you’re stressed before it’s too late, setting up your personal boundaries like a pro, and mastering the art of 'me time.' By the end of the episode, you’ll have a toolkit full of ideas for maintaining your emotional balance that you can start using right away.And because everyone loves a good story, Sonia and Kathleen will share their own experiences with keeping peace at the forefront. They'll tell tales of personal trials and triumphs, bringing to life the strategies discussed and showing that if they can do it, so can you!This is Sisters in Sobriety, your go-to community for transforming your relationship with alcohol. Don't forget to check out our substack for more handy tips and heartfelt advice.Highlights[00:02:01] Explanation of what "protecting your peace" means in the context of maintaining emotional and mental balance.[00:02:19] Kathleen talks about the importance of setting boundaries for peace protection.[00:03:01] Kathleen explains protecting peace in simple terms and how to filter experiences.[00:04:24] Sonia relates protecting peace to both physical environment and emotional stability.[00:05:14] Kathleen shares a personal anecdote about changing job environments to protect her mental health.[00:06:07] Sonia and Kathleen discuss the role of self-awareness in avoiding emotional spirals.[00:07:51] A detailed account of how Sonia has learned to handle family disagreements without spiraling.[00:10:30] Sonia and Kathleen delve into how gossip can affect personal peace and discuss strategies to avoid it.[00:12:44] Celebration of Sonia's seventh sobriety anniversary and its emotional significance.[00:14:26] Sonia recounts a poignant memory tied to a breakup and how seasonal changes can trigger emotional responses.[00:16:30] Discussion on the impact of social media on emotional well-being and how to manage exposure.[00:19:00] Sonia talks about the physical symptoms she experiences when her peace is disturbed, particularly by family dynamics.[00:20:21] First-time disagreement story shared by Sonia, focusing on maintaining peace during confrontations.[00:22:10] Kathleen emphasizes that healthy conflict is possible and shares insights from her professional experience as a couples therapist.[00:23:27] The complexities of family relationships and how they challenge personal peace discussed by Kathleen.[00:25:13] Kathleen explains her need to step back from family drama to protect her peace, ensuring it wasn't perceived as abandonment.[00:27:31] Strategies for managing unexpected changes and maintaining stability during uncertain times.[00:33:13] Sonia and Kathleen discuss essential self-care practices and rituals that help maintain their peace.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In today’s episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Kathleen and Sonia delve into the critical connection between anger management and recovery. They are joined by Gill Tietz, an educator, who sheds light on how anger can act as a major hurdle on the path to recovery, its origins, and the practical steps to navigate it. This discussion promises to enlighten listeners on dealing with anger in healthy ways, especially within the context of overcoming addiction.The episode is an insightful discussion on the prevalence of anger among individuals struggling with addiction, exploring why anger is often a secondary emotion masking deeper issues such as shame, pain, or humiliation. Gill emphasizes the importance of recognizing anger's roots and provides practical advice for managing it effectively. Listeners will be intrigued by the exploration of questions like how prevalent is anger in those dealing with addiction, in what forms does it manifest, and why is it considered a significant trigger for relapse?Listeners can expect to walk away with valuable knowledge on identifying and managing anger, understanding its impact on recovery, and learning coping strategies to navigate through the emotions underlying anger. The conversation will cover key concepts such as the importance of acknowledging anger as a secondary emotion, the role of empathy and humor in anger management, and the crucial steps towards recognizing and managing one's anger in the journey of recovery. The discussion also highlights the significance of self-esteem work in addressing the root causes of anger.Gillian Tietz, host of the Sober Powered Podcast and a chemistry professor with a specialization in biochemistry, brings her personal experience and scientific expertise to the table. Having started her podcast to share how she overcame her struggle with alcohol using her scientific background, Gill offers a perspective that is educational, empowering, and deeply personal. This is "Sisters in Sobriety," the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources to aid in your journey.Get In Touch With Gill!Podcast: https://www.soberpowered.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sober.poweredHighlights[00:02:42] Gill explains anger as a secondary emotion, hinting at deeper, more uncomfortable feelings that lead to anger.[00:04:03] The conversation touches on the ironic behavior of 'drinking at people' as a misguided attempt to manage anger.[00:04:48] The first steps towards recognizing and managing anger in recovery are outlined by Gill, emphasizing awareness and coping skills.[00:07:26] Gill shares unique anger management techniques, including the use of humor to diffuse anger.[00:10:16] A shift in demeanor, from tension to calmness, is highlighted as a visible sign of progress in managing anger.[00:13:32] The role of family and friends in supporting loved ones through their anger is discussed, with validation and humor being key.[00:15:38] The episode delves into how anger can act as a barrier to seeking help and acknowledging addiction issues.[00:18:29] Forgiveness's place in managing anger and facilitating recovery is pondered, emphasizing the difficulty but necessity of the process.[00:20:35] Gill defines crisis intervention within the context of addiction recovery, painting a vivid picture of the aim and process.[00:23:24] Real-life applications of crisis intervention strategies are shared, illustrating the importance of staying calm and regulated.[00:26:47] A family's intervention experience is recounted, showcasing the power of calmness and brevity in communication.[00:31:04] Triggers that might precipitate a crisis needing intervention are explored, with unmet basic needs being a common theme.[00:34:06] Gill teases potential projects, including refining her anger management program and the idea of writing a book.[00:36:15] How to sign up for Gill’s upcoming anger management course is shared, pointing listeners to useful resources.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen get into the intricacies of sobriety with the insightful Gillian Tietz from the Sober Powered Podcast. This conversation sheds light on the nuanced relationship between biochemistry, personal experiences, and alcohol use disorder, aiming to provide listeners with a deeper understanding and relatable perspectives on sobriety.The episode teases out broad discussions on prevalent myths surrounding willpower in addiction, the significant roles of anger management and crisis intervention in recovery, and the biochemical effects of alcohol on the brain. These topics promise to unravel misconceptions and offer new insights into the journey toward sobriety.Listeners can expect to walk away with key educational takeaways on how alcohol affects the brain, contributing to the challenge of quitting drinking. With Gill's background in biochemistry and her own journey to sobriety, she brings a unique blend of expertise and personal insight, making complex scientific concepts accessible to all. The discussion aims to empower listeners with knowledge on the underlying causes of addiction and the brain's ability to recover, highlighting the importance of support and community in the path to sobriety.Gillian Tietz, host of the Sober Powered Podcast and a chemistry professor with a specialization in biochemistry, brings her personal experience and scientific expertise to the table. Having started her podcast to share how she overcame her struggle with alcohol using her scientific background, Gill offers a perspective that is educational, empowering, and deeply personal. This is "Sisters in Sobriety," the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources to aid in your journey.Get In Touch With Gill!Podcast: https://www.soberpowered.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sober.poweredHighlights[00:02:16] Gill's mission to demystify alcohol's effects on the brain explained.[00:03:33] Gill shares her personal journey to sobriety, highlighting her late start to drinking.[00:04:56] The role of grad school in intensifying Gill's drinking habits.[00:07:57] Discussion on the early consequences of Gill's drinking and her initial denial.[00:09:00] Sonia and Kathleen relate their experiences with alcohol in academic and professional settings.[00:10:09] Gill confronts the reality of her increasing tolerance and its implications.[00:11:34] Examination of willpower in the context of addiction and the myths surrounding it.[00:14:32] Exploring the vulnerabilities and factors that predispose individuals to addiction.[00:17:00] How drinking affects brain adaptability and decision-making processes.[00:19:11] Gill discusses the critical phase of brain development in teens and its susceptibility to alcohol.[00:20:26] Long-term effects of alcohol on brain function and recovery challenges.[00:23:58] The importance of time and lifestyle changes in recalibrating the brain's reward system.[00:25:14] Discussion on activities that may aid in the brain's healing process.[00:28:41] Clarification on the concept of cycles of detox and its impact on addiction recovery.[00:32:35] Gill's stance on moderation versus abstinence for people with a history of problem drinking.[00:34:36] Comparison of the brain's response to drugs and alcohol, and the similarities in addiction mechanisms.[00:35:23] The concept of behavioral addictions and the challenges they pose in recovery.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

Welcome to another Q&A episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," where your host, Sonia, delves into the complex emotions and questions surrounding the journey to sobriety. Today's focus is on a common concern among individuals in recovery: the fear of replacing one addiction with another, such as substituting alcohol with excessive running, Netflix binge-watching, or indulging in ice cream.Insights:Healthy vs. Unhealthy Activities: It's essential to evaluate new activities based on their impact on your life. Are they adding value, or are they becoming a new form of avoidance or compulsion?Evaluating New Habits: Sonia provides actionable steps for assessing whether a new activity, like running, is beneficial or potentially problematic. Key considerations include examining your motivations, assessing the activity's impact on your life, ensuring balance, setting healthy boundaries, and seeking support when needed.The Power of Choice and Change: The episode challenges the notion of "once an addict, always an addict," highlighting the importance of recognizing the human capacity for growth, change, and adaptation. Healthy coping mechanisms, when integrated mindfully, promote well-being and recovery.This episode of "Sisters in Sobriety" offers a compassionate and thoughtful exploration of how individuals in recovery can navigate the process of replacing old habits with new, healthier ones. By emphasizing the importance of understanding one's motivations, seeking balance, and embracing a holistic approach to recovery, Sonia provides valuable guidance for anyone looking to build a more fulfilling and sober life.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen dive into the world of friendships through the lens of sobriety. They tackle how navigating sobriety not only changes us but also shines a light on our friendships, encouraging us to think deeply about who we choose to spend our time with. This episode is all about finding the joy in discovering and nurturing relationships that truly reflect our sober selves.Get ready to explore the highs and lows of friendship in sobriety, from the tough goodbyes to the joy of making new connections that really get it. Sonia and Kathleen will touch on important questions like how sobriety can reshape our friendships, what it means for our social lives, and how to create a circle that supports our sober journey.Listeners will learn about the key ingredients of friendships that flourish in sobriety, including tips on how to spot the ones worth holding onto, setting healthy boundaries, and how to make new friends who share your love for a sober lifestyle. This episode is packed with advice for anyone looking to enrich their social life in a way that aligns with their sobriety.You won’t want to miss Sonia and Kathleen share their own friendship adventures in sobriety. Their stories showcase the beautiful, sometimes messy journey of building deep, meaningful connections in sobriety.Join us at Sisters in Sobriety, your go-to spot for making sobriety feel like the ultimate friendship adventure. Don't forget to swing by our substack for all the best sobriety tips, tricks, and tales. We’re all about helping you find your tribe and keep your sobriety journey fun and fulfilling.Highlights:[00:01:59] The conversation shifts to how sobriety transforms friendships and the need to reevaluate relationships.[00:02:17] Kathleen emphasizes the journey of peeling back layers of oneself in recovery and its impact on friendships.[00:03:18] The hosts discuss the importance of understanding how sobriety reshapes personal connections.[00:04:08] Sonia delves into how sobriety can deepen some friendships while leading to the end of others.[00:05:08] A discussion on the isolation and loneliness that can accompany sobriety, and how to navigate these feelings.[00:06:19] Kathleen shares her personal story of how her friendships changed dramatically after she stopped drinking and using drugs.[00:07:28] Sonia talks about her initial isolation in sobriety and how she gradually built a new social circle.[00:09:49] The hosts explore normal feelings about changing friendships post-sobriety and how to deal with them.[00:11:18] Kathleen gives advice on how to discuss sobriety with friends who still drink.[00:12:56] Sonia reflects on the importance of finding a sober community to combat feelings of isolation.[00:14:12] A candid conversation about when and how to let go of friendships that challenge sobriety.[00:16:19] Discussion on recognizing signs that a friendship may not be conducive to recovery.[00:17:29] The impact of social media on sobriety and friendships, exploring both the positive aspects and potential triggers.[00:19:09] How to approach a friend you believe may have a drinking problem.[00:21:07] Kathleen recounts how her social circle and partying habits changed after she became sober.[00:23:36] Sonia provides tips on building new, healthy friendships in recovery.[00:25:20] The significance of having sober friends and the positive impact they can have on one’s recovery journey.[00:27:15] A discussion on navigating social situations and gatherings as a sober individual.[00:30:34] Closing thoughts on how sobriety can improve the quality and depth of friendships, even with those who aren't in recovery.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s Instagram

Join Sonia and Kathleen on a lively journey into the world of breaking free from the cycles of alcohol use in this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, by shining a light on the patterns that can ensnare us and offering hope for breaking free. The episode poses crucial questions that resonate with many: What are the cycles of drinking that keep us trapped in a loop of consumption and abstinence? How can we identify and confront our triggers to break free from these patterns? And crucially, what steps can we take towards lasting change, moving beyond mere recognition of the problem to actively reshaping our relationship with alcohol? Join us as we explore the power of mindfulness, habit change, and the support of community in reclaiming our lives from the grip of alcohol. They're here to chat, share, and dive deep into how we can spot those sneaky habits that keep us in a loop and how to jump off that not-so-merry-go-round for good. Listeners will leave this episode armed with key insights into cycle breaking, trigger identification, and the development of healthy coping mechanisms. The episode demystifies the process of changing ingrained behaviors, offering practical advice on creating a supportive environment for recovery. Through an understanding of habit loops and the importance of small, consistent changes, the episode illuminates the path toward a life unburdened by alcohol.In this episode is Sonia’s personal story, a raw and real look at the journey through the lens of someone who’s walked the path. Welcome to Sisters in Sobriety, where we're all about making changes, finding joy, and supporting each other in the journey away from alcohol. Don’t forget to swing by our substack for more tips, stories, and a little extra sunshine for your day. See you there!Highlights:[00:01:44] - Discussion on the importance of recognizing and confronting unhealthy patterns of drinking.[00:02:12] - The concept of mindfulness in confronting triggers and making lasting habit changes is introduced.[00:03:10] - Kathleen explains the cycle of drinking: from initial overuse to attempts at moderation, and the frustrating return to old habits.[00:04:30] - Sonia dives into what "cycle breaking" means and the steps involved in actively changing one's relationship with alcohol.[00:07:29] - Sonia shares her personal story of daily cycles of anxiety, drinking, and the temporary relief it brought, highlighting the challenges of breaking free.[00:10:11] - Strategies for becoming more mindful of alcohol consumption, including the importance of tracking drinking habits.[00:13:40] - Kathleen shares techniques for managing cravings and urges to drink through distraction and delay tactics.[00:17:08] - Sonia reflects on the process of acknowledging triggers and the role of honest self-reflection in cycle breaking.[00:20:08] - Discussion on the significance of understanding the root causes of one’s drinking patterns and whether delving into the past is essential for recovery.[00:23:25] - The therapeutic journey of connecting past experiences to current behaviors and how therapy can aid in uncovering and addressing these connections.[00:27:57] - Kathleen recounts how her triggers and cycles evolved over time, illustrating the complexity of addiction.[00:31:29] - Sonia discusses the importance of not panicking in response to emotional triggers as a step towards breaking the cycle.[00:33:32] - The role of routine and structure in supporting recovery efforts, including the concept of habit stacking, is explored.[00:37:54] - The importance of forgiveness, both of oneself and others, in the recovery journey and how it can impact cycle breaking.[00:38:11] - How to build and leverage a support system for breaking cycles, including the different forms that support can take.[00:40:13] - Sonia highlights the "delay and distract" technique as a memorable takeaway for managing cravings.[00:41:05] - Kathleen emphasizes the value of small, manageable steps in the process of changing habits and breaking cycles.[00:42:00] - Closing remarks, summarizing the episode's key messages and encouraging listeners to seek support and resources available through Sisters in Sobriety.[Throughout] - The episode is punctuated by relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and supportive dialogue that underscores the theme of community and mutual support in the journey to sobriety.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - ALL THE CONTENT YOU CRAVE! Find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety Email Sonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website *Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast*Kathleen’s Instagram