Small Steps with God

Reflections of the Divine: Seeing God and Jesus as Our Mirrors ✨ In this foundational episode of the Mirrors series, we take a closer look at the ultimate models of reflection—God the Father and Jesus Christ. The core question guiding this discussion is simple but powerful: Can God and Jesus be mirrors for our lives? Through thoughtful insight and biblical exploration, this episode unpacks how we were made in God's image and how Jesus restores that reflection when sin has distorted it. It introduces the "MIRRORS" framework as a new lens to see ourselves more clearly—through the divine light we were created to reflect. Introducing the MIRRORS FrameworkWe explore a fresh biblical tool for personal reflection: the acronym MIRRORS. Each letter represents a step—Moment, Identity, Right choices, Risks and wrong choices, Ongoing message, Reflection, and Steps—to better understand how biblical figures (and ultimately ourselves) mirror God’s design. For God and Jesus, some letters shift slightly, recognizing their perfection and divinity.2. Made in God’s Image – What Does It Mean?Genesis 1:27 tells us we’re made in the image of God—but not as copies. We carry His characteristics and His intention. God as Creator, compassionate ruler, and relational Father becomes the standard for how we reflect love, order, and purpose in our lives.3. Jesus: The Clear Mirror of the FatherJesus not only revealed God but restored our distorted image through sacrificial love. His humility, obedience, and compassion make him a divine blueprint for us. He reflects the Father so that we, in turn, can reflect him. Through Christ, we regain the clarity of our identity and purpose.4. The Distortions of Our MirrorSin smudges the mirror. Pride, shame, comparison, and distraction warp our reflection. We become like a funhouse mirror—no longer seeing who we truly are. Whether it's arrogance or insecurity, each one interferes with the divine image we’re meant to reflect.5. Steps to Polish the MirrorRestoration comes through small, faithful actions. Forgiveness, patience, creativity, kindness—these polish the mirror and realign us with God’s image. Reflection is also daily: asking “Did I see Jesus in me today?” helps us grow closer to that pure reflection. Takeaways:This episode leaves us with a call to reclaim the image we were created in. God made us to reflect His light, and Jesus gave us the model and grace to do so. Even if sin has warped that mirror, every small step—every act of grace or love—clears away the distortion. We are not mirrors that create light; we reflect it. The closer we are to Jesus, the brighter we shine. This is not about perfection; it’s about participation in God’s renewing work within us. Through awareness, spiritual discipline, and compassion, we begin to see who we truly are: image-bearers of the divine. Would you like the blog version next? https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content.

Leah: The Unseen Praiser — A MIRRORS Reflection In this episode of Small Steps with God, I launch a new Bible study series called The Mirrors, and our first reflection focuses on Leah—the woman often overlooked in Jacob’s story, but never overlooked by God. Through Leah’s life, I explore what it means to feel unseen, how comparison can distort our identity, and the powerful shift that happens when we stop striving for human love and start standing firm in God's truth. Using the MIRRORS method, I walk through her life and what it still teaches us today.MIRRORS BreakdownM – MomentLeah’s story unfolds in Haran, a major Mesopotamian trade center during the Bronze Age. She lived among herds, household idols, arranged marriages, and deep family traditions. This wasn’t a mythic backdrop—it was real life, with all its mess and beauty. Understanding her moment helps us relate to her not as a distant figure, but as a woman who lived a life full of ordinary pain and extraordinary grace.I – IdentityLeah was the daughter of Laban, the older sister of Rachel, and the wife Jacob never chose. Her name was associated with weakness, and her story was overshadowed by Rachel’s beauty. But over time, Leah’s identity changed—not because her circumstances improved, but because her heart turned to God. She stopped seeing herself through Jacob’s eyes and started seeing herself through God’s.R – Right ChoicesIn the face of rejection, Leah chose faithfulness. She kept showing up, kept loving, and ultimately began praising. When she gave birth to Judah, something shifted. Her words—“This time I will praise the Lord”—marked a spiritual awakening. She stopped striving to be chosen and started standing in being seen.R – Risks and FailuresLeah’s journey wasn’t perfect. She tried to earn love through more children. She traded for time with her husband. She even gave her maid to Jacob to compete with Rachel. Those choices were born from deep hurt. But her flaws didn’t make her unworthy. God still used her in a profound way, because His grace doesn’t require perfection.O – Ongoing MessageLeah’s life speaks across the centuries: being overlooked by people doesn’t mean being overlooked by God. He saw her. He opened her womb. He wrote her into the lineage of Jesus. Her quiet faith was never forgotten. Her life reminds us that worship begins not when things are right, but when we choose to praise in the midst of the pain.R – ReflectionI found myself in Leah’s story—and maybe you will too. Have you ever loved deeply and felt taken for granted? Have you watched others get the recognition while you did the work? Leah’s story asks us to reflect: Where have I been chasing love or approval? Where have I been measuring my worth by someone else’s gaze instead of God's?S – StepsThis episode ends with real, tangible steps:Pray before you compare.Name something you’re grateful for and turn that into praise.Write Leah’s words in your journal: “This time I will praise the Lord.”Speak encouragement to someone else who feels like Leah.Replace scrolling and comparison with scripture, worship, or rest.These small steps aren’t about achieving. They’re about aligning—letting God’s love define you, not someone else’s attention. TakeawaysThis episode is a mirror. Leah’s story reflects so many of our own struggles—feeling unnoticed, trying hard to be chosen, hoping our efforts will be enough. But Leah's transformation began when she let go of that chase and anchored herself in worship. Her life didn’t change overnight—but her focus did. She found her freedom in praising God, not in being picked.If you've ever felt like the background person, the overlooked one, the quiet supporter who no one seems to recognize—Leah’s story is for you. Her life reminds us that God sees the unseen, honors the faithful, and turns quiet worship into eternal legacy.“This time, I will praise the Lord.” That’s the step. That’s the shift. And maybe, that’s the start of your own transformation too. https://smallstepswithgod.com/leah-the-unseen-praiser-finding-worth-when-you-feel-overlooked/ https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content.

Romans: One Gospel, One Body In this episode, we explore the historical and spiritual background of the Book of Romans. Set in the bustling heart of the Roman Empire around 57 A.D., this letter written by Paul was not only a theological masterpiece but also a timely guide to a fractured and diverse Christian community. I unpack what made this letter so essential then—and why it remains vital for us today. 1. Life in First-Century RomeRome was the epicenter of culture, politics, and religion. I describe the unstable climate under Emperor Nero, the widespread acceptance of multiple religions, and the growing suspicion toward Christianity as it expanded beyond its Jewish roots.2. Jewish and Gentile TensionsReturning Jewish Christians found a changed church, now led by Gentiles with different practices. These divisions led to friction over everything from food laws to Sabbath observance. Paul’s letter sought to heal that divide and unify the body of believers.3. Paul's Purpose and MessagePaul didn’t write Romans to address a crisis but to explain the Gospel clearly. I talk about how he used legal and theological language to build a case for justification by faith, addressing misunderstandings about grace, and preparing the church for future persecution.4. The Role of PhoebePhoebe played a significant role in delivering and likely reading the letter to house churches across Rome. I highlight her as a key figure in spreading Paul’s message and helping the early church understand its identity.5. Timeless LessonsFrom Augustine to Martin Luther, Romans has shaped Christian thought for centuries. I emphasize why it’s still one of the most studied and transformative letters in the Bible.Takeaways:Romans teaches that no matter your background, status, or mistakes, you stand on equal ground before God. Faith in Christ—not works or heritage—brings salvation. It reminds us that grace is not a license to sin but an invitation to live transformed lives. Most importantly, it urges unity in a diverse community of believers. As we begin this journey through Romans, we do so not just to understand Scripture, but to live it—faithfully, humbly, and together. https://smallstepswithgod.com/understanding-the-book-of-romans-a-foundation-for-faith-and-unity/ https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content.

Understanding Paul: From Persecutor to Preacher In this episode, I explore the life and legacy of the Apostle Paul—one of the most influential figures in Christian history. From his beginnings as a Pharisee named Saul to his powerful role as a missionary and author of much of the New Testament, Paul’s story is one of transformation, grace, and bold conviction. This episode serves as a foundational guide for those who are about to study Paul’s epistles or simply want a deeper appreciation for the man behind the letters.Top Topics Covered:Paul’s Background and EducationRaised in Tarsus, Paul was both a Jew and a Roman citizen. He studied under the famous rabbi Gamaliel and became a Pharisee known for his zeal and scriptural knowledge.The Damascus Road ConversionPaul’s dramatic encounter with Jesus left him blind and transformed. This event marked the beginning of his mission to spread the gospel to the Gentiles.The Hidden Years in ArabiaBefore launching into public ministry, Paul spent time in Arabia. Though scripture says little, this season parallels the wilderness times of other biblical figures.Missionary Journeys and ImpactPaul traveled extensively, preaching, planting churches, and debating religious and political leaders. His ability to connect with Jews, Greeks, and Romans set him apart.Character InsightsBeyond his theology, Paul was deeply emotional, committed to his churches, and resilient in the face of persecution. He was also mystical, legal-minded, and compassionate.Takeaways:Paul’s story is a powerful reminder that no one is beyond redemption. His transformation shows that passion, when redirected toward truth, can change the world. His life also teaches us the value of perseverance, of leaning into our calling even when it’s difficult. Whether you’re studying his letters or just starting to learn about him, Paul offers a model of how to live a bold and faithful life. https://smallstepswithgod.com/120-120-understanding-paul-from-persecutor-to-preacher/ https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content.

Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?In this episode, I explore one of the most profound and persistent questions in life and faith: why do bad things happen to good people? Drawing from both biblical stories and modern voices, we reflect on how suffering intersects with God’s purpose, human free will, and the journey of faith.We look at the early church, where James was martyred while Peter was rescued—why one and not the other? This leads into broader questions about randomness, purpose, and divine will. I also share insights from the book of Job, a man who endured immense suffering yet held onto faith without answers.We explore how suffering is not a reflection of a person’s sinfulness or godliness. Instead, it’s often part of a bigger story, sometimes used by God to refine, strengthen, or witness to others. Through figures like Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Corrie ten Boom, and C.S. Lewis, we see how real-life faith endures even the most heartbreaking trials.Faith isn’t about avoiding pain—it’s about trusting God through it. The episode touches on how pain can be a spiritual megaphone, a catalyst for transformation, and a means for deepening trust and compassion.Top Topics:Acts 12 and the Early Church: Reflecting on why James was killed and Peter saved—and what that means for our understanding of suffering.Job and the Theology of Pain: Job’s suffering wasn’t punishment. His story challenges the simplistic belief that blessings and suffering are always earned.Modern Faith and Loss: How C.S. Lewis, Bonhoeffer, and Corrie ten Boom show the real cost—and purpose—of suffering in the Christian walk.Suffering as Transformation: Pain shapes us. It draws us closer to God, humbles us, and can become a testimony to others.Hope and Trust in the Unknown: We may not always understand God’s plan, but we are invited to trust His heart.Takeaways:Suffering is not a measure of one’s righteousness or sin. Faith does not guarantee comfort, but it does promise God’s presence. In seasons of loss, we’re reminded that our trust in God is what anchors us, not answers. We’re also called to support each other in grief, just as the early church did in Acts.In the end, suffering reveals what is real: our dependence on God, our calling to love others, and our hope in redemption beyond this life. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

What Is a Soul? Exploring the Essence of Who We Are Summary:In this episode, we take a thoughtful journey into understanding the soul—the core of who we are as human beings. The soul is often mentioned in Scripture, sermons, and conversations, but what does it truly mean? We explore biblical definitions, theological views, and practical applications to answer the timeless question: what is a soul, and why does it matter? Top Topics Covered: Defining the Soul BiblicallyWe start by unpacking the Hebrew and Greek words used in Scripture (nephesh and psyche), examining how the Bible speaks of the soul not just as an ethereal ghost, but as the full, living being. The Soul and the Body: One or Two?We explore theological views—dualism, tripartite, and unified perspectives—on how the soul relates to the body and the spirit, and why that matters in Christian life. The Functioning SoulBorrowing from the work of Dallas Willard, we explore how the soul is formed by spirit, will, mind, emotions, and body—all interconnected layers that shape who we are. Life After DeathWe talk about the eternal nature of the soul and the Christian belief in bodily resurrection, giving comfort and clarity to the idea that we don’t become ghost-like after death—we remain ourselves. Caring for the SoulFrom prayer and repentance to discipline and grace, we explore spiritual practices that nourish the soul, paralleling how we care for our physical health. Key Takeaways:The soul is not just a theological idea; it’s the blueprint of our being. When we understand the soul, we can better understand ourselves and our purpose. By caring for our soul as seriously as we care for our body, we align ourselves more closely with God’s will and find greater peace and direction. Whether you're curious about what happens after death or how to grow spiritually, this episode offers clarity and inspiration for the journey. https://smallstepswithgod.com/118-you-dont-have-a-soul-you-are-one/ https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

That Shape Faith: Exploring Biblical Vocabulary for a Deeper Walk In this episode, we explore foundational words used in the Bible—like prayer, peace, joy, meditation, repentance, and more—and discover their deeper meanings in both their original languages and practical application today. Understanding these terms helps reshape how we experience God and live out our faith. Whether you’re new to the Bible or a seasoned reader, this episode is a refreshing guide to revisiting the building blocks of biblical truth. What Is Prayer Really About?We dig into the Hebrew and Greek meanings of prayer, exploring how Jesus modeled communication with God. It's not about rituals—it’s about relationship, honesty, and surrender. Peace Beyond CalmPeace isn’t just the absence of conflict. It's a state of reconciliation and wholeness. We look at shalom and its implications for personal and communal well-being. Joy That EnduresBiblical joy, unlike happiness, persists through trials. We connect joy to grace, understanding that it flows from God’s presence—not our circumstances. Meditation, ReimaginedChristian meditation isn't about emptying your mind but filling it with God’s Word. We explore ancient practices like Lectio Divina and practical tools for daily life. Repentance and TransformationMore than guilt or punishment, repentance is an invitation to rethink and return to God. It's a change of direction that brings freedom. Salvation, Sanctification, and Your IdentityWe clarify the difference between salvation (God’s gift) and sanctification (our ongoing growth). You are set apart for something holy. Justice and RighteousnessBiblical justice protects the vulnerable and corrects wrongs. Righteousness is about living rightly, not looking perfect. Both are central to God's kingdom. Key Takeaways This episode shows how understanding biblical language helps us connect more deeply with God’s truth. These words aren’t just theological—they're practical tools for transformation. Prayer becomes honest dialogue. Peace becomes a daily posture. Joy becomes rooted in grace. And justice and righteousness guide our actions with compassion and integrity. The more we understand the meanings behind these words, the more we can live them out. Even if you’ve heard them a hundred times, hearing them again—through the lens of Scripture and everyday life—can bring new clarity and encouragement https://smallstepswithgod.com/117-understanding-biblical-words-a-pathway-to-deeper-faith/ https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, I explore the meaning behind some of the most common words in Christian faith—words we hear often but may not fully understand: mercy, grace, forgiveness, faith, belief, peace, and joy. These aren't just theological terms; they’re foundational truths that impact our daily lives. MercyMercy is not pity—it's God’s active compassion. It means withholding the punishment we deserve and stepping into our suffering with love. It’s deeply tied to God’s faithfulness and shows up repeatedly throughout Scripture as a rescue mission when we are powerless. GraceGrace is the unearned, beautiful generosity of God. It's the gift we didn’t work for but still receive. More than just forgiveness, grace empowers and restores. It lifts us up and sustains us through every challenge. ForgivenessForgiveness is a powerful choice to release someone from a moral debt. It’s not forgetting the wrong, nor is it always restoring a broken relationship instantly. It’s about freedom—for them and for us—modeled by Jesus' ultimate sacrifice. Faith and BeliefFaith is resilient trust built on God’s proven character, and belief is full-bodied confidence in Him. These aren’t feelings or blind leaps—they’re about living a life rooted in the reliability of God’s promises. Peace and JoyPeace is more than stillness—it’s wholeness, reconciliation, and security in God. Joy isn’t tied to happiness but to the presence and promises of God, remaining firm even in trials. Key Takeaways: These words are more than spiritual vocabulary—they are transformational realities. Mercy teaches us how to treat others with compassion. Grace reminds us we’re loved without conditions. Forgiveness frees us and heals our relationships. Faith and belief give us strength to keep going when life gets hard. Peace keeps us grounded, and joy sustains us with God’s presence. If we understand these words, we don't just know more—we live differently. We forgive more freely, trust more deeply, and experience peace and joy more consistently. These words are the foundation of living a life that reflects Christ’s love in the real world.Jill’s Links https://smallstepswithgod.com/116-grace-mercy-forgiveness-and-more-understanding-foundational-christian-words https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, I reflect on Stilte: The Dutch Art of Quietude by Mirjam van der Witt and the powerful impact that silence can have on our spiritual lives. Silence isn't just absence—it's presence. It's an invitation to slow down, be intentional, and reconnect with God in meaningful ways. We explore the idea that in order to hear God's voice, we must create room in our lives. That means more than just finding a quiet space—it means cutting out distractions, setting new priorities, and approaching rest as an essential spiritual practice. Top Topics Covered: The Discipline of SilenceSilence doesn’t just happen—it must be cultivated. We discuss how stillness can become a regular rhythm, not a rare exception. Creating a Sanctuary at HomeWhether it's a special room, a bench in your backyard, or a spot in nature, creating a dedicated place for stillness and reflection is key to connecting with God. Pruning DistractionsIt's not easy, but sometimes we need to eliminate things we love—video games, TV shows, even social media—to make room for what really matters. Redefining RestSabbath is more than rules. It's restoration. We explore how rediscovering rest can lead to deeper joy and closeness with God. Writing and ReleasingJournaling can clarify emotions and spiritual struggles. But sometimes, the most healing step is to write—and then destroy—the things that weigh us down. Takeaways: Finding time for God isn’t about squeezing Him into a packed schedule. It’s about changing the schedule altogether. If we're feeling spiritually dry, it may be that we're not hearing God's voice simply because we haven’t made space to listen. By reclaiming stillness, creating sacred spaces, and cutting out distractions, we open the door to a deeper relationship with God. It's not always easy, especially for those of us who love to stay busy—but it's necessary. Silence is not empty. It's full of God’s presence. Let this be the push to set aside 20 minutes. Light a candle. Read a psalm. Start where you are. The transformation starts in the quiet. https://smallstepswithgod.com/115-the-transformative-power-of-silence-and-stillness-in-modern-faith/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

114 - The Power of Silence In this episode, I explore the powerful and often overlooked spiritual practice of silence, inspired by the book Stilte: The Dutch Art of Quietude by Mirjam van der Vegt. As someone who thrives on noise and energy, I found this book both challenging and transformative. Silence isn’t just about the absence of sound—it’s about creating space to hear from God. Top Topics: Why Silence Matters in the Christian LifeI share how noise has become a default mode for many of us and how that constant buzz may be crowding out our connection with God. Silence is more than absence; it’s sacred space. Stages of Stillness: From Relief to ClarityThe book outlines three stages of silence: relief, confrontation, and clarity. I break down each stage and reflect on my own journey through them, especially the messy middle part where our own thoughts can become overwhelming. Filling the Quiet with God’s PresenceWe discuss the difference between Christian meditation and other practices—how our goal is not just to empty our minds, but to fill them with the Holy Spirit. Practical Rhythms of SilenceDrawing from the author’s suggested structure, I talk through what a lifestyle of regular silence might look like—daily, weekly, monthly, and annually. Takeaways: I walked away from this book with a deeper respect for the discipline of silence. It’s not easy—especially for those of us who are wired for action—but it’s essential. I’m learning that quiet isn’t just restful, it’s relational. It’s where God speaks most clearly. I now have a dedicated space in my home to be still and listen. And I invite you to consider doing the same. Silence might not come naturally, but it could be the very thing your soul has been craving. https://smallstepswithgod.com/114-the-power-of-silence/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, I explore the fascinating history of the tribes of Israel, tracing their journey from Jacob’s twelve sons to the time of Jesus. We unpack the land divisions, the political splits, the Assyrian and Babylonian exiles, and the enduring mystery of the “Lost Tribes.” Along the way, we see how centuries-old divisions shaped the world Jesus entered—and how His ministry sought to heal them. Top Topics Covered: The Origin of the Twelve TribesJacob, renamed Israel, fathered twelve sons who became the heads of Israel’s tribes. Joseph’s two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh, each received their own territory, maintaining twelve land-holding tribes in the Promised Land. The Division of the KingdomAfter Solomon’s death, the kingdom split into Israel in the north and Judah in the south. This rift laid the groundwork for centuries of tension, vulnerability, and eventual exile. The Scattering of the Northern TribesAssyria’s conquest in 722 BC scattered the northern tribes, giving rise to the mystery of the “Ten Lost Tribes,” with possible descendants in Ethiopia, India, Nigeria, South Africa, Persia, and beyond. The Samaritans and Deep-Seated TensionsThose who remained in the north became the Samaritans, keeping their own temple and traditions. By Jesus’ time, distrust between Jews and Samaritans was strong and deeply personal. Jesus’ Radical Bridge-BuildingJesus defied the norms by traveling through Samaria, speaking to the Samaritan woman, healing a Samaritan leper, and making a Samaritan the hero in His parable. He broke through centuries of hostility to offer unity in God’s kingdom. Takeaways:The history of the tribes of Israel is a reminder that division is nothing new—it can be political, cultural, or spiritual, and often stems from long-forgotten conflicts. Jesus’ example teaches us that reconciliation requires intentional action. He crossed barriers that others avoided, choosing connection over separation. In our own lives, the same principles apply. Differences, if left unchecked, can widen over time, but healing begins when we take that first step toward understanding and unity. The call is to see beyond labels and histories, and to embrace one another as one people under God’s care. Reconciliation isn’t instant—it starts with small, deliberate steps. https://smallstepswithgod.com/113-tribes-of-israel-from-jacob-to-jesus/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, we explore strategies 3 through 10 from Robert J. Morgan’s Red Sea Rules, a biblical roadmap for facing life’s toughest moments. These rules aren’t just inspirational—they’re practical guides grounded in Scripture and brought to life through relatable stories and honest reflection. Top Topics Covered: Acknowledge the Enemy Without Losing FocusLife’s problems often come with visible causes, but there’s also a spiritual dimension at play. Like the Israelites at the Red Sea, we face real opposition. The key is to recognize this while keeping our spiritual eyes fixed on God. Raw Prayer and Calm TrustNot all prayers are eloquent. Sometimes they’re desperate cries. And that’s enough. The Israelites prayed in fear—and God still answered. We also talk about the importance of giving God time and space to work, even when answers don’t come quickly. One Small Step at a TimeWhether hiking 100 miles or facing a life decision, progress happens one step at a time. We talk about how to identify the “next right step” and how faith often requires movement before clarity. Experiencing God’s PresenceThough we don’t have visual signs like pillars of fire today, we can still feel God’s presence. Drawing near to Him, visualizing His nearness, and recognizing every moment as holy changes how we experience hardship. God’s Unique Ways and GratitudeFrom feeding prophets with ravens to healing in unpredictable ways, God doesn’t follow formulas. Trusting His unique rescue plan builds faith. And finally, we’re reminded to praise Him—gratitude seals the story. Takeaways:This episode invites listeners to stop fixating on fear and instead move forward with simple, intentional steps. Prayer doesn’t have to be fancy—it just needs to be real. Sometimes the miracle is in the motion. And in all things, we are never alone—God walks with us. Praise, patience, and presence are the themes that carry us through the Red Sea moments in our lives. By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content. https://smallstepswithgod.com/strategies-for-difficult-times/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, we explore how God leads us even in the toughest situations—when we feel boxed in with no way out. Inspired by Robert J. Morgan’s The Red Sea Rules, this message reflects on how God is both present and purposeful in our hardest moments. With personal stories, Biblical insights, and practical takeaways, we focus on the first two of Morgan’s ten rules for navigating difficult times. Top Topics: 1. The Wilderness as a Spiritual Metaphor:The wilderness appears often in the Bible—not as chaos, but as a space where God leads us and works in us. Life’s hard places aren’t always mistakes; they can be divine appointments. 2. Rule 1 – God Means for You to Be Where You Are:It’s difficult to believe that God could lead us into struggle. Yet in Exodus 14, God instructed Moses to camp in an impossible spot—so He could perform a miracle. The same God who leads in will lead out. 3. Rule 2 – Concern for God’s Glory Over Our Relief:When Pharaoh mocked the Israelites, God used that moment to reveal His power. Often, our struggles serve as a stage for God’s glory, not just our comfort. It’s not about ego—it’s about others seeing God through our endurance. 4. Learning from Life and Scripture:From biblical figures like Joseph and Hagar to personal stories of hardship, we see a repeated pattern: suffering can have purpose. And God never wastes our pain. Takeaways: The challenges we face aren’t always about fixing problems—they’re often about reshaping us. Even when it’s hard, God is at work. He sees the map when we only see a few steps. He leads with compassion, purpose, and eternity in mind. Whether it’s a career upheaval, family tension, or personal failures, we’re reminded to reframe it through God’s eyes. Our story is part of something bigger, and our job is to keep walking—one small step at a time—with God beside us. By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content. https://smallstepswithgod.com/111-purpose-in-the-hard-places/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, we explore the fascinating life and legacy of John the Baptist. As a voice crying in the wilderness, John’s message of repentance, humility, and preparation still resonates deeply. From his miraculous birth to his bold ministry, and ultimately to his martyrdom, John stood at the threshold between the Old Testament and the new covenant of grace. This episode looks at who he was, what he did, and why his role matters today. Top Topics Covered: Miraculous Origins: John’s birth was foretold by the angel Gabriel, and his name—meaning “Yahweh is gracious”—marked him as a special figure in salvation history. Symbolic Wilderness Life: We discuss John’s choice to live in the wilderness, his symbolic dress and diet, and how his life mirrored that of the prophet Elijah. A Bold Message for All: John preached repentance and readiness, challenging listeners not to rely on their heritage but to prepare their hearts. Baptizing Jesus: This pivotal moment shifted the spiritual landscape. We explore how John recognized Jesus and why his humble act was so meaningful. Martyrdom and Legacy: John’s courageous stand against Herod and his death are examined alongside historical accounts by Josephus and reflections from early church fathers. Takeaways:John the Baptist’s life reminds us to live with courage, clarity, and conviction. He calls us to be truth-tellers, to live with spiritual focus, and to recognize our place in a larger story. Whether we’re in the wilderness or in the spotlight, John challenges us to decrease so something greater can increase in our lives. He was not just a prophet—he was a witness. And his message still calls each of us to prepare the way. By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content. Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, I reflect on the misconceptions many of us carry about heaven and offer a richer, more biblically grounded view, inspired by Elise Fitzpatrick’s book Home: How Heaven and the New Earth Satisfy Our Deepest Longing. It’s a message of restoration, purpose, and joyful anticipation of what’s to come. Rather than floating in the clouds, we’re invited to imagine heaven as the fulfillment of everything we were made to be. Top Topics: The Misconception of Heaven as BoringMany think of heaven as static—clouds, harps, endless choir practice. I share how Fitzpatrick dismantles this image and replaces it with a vibrant vision rooted in scripture: a renewed earth, rich with joy, work, community, and creativity. Homesickness and the Longing for MoreThat deep feeling of not fully belonging here? It’s not an accident. We were made for more. Fitzpatrick describes this as a longing hardwired into our souls—a longing for our true home. Heavenly Work and PurposeWe won’t be idle in heaven. Instead, we’ll experience perfect alignment between who we are and what we do. I talk about how even now, we can begin discovering that purpose through the things that bring us joy and meaning. The Role of Evangelism and Living as AmbassadorsWe’re not called to escape the world but to live with urgency and love. I use a metaphor about a collapsed bridge to illustrate why sharing the gospel isn’t just kind—it’s critical. Heaven on Earth Moments: Sacraments as Sacred GlimpsesBaptism, communion, and even marriage offer small but powerful tastes of eternity. These aren’t chores or rituals—they’re moments where heaven breaks through. Takeaways: Heaven is not an abstract idea. It’s a physical, joyful, purpose-filled reality that restores everything good and removes everything broken. The longing in our hearts is a signal that eternity is real and coming. We don’t have to wait to experience a piece of it—we can live today as ambassadors of that future, using our gifts and passions to reflect God’s glory. Let that longing remind you of where you’re going—and give purpose to every small step you take. https://smallstepswithgod.com/109-amazing-heaven/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspodTwitter - https://twitter.com/schmernhttps://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgodEmail the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com Email the podcast at jill@startwithsmallsteps.com By choosing to watch this video or listen to this podcast, you acknowledge that you are doing so of your own free will. The content shared here reflects personal experiences and opinions and is intended for informational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a licensed healthcare provider, psychiatrist, or counselor. Any advice or suggestions offered should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. You are solely responsible for any decisions or actions you take based on this content.

108 - Eden Matters In this episode, I explore the deep spiritual significance of the Garden of Eden, not just as the beginning of the biblical story but as a model for what’s to come. Inspired by Nancy Guthrie’s book Even Better Than Eden, we reflect on how Eden wasn’t a final destination but a launching pad. From the trees in the garden to the New Jerusalem, each part of the biblical narrative shows us a path from brokenness to glory. Eden as a Mission FieldEden was designed to grow. It was never meant to be static but to flourish under human partnership with God. This changes how we see our role in creation—not as passive recipients, but as active participants. The Fall and the Nature of SinSin didn’t begin with rebellion but with doubt. The serpent’s question, “Did God really say?” still echoes in our minds today, pulling us away from trust. Nine Redemptive ThemesGuthrie outlines nine key narratives—from the wilderness to the city—that mirror the Eden story and show how God is restoring all things through Christ. The Cross as the Redeemed TreeThe tree that led to the fall finds its counterpart in the cross, where redemption and restoration begin. Takeaways: This episode reminds us that we’re not stuck in the wilderness forever. Eden’s loss wasn’t the end—it was the beginning of a bigger story that culminates in a new heaven and a new earth. We are invited into that story, not just to be saved but to participate in the restoration of all things. If you’re feeling the ache of life’s hardships, know that it’s the echo of Eden calling you home—and God’s promise that something even better is coming. https://smallstepswithgod.com/108-eden-matters/ Jill’s Links https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

107 - The Spiritual Strength of Forgiveness In this episode of Small Steps with God, we explore the transformative power of forgiveness through insights from R.T. Kendall's book Total Forgiveness. We discuss the biblical foundation of forgiveness, personal struggles, and the spiritual healing that comes when we choose to release resentment. Whether it's forgiving others, letting go of bitterness toward God, or praying for those who hurt us, this episode is a heartfelt reflection on how forgiveness is not just a command—but a path to emotional and spiritual freedom. Top Topics Covered: The True Nature of Forgiveness:Forgiveness doesn't mean excusing bad behavior or denying the hurt caused. It's about freeing ourselves from the poison of resentment and choosing peace over vengeance. Powerful Biblical Examples:Stories like Joseph forgiving his brothers, David sparing Saul, and Jesus praying for his persecutors show the depth and strength of godly forgiveness. These accounts aren't just ancient history—they're roadmaps for our own lives. Forgiveness as a Strength, Not a Weakness:Contrary to popular belief, forgiving someone is an act of strength. It means refusing to let bitterness control your life. It’s about saying, “I forgive, and I’m finished with it.” When Forgiveness Feels Impossible:Sometimes we’re not emotionally ready. That's okay. The journey can start with a simple prayer: “Lord, help my heart to catch up.” We explore how to begin even when the feelings aren't there. Radical Acts of Forgiveness in Modern Times:From Corrie ten Boom to Martin Luther King Jr. and Professor Okumu in Kenya, we see how forgiveness can transcend personal pain and become a force for peace and justice. Takeaways:Forgiveness isn’t about the other person—it’s about your own healing. You don’t have to wait for an apology or perfect conditions. You can start now with prayer. Ask God for the willingness to forgive and for blessings for those who’ve wronged you. As you release others, you’ll find your own spirit becoming lighter. This episode challenges us to take that first small step—because in doing so, we choose freedom over bitterness, and grace over grudges. https://smallstepswithgod.com/107-the-spiritual-strength-of-forgiveness/ Jill’s Linkshttps://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsJill https://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsAI https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

106 - Jesus and the People of His Time: From Priests to Publicans This episode explores the various groups of people active during the time of Jesus and how their distinct beliefs and roles shaped their responses to His ministry. From religious leaders to revolutionaries and everyday citizens, each group played a critical part in the Gospel narrative. Understanding these groups helps to clarify many of the tensions and dialogues found in the New Testament. The Pharisees and Their Rule-Based FaithThe Pharisees were devoted to obeying God's law to the letter, often adding layers of tradition to avoid even the possibility of sin. Their commitment to purity led to a rigid interpretation of the law, often putting them at odds with Jesus, who emphasized the spirit rather than the letter of the law. The Sadducees and Political PowerSadducees were aristocratic and aligned with Roman power. They rejected resurrection and only followed the Torah. Their cooperation with Rome gave them control over the temple and high positions, but it also made them unpopular and resistant to Jesus' spiritual authority. Scribes, Priests, and Temple LawyersScribes interpreted the law, priests maintained temple rituals, and legal experts judged religious cases. This structured legal-religious system often clashed with Jesus' direct appeal to God’s authority and justice, especially in defending the oppressed. Zealots and Essenes: Conflict and WithdrawalZealots sought political revolution against Rome, while Essenes retreated into the wilderness to preserve spiritual purity. Both groups hoped for a messianic deliverer but were disappointed by Jesus’ peaceful and spiritual mission. Publicans, Hellenized Jews, and Am Ha’aretzPublicans, like Matthew, were reviled collaborators with Rome. Hellenized Jews embraced Greek culture, and Am Ha’aretz represented the ordinary people. These groups highlight how Jesus’ ministry often embraced the outcasts, the forgotten, and the culturally marginalized. Takeaways:Understanding the social and religious context of Jesus' time reveals the radical nature of His message. Each group saw the world differently, and Jesus challenged all of them—not to fit into their expectations but to invite them into something deeper. His kingdom was not built on political alliances or legal perfection, but on love, grace, and truth. This reminds us today that faith should reach across social divides, challenge power, and prioritize people. https://smallstepswithgod.com/106-jesus-and-the-people-of-his-time-from-priests-to-publicans/ Jill’s Linkshttps://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsJill https://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsAI https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

105 - Was Herod Great? In this episode, I explore the life and legacy of Herod the Great—one of the most powerful and polarizing figures in biblical history. He’s known as the king who tried to kill baby Jesus, but there’s so much more behind the name. From brutal family betrayals to epic building projects like the Second Temple, Masada, and Caesarea, Herod’s reign shaped the political and religious landscape of Judea in profound ways. I walk through his rise to power, his Roman alliances, his manipulation of Jewish leadership, and how his actions formed the backdrop of Jesus’ world. Herod’s Rise to PowerHerod didn’t just land in power—he maneuvered his way into it through deep connections with Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, and Augustus. I talk about how he played the Roman game perfectly, securing his rule in a politically volatile region by aligning himself with whoever held power in Rome at the time. Architectural AmbitionOne of the most lasting parts of Herod’s legacy is what he built. The Temple Mount, the fortress at Masada, Herodium, and the city of Caesarea were all his creations. These weren’t just grand—they were strategic, designed to show strength, control rebellion, and win favor from both Rome and his own people. Paranoia and BrutalityHerod was deeply paranoid. He executed his wife Miriam, several of his sons, and many in the Sanhedrin. I explore how his fear of losing power led to cruelty and chaos, even in his own family. Augustus famously said it was safer to be Herod’s pig than his son. Herod and Jewish LeadershipHe restructured the Sanhedrin to be more politically convenient, aligning with Sadducees who shared his vision and were more open to Roman rule. I go into how this power grab weakened Jewish self-governance and set the tone for religious dynamics in the time of Jesus. Herod’s End and LegacyHerod’s death was long, painful, and gruesome. But even after his death, his influence carried through his dysfunctional children and the political systems he created. I talk about how his rule became the foundation of the New Testament world—even if he never met Jesus. Takeaways:Herod the Great was a brilliant political strategist and a visionary builder, but he ruled through fear, manipulation, and bloodshed. His architectural wonders remain, but so does his legacy of paranoia and oppression. The systems he put in place—the temple, the Sanhedrin, the power dynamics with Rome—became the very environment Jesus stepped into. While Herod tried to eliminate the Messiah, he actually helped set the stage for the most important story in history. His life challenges us to ask what true greatness really looks like—and reminds us that legacy is measured not just by what we build, but by how we lead. https://smallstepswithgod.com/was-herod-great/ Jill’s Linkshttps://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsJill https://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsAI https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com

In this episode, I explore a deeply reassuring and powerful question: Are there prayers that God will always say yes to? Based on personal Bible study and reflection—not from a specific book—I share fifteen types of prayers that align so closely with God's heart that the answer is always yes. Becoming Like JesusOne of the foundational prayers God always affirms is the desire to reflect Jesus in our character. This isn’t just about moral behavior, but about becoming a living reflection of God’s grace, patience, and compassion in everyday life. God’s Unfailing ForgivenessI highlight the ever-open door of God’s mercy. Confessing sin isn’t about shame—it’s about freedom. The Bible assures us that no matter how far we’ve strayed, forgiveness is always available. Wisdom, Strength, and PeaceFrom decisions in daily life to weathering life’s storms, prayers for wisdom, strength, and peace are ones God loves to answer. We might not avoid challenges, but we are always equipped to endure them with His help. Bold Prayers that TransformSome prayers are more than just words—they’re life-altering. Asking to be used for God's purpose, to love like Him, or to have our hearts broken by what breaks His, are prayers that lead to deep internal shifts and sometimes uncomfortable growth. Takeaways: These prayers aren’t a formula, but a starting place. They work because they align with God's will for our lives. When we ask for wisdom, strength, forgiveness, or to be filled with His Spirit, we are asking for what He already wants to give. These prayers reorient our focus away from just asking for things to becoming the kind of people who live by faith, hope, and love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your prayer life or unsure what to say to God, let these prayers be your guide. They’re not just “safe” prayers—they’re spiritually rich, powerful, and full of life. And the best part? God always says yes. https://smallstepswithgod.com/867-2/ Jill’s Linkshttps://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsJill https://affiliate.notion.so/NorthwoodsAI https://www.buymeacoffee.com/smallstepspod Twitter - https://twitter.com/schmern https://www.youtube.com/@smallstepswithgod Email the podcast at mailto: jill@startwithsmallsteps.com